So I really like my best friend but at this point we're basically SIBLING zoned. I've had a growing crush on her for about 2 years and last night I finally let it slip. I was crying real bad because I knew she COULDN'T like me back. She has some trouble with feeling and identifying her emotions and romantic feelings are a mystery to her. So now she feels guilty for not noticing when I'M the one with a crush.
Anyway, I've pretty much decided to not push her or talk about it ever again unless god willing she likes me back.
She's more touchy now too....
Is she flirting?
Do I have a chance at all?
How should I act around her?
please please help
>>6499754
1st step
r u les
>>6499764
i am les and she's pan
She is probably being nice because she knows you are into her.
In my experience I would say if she didn't flat out day she was into you back I wouldn't shoot for a relationship no matter how much you are attracted to her. The way you described her if anything developed it would be fun for a while and then disintegrate and possible ruin the friendship along the way.
Also I know you or her won't agree but she is bi. People who are "pan" a are bi. There are a million genders but only 2 sexes. Unless you count intersex as its own sex.
>>6499768
>she's a pan
EVACUATE IMMEDIATELY.
>>6502612
jesus, she likes girls. i need relationship advise pls
I had to go through the same thing, I flat out told her that she doesn't need to start acting this way because I feel bad so she shouldn't be trying to cheer me up by faking it. We're with each other now, but then again everyone is different. If I were you I would wait to see if she gets even more clingey and you should decide to say 2 things
1 being "You don't need to do this to cheer me up" and just try to have a normal friendship again.
2 being "Do you like me or not?"
>>6505607
thank you so much anon c':
>>6505607
also, should i flirt back?
stop trying to fuck your sister you weirdo
>>6506321
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lol
we aren't blood related at all. just close enough to kinda feel like sisters
>>6499754
I feel for you yo, I too have been sibling-zoned by my best friend
But skinship between two intimately related people is perfectly normal, he and I are as close as we've ever been and still growing closer, though our relationship will never be romantic or sexual