Hello there. This is my first time posting here and I'm very intimidated. I identify as androgyne, a tiny bit fluid (I don't shave for a couple days sometimes). I'm born male, 6 foot five, broad shoulders, natural muscles, legs for days and a 9/10 face. the problem is, I don't really know how to assert my identity. it's hard for me to find clothing that fits, I have zero experience putting on makeup, and I feel like a lot of the time I just parse gay dude, which makes it a little difficult to approach women. How do I get started with this? What do I even do? Are there any other people that identify as I do here? Pic related.
>androgyne
>6 foot five, broad shoulders, natural muscles,
no one with these stats could be ever be called androgynous tbqh
>>6549305
Hence my troubles. I refuse to give up though! I'm doing exercises to slim down my figure a bit, and lately I've been wearing clothing that hides more my figure like shawls and stuff, but it's tricky.
Why is an obelisk talking to a metronome?
Eh. I really should just do my own thing.
>>6549296
>Eh. I really should just do my own thing.
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Hey OP. I genuinely don't mean you any disrespect when I ask this, but please explain to me how "not shaving for a couple of days" changes anything to do with your sex or gender?
Your sex and gender isn't your clothes, it isn't your hair style. You don't need to be gender fluid to wear a dress. you can be a woman and still grow a beard, or be a man and wear lipstick.
Why are all these are all these identities necessary when all you really want to do is break gender norms?
>>6549360
>>6549360
I guess I was talking about it from an aesthetic standpoint. I don't like having facial hair, but I get tired of shaving two or three times a day sometimes. it tends to make me pretty uncomfortable.
Yes, I suppose I'm still partially trapped in binary thinking, but then I also feel like incorporating elements of the binary is important for breaking away from it, in a way. Generally speaking I would like to be more traditionally feminine In what I suppose could be considered a western context.
Also I find men's fashion boring and somewhat ill-suited for me at times.
As for "identities", I simply find power and comfort in the term androgyne.
I'm sorry, this whole thing was way too open-ended. I'm probably just gonna sage this and call it a day.
