>>5227884
I'm scared of gushing out poop
how can I prevent this douching makes me poop more.

>>5227884
I feel the exact same way OP.

>>5227884
You can just give blowies and handies. There are other guys who don't like anal sex. It's a bit of an impediment but you don't have to force yourself to like it.

its ok OP there's nothing wrong with you

I had a bf who threw me on my stomach while we were going at it and I thought he was going to put it so I handed him a condom but he didn't take it and just rubbed his dick on my cheeks and then came on my ass. I have a hairy ass so getting the cum off was annoying because it was dark and I was drunk. Anyways I asked why he didn't just put it in and he said he didn't like anal. I pretended to be cool with that but I dumped him two weeks later because I felt like that meant the relationship wasn't progressing/it made me feel undesirable. It's stupid but that's just how someone else may feel about that. Either find someone who clearly says they don't want to ever do anal or just top, it's not like there's much work that goes into that anyways.

>>5227929

You're douching incorrectly. Here's a comprehensive and frank video on how to do it correctly:
>http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=ixbuv-g564-

Best thing to do if you're unsure about anal is to take it slow, communicate, and make sure who your with is patient enough to take it slow a couple of times.

>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0p84az86DfM

Also bum play doesn't have to mean fucking, you can finger / rim / use toys etc and get a better feeling for whats good before getting into riding a guy.

Don't knock it til you've tried it OP: I felt the same once.

>>5228036
I feel like rimming would not be pleasant unless you like just showered

>>5228042

Yep, you're right there - me and my bf mostly involve rimming in sex after one of us is out the shower.

But if you've got a good diet and regular bowel movements you'll be fine like 90% of the time, in my experience. There's also nothing stopping you from jumping into the toilet quickly and using a couple of wet wipes while the other puts on music, finds some porn to have on, whatever.

If you're willing to rim a guy then he should at least have the courtesy of making sure it's gonna be clean, right?

Almost nothing to do with anal sex can be 100% impulsive, it sucks but that's the reality.

I'm OP.

Thank you all, at least I feel like I am not the only one in the world who doesn't like anal, and I will take all of your suggestions!

I think statistics say either gay men only have anal sex 30% of the time or only 30% of gay men have anal sex while the majority do not.

I can't quite remember, but I don't think you'll have that many issues with finding a guy on grindr for a quickie bj or a fellow gay man who also does not enjoy anal.

god you fags are disgusting

also op why are you forcing yourself to do anal? most guys just do oral anyway