How are all my fellow non-existant people doing?
Go special snowflake somewhere else.
>no replies
Kek
>>6155552
Just cheating and lying, the usual.
(j/k I have no qt bf/gf to cheat on ;_;)
>>6156145
I'll fuck you. Where do you live?
>>6156196
Central California bby
>>6156234
florida. lol. Never ever.
>>6156832
Damn. We were going to have such slow, sensual sex.
Hiding indoors because FL weather is miserable.
Cruising around gay dating sites fantasizing about getting my ass fucked but not ever actually doing anything about it because of anxiety.
>>6156196
>when an unidentified stranger offers to fuck another unidentified stranger over a sketchy website
Ladies and gentleman, I present to you homosexuals.
>>6157055
I just reinstalled grindr. Maybe I'll actually use it this time
Bigen is usually just bi guys.
Where my bi girls at
I'm so alone
>>6157055
where do you live in florida, faggot.
Does anyone else wish they were just gay or straight rather than bi?
>>6158902
Yeah pretty much all the time.
>>6158902
I wonder if hets ever wish they were fags.
>>6158416
Orlando area.
Any bisexual guys into butch girls yet despair at the near-guarantee that they're lesbians?
>>6157055
Try living in southern Texas where not only is it constantly %100 humidity but the water's brown and be beach fucking stinks. At least you've got didney worl.
>>6158902
I like being bi
>>6159455
I fucking hate living in Houston so much, it's a shithole here
>>6158289
Right here fagget.
>>6158902
Me. I wish I could fully like vagina. But I know it's impossible because dicks are so pleasing. I don't want to like dick I really dont.
>mfw I wanna be a sleezy tumblrite lesbian like all the other cool kids ;-;
>>6158902
Eh, it would make coming out to people easier, but I like the expanded options.
>tfw a little too gay to be straight
>tfw a little too straight to be bi
>>6160009
iktf
>>6158289
>Bigen is usually just bi guys.
How would you even know that? Most posts don't have anything in them identifying the gender of the poster.
Does anyone else feel a lot more comfortable around bis than non-bis?
I can't quite pinpoint what bothers me about it. I think I'm put off by non-bis categorically refusing to have a particular type of interaction with a particular type of people.
With bis, I enjoy the safety of knowing relations come down to individual compatibility rather than being excluded in advance.
>>6160009
how gay do you have to be to qualify as bi?
>>6160507
it's an assumption that regularly happens. People were confused as fuck when i said my love of sucking dick was the only thing stopping me being gay.
>fucked tgirl while she fucks my girlfriend while I'm being fucked by man while he's dildoing himself
oh fuck filming it wouldve been easy money
I watched straight porn yesterday. Today I found this real nice pic of Armin and that dude who stole my haircut sitting on each other naked in a summer holliday setting. You see this shit?
Yeah, I relapsed into full 2d gay for this shit. But it was worth it. The gods of yaoi cannot be denied.
It doesn't even show anything. It's just the feels dude. The feeeeeels.
>>6158902
> tfw bi but on the lower end of the Kinsey scale
Is this just me? I'm a total top when it comes to dudes. Cocks do nothing for me.
I've spoken to two dudes before who feel the same but that's it (but one identified as gay).
>>6158289
Its usually just mtfs or guys into mtfs.
>>6158902
My reaction was pretty much this:
>Fap to straight porn
>Fap to girl fucking guy with strap-on
>"God.. I wish there was like a porn where the guy getting fucked looked cute and well groomed for a change"
>I do couple of searched
>Discover category "twink"
>Discover Kyler Moss being fucked by some dude named Slater.
>Blow tons of loads.
Wow... I'm bi... I can... I-I can... Hahahhahaa hahahah I can fap to whatever I want! Hahahaha I can fap to everything I want! Moahahaha fuck girls, I can switch if I want! I don't need anybody Moahhahahaha!
>>6161274
I feel like they only wish they were homo or hetero because of the stigma around being bi. Straight people think they're homo, gay people think they're hetero, and both are always suspicious they'll leave them for someone else (same sex if they're dating someone opposite sex as them, opposite sex if they're dating someone same sex as them)
>>6161294
This.
'Heterosexual' girls are always the worst.
They think bi men are gay.
But they're usually happy to 'experiment' themselves.
The stigma fucking sucks.
Tumblrinas cast bi people aside as privileged.
>>6161341
I absolutely hate when people cast clearly bisexual men as gay, especially in historical shit.
This is probably just my own pet peeve but I hate when people look at ancient Romans or some shit and are like, "Oh, well this guy was married but he also fucked/raped his male slaves, must have actually been gay."
Do you even historical context, bro?
And then there was that time in my Social Issues class (a gen. ed. requirement in my college) when this one girl got up in front of the class and gave some statistics and shit, basically equating "men who have ever looked up gay porn" with "men who are gay or secretly gay". It's infuriating how stupid it is.
>>6160768
2 lewd dood
>>6155847
>bi's are snowflake tier
B in LGBT stands for bisexual
>>6161294
100% this. I've never wished to be straight or gay, but it hurts how much people don't get that bi doesn't mean slutty or that even if we're with someone it doesn't mean they define our sexuality. Or worse, people who think that being bi isn't actually a thing and we're in denial.
>>6161378
Exactly.
The media, and ignorant people, love to think of it as it being binary, with two extremes.
Either heterosexual or homosexual.
I find the Kinsey scale to be kind of useful.
I perceive it as there being a spectrum of sexualities.
It varies from person to person.
>>6161618
I think 'LG' needs changing to 'H' (homosexual).
HBT.
> inb4 'hot black tranny'
>>6161661
Iktf.
My mum started by trying to convince me to be with a girl instead.
I told her I didn't give a fuck, as long as I was happy.
She now just refers to me as gay.
It annoys me but I've learnt to stop giving a shit about her opinion.
>>6161676
HBT doesn't sound as pretty. EL GEE.
I have to keep reminding my mom I'm not gay too. I think sometimes I'm hella gay, but then I see a really masculine fucker and realize I would still fuck a man.
>>6155552
poorly, I'm debating breaking up with my bf.
>>6161963
why's that?
>>6161970
He's kinda boring, whiny, and super broke.(student)
He tries to be good to me by going out to a movie or something once in a while but that's not the issue,his personality is.
>>6162053
sounds bad desu
>>6158902
>not wanting to be bisexual master race
Please turn in your membership card now.
this might be played out idk but this is my first time ever on this board. how can i know for sure that im bi without literally interacting with another guy? i havent seriously thought i was bi for a long time but i think i have some form of internalized homophobia that's forcing me to not accept the fact that im bi, plz help
bored and lonely as hell.
I live with my bf but he's gone out tonight to pubs to celebrate his last exam with his laddy coursemates and one of my best pals. My others friends are either away or can't hang out. I have 26 nangs but I've already got a headache.
What do I do for the next 5 or so hours?
>>6158902
I used to think that all the time.
Im female and even though I find women attractive, my social circle is so small I wouldnt know how to actually find a woman TO date (as in knowing shes into me).
Still, I'm ok with being bi now but I remember going through months of telling myself im straight/lesbian for so long
>>6158902
fuck yeah, it'd be easier (I'd be still lonely AF anyway)
>>6161954
I'm somewhat masculine, just thin.
It doesn't really impact how I feel.
I get girls who secretly 'mire, but my mum sometimes like to announce my sexuality in public.
>>6159695
At least there's something to fucking do in Houston. Try fucking Beaumont, man. This is purgatory.
>>6158902
Used to at times. Quite happy 2bh.
>>6161294
>>6161341
Can relate to both of these though. First gf was a kinky, bi-girl, who 'got it'. Made me feel comfortable in my identity & the sex was kinky and wild. Decided to 'just bee myself' with 2nd gf who was a straight girl. Absolutely fine with it for awhile, then she found some gay porn (once) and freaked out. Became clear that was was unhappy & paranoid about my sexuality, especially when we went through a rough patch and I was suffering from depression (not interested in sex.) Convinced that she's convinced to this day it didn't work out because I'm gay. Spoiler: we were actually just awful for each other.
I prefer girls, ftm & twinks as a general rule but there are exceptions. Twink I was seeing for a bit used to call me ""straight"" lol.
I think a bi girl would be best for me longterm, but I hide my powerlevel from girls now.
/blog
>>6163056
that does suck, you'll end up liking someone else at some point if that helps lol
>>6163056
M-mods
>>6163056
>im 14
>life sucks
Oh shut up.
>>6163076
>be 15
>fall for that "you'll find someone eventually" meme
>10 years later
>still a virgin
>still not over teenage my crush either
>fluid sexuality
>some days I like guys and sometimes I like girls
>feel like a fake bisexual on days when I like girls
>feel like I should just go full gay on days when I like guys
>feel even shittier because I jack off to trannies almost exclusively and I feel like I'm just in it for the dicks and would never actually have sex with a guy (even though I find guys attractive)
I fucking hate this feel
>>6162619
gz sounds like you're bi.
>>6163774
wait 10 more years and you'll be fine
>>6162907
Damn, that sucks, especially the second girl. I've only ever had one girl describe me as hot, and I don't even know her. I feel like girls take very little interest in me. I've not experiences with any but would really like to.
I'm kinky and enjoy being dom (varies from person to person) but vanilla is fine. I just worry that because I'm a skelly, no girls will find this alluring. Once I graduate, I want to spend time working on my body, so I can finally fulfill these fantasies and have these experiences (though if I end up dating a guy, then I won't bother).
If you're a male and bi, you're just scared to be a fag.
If you're a female and bi, you're just looking for attention.
If you are a tranny and bi, kill yourself.
Objective facts
>>6163774
Stop being a little bitch and find someone new out there.
Don't do this to yourself kiddo.
>>6164243
I'm trying but damn I wish I realized I'm not supposed to just sit on my ass and wait for sex to happen earlier
>>6155552
Alright. Jut struggling with discomfort at being more attracted to guys than girls. I want to be 50/50 but it's more like 70/30.
>Thirsty for the dick
>Too scared to do anything
>Set tinder to male as well
>Bunch of matches, horny as fuck
H-here I go.
>>6164044
the 2nd girl was just a cancerous relationship doomed from the start. co-dependency issues and shit. went on way, way too long.
I don't know if I should attribute her having a problem with the biness after being initially cool to mental gymnastics as to why it didn't work out (we did really love eachother) or it being like "yeah it's cool" when in reality it's really not. Could be both.
But I've come to realise that straight girls judge me whereas gay men don't. I think unless a girl I'm seeing or dating is bi I don't think I'd out myself, at least until I'd scoped out her opinion. And 2bh I'm only out to close friends for that reason really, not out of shame but of fear of stigmatism. It doesn't help that a lot of gay men identify as bi as a "stepping stone" in coming out and reducing their own internal homophobia etc.
Basically also >>6160526 too.
>>6158902
The opposite, actually.
I'm romantically attracted to men and women, but only sexually attracted to men, and it is the bane of my existence. I feel like it would be a lot easier if I was actually bisexual.
>>6161954
... Thats a really hot pic desu.
I'm finally learning to accept my bisexuality.
It's like 65/35 (guy here, and I mainly like guys).
I used to wish that I was gay, because I have no "game" so to speak when it comes to women, so that side of my sexuality just felt unnecessary. But who knows, maybe it'll get better, so I'm accepting that I'm bi.
>>6168888
nice digits. So you've been out and exclusively dated/slept with men in the past then? Curious because usually when I hear about people learning to embrace their bisexuality it comes from the other side.
That feel when consider myself generally hetero and couldn't imagine dating/being with a guy, but I fantasies of fucking a girl with other guy, foursome or even full bisexual 3-4 people orgy.
Also fapping to stuff like HotGuysFuck etc. when extremely horny.
>>6163794
Wow, almost literally me.
All that is missing is occasionnally thinking that you don't experience the kind of sexual attraction everyone else is talking abbout at all, and might be asexual.
I'm also not particularly into dick. I just enjoy for my partnner to have one. I don't really want it particularly involved.
>>6170347
sounds like you're both repressing your homo self. Not memeing or trying to be a cunt btw.
If you have sexual urges at all you're not asexual.
Figure it out lads.
>>6158902
On the contrary, I wish I was more bi. I'm into women about 80-90% and men 10-20% and am way pickier about men.
Can anyone recommend me some good bisexual porn where it doesn't just feel like watching a girl pretending to be interested in two gay men?
>>6155552
Doing very well actually!
I've only just recently come to terms with liking guys and I'm not depressed anymore it's really amazing that something so stupid had me suicidal for YEARS.
I've lost a lot of weight and am feeling really good, I actually feel inspired to play music.
I met a qt guy the other day but didn't end up getting his number or anything I think he was straight idk I'm not good at pick ups and I don't want to go to a degenerate gay bar.
I met a couple qt girls too but they were with there boyfriends of course. I'm convinced girls don't go out on their own. Only in groups of 4-5 or with their bfs.
Then again most people don't do things on their own.
>>6172734
The best Bi porn is straight porn desu famalamadingdong
>>6172866
similar experience - it was actually kind of amazing to me how good accepting the whole thing was for my mental health
>>6155552
No bf/gf because no one wants me because I'm a lying, cheating, non-existent, hedonistic pervert that's half in the closet :'(
>>6155552
No bf/gf because no one wants me because I'm a lying, cheating, non-existent, hedonistic pervert that's half in the closet :'(
>>6160009
Just csll yourself queer and get offended when people ask what it means. It means that you're anything but straight.
I'm bi curious but I don't want to act on it because sometimes I think porn and being a NEET is driving me crazy and turning me gay.
>>6168859
>and it is the bane of my existence
Bane?
>>6162619
If you're confused in that way, you're bi.
I really don't want to be bi. I have a desire to have sex with men, but I'm not that attracted to male bodies in real life. The desires all started with 2D porn. Is it possible for my desires to be porn induced and they'll go away if I stop looking at porn for a while?
>>6174806
Same. I went from straight porn, to trap, to full blown dudes just fucking and sucking, even though I never like guys in person like I do girls.
Getting away from the computer always helps keeps the faggotry at bay, its not like seeing guys out in the real world is gonna tempt us at all, its really just the porn making us curious.
>>6174867
I suppose it will help keep it at bay. Problem is fap to even just the thought, with no pornography needed. Yet that might be a result of compulsive masturbation.
>>6174806
Yes this is very possible. I don't even like gay porn and I like guys irl.
Take a break from porn for a week and pay attention to who you see in public as attractive.
>>6175019
this, the only gay porn that i like was gay porn with femboys, irl i can find "normal guys" much more sexy than in porn, and the same for ebony girls.
in general. in irl for e there's a lot of people than in the computer is no sexy, but i would fuck them if i can in irl.
>>6172866
Holy shit are you me?
>>6158289
>where my bigirls at
check your local highschool
>>6161676
>HBT
Sweden represent! HBT(Q) all day erry day. I wish we had a GSM eqivalent though, I like that more.
>7 months into gay relationship with male best friend
>it only keeps getting better
it's been a wild ride, keep at it bigen
and come out of the closet as soon as you are able to, that's what got us together after 6 years of knowing each other as just friends
>>6181505
I'm jealous AF desu
I thought that being bi would have made me less lonely (i can _supposedly_ fuck any gender), but nope, this is totally useless when you're a shy neet.
well, at least i can fap to any kind of porn…
>>6180634
Queer isn't a sexuality though, is it?
I don't want 'gender' issues being added to a group that's predominately aimed at 'sexuality'.
This is why I believe trans* rights are too different, but I don't cast them aside because they're a well-established element of it.
What's GSM?
Im dating a nice trans girl, i love her to death
Can someone explain to me why every post on this board about bisexual fags is always:
>that's not a real orientation, you're just gay in denial/straight and looking for attention
>every bisexual person ever is a slut asshole reeee
>>6158289
I'm here, sis. Is it just me or do bi girls get the "you're not bi, you're just a slut" thing a lot more than guys?
>>6183142
you forget the 3rd meme
>bi master-race
>>6158902
Then just... Be one...
I'm sorry as a Bifag myself this confuses me. Just say "Alright, no more fucking guys/gals".
>>6160009
You and the rest of this fucking site.
>>6162111
Seriously it's fucking awesome!
You get to fuck... EVERYBODY!
>>6164103
>>6162619
Really REALLY simple test.
Do you like dicks?
Do you like pussy?
You're Bi.
>physically attracted to females
>romantically AND physically attracted to males
>fap to straight/gay porn
>fap to traps/femboys/gay & straight furfaggotry
>even fap to some futa stuff because it's 2 for 1
I love being so flexible, and I know what I'm about. I love guys more because they just fit me better, but I can look at a attractive girl and think she's good looking. It's simple as hell for me.
I only receive flak when it's online through any means. People in person nod and say accept it. Hell, they ask me about it with genuine interest. Online, there's a stigma to it...
Either way, fuck it... dicks, tits, pussy or boipussi. It's nice to like more than one flavor.
>captcha: select all ICE CREAM
>>6183787
I've only ever slept with women but I'm still bi, not straight. When I was a virgin, was I asexual? I don't get how not sleeping with one gender is supposed to change your orientation, when orientation as people mean it these days is the "involuntary part" of your sexual desires.
>>6181795
me actually
Is it bad that I'm bi and can go for either though tend to prefer girls and yet don't wanna date trans at all? Like mtfs or ftms it's more often a no go. I'll be friends, they're nice. But sexually no desire.
I used to think maybe I could date an ftm but then an ex of mine transitioned and tried to come back to me years later but nope couldn't. I think about mtfs and nope out sexually at dickgirl kinda shit. Maybe full surgery 100% pass but seems rare.
I've never been with a guy and I'm always tempted to fire up grindr but I'm kind of a pussy about the whole thing. What are the odds of my having a bad experience? I'm late 20s, not a virgin and reasonably assertive so I'm not worried about getting pressured, but I want to have a good time.
>>6184309
Well, if you want to have some touch your dick, suck your dick or fuck your ass... or do those things to someone else, it's definitely an easy alternative to other things.
Personally speaking, there's a high likelihood of being stood up or just outright rejected. I found myself hating the experience and ultimately deleting it.
>think I'm straight
>realize that I find guys attractive
>get a bf
>think I'm 100% gay
>realize I'm into girls as well
>love my bf but also wanna try having sex with a girl
dang it :^(
>>6184309
There's a lot of creepy old men on there, if you talk to someone a bit first before you meet up it should be fine though. If you say it's your first time with a guy in your profile you'll probably get a bunch of people interested.
>>6160742
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>>6160738
At first while reading that, I was confused as fuck.
So who else here goes to college? I'm a bi girl and I really just want to fuck and lose my virginity to a girl but i'm shy ans socially autistic and I have no idea how to do it. How does one meet other girls that likes girls on campus?
>>6184463
take queer oriented classes and be social
hang out in the lgbt center
>>6160507
Given that the majority of 4chan users are male...
>>6181795
yes
>>6181795
FUCK YESSSSSSSSS
It would be great. fuck me with your femm dick and I fuck you with a dildo <3
>>6184463
iktf
For some reason I thought something was finally going to happen to me after moving to into the hug box college scene, but I guess I'm too self involved to make connections. To top it off, the only lgbt groups that I know of at my school are trauma and stem based. Maybe I was meant to be alone.
>>6172696
Are you literally me
I thought no one else would understand ;_;
hi anon
>>6184925
MARRY ME
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>>6160768
>Those marks from the movement gear
Damn, that's a detail I hadn't even thought about.
That's hawt.
>tfw don't know if biscum or just gay curious of what sex with women is
Anyone have/have had that feel ?
>>6183818
This desu familia
>>6160009
That just means you're bisexual. Mostly hetero, but still bi. Basic logic m8
>>6160768
damn that's gay
i love it
feels good being bi bros
>>6160781
or, you know, not
also, *it's, grammarfailfag
>>6188254
Not him, but what if I'm gay 90%, but am interested in sex with very particular women, that would be kinda like guy with boobs (muscled, tall, strong personality...) ?
>>6164103
>"objective facts"
You should try relearning what both of those words mean.
>>6188278
Then you are bisexual.
Bi is just "not-100%" one or the other. It is in-between.
Truly simple, friend.
>>6188313
>tfw bi but missed out on (legit hot) girls hitting on me because I thought I was gay
Why is sexuality so complicated
>>6188348
forgot pic
>>6162053
This is the way most women treat relationships with men.
>>6162674
Vidya. The answer is always Vidya.
>>6188354
I would, but I strangely can't fap to her on that pic. She's too angry
I'm a bi-guy in my mid 20s and I want to hook up with another guy since I've never done it before. I started a few dating site profiles and I want to try grindr or tinder but I'm afraid to put my photo out there because I'm not out to my family and they'd disown me if they knew.
What do?
>>6183922
> hole and a heartbeat
Same hear friendo. I don't like trannies though. Cute guys dressing effeminately for fun is ok(traps) but full blown GID is disgusting to me.
Is it really bisexual to prefer guys who are really cute though? Not even lady boys or overly effeminate types.
>>6188401
That's more the straight porn I like
>>6183922
I just discovered myself as "bi" but I don't/can't fap to straight porn.
>>6188434
yes
bi is just both straight and gay
I THINK EVERYONE HERE CAN RELATE TO PIC RELATED
>>6189536
But my attraction to girls is a mix of those two.
I'm having a hard time coming up with a way to tell people im bi. I don't want to seem like an attention whore @ school. I just want it to seem like "oh yeah, anon was bi this whole time and we all knew it and we are ok with it" please just some guidence
>>6190204
The time will come Anon. There will come a time when a conversation ques so perfectly for you to come out.
>Be me
>Be 17
>History class
>Pretty much only consists with me arguing about politics with blonde chick in class we'll call Stacy
>Right after Bruce Jenner transitioned
>Stacy and I begin arguing if he/she is a dick for transitioning.
>Stacy: "C'mon Anon it's just wrong of him to do that."
>Me: "Why?"
>Stacy: "Because he already has a wife and kids. Like imagine if your wife came to you and said "I want to be a man." Wouldn't that make you upset?"
>Me: "Well, I'm Bi, so not really."
>General laughter ensues.
>The story of my coming out is still talked and joked about.
Good luck Anon. Don't rush it. You can only come out once. Make it good. ;)
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>>6190204
I pretty much just slip it into conversation as subtly or as relevantly as possible and I don't actively hide it during any conversations that might reveal it (well, around friends. Not out to senpai yet).
For example: Talking about hot celebrities with mix of male and female friends? "Yeah Scarlett Johanson is smokin', also Chris Evans looked fine as fuck in the new Cap uniform". Talking about TV crushes we had when we were younger? "Kim and Ron were cute as fuck".
I also find myself using the gender neutral "they" when talking about relationships or types of people I'm attracted to. I don't know if anyone even notices that, since I usually don't notice I'm doing it myself.
Once I got to the point where all my immediate friends knew, I stopped feeling a pressure to censor myself around new potential friends, so anyone who joins in a conversation with me and my friends for long enough usually ends up figuring it out without any active attempt on my part.
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>>6190388
Since when the fuck does 4chan change senpai to senpai.
>Be me
>Be bi m
>Have bi girlfriend
>Both open about it and open to having threesomes with either sex
Life is pretty damn good senpai. Get to enjoy the cock in the ass, and still completely enjoy hetero sex, while geting both the benefits of being an outwardly heterosexual male as well.
The dream is to find another bi couple to befriend and be fuck buddies with though. Too much work and stress to meet new people constantly. We have a pretty rigorous STD check before we sleep with anybody. Though the first-time curious ones usually do appreciate it as well.
>>6191255
Reading posts like this make me question myself even more.
I can't imagine a relationship with a girl. I'm not even a misogynist, I just can't picture it
Also, why is it that MMF threesomes are okay for me, but the mere thought of a MFF makes me nope ?
Life was simplier when I was just gay
>>6172901
its true I mean you can just look at both of the parties
I'm bi. I want dick. And to trap.
you don't know true suffering until you've been in hell
>>6189536
>my attraction to women is romantic, but my attraction to men is purely sexual: the post
>>6168312
I'm with you. It's like 80/20 guy/girl for me.
>>6172734
Don't you mean two gay men tolerating a girl?
>>6188402
Weigh the pros and cons and decide for yourself
BI IS SO DAMN COMFY
I can be closet homo and still not look gay at all and have gfs and fuck females. but still tfw no qt bf
Anyone else dated a bi girl before?
>>6172866
Hooray self acceptance!
Hooray hung new boyfriend
Hooray never telling women so I don't eliminate myself from the dating pool
>>6192459
>i look to women for cuddles to sate my mommy issues even though i'm not really into them sexually: the post
>>6172866
What's your name?
>>6192488
I'm like 90 guy/10 girls
How many bi people suffer from bipolar?
Does it ever lead to sexuality shifts?
I'm a guy. I've always cummed harder to gay fantasies and gay porn, but I've never once met a guy in real life I've found attractive. All of my relationships have been with women and I've enjoyed them a lot. I'm absolutely terrified that I might actually be gay. I'm ok with being bisexual, but when I read all these stories of gay guys who say "yeah I used to be 'bi' too, then I admitted how much I like dudes and I can't even cum to women anymore" I just want to start crying. Please send help.
>>6193824
Most of those guys who called themselves bi knew they were lying at the time, they only claimed that because back in the day being bisexual was at least seen as half normie and vastly better than being full homo.
If you genuinely feel bi, you aren't like that.
>>6193824
I'm pretty much the opposite, I only recently discovered I feel something for women
Don't cry, just be yourself and all will be right
>>6193824
well, I really, really doubt you're gay, but in any case what would be so terrible about being gay? I mean it's not as convenient as being straight I assume but plenty of gay people are living happy lives. Examine your internalized homophobia dude. Further, you say you're ok with being bi, but I read this as terror at the prospect that your bi-ness might turn out to be bad for you.
>>6155552
>they think """"bisexuality"""" is a real sexuality
LMAOing @ ur lives
>>6195327
no u
>>6158902
I would love to be straight sometimes, because I hate the idea of being degenerate and being attracted to my friends makes me uncomfortable sometimes...But then I realise how boring life would be and how much aesthetic appreciation and attraction I'd be missing out on
>>6189536
Fuck, this makes me so mad.
This is why lesbians complain about bigirls breaking their hearts when they say they were straight all along
and why gays complain about biguys breaking their hearts when they pump and dump them.
I have plenty of friends who I do plantonic cutesy bullshit like this tumblrer's "Attraction to girls" Wanting to be close to someone like that doesn't fucking make you bi.
This christianized puritan society has made it so that people think wanting to hug and cuddle your friends is the same as sexuality.
I am bi because I want to fuck and be fucked by girls and boys. Sex. The dingilydang. Woo hoo.
>>6158902
>Larger dating pool than everyone else
>More porn options than everyone else
>Not associated with any of the negative stereotypes of being gay/straight
Why would I? The only downside is when people don't understand the concept of "gender preference" and can't grasp how one can be bi AND find one gender more attractive than the other.
>>6196033
>Not associated with any of the negative stereotypes of being gay/straight
If only this were true in most places. Bi's get both stereotypes and more. But other than that, it is pretty sweet.
Who else can't tell if they're actually attracted to the opposite sex or if they're just socialized that way? I feel like so much value is derived from how attractive you are to the opposite sex that I can't tell if I'm striving for that attention because it validates me or because of legit attraction.
Does that super hot [guy/girl] give you butterflies because you're attracted to them or are the butterflies anxiety from being neurotically dependent on their opinion because you have shitty self esteem?
>>6195540
>would love to be straight because I hate the idea of being degenerate and being attracted to my friends makes me uncomfortable sometimes
>degenerate and being attracted to my friends
Remind me which orientation was responsible for coining "The Friend Zone" because so many degenerates were bitter over being attracted to their friends?
Everyone has the hots for their friends sometimes, everyone's friends don't have the hots for them sometimes. Being straight seems to exacerbate this problem- celebrate the fact that you're not at risk of being an entitled asshole who knows the pros and cons of fedoras vs trilbies.
>>6189536
For people who hate patriarchal ideas about sexuality, this propagates literally the exact same idea of "women are pure, men are sexual" that they hate when someone else says it. Sanitizing female sexuality and hypersexualizing men is okay when it's done in the name of bisexuality? Miss me with the UWU PROTECT ALL GIRLS #womancrushwednesday I'm-Hot-For-Jennifer-Lawrence trend.
Ayyy who wants to read my long boring story? It's on my heart and I don't feel like discussing this with my friends at all. I'll greentext it cause I guess nobody reads it otherwise on 4chan.
>be me, in 20s, bi leaning towards women
>have bestest of girlfriends for 5 years, also bi
>we are both O.K. with same sex fun
>met perfect guy 2 years ago at work
>seems open but definitely not clearly bi or gay
>devastatingly handsome, funny, well dressed, slight natural tanned skin, blue eyes, fit, 6', educated, thousands of friends and connections (etc.)
>we get close very fast, talk on the phone, go to each others houses, send silly snapchats
>sexual tension, or at least from my point of view
>one day he shuts me out completely
>never been rejected so hard in my life from any perspective
>pretty depressed for weeks, the gf is freaked out by the situation
>try to convince her (and myself) that I never loved him and that I'm just upset to have lost a friend
>think about him for 2 years, not even able to find any guy cute after him. Trying to forget.
but of course
>gf leaves for Europe for 2 weeks
>yesterday, party at good friend's house
>3 o'clock in the morning, just about to leave
>run face to face with him
>ohmyfuckingodwhatthefuckishappeningwhythefuckareyouhereyoushitheadandwhyareyouevenmorebeautifulthanever
>hugs me, asks me to stay
>spend about 2 more hours with him
>then leaves quickly without much consideration for me
>go home, cry myself to sleep
I'm so confused right now, so upset. It took me 2 years to try to stop thinking about this guy and now he's back all over my head. I love my gf, she is the most important person for me, but this guy gets me fuckin nuts! I feel like a 12 year old girl I can't help myself!
I could try to lure him into hanging out with me, or fb stalk him to see where he goes, but I know it's just going to hurt me. At the same time, I want to kill myself for not doing so
I'm not even an emotional person lmao. I don't know what to do.
>>6197814
Did you ask him wtf
>>6197814
I'm sorry, this sounds like a really stressful situation to be in. I'm glad your gf is understanding. You sound like a self-aware and intelligent person so I would guess that you have already tried to solve this problem yourself in one hundred different ways. I would really suggest talking this out with a therapist! This guy clearly has a really strong and enduring hold on you and it hurts to be that vulnerable. A therapist will be extremely well equipped to help you understand the root of the attraction and how you can let it go and take back that part of your brain that's dedicated to him. Talk it out with a professional because this emotionally unavailable hot dude does not deserve your tears, anon.
>>6197828
Ask him if he is bi? If he is he's not interested in me and if he's not it would still break my heart.
Ask him why he shut me out? It wasn't in a harsh way. It was the painful way: the way you leave people that get in your way behind, stop talking to them, stop answering them. He seemed happy to see me yesterday, and obviously I wasn't going to ask him why he suddenly decided I was shit 2 years ago.
Did I ask him out? No. But I'm gathering the courage to do so. Grab a beer for old time's sake? Idk. Maybe I should just ask him if he would be willing to do a 3some with my gf even though she wouldn't be up for it. Maybe I just need it to blow up in my face to let it go.
And yes, I could grow pair thanks.
>>6197835
The therapist is not an option. I not it would help but I'd just rather spill it out to my best friend. Not ready to talk about it (again) though.
But you're right; this guy has a very strong hold on a lot of people I hear. He just broke the heart of a friend's friend (girl). He is the dangerous kind of sexy. I'm chasing a shadow here, but it's the most beautiful one I've seen. I don't want to leave it ever again.
Honestly I think he is the type of person which is going through life too swiftly to even pay attention to what's happening. I really don't think he ever tried to play me.
>>6197848
>obviously I wasn't going to ask him why he suddenly decided I was shit 2 years ago.
uh why. the dude is obviously not part of your daily life so it's not like you're wrecking your social scene by doing so and it certainly seems like he owes you an answer. Have some self respect
>>6197860
He probably didn't even noticed he shut me out. I didn't want to look like a fool. Plus, drugged and drunk as I was, I could only think about getting him back in my life. I was not about to make him remember he decided I wasn't good enough for whatever.
And honestly, who wants to hear why they're considered shit by their crush am I right?
I think I'm just going to ask if he's down for sex. The quicker he says no the better I guess. And it's not like I'm trying to make him my bf since I have a gf..
>>6197883
yeah that makes sense. as much as I feel your pain you're a total pussy if you don't ask before you go crawling back to him though.
bisexual girls of /lgbt/ who do you think you're fooling? You're all straight. Even if you are of those extremely rare chicks who prefer vagina to dick (wtf, lol) majority of you will end up with a dude.
Drop the bi label. It is a literal meme for females. You're all straight no matter how much you kiss your best gal pal at the bar.
>>6197887
Why though? Why should I linger on the past? I don't want to know why he shut me out. It was painful enough at the time, I don't wish to live it again.
But if I only ask him for sex, I'd get what I want. A quick, swift rejection that would come in the form of "eeeeh not really my thing anon ^^" or that 1% chance he says yes and brings me into his world of madness. Of course, if this happens, I WOULD ask him why he shut me out 2 years ago.
This guy can have whoever the fuck he wants. He probably never really gave 2 shits about me in the first place. I pretty sure he wouldn't even know what I'm talking about. How about that for a humiliation. I'm not going to ask for the fun of it because it won't do me good. I'd rather just leave it.
>be bi girl
>meet up with this super cool lesbian on pof
>she knows im bi and she says she's cool with it
>we become instant fuckbuddies
>lose my virginity to her
>even though we're close and good friends, she keeps a certain distance from me
>i ask her if she wants to make our current relationship upgraded to girlfriend status
>she says no, she honestly doesn't feel like she can trust me
>feel sad, but accept the rejection
>we continue to be fuckbuddies
>later, hookup with a guy at a bar
>afterwards I hang out with her and tell her about my conquest
>she seems chill and is happy for me
>days later, call her for a booty call
>she says she doesn't want to
>everytime i ask her if she wants to have sex, she seems disintrested
>in her eyes, i'm no longer attractive
at least she's polite about it...
like we haven't talked on why she's stopped wanting to be fuckbuddies with me, but I'm aware enough to assume the real reason.
>tfw i like boys
>tfw i like girls
>tfw i also like non-binary people
>tfw i would also go out with a transgender person
>Tfw I literally dunno how to clarify myself as a gender so when people say am i a boy or girl i just say "i don't know, the gender wheel just keeps spinning for me"
Halp
>>6197939
That sucks dude. :( Hope your next hookup is more open minded, or is at least honest about not being open minded before you get involved.
Thinking optimistically, maybe she's scared that she was just an experiment and it's not the ~omg a man tainted her~ crap? Like maybe if you can make it clear that no, you are legitimately attracted to women and especially to her, it will be alright? Sometimes people make the "I don't trust you" excuse when really the problem is that that they're afraid of being vulnerable and letting someone in. I dunno this girl though, so maybe not. Either way, hope things work out anon.
>>6197923
you're right.
Handsome non-autist guys have it made and can fuck anyone they have their eyes on. While they're young, handsome guys in general will want to fool around, nothing serious. Even if he does age into a hot daddy, he could still want to live the bachelor life if he finds a monogamous relationship to be too stifling.
Fix up your feels. I say go for it. Life is too short.
>>6197923
well, nobody with self respect would be so craven. I've been in a similar situation and I would never open myself to abuse by caring so little about the motives of their actions towards me. Honestly I'm with the other anon in that, your obsession with this guy seems like something that deserves some rounds of therapy.
>>6197975
do you have a wiener? Or a vaginer?
>>6197988
we're still chill friends, just no more sex :'(
I'll talk to her later about what's going on. But i'm sure its because it's the "sex with dudes is ewww" thing.
>>6197995
oO
>>6197998
Idk guys, it's not like I'm cutting myself or crying everyday. It "shocked" me to see him again the other day, and I cried because it made me remember how much I loved him. He's the only guy I've ever loved/been that much attracted to, of course I'm going to go for the sex. I want to have sex with a guy, and he's the only one I crave. He sucked all the gayness out of me. I'm just hetero without him and thus pretty boring. I like that side of me and it's another reason I don't want to let it go.
What would I do in therapy anyway? I would feel bad just to be there
>m-m-m-mister I love someone and he doesn't love me back
>cool story bruh
>it's 3 benjis now
I don't want to diss the therapist but I'm a real poor fag anyway and it really really really really isn't my kind of thing, even if I maybe should.
Sorry for the bad English, it's not my first language. I need an advice for my ultra-confusing life.
>Be a het girl
>Hook up with a dude. Fuck a few times, he's nice but the sex is really dull for me - as always
>Slowing realize he's not the problem, it's just that I don't find male bodies very attractive in general
>We're drifting apart but remain in contact, because we have a lot of friends in common
>Really confused, but committed to find a girl and discover if I like lesbian sex. FOR SCIENCE.
>A few weeks later, a new girl joins our friends group
>She's really friendly and cute. I like her, but I'm a wuss and don't really know how to lesbian
>She doesn't even seem to like girls. Oh well.
>Just stare at her from a distance
>Weeks pass
>I mention in passing to ex-fuckbuddy that I like the new girl
>He says he's bi
>Asking how does he know
>Discovering she's his new fuckbuddy and I knew nothing
>He says "hahaha maybe I could arrange a threesome : D"
>Get mad inside but laugh it off
>Next time I meet my friends, he's with her and he's really clingy
>I leave early because I'm getting sad and jealous
>Ask help with study, finally I have a chance to pass some time together with the new girl
>Ex-fuckbuddy discover this and randomly comes along
>Really really awkward afternoon ensues
I don't know what to do anymore. I suppose I should just let them be and try not to be too jealous, but... Ugh.
>>6199122
You seem to like this girl more than you would like to admit. I'm getting the vibe that your bi friend is kind of an asshole. If he is, she shouldn't stay with him for too long, and usually bi girls will go for the lesbian sex if they can because they know they could have any d any moment.
I guess try to get close to her? Your friend probably already told her you fancy her.
>>6199202
The girl is bi, not the guy, I misspelled! Anyway yes, he's really self-centered and can be a bit of an asshole. I'll try to avoid him and his proposal of a threesome: he'll arrange it just to please his ego (and his dick), I don't think the sex would make me and the girl any closer.
She actually invited me to hang out together next week, so I think se thinks of me as a friend, at least. I'll buy her drinks, be nice, and see what happens.
Thanks for the support!
>>6199279
If she already invited you, I guess she wants your pussy. I wouldn't worry much. First gay love is very romantic. I wish I'd find another bi guy.
How's it going right now, bis? How's your day to day?
>>6199919
I have too much shit to do at school and I haven't had anything going on in the relationship department
>>6155552
It's the most idiotic claim ever. Of course you can like both men and women, that's why people have been having sex with both for thousands of years.
>>6199978
IKTF. I'm absolutely swamped in my classes. Love school but I can't wait for this quarter to be over.
I got accepted to study abroad at Oxford next year but I also just found out my crush is also going. She's gay and I'm a guy, so she's not into me... and we'd be living in the same house. So now I'm considering just not going. Even thinking about it is stressing me out.
>>6199919
Hanging out with friends and their children (people are starting to have those now). It was okay but it's feeling weirder and weirder to be the single guy at social functions.
Also there's two girls at work I kind of like and could possibly ask out, but the problem is they're both related and it's a tiny office so everyone would know. So I ask out one over the other and it might make things really awkward.
Or am I overthinking it?
>>6200095
I want to at least suck some cute guy as a casual thing. How is this achievable without major risk of rape/stds?
>>6199919
I still don't if I'm *really* bi or just gay straight-acting so much I began to find women attractive
>>6200368
saaaaame but vise versa. I'm such a femmy fruit I get these doubts that I've just conditioned myself to want dick
>>6199919
Smoked a lot of weed, played smite and catan with some friends. I'm just trying to change my mind. Idk if I have the energy to see people again tonight though.
>>6183188
Don't want to endorse the stereotype and I can't speak for girls, but people are pretty open up here; never seen bi girls get slut-shamed.
The guys' stereotype is worse imo. Always considered just a homo in denial. I'm literally attracted to less than 1% of the guys I meet, but I'd still get that vibe I'm faking my attraction to girls. Especially from girls.
Guys are usually surprised that I'm bi and I feel it's a fact they (want to?) forget pretty quickly though. Everytime I go "this guy's cute" someone will say "shit anon I forgot you were bi, that's weird af.".
>>6201509
I really don't see a reason to come out as a bi guy. Just tell whoever you're fucking that you're straight or gay, otherwise you get shit from both sides.
>>6201526
But it is known. Also, I don't think I would pass as gay. Surprisingly for a bi guy I guess I really prefer being in a relationship. I think I get attached too quickly to just have random sex. This is also because I'm usually attracted 100% or 0% to a person.
I have a big circle of close friends whom have even more friends and just everybody kinda knows I'm bi.
>>6201526
I hate this mentality so fucking much.
We shouldn't have to hide who we are because closed minded cunts don't get it. we're not repressed faggots or attention seeking college girls just pretending we like pussy. ugh.
>>6201634
I'm on the same page desu. it's true there's not a lot of incentive besides peace of mind (which in my experience you do legitimately get more of by being out) to come out but it's not going to get better as long as everyone stays closeted. The more gay people came out the more progress they made.
>>6201564
>Also, I don't think I would pass as gay.
Me too desu. Especially since I've turned down every guy who's ever propositioned me. And I've only ever gone after women. Makes me think I'm not really bi desu.
But then I still get regular urges to look at gay porn and I think "damn those balls and hairy assholes are sexy", which isn't exactly a straight behavior, so it feels like a lie to say I'm straight with no qualifications.
>>6201634
>>6201745
Funny thing is I told really few people that I'm bi. I never hid it though, people just understood there was something more throughout the years. Also, I would never lie about it, but nobody ever asks. This is pretty much the only reason why I lurk /lgbt/. I wish the bigen wasn't so slow.
>>6201779
Are you my crush? Are you me minus the hairy assholes part?
Personally I'm frustrated not to be attracted to more guys. And of course the ones I'm attracted to are borderline bi or hetero.
>>6201797
Are you me
>>6201821
Eh, I'm pretty good where I am. It's occasionally confusing, but I'm still good with it. Getting turned on by men adds some variety to my sexuality, but I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything by not being more into them.
>>6201883
are you a white cis-bi 6' north american french speaking faggot?
>>6201903
>white
>5'11"
>american
>spanish, not french
very close
>>6201922
I hope you are a cute mr. You could easily guess my city from what I've said ;)
The thread still lives!
>>6201962
das cute, bro
>>6201946
I live in Houston, and since you're basically me I'm going to guess... Dallas?
>>6168560
Hooking up with guys is WAY too easy if you're attractive. I've gotten every single one I've went for. My success with woman is like 0/20.
>>6201526
>biphobia is bad
>so I'll lie about it and fuel the idea that we're all deceitful sluts instead
>>6201969
Thank you, friend. I'm certainly fond of the cute stuff.
>>6202084
But I am deceitful.
What the fuck do I care what people think about bi people in general? All that matters is what the person standing across from me thinks of me, personally.
>>6202052
You had to go more with the french part ^^ I live in Montreal.
>>6202067
I appreciate that I'm not alone in these sentiments.
>>6189536
It's LITERALLY the opposite for me.
Am I cool now?
>>6202092
because the issue is bigger than you.
people should be comfortable in their own skin they shouldn't have to worry about biphobia or homophobia or etc
>>6202159
Wanting sex with women and wanting cuddles from men?
Your coolness depends: Are you a woman or a man?
>Pretty irrelevant for me tho because I'm a girl who enjoys cuddling from any gender more than I do sex
>>6202202
A cute man.
>>6192805
That post was almost certainly written by a """bi""" (aka straight) girl who just wanted to adopt a tumblr meme sexuality so she could fit in with the cool kids.
>>6193252
I have a friend who's bipolar and bisexual. He's getting a Ph.D. in clinical psychology so he can be a therapist.
Never asked him about his experience of bisexuality, I probably should.
>>6202097
ayyyyyy lmao
Well, Canada is sounding like an increasingly good option now that Trump is looking like he might just pull of winning the presidency
>>6202221
it's a shitty generalising stereotype but in this particular case it's definitely 100% accurate
>>6202212
Well sounds like you just need more touchy feely platonic male friends, eh?
>>6202241
Or a boyfriend.
>>6202231
we had fag marriage before it was cool.
it's a utopia up here [spoiler] unless you're native [/spoiler]
>>6202247
So are you heterosexual and biromantic then?
>>6202260
I don't know what biromantic means, please don't confuse me with strange words
I come here because I like vaginas and penises, I already finished school I don't need to learn new words
I've been wrestling with how to identify myself for close to a decade and have recently decided that there's no need to decide. I'm attracted to both genders (and occasionally some folks that are in between).
I've been exclusively straight in the past, with multiple girlfriends and casual mistresses, but I absolutely get turned on when I think about having passionate, hot sex with a guy.
It hasn't happened yet because I have much higher standards for guys than girls (super picky). I know I would want to receive (bottom) during gay sex, but whenever I load up grindr or an equivalent app and flirt with guys, I end up deleting the app after talking with a few people.
I don't know what the source of my apprehension is. I don't know why I don't move forward with it. Any ideas? I would want my first time to be with a man I barely know or don't interact with regularly, on the off chance I don't enjoy gay sex and want to distance myself from that lifestyle. I want to try it, but I get anxious when it comes time to actually meet up with the person. What would be a good next step for me?
>>6202282
Oh. We were mad at the original tumblr post because it implied that she didn't actually have sexual attraction to women, she just wanted to cuddle them.
Are you sexually attracted to men and women?
>>6202308
For sure. I just fantasize a lot about cuddling with a strong man. Also I have a lot of fantasies about fucking girls but thinking about cuddling with a girl is ewww
>>6202303
I can relate with you, I also have high standards for men and lower standards for women. Though I'm a bi girl.
My suggestion is to recognize a couple things
>most gay guys understand that there is a certain level of discretion, especially if they know that they are your first guy. They aren't going to go screaming to everyone about how you slept with them
>If you sleep with one guy and determine that you're not bisexual, it's not the end of the world
Why are you so scared of people finding out that you experimented with a man if you end up being straight? If people ask, you just casually say that it's "not your thing".
>>6202325
>cuddling with a girl is ewww
If I could pick your brain a little bit, what grosses you out about it?
>>6202377
I grew up with anime since I'm 7, my first crush is an anime girl, my second crush is an anime girl, and my third crush too.
I have almost infinitely impossible high standards for girls. But I still like vaginas and I have to deal with how ugly girls are in real life anyway.
And now I fantasize about looking cute like an anime girl but I'm not trans so I'm just a faggot femboy that wants to be a princess for a cool guy just like my animes.
YES, ANIME MADE ME A FAGGOT I HAVE PROBLEMS
>>6202410
full blown weeb, end your life
>>6202410
>I have almost infinitely impossible high standards for girls.
Huh, that's really interesting, considering I'm the opposite. A guy has to be 10/10 before I'll even consider touching him, but even plain ordinary girls are qt3.14s and I want to cuddle them. It's hard to imagine feeling differently.
>>6202410
That's cute in a weird way.
