So I've been in love with a guy almost 1 FUCKING year but of course he is straight. And then there's this girl he's been into almost 2 years, do crushes last so long...?
Cis straight girls usually go out on a date with their crush and/or fuck them to get it out of their system. Its sort of a trope.
>>5835879
>So I've been in love with a guy almost 1 FUCKING year but of course he is straight
>1 year
Try 6 years for once.
>>5835891
oh shit...
>>5835886
that's why I hate the way most people see love
>>5835967
Now imagine that I'm pretty much on the low end of the scale.
>>5835982
what do you mean??
>>5835978
Which would you rather have
1) the ability to sleep with your crush to find out if might be something more
or
2) the ability to not sleep with your crush and build up an insane narrative inside your head of compulsive thoughts you can't really talk to anyone about
>>5835991
That a crush of 6 years isn't even that long.
Still about a quarter of my life, but not really that long.
>>5835992
fortunately, as I live in a very open-minded country I have talked about how I feel towards him multiple times, nd he about his feelings towards that girl. So number 1
>>5836002
But it really is long
>>5835879
Crushes aren't love.
>>5836048
Well, I mean deeply in love with him, you know that about loving his soul not his body...
>>5835879
it never goes away
>>5836027
Sure it's long but enjoy the pain while it's still young because it's only going downhill.
Unless you're one of the blessed who find someone else.
Get a fuck buddy. I did when I had desperate unrequited crush, got seduced by a slut bottom who kind of became my substitute bf. Also stop hanging around him so much.
I've been this way since june OP
First time having a crush like this for maybe 6 years. They take a while to get over. Usually it's 2-3 years for me.
I've tired meeting new people but I honestly just imagine bumping into them and what could happen while I'm with the new person. You'll really need to learn to focus to get them out of your mind.
