I'm 19 y/o, MtF. And I'm wondering, what the fuck is wrong with most transsexual people. Sure, I understand dysphoria (since I have it too) and everything. But let's start from the beggining.
>Most MtF's got biten more than once for wearing feminine clothes when they don't pass.
If you don't pass, then just don't wear them goddamnit. If you're doing that without passing, it looks gross and disgusting.
>Misgendering.
Why would I give a shit about it? I'm just misgendering them back in, I love people's butthurt when I do that.
Even at the work supervisor welcomed me:
-Sup, dude?
-Nothing really, miss
And everyone laughed. No big deal.
>Sexuality.
It's your bussiness, not anyone else. One of my closest friends are gay male and we're totally cool with his homosexuality and my transsexuality.
>SRS.
Honestly, I can't imagine life as a woman without having an SRS. This fucking thing is so gross and disgusting, it causes only problems. Not only because something is between my legs, but there's a risk about having a cancer while on hormones.
>Weaboos.
Sure, I'm watching anime. But what's the idea to make posts with meaningless pictures from chinese cartoons? Oh, and /a/ is retarded btw.
I think that's all I wanted to say. Have a good day.
Iv read enough stories of rotten necrotic labia and 2-3 inch neovags... don't need a meat cave to be a "real woman"
>>5244455
you're so awesome dude
so much above the rest of us
like
man
>>5244490
Haha yes you do. You have a penis and you're a man. Grow up.
>>5244455
cool blog post where do i subscribe?
>>5244455
Let me guess.
You're autistic and just started transition.
>>5244651
There is a legit aspie at my support group and she doesn't pass at all, I was slightly horrified when I saw her actually. I feel bad for her, but, shit she needs help.
>>5244673
>my support group
that explains a lot
>>5244455
>Most MtF's got biten more than once for wearing feminine clothes when they don't pass.
>If you don't pass, then just don't wear them goddamnit. If you're doing that without passing, it looks gross and disgusting.
Firstly I don't care if you don't like what I am wearing or if you think I can't pass wearing something. It's not your business what I wear.
And lots of us don't have a choice. For example - you have to be full time in girl clothes as part of real life experience, even if you don't pass, if you want to get hormones in the UK.
>Why would I give a shit about misgendering?
Because it's just plain rude, hateful and uncalled for.
Of course I take context into consideration, it's usually easy to tell when misgendering is a mistake or when it is meant as an insult.
And I try not to take offence unless they are seriously trying to insult me.
I agree with the rest of your points though.
>>5244726
>For example - you have to be full time in girl clothes as part of real life experience, even if you don't pass, if you want to get hormones in the UK.
Really? Well, that's weird, because even in Poland (yes, yes) we don't have anything like that. I must go only to the therapist dressed as a woman, but nobody except her can see me. Still uncomfortable feeling though...
>Because it's just plain rude, hateful and uncalled for.
Okay, but what about friends? If I just started and they say it's confusing for them, why should I think that they're trying to insult me?
>>5244455
I fuck with people a little harder when I'm intentionally (with hate/bigoted intent) misgendered or called by my former "birth" name.
If a black person calls me a man, I call them a nigger. It's kinda like that for everyone if there's something about them I can call out to make them feel like a dick. Fatty calls me a faggot, I call them a hambeast.
>>5244490
>Iv read enough stories of rotten necrotic labia
This isn't a common problem, is it?
>>5244827
Unless you have a pretty shitty surgeon, it's almost impossible
>>5244827
Yea... if you pay $750 for SRS in Mexico.
>>5244585
So are you, dude.
>>5244455
>If you don't pass, then just don't wear them goddamnit. If you're doing that without passing, it looks gross and disgusting.
The only ones I can give a little leniency on are those who are trying to get their hormones through legit methods and have to do RLE for a year or so. I feel so bad for them.
>>5244455
Be careful handling all that edge, you might cut yourself
>>5244778
>If a black person calls me a man, I call them a nigger.
i'm interested in the reactions you have gotten from that
I find the fuckers who are like "you can't be a woman if you don't want SRS" to be really obnoxious. Shouldn't you be thankful about one less person on the SRS waiting list? Also, my boyfriend loves my cock.
>>5244673
how about you pull her aside and tell her this shit? she can't read social ques, so i'd imagine she wouldn't be offended by it, but think you're helping.
>tfw no tranny sperg sidekick to groom into a qt mtf and set free into the world
>>5246672
>Also, my boyfriend loves my cock.
>>5246695
Just met her. Last month was my first night at that group. I need to know her better before I'll feel comfortable giving that kind of advice. Plus we have some women that are far more qualified than I am to be giving fashion advice.
>>5244455
What about being borderline passable and wearing girlclothes that fit okay?
I get gendered male sometimes but I honestly look cute and presentable in a blouse/cardigan or skirt.
>>5246695
Can I be your spergy sidekick?
i feel you op. tho i dont agree with you on wearing feminine clothes and not passing, imo of course you should try and work it out, if not u wont have enough knoeledge to know what your doing.
whats srs?
>>5244751
>Okay, but what about friends? If I just started and they say it's confusing for them, why should I think that they're trying to insult me?
>Of course I take context into consideration, it's usually easy to tell when misgendering is a mistake or when it is meant as an insult.
And I try not to take offence unless they are seriously trying to insult me.
Do you just stop reading after the first sentence?
>>5244834
Iv read multiple stories of this happening and they were all from surgeons in America or Europe. You people overestimate how much control surgeons/medical professionals have over radical soft tissue altering procedures with massing scaring, disordering of vasculature and nerves...
>>5246133
bp rekt
>>5244455
OP, I'm afraid that you're suffering from an acute case of "Not being a whiny little faggot".
You know that it's required of you to be a whiny little faggot if you want to be trans, right? I'd thin that skin up if I were you and start getting really mad about everything that happens to you.
Angrily replying to your detractors in this thread would be a good start. Maybe afterwards you can blog about it, throw some hashtags like #killwhitey on there? Just some thoughts.
>>5244455
>SRS
All those dick and vajay stories are so gross tbhon.
I'm not going to play the part where I drop 20k to get butchered and totally look like a real wymmyn.
>>5244455
I am also 19 mtf
you seem nice
dig your vibe
>>5244455
Love you OP. You're like the 10-20% of us who are alright. Literally one who's actually transsexual.
>>5244778
This just gave me transphobia. I've never intentionally misgendered anyone, but if I heard a white transgirl say 'nigger' I'd probably kick her in the dick.
>>5248781
>Literally one who's actually transsexual.
Nobody gives the slightest damn.
Do you pass?
>>5248811
Awh, delusioned and jelly? Preaching like a parrot what everyone says to try and justify themselves?
No I don't yet if you have to know.
>>5248870
>delusioned
Wouldn't say it this way.
>jelly of trannies
Oh, lord, trannies...
>>5248804
White transgirl here, you'd be 1000% justified. Please do this if you ever see it happening, IMO that's even worse than the cis gay transphobia infecting queer spaces right now.
>>5248870
"Delusion" is a noun, not a verb.
>>5248932
Derp, eyeliner. It's late and I'm four glasses of wine into a box.
>>5248956
>drinking box wine alone
I hope I never get that pathetic
>>5248932
>Jelly of stealthers who keep their shit together like OP, cause that's the only way you can hope to get accepted anywhere.
What? Seriously, how's your carpet to carpet transition?
>>5244455
>If you don't pass, then just don't wear them goddamnit. If you're doing that without passing, it looks gross and disgusting.
>Honestly, I can't imagine life as a woman without having an SRS. This fucking thing is so gross and disgusting, it causes only problems.
I'm sorry you hate yourself so much, try not to take it out on the rest of us
>am tranny
>not radical sjw
>just normal person
>can't interact with any other lgbt people because the only ones that are visible are insane sjws
lol
>>5249013
>I don't care about passing or having a vagina
>I'm totally trutrans, lol! I'm not autogyephilic!
>>5248996
Don't make a big deal of it? Go guy, go andro, guy girl when it fucking fits. And you know it does when people gender you female in guy clothes.
>>5249059
>I spend most of my time worrying about whether I'm truly trans
>Maybe if I put other trans women down I'll feel better about myself
>>5249053
>Call on unpassable hons playing the trutrans card to justify their failure.
>Be called sjw
I'm in my home-town support group again.
>And you know it does when people gender you female in guy clothes.
Mylife.jpg.
I've invented the meme, allright? No failed stacy here.
>>5249151
Niggers being violent? How absurd!
I get up, so time to respond I guess:
>>5244778
That's just rude, you shouldn't do that actually
>>5245698
I'm actually waiting and doing tests, I will probably start in January or so. But without that I woudn't be able to change my name and get an SRS. I'm not even mad, because I'm still perfectly proportioned (in a woman scale) and I'm not growning anymore.
>>5245771
I'm doing that when I'm doing almost anything. Yesterday I cut my finger while trying to open a coke can. Talk about being lame :P
>>5246672
I must earn about a 60k PLN to get the surgery with Dr. Suporn first, so I'm not mad.
>>5246811
Sorry, I was really tired (you can tell by my writing and spelling errors actually) because I had to wake up at 2AM, go to the far city via a bus, one hour in a public transport in this city, chromosome analysis (I'm not afraid of a needles anymore, yay!), another hour in a city's public transport and bus to my city. I come back at 4PM, so you have a picture. I must admit that it pissess me off when someone misgenders me, but still it's not a reason to attack them, right? And I can't do anything about it because I'm still pre-hrt, so you know...
>>5246783
That's okay I think, because in transitioning everyone reaches a point where you can't dress up like a guy and can't dress up like a woman. As long as nobody stares like you or something, it's not bad
>>5246797
Well, my therapist are forcing me to wear woman's clothes while visiting her, but I can dressup in a toilet and go straight to her office (sorry, I don't know the correct word so call it an office). But not in public, plus, it's kinda weird because pre-transitioning I wasn't able to pick clothes for me, everything seemed ugly and unfomfortable. When I went shopping with my sister last month to pick some feminine clothing for me, I did it better than she does (lol). SRS = Sex Reassigment Surgery. Google it :)
>>5246985
That's why I don't trust the only surgeon in Poland (Gdansk). It's 6 time cheaper than Dr. Suporn, but they're messing up for the rest of your life. And I'm hoping to have a boyfriend in the future and being able to have a normal sex.
>>5247033
I think that you're right and I know that, but still I'm living in a dangerous place, small town etc., so I must be careful or bad guys called "dresiarze" will probably kill me. Funny fact: even if I have a long hair, have feminine posture etc, I never got biten. Last night was close, though...
>>5248596
>>5248781
I don't know what does "dig your vibe" means, but thanks. I wish you luck too :)
>>5249013
Well, hating your body is a part of dysphoria, right?
>>5249350
>Well, hating your body is a part of dysphoria, right?
Sure, but being upset that other trans women have different kinds or degrees of dysphoria is just being a cunt
>>5249350
means you're cool.
college has been eye opening, so many queer people are way too touchy feely and it's the opposite of how I think
>>5244455
why is it always the people who know very little about transition that are the loudest about it? you sound like you've been on HRT for 6 months and everyone still calls you a man irl. you don't even know that you'd still need to be on hormone replacement therapy after SRS. i don't get this mentality.
>>5248804
>verbally abuse a trans person
>get verbally abused back
>assault them
You worthless nigger/nigger lover. It's called the golden rule for a reason. You treat people like shit, don't get mad when they return the same. Call me something bigoted and I'll hit right back the same.
>>5248922
Justified in assaulting someone for sticking up for themselves when a scumbag harasses them in public? Stupid whore.
Black people don't get a jail-free card when they call a trans or gay person a faggot. Call them a nigger in return. That's how it's done, you pansies.
>>5249340
Well, they shouldn't be rude to you first. Christ, it's like everyone is so pacified, they won't defend themselves anymore.
