Is there such a thing as a gay man who is romantic and sexual who is a total top but doesn't care if you don't get off?
I ask because while I enjoy being fucked by a man I have some sort of mental block where I just can't get off during sex. I can get off by myself thinking of men just fine, and frankly I prefer that.
Are their men who it wouldn't matter to them if you can't or don't get off while being with them?
>>5886117
Tbqh it'd probably turn me on. I love it when bottoms are having such a good time that they don't even touch their dicks. I have a sort of fetish for fucking a guy wearing a jockstrap as well, his dick covered and forgotten
>>5886196
Oooo, I also kind of like being romanced and cuddled but as far as sex goes being a hole for him to use an abuse.
>>5886224
You sound like a perfect bf
>>5886117
Ehhh I'd probably use that against you since I'm into tease and denial big time.
>>5886117
iktf op. sex is so distracting. only way i can cum is jacking off while penetrated. not oral. not someone else fapping me. doesn't seem to bother mostly partners but it bothers me
>>5886117
You don't have to cum or climax every time during sex. It's about the experience. As long as it feels good for both of you then that's all that matters. It's not uncommon for me and my boyfriend to finish off by jerking off.
