/lgbt/, gay guy in need of advice.
On of my female friends asked me to have sex with her. Apparently she really likes me, and has for a while. She knows I'm gay, and so she realizes a relationship is impossible, but apparently she wants to fulfill her fantasy of being with me.
Now obviously, the quick answer to this is "lol no" . However I feel myself being persuaded. She's a close friend. I like her well enough. She isn't hideous. I'm also not the " omg vagina is disgusting" type of gay. Vagina just doesn't really do anything for me. I like dick.
However, where I would normally never entertain the idea, I find myself negotiating this. I find myself thinking things like " Well I'm sure I could force myself to get hard. Use a cockring to stay hard. " and so on.
She's a good friend. I want her to be happy. I just don't know if I can/should do this for her. On one hand, free orgasms, and pussy has to feel good, right? On the other, I'm concerned I won't be able to keep it up, and might damage her ego/strain the relationship.
I don't know. Help?
That's a retarded idea
Viagra would probably work, though
Just be upfront about the reservations you have about the idea - if all you're concerned about is how it might affect her, talk it out with her first.
I'm impressed by your sense of pragmatism and ability to self-analyze.
OP, you are in the PERFECT situation to TALK TO HER.
She knows you're gay. She knows what she's asking. She knows you 're gonna have some worries. She's a good friend. Talk to her. Talk to her.
TALK TO HER. About everything that's worrying you. Ask her questions. Answer hers.
TALK.
TO.
HER.
Mtf here. I dated a cisgirl for a couple years. Sex with her was incredibly boring and not at all what I wanted. I had to imagine I was fucking a guy's or another mtf's ass to stay hard. Oral lets you get them off without worrying about staying hard, but she may not be into it and desu it tastes pretty bad compared to dick.
In general I just suggest not doing it. It will save you the trouble and spare her the inevitable letdown when you don't convert to liking pussy.
>>5479555
It's OK Anon, you're obviously way more into it than you're letting on; I think you're just looking for permission.
You won't be any less attracted to men because you slept with a woman, "worst" case scenario is you're willing to fuck a vagina from time to time, if anything it means if you found an FtM you'd be willing to have sex with / date them where previously you would have said 100% no.
As for whether or not it'll ruin your friendship, your friend lusting after your frilly pink dick has probably been pretty hard on her anyway (as hard as it lusting after a straight guy), so maybe it'll ruin your friendship or maybe she'll have to compare the reality of your dick with the fantasy she's built up in her mind, and having to face that will either cause her to reject you as a friend or reject her fantasy and embrace you.
Given that most women are INTENSELY irrational, it's a coin toss.
>>5479555
OP Do what you think is right but keep in mind that it may end up meaning much more to her than just one time sex despite anything she might say and you could end up hurting a good friend, is that worth it to you?
The fact that you even consider it means you aren't a real faggot.
>>5479660
This desu.
People need to stop coming here for advice of any kind.
regardless of your sexuality, you could either
A> not and go on living without having pleasured a friend and possibly regret it
B> have sex with her - fulfill her fantasy . pleasure her - the vag won't kill you
C> something .. else...
>>5479555
Honestly OP, you really shouldn't do it, because it seems like you won't enjoy it at all. She won't enjoy it much because you won't either, and it'll be incredibly awkward.
Tbh, it sounds kinda manipulative of her to do all this.
No.
This WILL end badly, and frankly, her asking you for that should light up some alarms.
I would do it but I'm not a faggot
>>5479555
>pussy has to feel good, right?
feels fucking amazing. It evolved to be the perfect cock sleeve, but it's not somthing that wold make you straight lol
as a fag, you shouldn't entertain the fantasies of your hag, because she'll keep coming back for more.
>>5482279
>>5479660
>no OP don't get laid, have a nice conversation instead
God this board is full of faggots
>>5483847
The conversation is ABOUT getting laid, moron. That's how good sex starts, but I'm guessing you'll struggle with this obvious fact for most of your life.
>>5483847
>have sex
>open dialogue about needs and expectations
Pick two under age b&
>>5479653
/thread
Just think of it as having an experience in life, OP. Like trying pot once. Maybe you'll like it and keep doing it, maybe it will just reaffirm your sexuality to yourself.
>>5479555
>man requires advice about how to have sex with female
this would be funny if it wasn't so sad
>>5479555
What's her fantasy? Having sex with a gay guy?
No. She's a friend, she likes you and wants to take it to the next level. She thinks she can fuck the gay out of you. This will end badly because (a) it fails and the friendship is ruined or (b) it succeeds but you never lose interest in guys.
>>5479667
>mtf who isnt into cis girls but is into topping men and mtfs
Why is this so hot
Pls ravage me
>>5479555
Straight guy here.
I would.
The only thing is though, don't give her AIDS
