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2016-03-23 04:42:42 Post No. 5907913
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2016-03-23 04:42:42
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How long do I hold out, /lgbt/?
>be me
>start a chat with a guy from grindr and get his number within the first day of talking
>he initially thought i was a catfish after seeing my pics, so i know he thinks i'm decent looking
>we've both been 'playing hard to get' (i'm not good at downplaying my interest)
>have been talking every day for about a week now and planning to meet up for the first time this week/weekend
>no nudes sent, though i've shown him clothed post-workout pics; we've been flirty but not overtly sexual
>i've made it clear i want strings/some sort of connection prior to sex
>can tell that he's into me but i don't think he's as keen on holding out
What do? I DO want the sex too but I feel as if it'll kill the chase and then he'll just ignore me. I think I'll have a better chance if I hold out and leave things to his imagination but I'm a broke final-year student and he's already graduated and working. I really don't have the money to keep hanging out or go to nice restaurants or coffee shops or whatever so the shit can develop in an organic (and expensive) way; things are tight. I've asked him to come and work out with me (home setup, free, common interest) but he's not really interested.
Should I just fuck him? I guess if there was a serious connection then the sex wouldn't matter either way but I still feel I should hold out cuz it feels better in my mind that way.
