>being gay and 23+
anyone else ktf?
Why is that a bad feel? Are you some sort of loner?
>>5969285
My appearance is decaying.
I used to be qt a few years ago.
Yes.
Old age is rapidly setting in now.
>21
>never even kissed anynoe
aging is bad
realising youre aging and youre also not making anything of your time is even worse
even more if you cant change it and youre a complete autist who cant socialise at all
i might as well be 90
>>5969261
Don't hedge your bets on appearance make yourself appealing in less temporary ways (money)
Do you faggots honestly think that you're ugly after 20 years old? Grow a pair.
You're transitioning from cute to handsome. Fuck off you fuck bois.
>>5969261
>tfw approaching gay death
>tfw have money, bf, and good looks but deeply dissatisfied with my life
>tfw never overcame depression and anxiety
>tfw realize no friends of my own
>tfw cynical
Yeah, op. I know that feel.
I'm 22 and each year my sex/love life and my looks are better.
I'm turning 23 soon and I'm going on erasmus to a big western european city.
I have hope for the future, honestly
>>5969357
Once men hit 25 their looks improve so fucking much. Just enjoy the ride you have in front of you right now, your 20s are some of the best years there will be. Full of vitality. Go forth and conquer.
>>5969357
>Erasmus
What is this? All I can find is some sort of reference to a student exchange program. Is it like a year abroad?
>>5969365
This. It's women who look like trash after 25. Men just age like a fine wine.
I don't get it.
>26 years old
>dream job and up for promotion
>got a boyfriend who is the same age as me
>both of us financially stable
>been together for 2 and a half years
Life just keeps on getting better.
>>5969381
Dual income no kids, early retirement at 45. Life just keeps getting better.
>>5969365
>Once men hit 25 their looks improve so fucking much.
Yeah, I agree, but it's not the case for everyone (Bladness, getting fat, etc)
>>5969376
Yes, it a exchange program. You get a scholarship and do a year abroad in another european university.
Here we also jokingly call it "Orgasmus", as in orgasm, so you can imagine how it usually goes.
>>5969387
We actually planned retirement at 40. His father owns a bar in a real nice part of town and is gonna sell it to use when he retires.
But yeah, I'm with the other anons. Men age like fine wine
>>5969406
I haven't done an erasmus, but I visited a friend when she was doing one and I got laid 3 times on 6 days.
I usually score like 7 guys per year, so for me that's quite a lot.
>>5969261
I suppose that's a problem for twinks. Maturity brings the prime of life.
But yes, you can't live the rest of your life looking like a prepubescent vhild. Grow the fuck up and masculinize yourself.
>>5969316
I hope you blame no one but yourself for the failure you have become. Seriously. Unless you live in a third world shithole, or are absurdly deformed/obese, geting to know other guys, kissing, fucking, and even finding a boyfriend should be super easy being gay.
>>5969472
I tried college societies, but clearly im boring as hell because no one is remotely interested or actively seems to dislike me
If I havent managed it by 21 it wont happen anyway
>>5969472
They keyword being should be, which it isn't always. I'm 33 and still a khv.
>>5969485
>no one is remotely interested
Have you tried being the one doing the effort of flirting first?
A guy not showing interest it's not the same as rejection, at all.
I speak with experience being on both sides. There are guys I would have fuck that since they didn't clearly show interes in me, I just ignored. And there were cases when they showed interest clearly (even year later) and we fucked.
And other times when I took the first step, let them know I found them hot and then had sex.
Thats what you get for being early bloomers lmao
>tfw was ugly and fat until 18
>just turned 19 and look like a 15 year old cute boy
>have got at least 10 years left of prime
its a good feel
>>5969560
yeah i have actually in a few occasions
but even when i meet people i can see in their body language that they dont want be around me, people dont laugh at my jokes, they interrupt me or straight up turn away to talk to others
im social cancer basically and im also ugly
>white people problems
>>5969365
>Once men hit 25 their looks improve so fucking much
explain how?
>>5969779
*As long as you're not into teens or twinks
>>5969779
hormones have finally finished their last touches, their are maxed up for muscle growth, sexual highpoint, will continue on the journey of manhood.
>>5969261
You are going trough a post-20 crisis. I suggest psykedelic drugs and rethink shit. Your self image needs adjustment. You are probably also underestimating your "worth" on the meat market.
Just make friends rather than go for the hook up right away. Horny chat people are very concerned about age. But in real life you will find it really does not matter that much. If someone likes you (and more do than you think) then their age limits will stretch to accomodate, just like your sphinxter...
>>5969578
>and im also ugly
Had a guy in class long ago. He probably viewed himself as not really pretty. Ginger and a bit weird. But he stared deep into my eyes one day just smiling. He liked me. To this day I regret not askin him to do homework together. I would totally have fucked him.
People have such fucked perceptions of themselves. You are way more fuckable than you think!
>>5969880
Some of us have to be unfuckable otherwise the whole concept of attractiveness wouldnt exist
>>5969856
>just make friends
>just
>>5969261
>tfw suicidal depressed 19 year old ugly bear
>tfw when you realize "it gets better" is a lie
>>5970033
You know they normally expect you to get your head out of your own ass and make it better.
Nothing good falls out of the sky.
>>5969261
>being gay
>>5970074
Not him, but when have platitudes like that ever helped anybody?
>>5969472
Go hang yourself you fucking used goods manslut - I hope you get AIDS
There's literally no gay guys I've met IRL who are interested in a loyal relationship and monogamy - fuck this world
>>5969328
Precisely. I'm tired of these bitches and their bitch attitude.
>>5969341
Hint: don't blame your dissatisfaction on something as simple as your age.
>>5969365
Hehe, I think it's adorable when guys In their late twenties act like they're old men. If only they knew how much vitality they had left!
>>5970164
This. Don't understand why people choose to be gay tbqh when there are single women out there.
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>>5970171
Some people are naturally more passive/submissive. Especially shy, socially awkward males. 100x easier being that in the gay community than the hetero community. Women generally don't enjoy taking the "lead" role where as tons of guys love it
26,balding, ugly, unemployed, fat (200, lost 12 pounds last month so it is a start). I am suicidal, depressed and schizo. I just keep telling myself that if i can lose weight and start working again then things can get better. If all else fails death is an. option.
>>5970206
>If all else fails death is an. option.
I used to do that but I realized it was just giving me an excuse to not keep trying to at least get a little out of this life
>>5970141
I don't. I even said
>depression and anxiety
>>5970206
Ever thought of just becoming a hermit? People in your position in the olden days would just join a monastery.
>>5970122
>There's literally no gay guys I've met IRL who are interested in a loyal relationship and monogamy - fuck this world
Maybe they're just nor interested in you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I pity y'all fugly guys
Where can ugly guys meet other ugly guys with lowered expectations?
I'm not gay, but i'm both 23 and lonely so i guess i can sympathise.
>>5970284
Gay bathhouses
>>5970299
lacks romance
>>5970310
Welcome to being gay.
>>5970313
Where's my free bullet?
>>5970334
Only have the one. You can stand behind me and I'll use it on both of us
>>5970033
Let me guess, in your mind "bear"=Fatass?
>21 yo
>gay
>twink
>9/10 qt
>kissless virgin (with men)
It's do or die this summer, literally.
>>5970411
If you are as attractive as you say you are then you will have no problem finding a bf if you take the initiative.
>>5969578
Sorry dude, but you sound like someone I know. And you don't want to be like him.
>>5970350
Lmao
>>5970606
>if
>>5969472
But I've never met another gay guy in my town, why do people say it's so easy on here?
>>5970191
if a guy happens to be passive/submissive, shy and socially awkward how is he suppose to meet people?
>>5970368
No. Bear = not obese but overweight (6 feet tall and my weight goes up and down around 200-210)
>>5971179
You've got to go to places where gay guys will be, where do you live?
Surely most western world cities have some form of "gay" district or street. Just get on google.
>>5970881
I am like him, its not a choice really
>>5969572
>tfw never bloomed
>tfw ugly my whole life
>>5969261
same here except I foresaw that and I've been taking AAs for several years
>>5973766
you need to have friends within those circles already
you cant just go stand around on a street and magically become part of their community
>>5973723
Simple
Post a profile on a gay app and the active, confident, socially skilled men will talk to you
Bit like being a hetero woman.
>>5974283
What if you're ugly
Kinda.
>small country town
>have tonnes of ties to the town as well as tonnes of responsibilities
>pretty sure I'm the only gay in the entire town
>can't just move
>especially now since my career is taking off and I'm older now
It's a bad feeling
>>5974285
Post a picture with an angle that maked you look not so ugly
>>5974367
Yep. and when you meet irl, it's too late, because you're there, ready to suck some hot man cock and unless you are TRULY revolting (that would require you using Brianna Wu Twitter-tier angles) they're not going to just tell you to leave
>>5974378
>they're not going to just tell you to leave
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2alnVIj1Jf8
Ignoring the fact it's another one of those terrible, terrible Social Experiment videos of utter trash.
It's pretty much the exact opposite of the point you were making.
>>5974381
I found my bf on growlr
>>5974387
Abut I have a horrible personality and no friends
>>5974386
Not a good comparison at all.
>>5974424
What's horrible about your personality?
And no friends is fine, unless you become an annoying clingy fucker because of that.
>>5974435
I'm pretentious, autistic, annoying and almost never speak.
>be 23
>still look 16
>get treated as such
>only people interested are old men and slutty 18s who don't know what they want
>>5974452
me 2 anon
>>5969261
Would you rather be gay and in high school?
Because in case you weren't out then, I've got some bad news for you...
>>5969572
Are you me?
>>5969261
Had my first relationship with a guy at 24, was his first too and damn was it cute as heck.
>>5970206
I am you without the gay.
>>5974268
I suppose so, you can always go on your own though. Nightclubs and stuff like that are good for meeting random people, though they are mainly all looking for straight up sex though.
Perhaps try some sort of thread on /soc/?
>>5975049
>Living somewhere where gays get bullied in high school
But anon, it's current year.
