This guy is gay, but he is also Mormon. He accepts that he cannot control that he has urges for homosexual acts, but due to his faith is choosing to avoid what he views as sinful, and has chosen to have a wife. Do you support this man? Doesn't matter whether you support his religious beliefs or not, because if he feels he is happier choosing the life he has chosen than he would be if he chose to live a life he sees as sinful then I am in total support of him
He can do what he wants but I feel really bad for his wife. At best she has a lifetime of emotional neglect ahead of her.
I'm inclined to feel bad for both of them.
>>5400125
If she's lucky, she has no sex drive and so won't miss the fact that he would have to force himself to stick his penis in there to make more children.
Men should be allowed to do whatever the hell they want
>>5400115
Mormons should be killed
No.
I hate him for wanting to live his life with a woman instead of a man.
I absolutely hate him. I can't tolerate him and his lifestyle choice.
reeeeeee
what a fucking pointless thread
literally who cares what the fuck people do anymore
this "look at me im a fag but going against the grain because religion xD lol" shit is getting really old
like
no one fucking cares
do whatever the fuck you want
i dont support him, i respect and axept his choices but it makes me so sad to see that people can be brainwashed like he was
>>5400115
I don't care that he's being unfair to himself, but the man should stop being unfair to his wife in this scenario.
Take a vow of abstinence or something instead of disappointing your wife by not dicking her because the only time you've been able to is when you think about her brother.
She knows and she'll feel like shit about it.
>>5400115
No, I don't support flagellants. Or people who treat their spouses like shit.
>>5400115
He was brainwashed as a child so he thinks homosexuality is sinful and thus feels pain for being a homo.
He chose retarded beliefs and now is paying the price!
He's a fucking moron and so is his wife
Mormons are weird. They come here doing missionary every now and then. So I had a conversation with one and he talked me about the concept of their hell. But turned out that if one doesn't know about these concepts of darkness, they can't go there. For example a child that doesn't know, can't go to hell. But if you do know about Mormon belief, you will unless you convert. So they keep spreading the word even though it causes just harm?
Kind of harmless, but annoyance. I like moderate Christians that love Jesus Christ the best, could go out with one too.
>>5400115
I feel bad for him because of all the unnecessary guilt his religious beliefs foist upon him, let alone the money they're going to waste on tithing 10% of their income and the pressure they'll experience to breed lots of mouths to feed.
That said I value self determination, and he can do whatever consenting adult he wants to do.
I'd advise him to get a prenup agreement, they should consider incorporating pornography he's attracted to into their sexual activity, and marital counseling will likely be critical.
Well this is what homos have done for gorillions of years so what's the difference
People don't grow on trees
>>5400115
Gay man here, raised in a Protestant home.
I do support him. I am not religious, hopeful agnostic at best, because he's holding true to his values. I could go into the whole "If you were created in gods image, then being gay shouldn't be a sin argument etc etc", but if he is happy, he has people who love and cherish him, it's his business completely. There is no need to break him down for wanting to be active in a community that he was raised in and that supports him..
Do what you want nigga, but damn you only get one life, you really wanna waste it not fulfilling every urge and desire (within reason ofc) that you have?
Though I guess his belief of an afterlife keeps him focused.
>>5400115
it's a dangerous path to go down. it's his choice, sure, but he should be aware of how the situation could affect his wife, and should be especially careful about how it could affect his children, if he just suddenly breaks.
>>5400926
At the same time his wife should realise how retarded it is to marry and have children with someone who is actively suppressing their cocklust. Like, one life crisis, one tantalising opportunity presents itself and he'll be choking dick down his throat in no time.
>>5400877
I'd bet everything I have that he'd be unwilling to share that sentiment to anyone outside of his inherently exclusive community.
I support him. It's a moral choice. He is doing what he thinks is right. As long as his wife knows and is supportive. Better to be upfront than trick a woman into Marriage and be cruising public toilets behind her back.
>>5400115
>Do you support this man?
No, because repression is not consistent with the teachings of Christianity. Even though Christianity regards homosexuality as a sinful behavior, the Bible also posits that humans are incapable of living sin-free lives due to their propensity to sin. ("Original Sin") Trying to abstain from sin is an exercise in futility. How many other ways does this man sin on a daily basis? Can he repress those behaviors too?
Accepting Jesus and being a Christian doesn't mean your life is going to be purged of sin. It doesn't mean you're ever going to be able to resist sin. You will sin, period. God doesn't care how little or how much you sin, as long as you've accepted Jesus. In being crucified, Jesus paid a penance for *all* of mankind's sin, past, present and future. So now all of your sins are already repented for as a result of Jesus and his "salvation-by-proxy." This is contingent only on your acceptance of Jesus. It's really that simple.
>Then what's stopping me from murdering anyone I want and still being allowed into Heaven?
Nothing *is* stopping you. Original Sin makes it within your nature to commit those acts in the first place. This world is basically the aftermath of Original Sin, and there's nothing we can do to fix it. The only thing we can do is accept proxy salvation and wait for death to deliver us into a better plane of existence.
>if he feels he is happier choosing the life he has
He's not happy. Repression does not and can not create a complacent lifestyle.
Support him? No, but he doesn't need my support, he can do whatever he wants. If he wasnts to argue religion, then I'd indulge him, but as long as he keeps his boogeymen in his home I don't really give a fuck what reasons he has to keep living a lie.
Good man, God bless.
These are the types of lives that gay marriage and gay propaganda end up destroying.
>>5400867
>homos have been doing this forever
True, but this is one of those rare situations were both opposite-sex partners are aware and accept the one partner's homosexuality.
>>5400115
Looks like Josh isn't the only one...
>I’m a faithful gay Mormon, married to an exceptional woman for ten years. We have three children born in the covenant. I’m a convert who joined the church more than a decade after realizing that I had zero attraction to girls, but also long after I realized that a homosexual relationship probably isn’t the best suit for me.
http://ldslights.org/how-josh-weed-nearly-destroyed-my-marriage-and-how-i-saved-it/
>>5400115
Of course I don't. That's not how emotions work, and he's going to self-destruct spectacularly and cause a lot of damage doing it. It's a tale as old as time. The "confirmed bachelor" just fucks everything up eventually when he's forced into marriage.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjCfE1n6nW4
>>5400125
Yep. He should have just stayed alone and not fucked up someone else for the stupid demands of his breeding cult.
>>5401182
>These are the types of lives that gay marriage and gay propaganda end up destroying.
A loveless, sexless marriage in which one partner hates himself and the other slowly grows to resent him. It's a godbotherer's wet dream, except you don't have to scrub the shame away afterwards.
Seems just fine to me. There's a lot of people that die alone, some die without ever falling in love with someone, some die virgins as well. Overall his situation doesn't seem all that bad. He basically has a fleshlight that can talk and is his best friend.
Nearly every girl I've met also prefers sex with the lights off since a lot of girls have anxiety over their body. It's really not hard to separate your daily life from sex with girls. Guys tend to mesh the two together more often I've found. Really for that guy it's probably just like masturbation at that point. It's hardly unheard of for someone to live a happy life without an active sex life.
>chooses to be straight
Damn it, John.
>>5400115
I don't have to support it. Democracy doesn't mean judging everyone's personal life. Sounds like theirs was somewhat fucked by circumstance and they're making the best of it. Life is ad-hoc like dat.
>>5402242
I think it would not be loveless, and they would still probably have sex for procreation.
But mainly they still love each other. I believe I'm gay, but i could still see myself loving a woman. I just don't get aroused by them.
>>5400115
They have qt children
>>5400231
lol -_-
>>5400115
the correct answer is, no we don't support him, because this will give republicans grounds to compare us to people like this and expect us to be miserable like him.
>>5400115
Mormons just think everyone is born bisex or asex and we literally choose sexuality. So gays are just those choosing wrong. He thinks he's gay like he's a truck driver. Just get a different vehicle, it doesn't mean anything. They tell you everyone has some gay thoughts sometimes or the potential for them. They're just better than you at ignoring them and you obsess on them instead cause of society and you're shitty will power and lack of faith.
all mormons should fucking hang
>>5400115
LOL, what a fucking shipwreck that will end up being.
Support and respect? I don't even know the guy. On top of that, he's throwing his life away for some fucking cult that no one tales seriously to begin with. He's fucking stupid and so is hia wife. It's his business etc etc but it's still one hell of a mistake.
I pity them both.
>>5408402
>Mormons just think everyone is born bisex or asex and we literally choose sexuality
But that's 100% true, so what's the problem here exactly?
Oh let me guess, you're going to show me where the "gay" and "straight" genes are, right? *smug grin*
>>5400125
This. It's kinda unfair to her, but if she knows, and they both are okay with it, it's none of my business.
I wish I could find a gay guy to marry. Cizles. And Christian... any takers/
Wonder who is going to catch the other being railed in the ass first
"There is no one right way to live."
As a corollary, there is no one right way to live as a gay man. If they have low sex drives or satisfactory masturbation outlets, then I think they'll be alright.
>>5408893
I'm not Christian myself, but don't a lot of churches have groups for single adults to meet and mingle? Does your local congregation have anything like that? That may be your best bet.
>>5400286
>axept
Did they hold you back in the 9th grade?
>>5408390
Don't laugh.
If it's a hole. It's a mans job to fuck it
T. My penis
>>5400867
Are you sure because I saw some old pictures of black people and gay people growing from trees
>>5409783
Man I wouldn't mind hanging out on some poplar trees in the pastoral south if it meant getting sucked by the wind, eyes bulging, mouth twisting.
>>5408531
>*smug grin*
This is no way to troll, son.
I can respect his decision but I know from experience it won't end well. you can have the most loyal, loving partner in the world but trying to drown the gay out doesn't work. it'll just end with a lot of self resentment. but I wish him the best of luck.
>>5408343
sigh, the mormons... saving the white race 1 child at a time. I don't understand why they get so much hate, probably degenerate leftists
