Thread for repressed/self-hating/closeted/religious people.
What's your best tips for dealing with homosexual desires?
>>5816615
>Thread for repressed
There's already one. It's called femgen and full of repressed crazies.
>>5816620
Those are just run of the mill degenerates.
>>5816615
Even moar religion.
>>5816615
hrt is how i deal with any homo feelings i might have
also neet
>>5816615
your best bet is actually abstinence and avoiding all sexual imagery etc
make a CBT plan where you rewire the desire to be homosexual with desire to do something else entirely
>>5816615
dont go outside
fap away
>>5816615
>What's your best tips for dealing with homosexual desires?
From a nonrepressed gay: suck dick, fuck ass and get fucked and stop being such a bitch.
>>5817743
Kill yourself.
>>5816615
You confront your issues or kill yourself because you don't want to confront them.
Unless you want to ruin someone else's life by getting a beard, maybe even forcing a few children into this world and then destroying a family and someone's childhood by faltering and getting caught having an affair with someone of the same sex and making the person you married realize they've wasted the best years of their life with someone who didn't physically love them, etc, etc.
>>5817923
>all gays are unfaithful sluts that have affairs
Wow you're almost as homophobic as me!
Here's my experience, not sure if it will help. My parents asked me if I was gay when I was slightly younger (and again later). Both times I denied it. I wasn't comfortable with being gay so I didn't want to admit it even to myself. I was in denial, after all, it was a phase, right? It seemed like admitting it made it real. I convinced myself I could be straight if I wanted to be and got a girl pregnant and got married and now I have two beautiful daughters and a beautiful grandson but the marriage only lasted five years and it was a horrible thing to do to another human being although at the time I had convinced myself I was straight so it didn't seem terrible at the time.
I love my kids and my grandson so could never wish my life had been different but I do wish someone who loved me could have sat down with me and helped me explore and discover who I really was. This happened in the nineties so the world has matured since then and you'd think the pressure was off gay people but from the threads on here that isn't always true. If you don't want to be gay, then you need all the help and the love and the understanding that you can get. And the process of acceptance may be tough. I hope that isn't the case for you but it may be. I hope that gives you some insight, undoubtedly love and acceptance will help you if this is the reason behind trying to "deal with desires".
>>5817953
Cool, besides the marriage breaking down you are basically what I want to be. Thanks for giving me hope that it is possible to marry a woman and have kids with her even when you're attracted to guys.
>>5817972
>Thanks for giving me hope that it is possible to marry a woman and have kids with her even when you're attracted to guys
don't fall for the meme
>>5818191
It's a hard subject because you never know of the guys who actually successfully do it due to the fact they just blend in. That's the sort of people I look up to.
>>5816615
Just do it.
May be you are not gay.
May be you are Bi.
May be you are a pervert.
May be you can like a femine boy or a masc girl, may be you just like dicks...etc...
No recipe. Just don't liste to FAGGOT and BIGOT, they have basicaly the same way of thinking.
Bigot: All faggots are poor deviants who need help
Faggot: All bigots are poor repressed who need help
I'm on the fence because I'm curious as fuck, and love me some gay porn, but to actually go out and fuck men is just way too far out my comfort zone, and doesn't really seem worth the trouble of having to dodge a bullet hell of stds and dealing with social bullshit that comes with being a known fag.
>>5816615
>embrace yourself
>inb4 fuckoff faggot
>>5818376
You're not gonna last, the only difference between people who go that route is how long it takes for it to break down.
>>5824512
Why do we have to embrace this shit? I know its not gonna make me happy, and being happy is far more important than dick.
>>5824557
Except you won't be happy because believe it or not, a healthy sexual life is necessary for good mental health. You're just rationalizing reasons at this point, couple years from now you'll regret this.
>>5824562
>playing in men's buttholes
>a healthy sex life
please degenerate
>>5816615
Don't even try.
>am probably trans
>lot of signs that point to it
>don't get too depressed unless I have to be around people/do social stuff/sometimes
>getting older and see less and less feminine features in my face that I can identify with
>eventually I probably won't even think of myself as me
i wish I wasn't a faggot
>>5824767
(Hug.) Just try to find SOMETHING that gives your life joy and purpose anon.
>>5824767
I identify with you if that makes you feel better.
>>5816620
not just because some people didn't took the same choice means they're wrong
spoiler: you actually took the wrong path
trans (mtf) closet here
I decided to not transition because I rather keep studying, have a roof, family and friends, than live a miserable and lonely life as a freak.
I think I have never meet a boy I like, I have seen some cuties on streets and online, but I rather not meet any because there is no way Im going to date a guy.
I try to not go much outside, because seeing cute girls makes me feel too jealous.
>>5824823
also
>keep coming back to the fact i'll never be a girl and probably never be happy
>any time I'm supposed to feel accomplished or like I did something it just doesn't matter to me because of tihs
>everything just feels like it doesn't matter or that's it's fake (i know i'm edgy as fuck)
>>5824846
Embrace the edginess: it's all you have you hopeless shit.
>>5824557
They want more degenerates like them. They want people like me to join their little freak show club. Faggots are barely human. I'm better than them all. Fucking mentally ill losers.
>>5816620
>tfw I frequent femgen
Why you gotta do this
>>5816615
I usually deal with my homosexual desires by having sex with larger, stronger men
>>5825567
Degenerate.
>>5824512
never understood what a trigger word/phrase until I saw/heard "be yourself"/"stop hiding yourself"/"embrace yourself"
EVERY TIME I become almost uncontrollably angry
Is repression really so bad? I mean we repress desires all the time if it means getting a better outcome, why is sexuality any different?
When I thought I was 100% straight I had no problem repressing my straight desires, but when I discovered I might be bi all of a sudden I felt bad for even considering it, I feel like society is to blame because of closet shaming.
>>5825595
>EVERY TIME I become almost uncontrollably angry
I get that too.
Also rainbow flags and "allies" really bring out the worst in me.
>>5827284
Society is to blame for not knowing what the bloody fuck it wants.
You're in the closet? BOOOOOO!!!!
You're out? STOP FLAUNTING YOUR PERVERSION REEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Either way they shit on you, make you feel horrible and then continue on their merry lives like the good moral citizens they are.
Makes me wonder why people still consider coming out.
>>5825526
And you're gonna turn out like the gay dad at the end of american beauty. Moron
>>5824624
You don't need to have anal sex you just need an intimate relationship with another man. Not sure if troll since straight couples have anal sex too.
>>5827351
That's only if you're dumb enough to try and use a family for cover, I'm going full celibate, never wanted a family anyway.
>>5827364
What if I'm a heteromantic bisexual? Fuck it, you're wrong regardless. You don't need intimate relationships or sex to be happy, that's the biggest load of shit ever sold.
I'm an atheist so it's not religion that prevents me from finding a guy
It's the lack of trust. I think gay men are just as untrustworthy as women, so don't think this is a homophobic or self-hating thing, the difference is the risk factor. Straight guys can go out and fuck any girl they want and the biggest risk they realistically face (other than pregnancy) is a relatively mild or treatable STD. If i were to do that then I would very likely get HIV within the coming years.
So instead I masturbate, quite a bit.
Also I have a fetish that I kind of require for sex that I'm not entirely comfortable with bringing outsiders into.
>>5816615
you join a new religion, and reject jesus christ as your lord and savior. this way you can be a homosexual, and be religious. i am trans, and I converted to wicca. very cool religion. don't join if seeing supernatural stuff makes you piss your pants though. you probably won't see anything unless you start drawing pentagols to deliberately summon spirits. I did this once, and the demon I summoned haunted several people who visited /x, it was a glowing red poltergiest who kept telling everyone he was God, and making several people piss their pants. I still haven't apologized.
>>5827434
I'm the biggest homophobe I've ever met and I'm not religious. Not sure what religion has to do with anything.
I'm extremely self-conscious about privacy. I'm not a "self-hating" bi guy, but I guess I do repress myself by being so militantly closeted. What I'm really afraid of is that people will see my sexuality as the only facet of my personality like I'm some prancing yaaas faggot or something. I don't want the flags or the allies or any of that insufferable shit. It's not me, and I don't want anyone to associate it with me.
>>5816615
Best tip is accepting them but not turning into some kind of faggot that lives for them, you know the ones I'm talking about. Trying to push it away doesn't work as well as you'd like it to.
>>5816615
>Tfw gay but only attracted to straight men exclusively because internally homophobic as fuck. Even learning that a hot guy is gay whenever I actually thought he was straight makes him less attractive.
Save me from this hell.
