>Be straight
>Meet a girl
>Ends up transgender, passes effortlessly
>Keep dating
>Still turned off by the idea of a penis
She's pretty great otherwise. Don't want to break up over something like that.
Is there a way to become okay with the penis before she gets surgery? It's a very small one. Asian + hormones must have shrunk it a bit.
What do.
Ignore it and fuck her in the butt. She doesn't want the penis there either
>>5203254
Is that her? don't post her picture to 4chan, das rude
As for actual advice, I dunno, fuck her with panties on that hide her dick? Another option is to look at a lot of tranny porn and penises in general to desensitize yourself to it, that sounds pretty degenerate but there it is
>>5203275
Nah. It's rosie from a different board. I don't know if she posts there anymore. She's a natural girl. I wouldn't out anyone like that.
Why don't I pass flawlessly. Its not fair to get perfect feminine bone structure
>>5203716
it's not fair to be trans, what can ya do?
>Still turned off by the idea of a penis
So is she, most likely. Trans women are as uncomfortable with their penises as the men that date them should be. She'll get rid of it eventually. You just have to be patient.
>>5203263
This is the only right answer.
>>5203254
imagine that you are in the matrix...there is no penis
but in all seriousness, thumbs up to to you for not dumping her for being trans. I was worried my current bf would be turned off of me since im pre-op, and our sex life would be terrible. He was very uneasy at first, but he really gets off on pleasuring me and making me feel amazing. So he gradually warmed up to it, because he loves what him playing with it does for me.
so if you like her, and want to have fun sex just experiment with eachother. make sure you are open and communicate about anything that you want to try, or makes you feel uncomfortable. Just keep an open mind and hopefully you and your gf can have some super awesome sex.
>>5203921
She wants me to do nothing with it. Most of the time she's more okay doing doggy or back towards me positions but yesterday I turned her around and fucked her missionary. It was pretty hot, minus the penis flopping around. Ah well it seems to be more mind over matter.
>>5203254
Have her look up info on how to tuck her penis inside her body (actual thing), then have anal sex with her while wearing a thong. You might as well get use to having anal sex 'cause even after she has surgery she's going to prefer it some times. A lot of transwomen do.
Also, she can always suck your dick.
>>5203254
>Meet a girl
>Ends up transgender
Whoa whoa whoa how about some explanation here. What caused the mental breakdown?
Sounds like you found a winner. Just love her as the beautiful woman she is and be there for support. Operations can be difficult for anyone, especially genitalia surgery!
>>5204410
>everything about her appearance is feminine except the penis
>explicitly not attracted to the penis
>not straight
cartman logic
fuck her boipussy
>>5204047
>tuck her penis inside her body
>actual thing
Dafuq am i reading?
>>5203275
>don't post her picture to 4chan
New here, friendo?
>>5204410
>>5204470
>Implying you can change sexuality
>Implying dating a ftm tranny would be considered straight.
Nope, still straight. If it looks like a girl, feel like a girl, walks and talks like a girl it's a girl.
>>5204582
You didn't know about it? With proper technique you can completely hide a penis by pushing it inside. It is kind of like a sock pretty much. You flip it inside out as you push it in. You need to use proper technique or else the bulk of the penis will want to stick to the skin sock.
>>5204781
I have literally never heard of this. can you please elucidate?
>>5204781
holy shit wtf m8 that actually works, my thingie just dissapeared if I pushed it in and held my finger over it
>>5204823
I don't know how to describe it. You just have to feel around as you push it in. Be careful, specially if you have long or sharp nails since you can easily hurt yourself.
>>5204903
Back when I used to masturbate I would always press and rub with my fingers on it while it was pushed in. I didn't even know there were other ways to do it for the longest time.
>>5204921
>Back when I used to masturbate I would always press and rub with my fingers on it while it was pushed in. I didn't even know there were other ways to do it for the longest time.
Same here, didn't realize that wasn't how you were "supposed" to do it for a while. However
>when I used to masturbate
do you just not masturbate at all what the fuck
>>5204684
So would dating an FtM be straight then?
>inb4 he doesn't answer
>>5204934
Sex drive dropped after hrt so I don't really masturbate on a regular basis.
I haven't masturbated in like a year and that was the only time out of the previous 3 years.
>>5204934
I'm 7 months in and only masterbate ever 2 weeks or so, i don't get erections unless I force it anymore, its great : )
>>5203254
MtF here
Ages ago I had a male partner that totally ignored what was in my crotch area. He knew there was a dick there, but we still had a 3.5 year long relationship that included sex from before we officially started dating. It was helpful that breast, ear, and foot stimulation could bring me to orgasm. As for his being straight, some doubted it, partly because of me, but also from other incidents in his past. Thing is I was reasonably OK with my dick being used sexually. I just can't thrust unless I want to court mild depression. So he could easily have gone down on me orally, but never did. I know he did with his wife. We had many three ways, and some 4 ways when her lover also joined. Also he never did anal sex. I think his objection was religious. I had done anal before, but I had stopped doing it during the previous year. I likely would have been OK with doing it with him. I really really liked him.
>>5205646
>I just can't thrust unless I want to court mild depression
Oh hey, me too. That, and oftentimes a greasy traumatized feeling, almost like I've been molested.
>>5205695
>greasy traumatized feeling
I've felt that way up to days later. I likened it to feeling violated as in raped. Sucks. I used it as a topic at the start of an EMDR session. Good riddance.
>>5203254
she likes it as little as you do. Just fuck her in the ass, enjoy the blow jobs and ignore it.
