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Let's say you're gay/bi/lesbian/trans and somehow you got the option to become "normal" straight for once and forever. Would you choose to do it?

Please serious answers

As for me:
>19yo virgin closeted fag who has never been close to have any experience with a guy
>Not very ugly, but low self esteem
>Depressed for quite some years
>Identity issues
>I believe If i were a straight normie I'd be so much happy
>would choose yes
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No. I'd be the bitter virgin type and most likely more depressed than I am right now.
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no because wedlock leads to kids and kids leads to lifelock

I want to be free and slutty like nature intended
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Nah, why the fuck would I want to be straight after years of coming to terms with being bi/trans. Fuck that. Plus straight sex has way more potential to be boring.
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mmm nah.

Cis lesbo and I've got a gf now and it's really really great. Love her the way she is, she loves me the way I am. If I were a straight girl I couldn't be with her. If I were a straight guy I couldn't be with her. Can't imagine her being so perfect as a guy. I guess if she were a straight girl and I were a straight guy shit would be ok too. But then seems like being a straight guy has it's shit too. That dickego shit seems lame and I like dresses and my hair long now.

Guess the shittiest thing is double periods.

If you'd asked me before her I'd have said yes.
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>never been close to have any experience with a guy
You should try it, maybe.
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Gay guy and hell no. I like being friends with straight women, but I would kill myself if I had to put up with them as partners.
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>>5377436
I relate to these feels so well. I felt trolled by life, god or whoever to blame. When I fell out of a relationship with some random girl for a couple of months, I finally met a guy online. I haven't looked back since and we're almost at 2 years.

Stay strong anon
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Trans mtf, literally cannot imagine enjoying life as a guy. I guess I'd go for it though? Being trans is pretty shitty
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>>5377436
Absolutely - it's irrational not to
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>>5377521
Often a guy who would get no action at all as a straight dude could get loads of dick as a gay one.
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Yeah, not for any self hating reasons, it's just simpler that way, in fact I'd rather be asexual so I don't have to deal with any of the bullshit, it's not like anyone finds fulfillment through sex anyway.
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>>5378359
it's about romance you plen
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Hell no. I'm not dealing with bitch-ass women for the rest of my life just to get accepted by the close-minded homophones I never gave two shits about in the first place.
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>>5377436
No, being bi rocks. If I were gay, maybe, you guys have your options limited, but if you ignore the fagbashers and discrimination, being bisexual is objectively better than being straight.
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>>5377436
Nope, better to be gay than to deal with women.
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>>5377436
No. I value my identity more highly than I value my (or anyone else's) comfort.
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31-year-old cis faggot
No, I don't see any compelling reason to want to change my sexual orientation. I don't base my entire life around trying to appease other people.

I could understand trans people wanting to become cis, because that would seal the deal for them. There's only so much they can accomplish through HRT and surgeries.
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I'd much rather be a socially-awkward straight friendless virgin than a socially-awkward closet faggot friendless virgin.
The problem is that there's no magic pill. The only real option seems to be 'reparative therapy' which is basically a kind way of saying 'suicide'.
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>>5377436
no because what you are doesnt change who you are. i'd still be lonely aspy no friends :[
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>>5377436
No, I have never been uncomfortable or conflicted about my sexuality. I have a girlfriend that I love, a job, a dog, a car and a flat; basically all the necessities to start a good life.

By summer we will be married and hopefully we can take a loan and buy a house with a yard and space for my car (it's in my home country) and eventually we'll have kids.

I have lived my life like any straight girl, besides my attraction towards my own gender, and have never felt envy towards them. Life is good and I wouldn't want to trade it for what some people perceive as normalcy.
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If by 'straight trans' you mean I'd be happy as the gender I'd be transitioning to then yes, in a fucking heartbeat. If you mean I'd be happy as the gender I was born as I have no idea how that'd even work so I wouldn't choose that at this point anymore.
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>>5387786
>I have no idea how that'd even work
You wake up tomorrow, and suddenly you're completely comfortable and happy with your chromosomal gender. You wonder why you were ever distressed or worried about your gender in the first place. Your closet contains appropriate clothing for your birth gender which fits, all traces of your attempted transition fade away within a few hours, and no one you know really mentions or brings up your brief questioning phase.
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>>5377436
No. I don'r want a fucking women controlling me.
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>>5387603
This
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>>5377436
No. But I will say it'd probably make life a bit easier. Most of my male friends are straight and it sucks that they'll I'll never be as close with them as their other straight friends because their scared of something happening between us.
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>>5387966
yeah, i'd take that shit. only if it was like, literal magic though, and not trying to actually change my brain.
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>>5377436
Obviously. If I were a straight boy or a straight girl (I really don't care just make me straight) I'd be so much happier
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No. Fuck no. I'm a bisexual, closeted mtf, I'd fucking hate it if I had to rely on women to fill all of my sexual needs.
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>>5377436
If becoming cis made me into the opposite sex to match my gender then fuck Yeah
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I would never be able to live with the fact that I'd like vagina...

So no, I wouldn't choose to be straight.
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>>5377569
>what is birth control

>>5378359
Being asexual kind of sucks unless you have literally no sex drive. Otherwise you still get horny but there's really nothing (for many, not even porn) that will make it go away.
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>>5377436
>bi and trans
>getting rid of that to be a straight guy

Hell no. Passing as a girl makes life 100x better and more bearable.

Being some gross man whose life is just sticking his dick in women sounds like hell. Men don't know how bad they have it.
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>>5393814
No shit, dumbass. That obviously wasn't OP's question.
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>>5397102
Dominating the shit out of girls is fun. Also, not getting shit every day for basically existing, being successful, having a family, etc etc- there's a lot of sweet things about being a guy. Life is totally on easy mode, especially if you're white and half-decent looking.
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Wish I could go back to 100% hetero. Times were more simple before I had to yell at myself for thinking the check out boy is cute, or hating myself for having "fantasies".
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>>5397590
If you're a Christfag what are you doing on /lgbt/? Isn't this a den of sin? Shouldn't you hate yourself for posting here?
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>>5398195
all men are fallen creatures and have vices
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>>5397580
that must be why suicide rates are only climbing for white men
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>>5398242
Then why not fuck a few, right? Can't do any harm.
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>>5398253
Give up. You can't insult the white man, you can't make him feel bad about himself. We have caste immunity, we just laugh. Even the MRAs, homophobes and other psychotics only respond with contempt.
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>>5398195
No man, i dont really subscribe to a religion. But I dont consider my self and athiest either.
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Probably not, because it wouldn't improve my life at all.
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>>5399159
And your unknown, unknowable agnostic god cares where you stick your dick? You people are unbelievable. I feel sorry for Christians, they're brainwashed, but you're just doing it to yourself. Go wallow in guilt.
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>be me
>18 y/o virgin
>closet gay only few people know I'm full on gay
>friends think I'm bi but prefer females
>lol no
If I had the chance to become straight again I'd say no, being a fag is fun!
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>>5377436
Trans has nothing to do with being straight, it is not a sexuality. Not sure why you included it in your post.
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>>5400443
You're very, very stupid if you don't understand the meaning of the OP's post.
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No, but I would press a button to live in a normal country where being whatever is not a fucking problem.


I'm going full Gestapo affiliate (you won't understand this reference) on this one.
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>>5400411
Wallowing in guild is exactly what Im doing
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lesbian, and no way. i live in an area where homophobia is not an issue, i love my gf, i don't want to get pregnant, and penetration is super uncomfortable for me.
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Nope. I like the way I am. I'm the only one in my family without a life fucked up by some dude or marriage or kids. There's no pressure. I feel fine. And women are my steaze, nobody can hate you for loving beautiful women.
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>>5377436
the answer is always no unless you are trans
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>>5377569
Truer words have never been spoken anon
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>>5378345
I agree.
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>>5397098
>what is the biological clock that ticks within every woman
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On the one hand, if I was straight then it'd be super easy to find a partner. LIke goddamn, so fucking easy.

But at the same time, I'm happy with who I am. And girls are fucking gorgeous.
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