I've got a question or two for all you asexual males (biologically male, MtFs too) out there. Do you just not get erections or ever masturbate? Or is it that you just do not have real interest in sex? I'm not trolling, I seriously want someone non-tumblry to explain male asexuality to me because, let's face it, males are normally very sexual.
Yeah I'll get erections but that's it.
The whole process is just gross for me.
bump for interest
>>5644167
they'll all have different answers because asexuality isn't a real thing
>>5644167
To be asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you're not interested in sexual stimulation; it's more like never viewing someone in a sexual way, and never wanting to actually have sex with people. So an asexual guy masturbating isn't necessarily a contradiction. There are still people like the person above, though. It's a pretty broad field.
>>5644399
I know it is in females but I'm trying to understand it in males.
>>5644408
>Never viewing someone in a sexual way
What do asexuals masturbate too, then?
>>5644413
Personally it's just fetishes, or just simply doing it because it feels good.
>>5644413
For me, nothing. I just do it because I feel horny. I'm not thinking about anything in particular. It's like scratching an itch. I don't ever think of having sex during masturbation. I hate sex and don't ever want to be in an "intimate relationship" with a sexual person again. I'm perfectly happy being my own sexual partner. I don't know if I'm really "asexual" or if I'm just sex-repulsed with a very low libido, though.
Don't want to make my own thread, and I think someone here would know...
I'm not asexual, I think sex is the only thing I've got interest in. I don't desire a romantic relationship, I don't ever feel like I 'need someone' in my life. When I see '>tfw no gf' I can't relate. I've always been this way, and because of it I've never had a girlfriend or crush. As I turn 21, I'm concerned about it. I don't want it gone, but It can't be normal, even the asexuals want romantic love. Is something wrong with me? Or is it known to happen?
You can say I'm young and just haven't found the one, because the being young part is true, but wasn't my teenage years the most rip for romantic desires? Also I can't imagine ever romantically caring for some girl...
>>5644167
I have a friend who is self-proclaimed asexual and he says he doesn't fap and has no urges at all, I didnt ask details.
>>5644502
That's not at all unheard of. The stupid Tumblr term would be "aromantic." I'm the opposite; I have intense romantic feelings toward people, but I have no desire whatsoever to actually pursue or even fantasize about having sex with them.
>>5644502
I believe the more categorizing types call that "Aromanticism".
http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Aromantic
Honestly, this sounds better in men because it won't end in them beating their gf to death or cutting themselves to Metallica and cyberstalking her when she leaves.
