/lgbt/ I like to crossdress and I want to meet up with a guy to have sex. I want to be discreet so going to bars isn't an option, so I figured I would post an ad on craigslist. I am wondering how safe this is though? What is a good way to go about this? I tried fetlife but they are not accepting new members.
Your only option is fetlife. Add random local guys and ask them if they are into crossdressing.
You only have the option to be in open relationships, because people with fetishes are extremely rare and you then have to deal with normal relationship drama and related autism. If you can't do open relationships (you be in a long term relationship with somebody and then sleep around with them), then get rid of your fetish.
There are probably daddies and shotas in your area, but they will mostly like normal bondage/roleplaying/sex.
You want to attend both munches (casual meetups) and actual events (they are sexless orgies where you just do bondage with people). You sit at random tables, add and talk to people. Then you especially contact people you click with.
Unfortunately most people with this fetish are 60+ year olds, so finding a crossdresser for a relationship that isn't just into traps and other softcore stuff is impossible.
https://fetlife.com/users/3928831
You can add me if you are in this area!~
>>6533191
And by add random local guys, I mean online. You only have casual discussion with people at events.
>>6531399
>I tried fetlife but they are not accepting new members.
What? It's a free site.
>>6533257
I think they have a server problem. Should be fixed shortly.
