Straight woman here. I think a guy I'm into is gay.
> Been kinda crushing on this guy.
> Get to know him over time.
> Finally decide to ask him out.
> " No thanks, not interested in a relationship right now. "
> Hrm, well damn. Maybe I can persuade him.
> " It doesn't necessarily have to be a committed thing. "
> " We could just fool around and have fun for a while. "
> He looks slightly irritated.
> " I'm a virgin. "
> Aside from being so open about it, he said that in a very dismissive way. Almost as though he was saying it more to get me to leave him alone than because it's the truth.
> Think for a minute, decide to get a bit flirtier.
> " Well I could help you fix that. "
> He laughs.
> " Nah, 26 years so far without, and I've never particularly cared. I'm sure the next 26 will be a breeze. You have a good one though. "
> He leaves.
> I don't even understand what just happened.
I'm curious, because the only explanation is that he's gay and doesn't want to come out. So, is there anyway to tell?
What a badass, rekt
Some men are stoic as fuck like that.
Or aesexual, but face it Franny, even if he was straight he's just not into you
>>5358155
That's the thing. I'll admit I'm not a model. Probably 7/10 at best. Average face, medium boobs, ect. But I'm healthy, and not fat. I've never met a straight man, that if offered free sex, would turn it down. Hell, even if he wasn't comfortable with sex, he didn't try to bargain for a bj/hj. His behavior is entirely atypical of every straight man I've ever known.
Men don't have to be interested in you in order to sleep with you.
>>5358159
you've had some very bad experiences with men. not all of them are interested in casual sex. either way, he's not into you, regardless of reason.
>>5358159
Your like those guys who hit on girls and mutter ' dyke' after they get rejected. Fuck off seriously with your backward thinking and entitlement to other people's bodies. Men aren't all fleshy vibrators waiting for the go ahead
>>5358190
Dont mind this anon op
He just really doesbt like girls
Id say yes he is either asexual or whatever
Im gay and i wouldn't turn down a casual bj tho but on the other hand im a virgin and horny but im also a top
Im drunk and I have add
He is not into you for what ot seems and I think its because he is gay
No straight man would decline casual sex
>>5358310
1) am a girl
2) girls are okay. boys just get my metaphorical rocks off better.
>>5358208
Thank god gays cant breed
Kill yourself pls
>>5358315
Still, what do you think about cis women?
You being in this board makes me think that you moght have some opinions on the subject
Im guessing tho
>>5358208
Bait?
>>5358326
cis women are fine, trans women are fine. all humans are pretty okay. to pass a judgement on a group that i haven't met even the majority of, seems really dumb and shortsighted. i can imagine scenarios of anyone of any genderstuff could probably win my heart, if they had the features and qualities that i look for.
>>5358344
Thats the right answer
I still believe that not a single sane man will ever turn down casual sex
>sane
Yes, more often than not (in my uninformed opinion) the lack of sex drive means theres something wrong with you
I know what I'm talking about, im a man and i have tons of anecdotal evidence
Im always down for an orgasm
>>5358122
>because the only explanation is that he's gay and doesn't want to come out.
No it isn't.
Though it is possible he is gay. Does he seem feminine? Some gays are gay as fuck, while others are the same as straight guys.
He might just not like you.
>>5358317
>>5358329
It's simple, OP is a shallow piece of shit and only knows other shallow shit men until this guy. Now more white knight fags pour out to protect her bruised ego. A guy turning down a self entitled average girl is not enough to assume gay, especially when there's plenty of proof of OPs toxic personality.
Also no to all
>>5358359
>I still believe that not a single sane man will ever turn down casual sex
Depends with who. Men do have standards too belive it or not.
>>5358122
Absolutely fucking savage
>>5358375
Yes im talking about an ideal scenario
>7
>dtf
>casual
>>5358369
Its simple, you are salty cus nobody can stand you long enough for them to fuck you
>>5358369
>op is toxic
You misspelled "im toxic"
>>5358404
Not him, but not everyone is as sex crazed as you are. I'm bi and have turned down sex from both women and men.
Maybe he's into jiggaboos???
>>5358383
>7
In your opinion.
Perhaps you have an obnoxious personality.
>>5358407
> senpai rejected me, please /lgbt/, give me reasons why he's gay cause it's sure not that I'm a basic uggo bitch
This cancer gave me thread
>>5358407
>I'm toxic
>FTFY
FTFY
>>5358122
Or maybe he's waiting for his wizard powers.
>>5358471
>yfw youll never be a true woman
you will never know what it feels like to be fucked by a straight man
>>5358559
Nope again, full Greg :^)
>>5358480
thx
I forgot that existed
>man turns down free sex
>hes gay rite, rite?
Probably not.
He may not like you
He might be asexual
He might have too high standards for you
He might have trauma or trust issues
Or he might be embarassed about his micropenis
Literally a million reasons why a man wouldn't want casual sex with people they don't know too well.
>>5358409
yes they are
there is something wrong with you
Ive turned down sex from a what I considered a very beautiful woman (redhead, I like redheads) because I didnt felt like the consecuences where worth it (im gay and I wouldve enjoyed getting my dick sucked specially from someone i considered attractive, but even if they were just inconveniences, they didnt let me go forth with it)
>ideal scenario
you and her/him in a room
s/hes hot
temperature is fine, you are well rested, you had a nice lunch, everything's fine
s/he asks if youd like a casual bj
a) you say yes
you like having orgasms
b)you say no
you dont like orgasms
of course everyone likes orgasms so that musnt be it, so why would you turn down casual sex?
>>5358122
Maybe after not getting attention for so long, he just gave up and honestly doesn't care anymore. It does happen.
Also, it could just be that you aren't his type. Guys don't necessarily need to fuck anything that breathes, and lots of girls think way too highly of themselves.
Or maybe his mom was a complete psycho, and he is straight but doesn't want anything to do with women after growing up with her.
It could be any number of things.
>>5358665
>cancer
shut up faggot
dont let your misogynistic view of a flamboyant gay man get in the way
>He may not like you
she is not ugly
its casual sex
>He might be asexual
oh so thats more likely than him being gay?
>He might have too high standards for you
again, more likely than him being gay?
she didnt ask chris hemsworth for casual sex, she asked what I can assume was an average person (average as in not a lying self-centered douche)
>He might have trauma or trust issues
more likely than him being gay???
>Or he might be embarassed about his micropenis
...
>Literally a million
Literally cancer
>>5358670
No, just admit to the fact that not everyone has your sexual appetite.
If I'm not in the mood for sex, I'm not in the mood, it doesn't matter how hot someone are or how good of a personality they have. I need to be in the mood and simply being in the same room as someone hot that offers a blow job is not enough for me, sorry to shatter your world.
>>5358709
So OP how's pretending to be your own white knight going for ya?
>>5358122
It's almost 2016, women are not as desirable as they used to be. Back in the day women were a big deal because you had to marry one to fuck. Thanks to the pill and women's liberation, pussy is not as overvalued as it used to be, you don't need to commit your entire life to it, you just need tinder. Would you think it was a big deal if a man offered to fuck you? Of course not. It's like that now for pussy.
damn and i thought lesbians were the easily triggered ones.
Funny to see gay men going full REEEEEEEEE when a straight girl acts persistent
sounds like he's religious, not gay.
>>5358715
>why would you turn down casual sex?
>No
>
>
>
you are not in the mood?
what does that mean?
you dont want to because...?
your mood tells you you dont want to feel happy?
happy as in your brain is bathing in dopamine
im giving you a context
you are not in a bad mood, you are not horny
there is no reason why someone wouldnt turn down sex unless theres something wrong with him
im going to draw you a graph since you are having a hard time text-comprehending
>>5358759
it's weird, and this doesn't happen often on 4chan, but i actually believe you genuinely believe the words you're saying. that is an incredibly unhealthy mindset. please talk to a professional, they can help you sort it out. :(
>>5358759
You need to learn that not everyone is put together like you. People have different levels of sexual needs, not everyone is horny at all hours.
I only want sex with people that I have known for quite a while and that I really like. Someone being hot doesn't really do anything for me.
I need to be in the mood and set for having sex. And there is nothing wrong with me, just like there is nothing wrong with you for wanting sex no matter what. We're different.
>>5358738
literally cancer X cancer
kill yourself pls
>>5358122
You think he is gay because he doesn't trip all over himself for you? Maybe he just knows you're a slutbag.
>>5358769
>>5358765
we are driven by one instinct and thats to be happy
every choice we make is in the prospect of it making us happier
when that instinct is gone, the will to live its lost
let me make it simpler
you are ok but you can be better and its free
you decline
theres something wrong with you
im stripping it down to the simplest terms I can because you are a very special person that doesnt go by general consensus of what a man with testosterone in his brain is
>>5358790
an orgasm doesnt always mean being happier for me.
>>5358790
man, you are one bored ass troll.
Nice to see a fellow fag shit on gullible fags of this board, lel.
>>5358790
Again, not every man is the same. Sex does not equal happiness.
Why is it so hard to get that not everyone would jump on whatever opportunity for sex coming their way?
There isn't one way to be a man with testosterone in his brain, sometimes being a man means doing the right thing and might be to not have sex.
Don't let pornography determine your view of men and women.
>>5358791
it does
if it doesnt the it wasnt an orgasm
you are talking about the aftermath, you feel guilty/uncomfortable/awkward/used/whatever (and you only could turn down sex for a reason such as those, unless you can tell me a reason why would you decline orgasms)
im saying there is no aftermath
>>5358795
am I making it that hard?
cant you see the bigger picture?
arguing with you guys is exhausting
>>5358805
>>5358816
troll on playa, troll on
also, the next fag who takes this troll seriously is a fucking idiot.
>>5358792
im certainly bored but im no troll
I always liked arguing
it makes my blood pump
>Bloke doesn't want to date or have sex with you.
>men fuck everything
>Must be gay
Women logic
>>5358823
if you are done arguing then dont reply
>>5358816
Cum glazed fag can't see further than his next cock.
>>5358772
XOXO go fuck a railroad spike
Oh I guess it must of been gay too there there here's your hug box
>>5358843
>>5358759
>there is no reason why someone wouldnt turn down sex unless theres something wrong with him
There is something wrong with YOU.
He balances his weight on one leg when he stands.
According to OP if a guy has standards, he must be gay.
I bet OP is one of those fat sluts who thinks every guy she meets is "the one".
>>5358875
>what is context
i feel like gay ppl have a distinct voice, but who knows. on the other hand, he might be asexual, or just not into u.
or maybe he has some stupid religious reason
>>5358909
go out more
>>5358122
>enter thread expecting tips to improve my crappy gaydar
>just another troll thread by a "femanon here" pretending to be female
>>5358886
I do that
in fact I do that so much it messed up my spine a lil bit
>>5358942
Contrapposto or bust.
>Want to go out?
>No
>We could fool around
>No
OPs first lesson in rejection; calls the guy gay. Pathetic.
>>5358892
you're a fucking loopy slag tbqh
>>5358122
You're a slut, of course he doesn't want you.
>>5358670
Not everyone is controlled by their libido you fucking ape.
>>5358159
But she is right, if a straight man rejects sex either he is some hardcore philosopher or gay. Even MGTOWs wouldnt turn down an offer of sex because it is relationships that they disregard.
>this thread
>>5358709
>not wanting to fuck a woman is misogynist
>more likely
>more likely
>more likely
It doesn't matter you fat slut, the only thing that matters is that you have no reason to think he's gay other than getting your ugly ass rejected.
>>5358759
>you dont want to because...?
Because I fapped earlier today so I'm not interested
Because I have an orgasm denial fetish
Because I'm already seeing someone and I'm faithful
Because my sex drive is low so I only get horny 2 times a month
Here take your pick and leave, you shouldn't even be on this board breeder.
no one understands me this is so frustrating why does everyone hate me so much? how can you anons act exactly as annoyed as people I know irl? am I that annoying?
fml I need a hug asap
>>5359047
I always get the feeling that everyone is stubborn but me
why wont you let me explain you?
I always have something to say about everything and people either not want to hear it or dont understand it
>>5358715
>>5358769
>>5358791
>>5358792
>>5358795
>>5358823
>>5358875
>>5358959
>>5358985
>>5358998
>>5359013
im sorry I couldnt get through you
im not going to bother you anymore im going to bed
>>5358912
What are you on about? Care to elaborate a bit more than shitposting?
>slut being rejected
>can't accept that there are guys, who just don't want casual sex
>this level of sexism
lmao. how is life in the trailer-prak going Stacy? Are your sons alright? What were their names again? Jaahmal and Deeandrey, right?
>>5359135
Just OP throwing a hissy fit that she didn't get the affirmations she was looking for
>>5358122
Found the female rapist. Why must the vaginal jew assault out homo sex? ;_;
>>5359047
Step 1) get over yourself
Step 2) fuck off
Step 3) there is no step 3
>>5358122
I sympathize with the guy because that's how I handled it.
>mtf trans
>catty faggots ganging up on a defenseless straight woman
every time
>>5359954
the poor OP got raped multiple times already within this thread :^(
>>5358122
Gtfo of our safe space you entitled het cis womyn. Saged reported fbi inbound.
>>5358122
>I'm curious, because the only explanation is that he's gay and doesn't want to come out.
False.
Think a little harder OP. Think about the things that might cause you some cognitive dissonance.
>So, is there anyway to tell?
You could ask him if he's gay, and he might tell you he's gay. Like a creepy stalker you could look for him on gay hook up apps. Otherwise, no OP.
There's no outward physical characteristic that identifies gay men.
You got rejected OP, and you've given no reason for anyone to think that the guy that rejected you was lying. Get over the rejection, because as you get older being rejected is going to happen to you a lot more often OP.
>>5358122
>" Nah, 26 years so far without, and I've never particularly cared. I'm sure the next 26 will be a breeze. You have a good one though. "
Holy shit this is gold.
>>5358122
Stopped reading after straight.
>>5359261
Get over myself? What does that even mean?
Why are you so rude and angry?
>>5360840
it means a man could reject you for a dozen different reasons that have nothing to do with being gay and everything to do with -you- very specifically being uniquely unattractive and not worth sticking a penis into - which, based on your account - is evidently the case.
>>5360889
OP's asking an LGBT board about how to tell if men are gay, and now you don't want the opinions of gay men?
KEK
>male rejects a woman's sexual advances
>is he????? a gay??? wow
pls
>>5358122
>wow I'm so attractive!! Literally how could anyone not want me? They must be gay
>>5358159
>Probably 7/10 at best
Keep dreaming
>>5358159
>i've never met a straight man that if offered free sex would turn it down
bro
where the fuck even do you live where this happens
>>5360889
I'm really happy how rustled you are OP, and that the guy escaped you through his own wisdom or chance orientation. Thanks for the laughs!
>>5360965
>>5360840
>I'm curious, because the only explanation I'm willing to accept is that he's gay and doesn't want to come out. So, is there anyway to tell?
What a puzzle you're in OP. Maybe if you solve a different one about people you're more familiar with you'll be able to come up with the answer for this doozy.
Try this one first:
>I'm curious, so OP is there any way to tell if a woman is straight?
>>5358122
>Womyn in the friendzone
>>5358752
LOL it's usually the opposite in my experience The lesbians I hang around are old pros at politely turning down interested men. Whenever gay men like myself try to turn down straight women, or desperate hambeasts like OP, they're pretty derpy and bashful the entire way through it.
Besides straight people are so much worse.
Ever heard of the gay panic defense? It's a legal defense strategy built around a homophobic person being so terrified that a queer person is hitting on them that they murder or assault the person they thought hit on them. Then get a lighter sentence or let off the hook entirely, because the icky icky gay was coming onto them.
>>5360957
Im gay and I dont hate women
The thing is, im not a faggot
>>5360983
> :^)
Spotted
I'm a straight virgin who's turned down sex and dates multiple times because of my small dick. No one must ever know my secret.
this bitch ass OP thinks because some guy doesn't want to date her then he is gay.
i'm actually so baffled I can't read the whole thread and I hope I'm the 10th person to say this.
get over it woman, HE NOT INTERESTED, GAY OR NOT.
>>5363921
(cont.) also his sexuality is none of your business, and if it were he'd let you know.
So much slutshaming in this thread, jeez.
OP, the guy is perhaps just really reserved and needs his space. I know you're crushing on him but sometimes it just doesn't work out, y'now? You could try asking him casually if he's even into girls.
Even if you're only into him for his body, don't let anyone tell you that's somehow wrong.
Some guys, though, really will turn down free sex. Wouldn't you do the same if it was from someone you weren't into?
Am I the only one more offended at the idea of a straight woman visiting /lgbt/ than her whining about some possibly gay guy rejecting her?
>>5364053
>Advises to immediately ask if gy after OP just got shot down
Much classless
I can tell you're all actually gay because this whole thread is pointless until she posts face and body pics and not one of you asked for some.
>>5358159
> I've never met a straight man, that if offered free sex, would turn it down. Hell, even if he wasn't comfortable with sex, he didn't try to bargain for a bj/hj. His behavior is entirely atypical of every straight man I've ever known.
Fuck you, seriously, men are not sex craving dicks with legs. Just put on this earth to satisfy you.
Youfirst of all imply that you give random guys sex, bj, hj etc. For me this would already mean a big no. I would rather not give my virginity to a known slut. Some men have dignity
I'm straight, have a girlfriend. And seeing from your attitude, I would never fuck someone with your kind of entitlement, and he probably thinks the same.
>>5364053
Apologistic white knight detected. Everyone can do sexually what they want, shure. So he can deny her:
This woman is also the epitome of female sexism. If any men would make the same remarks turned around, he would be eaten alive by feminists.
>guy rejects woman
>he must be gay
Ever thought it might be the fact that you're 3DPD?
>>5358122
Maybe he's gay, maybe he's just not into you, but he's certainly not going anywhere near your coochie, so it's irrelevant either way.
>>5364053
>slutshaming
You're free to do whatever you want, that doesn't mean there won't be consequences, repercussions and that people won't judge you for it.
>>5362190
this doesn't work were I live. the only thing you get is a harsher punishment. lower court's judges may be homophobic more often, our supreme court is really liberal and pro minority-rights though. gotta love living in a working state of law.
>>5363860
that's really ridiculous. i mean the whole small-dick-fear thing isn't rational as most fears aren't rational, but what would be the problem? if you don't hook up with hoes, they probably will be understanding and in case they talk smack about you just spread the rumor, that you nope-ed off because she had some yeast infection or something and you figured it was for the best to leave.
small dick guys also try a lot harder than hung guys and i think this piece of information is slowly getting around. if you have a micropenis ... well, become a pro at eating them out.
Why is everyone so buttmad in this thread?
>How DARE you think all men are horny bastards?
>How DARE you think we're gay if we don't want to fuck you?
What experiences led to all this pent-up anger? And is it mostly gay and bi men responding, or straight dudes? Because it seriously sounds like homophobic straight dudes defending their honor and reeeing gay men who just don't want women around anyway.
>>5371536
Because OP refuses to accept the notion that maybe she's just fucking gross
>>5358122
if you were this blatant about it and he reacted in this way then I'd say you have proabable reason to think he's gay.
Any idea if he is attracted to you? If he is have you ever noticed him looking at you ever?
>Tfw bi guy that faps twice a day
No one is offering me casual sex
>>5371536
Nah, I suspect it's men seizing on the slightest occasion of a woman acting sexist to bitch her out in the same way that sexist men get bitched out under similar circumstances, as if the context was the same.
Bi male, for the record.
>>5358122
Good. You clearly don't deserve him.
>>5371654
If you're not gross and you live in a decent sized city you can go pick up dudes for a casual lay any day of the week, no trouble, believe me. I've tried casual sex and it's not fun, in my opinion, but each to his own.
>>5362246
Yeah you're the orgasm=happiness fag who can't comprehend social and romantic needs that would make the offer of casual sex unappealing
>>5361285
the friendzone is something that exists between friends
OP is in the leavemealoneyouwitheredoldslutzone
>>5358122
He's a priest out on a night off
Or maybe, just maybe, he wasn't attracted to you and wasn't in the mood. Guys run a spectrum of what they need to get in the mood too.
It's a shorter spectrum, but it's there.
>>5358359
I've turned down sex if I thought it was going to be more trouble than it was worth.
>>5358740
Wisdom here.
Shit, am i on r9gay?
>>5358383
>7
>ideal
>>5372381
10/10 i haha'd
>>5358159
you sound like a horrible degenerate slut no wonder he turned you down
>>5358954
pretty much this
>>5369948
this anon gets it
the only thing worse than hetero guys on this board are hetero girls
