>be me
>not feminine in really any way
>look straight to most people
>told I look like a top if I randomly ask people
>5'10, 138lbs, been called hot/cute by multiple partners
given this, how come I won't ever find a good guy to be with? I feel like everyone on online dating imagines me as a top and won't start conversations first, but I'm a complete bottom and pretty much wanna be treated like a girl in a hetero relationship (held closely, kissed, loving stuff)
is it because I live in Missouri? should I just kill myself?
>>5913705
>being a masculine bottom
lmao why even live?
>>5913717
would you fuck me, anon?
>>5913705
>put "bottom"in profile
>put "sub" in profile
>????
>profit
>>5913727
yes but is there a way to not make it sound like scum or a sex fiend?
>>5913705
go full hon mode, let everyone pity/distance themselves and let them tell you how brave you must be. next go join a role play fetish group and be the tallest sissy in town.
I'm trans and on the other side of the world but I'd fuck you.
>>5913760
>bttm/sub looking for ltr
You should try being more open and approachable. I had the same problem as you but I actually am a top. I'm just shy.
I use pictures of me smiling and looking friendly. Now i get a whole lot more responses from a lot tops and verse guys--and sometimes even bottoms
Dominant guys like to feel that they're in charge. if you look threatening, they'll shy away
>>5913705
Anon, why are you so relatable. I'm a 6'5 borderline autistic fit bro and literally every potential sex partner I've met wanted me to fuck them. They downright expected it.
But I only get off to getting rammed in the butt and having my hands tied and getting choked and shit.
Save me from this darkness.
>>5913705
>5'10, 138lbs
>not feminine in really any way
>told I look like a top
>look straight to most people
I am 5'10" 182lbs and I wouldnt even consider myself big.....do you even lift? Because your stats make you sound like a fuckboi looking bitch that was just freed from Auschwitz that cant even DL 2plate..... just sayin.
Why do people that call themselves tops or doms never initiate contact? In the straight world its the men that are supposed to be the active partner. Yet most tops almost have to be guided into the whole process.
>5'10 138
damn nigga
>>5914363
fr I'm like 5'7 and 160 rn
>>5914382
Because those that are in position of power do not pursue.
Women get pursued by men
Passive pursues active
>>5914363
Nope, I don't lift. I dunno how much 2 plates even is.
I'd show a pic but I'm away from those photos currently
