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Do you prefer to be the sub or the dom?
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Do you prefer to be the sub or the dom?
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dom dom so much dom

I have all this pent up energy to use up and it goes nowhere. It's unbelievable how aggressively horny I get. I fucking wish I was into hookups, but I really just want to date a guy and focus it on him.
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Dom ass nigga

I will not stand idly by while my ass gets ploughed, no, I plough you sir, I plough you.
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Neither, I'd hate being forced into certain role in relationship and I'm not into roleplay kinks like that.
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I actually only like being bottom, but I still want to dom sometimes, just as long as I'm still the one getting his dick.
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Sub because I want to beg my bf to let me cum
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Sub. My dick is trash and I'm very anxious about my performance when I do top. I'm too hung up on not cumming too soon, or losing my boner to actually be a good lay, even if I had a decent sized dick.
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>>5173580
>66% Top
>33% Bottom
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>>5173704

I feel ya. I got a 6-inch dick but I couldn't top for shit since it's too sensitive and penetrating anything with it feels like overstimulation and gives me almost no pleasure. I can be dom in other ways, though.
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Sub. Although I'm dominant and generally perceived as intimidating. I'm pretty strict with values as well. I like to express a more submissive side through sex I guess due to being competitive and strict normally.

>>5173741
Every time my dick gets wet with saliva when receiving bj my erection goes down and I have problems staying hard and getting off. Am I the only guy on the planet like this?
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>>5173836
Idk I just only fantasize myself as submitting yet when it comes to sex I'm not the one to hookup.
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Sub bottom most of the time, but when im in a wicked mood i looooove powerbottoming.

Nothing better than riding your top and smearing pre all over his faggoty lil chest <3
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>>5173589
>tfw no bf like this
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>>5173836

I'm not like that. Even though I can't penetrate, oral is fine as long as it's gentle. If you're losing your erection surely you just don't find it sexy? I don't even lose my boner when I try and shove my dick in things it just feels really bad.
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100% bottom
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>>5173580
Sub, I love having my butt ploughed by some strong masculine man, especially because it means he likes me and cares about me
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>>5173580
Sub

>gf is also sub
>both wait for the other to initiate anything
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>>5173580
Depends. If a male is reserved and sentimental, then I'd take the position as the Dom. Otherwise, I'll certainly like to be the Sub, I wouldn't mind being a professional stay at home house husband.
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I wanna be a dom and im a really masculine guy who takes estrogen for fun desu but people keep calling me a girl and grabbing my hair and calling me cute and pressing their feet on my face ;~;
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I want to be dom but I have only been with other dominant people. Im really shy and innocent looking so I guess submissive people are not likely to be attracted to me.
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>>5174003

You sound perfect to me, Anon. Maybe look for people who are only mostly sub? They might find someone who doesn't look dom more appealing.
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>>5173924
Hah, lesbianism is so inferior. Why not just get yourself a man, you're just doing it for attention you useless whore. Why can't you get a man? To ugly?
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>>5173580
switches get bitches
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I didn't have any relationship or sexual experience before this year, but by experimenting with myself and shit I thought I'd rather fuck than be fucked.
That said, I like being dom more. Maybe it's 'cause of some masculinity thing or something. I like being top and I mostly like being dom when I'm getting down, but I'm still a lil' sloppy because I'm kind of just learning sex stuff.
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100% yaoi seme

I never let anyone top me, I seek out younger cute ukes and fuck them in the pussy like God intended.
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>>5173589
just give it time anon, you will find a nice guy
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>>5173992
>im a really masculine guy
>who takes estrogen for fun
>people keep calling me a girl
Anon, than kind of shit normally doesn't happen.
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>>5174285
Yeah it totally does. Taking estrogen and growing my hair and being legally female is just a hobby. I am a normal manly man and can kick anyones ass rly. But they usually poison my food or something cause when i fight back my muscles are weak and they just grab my wrists and slam me into a wall and pound me until i scream and come

Cheaters
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>>5174453
Hello Handsome Husband
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>>5174281
This is rape.
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>>5174464
u wot
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>>5173897

>especially because it means he likes me and cares about me

You're the kind of sub I want.
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>>5174498
a lot of us think this way
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>>5174492
It's necessary rape!
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>>5174562
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>>5174281
>claiming to be a yaoi seme
you must be some lanky mofo
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I prefer to do less work
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>>5174492
It's for women and women love rape.
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>>5173992
>fun
>FUN
>literally poisoning yourself with ladyjuice
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>>5174496
Tranny meme
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Sub here.

I haven't had much experience with other guys, dated another guy that was in his mid thirties a few weeks ago for the first time (im 23). Was really fun.

>sometimes he would tie up my hands and feet if I asked.
>position me in all sorts of different ways, running his hands all over me.
>nearly got to anal multiple times, but he would always pull surprise dom acts on me unexpectedly, which made being clean in advance for him difficult to judge.
>everytime he'd start to play with my ass, I'd love it, but he was never patient enough to let me go take care of myself first, and never ended up giving me the D like I wanted.
>he also had major erectile dysfunction that would kick on randomly and he'd go soft.
>I feel like a huge slut for that being one of the secret main reasons I dumped him.
>tfw when he was still a great guy, just not what I needed sexually.

Anyone know the best way to find a local dom for myself so I can be some man's fem boy slave =b?
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>>5174754
If you suffer from ED your only fate is being the bottom every time ;D.

Seriously then it doesn't matter.
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>>5173882
Oh that surely causes me to lose boner ( shoving my dick in things that hurt ). I maybe don't like it, Idk after I received BJ I just can't get very hard anymore or maintain erection for long time.

It just kills.
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>>5174791
Yeah well worst part was since he kept getting soft, I offered to top for him, but I was also too big for him, so I couldn't get fucked, and he couldn't be fucked. Just a miserable time... he was also more sub than I would have liked.
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I'm a muscular manlet power bottom.

I like taking dick but I also like having all of the control during sex.
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Been in a three-year dom/sub relationship as sub.

Been in two relationships before that as dom. Or rather, as the top, since we did not really have kinky sex.

Now I am 27 and want to plough some young ass, spank it, and tie up some young whelp who wants to be used and abused.
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>>5174754

>tfw who gets hard easily and pretty much whenever I want to

I can't imagine losing that. Gonna keep eating right & working out to keep that going even into my 30s.
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>>5174920

woops

*>tfw dom top who
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>>5173611
Sub found
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i'm a ftm seme and life is hell
at least I'm good at rope bondage and psychological domination,,,,,
>tfw no dick
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>>5174884
>Raises hand

Kik me: Satanas17
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>>5174635
>>5174658
I aint no tranny you fuckin faggots im a masc cis male top now bend over for my cock and dont you dare slap me to the ground then pull my head up by my hair and fuck my face

>>5175102
Hey bb
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>>5173580
sub

I want to be tied up and fucked.
My bf isn't really into bondage for some reason, saying it would hurt my skin and such (even though he's into anal).
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>>5173580
>do you want to be the one that treats your partner as your lesser or the one that surrenders their self-worth to sate a manchild's petty desire for power
every time gay men ask this its all i can think
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>>5175388
The second one
Duh
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>>5175229

Statistically we are not in the same country, and I have no interest in online bullshit. I did that when I RP'd on IRC 10 years ago.
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>>5175235
>lewd
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>>5173580

>Being the dom
Following the standards of yaoi, the heteronormative traditional gay family values for good concervatives. The dom or Seme, as wise people with a high level of literacy call it, needs to be a fairly muscular, taller, darker, handsome guy, with a cool laid-back attitude, warm personality, somewhat outgoing and respectable, supportive and protective of loved ones. That is what earns you the right to dom. When the seme fucks the uke it displays how alpha and manly he is.

>Sub
The uke is about beauty, softness, good natured, perhaps even naive, fragile, like a delicate flower, flowering youth. When the uke gets fucked it is all about accepting to be worthy of these high ideals, becomming the flower, that is why the legs open up and they take their arms behind their head grabbing the pillow. It is also a sign of submission, not just to the seme, but to the design of male sexuality. The little cute ones always gets fucked.

I can't be uke because I'm to seme, it would be blasphemy for me to bottom. Uke and seme is like yin and yang to masculinity, for a seme to bottom is like taking the yin and shitting on it. I believe that the degeneracy of lgbt is what has made people hate gays, if they had followed the old teachings and done yaoi like it should be we would be right back to the acceptance of old greece. Where we now have to rely on old jewish religion for a system that keeps the nasties in check.
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>>5176215

You are really taking things to another level
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>>5173711
1% plankton?
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I'm submissive outside the bedroom. But Dom when I fuck. It's weird. If I go out with someone we do whatever they want. Doesn't matter to me. And I'm more interested in hearing what they have to say then talking. When we fuck tho its all about me. I like being in total control. I just think I know how to fuck better than they do or something. I don't even give head
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>>5174498
Cuddle me and tell me I mean something to you and I'll let you do anything
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>>5176955
1% (Mg,Fe2+)2(Mg,Fe2+)5Si8O22(OH)2
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>tfw sub top
>tfw power bottom bf
>tfw we both make 70k a year

Life is good.
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>>5174265
I do it to make fun of men, I can see the toddler-esque rage on the doughy faces of every boy in the room bubble to the surface whenever me and my 6.5/10 gf give each other little peck on the cheek, or a hug that lasts a little too long. I don't even like girls lol
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>>5173580
Dominant/top

All my fantasies revolve about doing something with someone, instead of it being done to me, with a few exceptions.
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>>5178803
What's wrong with being a sub senpai?
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>>5173580
Dom.
Whether I'm on my knees sucking cock, biting the pillow taking it deep and hard or fucking a pretty boy on the kitchen table, I'm the one in control.
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>>5173580
>South Park launches tweek x craig episode about same sex experimentation.
>Takes a break for one week.

They're looking for the internets reaction. If I made some plgbt art disguized as tweek x craig, with them hanging feminists, would you help me make it go viral?
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>>5178786
Yeah, it is insulting, it is insulting that you think we fall for it, when we know you're faking it.
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>>5181513
I thought it was funny as hell. The parents are so willing to support whatever in order to not be ostracized that they didn't even know what they are supporting. That and how everyone was super into Craig and tweets relationship. Much like how girls at school practically follow gay guys.
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>>5174453
What
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>>5178839
I'm the opposite.

All my fantasies is about other guys topping me and leading me.

I guess that makes me a bottom/sub wannabe
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>>5174453
this is so funny i'm going to commit triple suicide
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Dom when I feel good.
Sub when I feel depressed.
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i enjoy literally everything about being a sub and am told i'm quite good at it
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>>5173580
Sub only
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>>5173580
Sub.

I want to be tied up, used and abused until I'm broken.
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i'm dominant.

especially when it comes to teen boys.
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>>5173580
110% sub, I want to be put in a collar and be abused and disciplined into being the perfect servant and pet. ;-;
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like 90/10 sub, idk but when someone grabs me by the waist and pulls me close i lose it
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>>5173580
Honestly prefer to be a sub, but I'm a top at heart. It doesn't work too well in the sack.
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Subish, I guess. I don't like to take the lead, and I like girls that are taller and stronger than I am
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>>5178664

Fuck, I'm jealous. Where's my sub top and sweet monies?

>>5183619
Maybe you just need a qt guy to pin you down and ride your dick, Anon
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>>5184091

Assuming you're male. I forgot I wasn't on gaygen for a second.
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>>5176215
This sounds close to how I think of things. What do you think of mtfs?
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Sub, arousal doesn't even make me want to fuck something anymore. I just start to squirm, breath heavily and cry a little because nobody's holding me.
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>>5184139

>tfw you're a dom and you start to get restless and angry because you have no one to hold.
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>>5184428
It's no good is it? I used to make laugh at people who got this worked up over being lonely so I guess it's karma. It takes a lot of work to get to sleep at night.
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>>5173580
Thread is women.
Did you learn nothing about homosexuality from Tweek x Craig
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>>5184536
SHUT YOUR FUCKING WHORE MOUTH LESLIE
I learned how to love again
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>>5184132
Futas are mostly vers. If not, what would be the point, right? But there are a minority of gendered ones as well, I refer to the uke as a dickgurl and the seme as a full grown cockwoman. The rule is that dicklets can't be cockwomen. diggbicks can't be dickgurls.

Also, the role of the futa is also decided by the male bf. Oh, and dickgurls can't have girlfriends, unless they're an ugly Hon, because then they fit right into the lesbian crowd anyways. If the bf has a smaller dick then the futa is the cockwoman in the relationship and has to fuck his prostate every night. If the man is diggbick then the futa has to mostly bottom. If they're evenly matched they have to mutual fuck and 69.
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I prefer to sub, and that's how I have sex everytime.
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>>5185700
RUHRPOTT
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>>5185760
What?
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>>5185830
A pity, so you are not in Germany?
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>>5173589
FUCK YOU

You know that's exactly what needy subs like me want, but you taunt us anyways
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>>5185862
Sorry anon
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Is it weird that I want to sub, but don't want to do anal? Like I'm open to most of anything else, but anal seems weird and dirty.

Fuck sex in general, it's like a punishment from God.
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>>5186460
I don't know how you could want to sub without wanting to do anal.

I'm borderline neurotic with desire wanting to get fucked when I'm with a top. Grabbing your ass, bending you over pulling your pants down, licking you taint, rubbing your boypussy with their fingers, feeling intense heat building up inside you, aching to feel them inside you balls deep. Making your little cock twitch, eyes glaze over, moaning as use you like a cock sleeve.

Can hardly contain my subby self.
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>>5186495
desu I just prefer oral

Also there are scientifically no sexy words for asshole. Boypussy is possibly the creepiest word I can think of
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>>5186613
Wait why did I type desu before that?
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>>5186621
t b h turns into desu now
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>>5185566
Well that info is on a picture so it must be true.

Is there seriously anything links about these studies or what?
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>>5186783
testing, desu
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>>5186460

Nothing wrong with that per se. I want to top but don't want to penetrate. Anal really isn't dirty, though.
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>>5187376

Uhh, I mean I want to dom but not penetrate. Obviously topping involves penetrating.
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>>5186789
Ever take a huge shit and get goosebumps? I bet you don't always get that when you just shart out a small log

We don't need it, it is objectively true, big things in small butts reaches prostate easier. Dummy.
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>>5188644
why does that make me so horny
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Switch master race
I mostly dom/top but have no problem sub/bottoming
I just cant find the right person to switch with me
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>>5178663
Underrated post. Well played, anon.
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>>5183589
And I'd want to do that, depending on what you are in meatspace.
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I'm a dom, for sure. I adore cute lettle fem guys, or if the guy has the more "classy/reserved" feel, thats fun too. I'd love to carry a nice cute femboi to my bed and snuglle the fuck out of him, just to warm him up, then make him do "things" for me. haha

He could even use my chest as a pillow after.

Pic related, I'd destroy him.
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>>5189059
I was just about to post the opposite of what you said

Have a guy carry me to his bed, then cuddle with him & be made to do lewd stuff
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>>5189059
I'm with you, but I like regular cute guys as well.
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>>5189083
Heh, well princess, where abouts do you live? I'm in the US, near the great lakes.

>>5189094
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And here is the pic I was gonna post.
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>>5189103
>And here is the pic I was gonna post.
>tfw my last 5 or so masturbation session was literally just emo twinks doing lewd stuff
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>>5189103
England, the UK has so many subs for some reason.
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>>5189118
Haha, "Free" was an alright anime. Any yeah, twinks in general are god tier. I feel like they are the cute defenseless little vulnerable sheep, and we are the wolves. haha
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>>5189126
Lucky, only Doms round here...
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>>5189126
Germany here. So close and yet so far away.
Operation sealion when?
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>>5189059
>Guy that I'm laying in bed with jokes that I have a voice "like a news reporter" how "talkative but proper" sounding I am
>Makes me submit to his needs for over an hour
>Teases me for my "news voice" again while fucking me because I moan like a bitch.
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>>5189141
The American doms will defend us and then you'll both fight and the winner takes us as the prize
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>>5189127
>Haha, "Free" was an alright anime.
>Erection in progress: the anime
That show was my guilty pleasure.
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>>5189146
note to myself:
look up wrestling porn
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>tfw mouthy, tough twink-ish qt has joined my circle of friends

My friend says his style reminds her of some kind of J-fashion. His interests are traditional "manly" things,(cars, boxing and shit like that) but not in a way that feels like it's overcompensating. He's so little and cute looking that it's precious. I just want to cuddle with him and watch action movies.
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>>5189168
b-bully him for me pls
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>>5189146
Heh, I'm down for that war! Lets go, Deutschland! THE BATTLE FOR TWINKS!
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>>5189192
>Implying fat manlets will have a chance against the German Ãœbermensch
1,90m reporting in
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>>5189180
I want to bully him gently

with my dick.
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>>5189200

Maybe I will join your side. I already have the uniform. And fuck you haha, I'm not fat.
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>>5189206
w-wew lad, looking good there

Some day I will go to America and get me one of these.
Also planning to have my great-grandfathers ww1 officer's uniform commissioned. That one I might be able to wear freely.
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>>5189132
I'm in bottom/sub land. We should trade places.
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>>5189215
That would be cool. I have a bunch of WW2 stuff... For reasons.

And WW1 stuff looks nice.
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>>5189206
>>5189215
>And fuck you haha, I'm not fat.
Germany also has an obesity problem.
We are both healthy-looking lads in fat countries, mate.
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>>5189226
Surrounded by fatties.... Lets join forces and escape to twinkland. They need our dominance.

>>5189220
I hope they'd be ready for me. :D
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>>5189280
>Lets join forces and escape to twinkland.
Where would that be?
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>>5189292
Fuck if I know....any store that sells sweets, stuffed animals or slimfit clothing?
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I am a sub, but I like topping now and then. I really like being tied up and defenseless.
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>>5189392
I could never see myself bottoming. I'd just want to snuggle/fuck/ take care of a cute little sub and have a LTR with them. Im a romantic...I know its sickening.
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>>5189418
>tfw top and romantic as well
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>>5189443
Very much so. Short term relationships and hookups are pointless.
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>>5189454
I feel the same.
Also I am still a virgin desu.

>top and virgin
fugg :DDD
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>>5189474
Well, I'm a pretty experienced top, with both men and women. Though, I much prefer males. Heh, maybe I could "show you the ropes" of topping. ha
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Switch top master race

>>5174853

L O N D O N
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>>5189206
Fucking hell WWII uniforms are hot.
I don't even like war, stupid waste of resources, but damn do those uniforms look good.
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>>5189481
>Not sure who wants to put what in who's butt

>>5174853
that ... sounds strangely intriguing
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>>5189509
Well, I have more experience, so I'm the giver.

>>5189507
War is necessary.
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>tfw sub only
>have a 8 1/2 dick
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>>5189569
>Well, I have more experience, so I'm the giver.
But I'm an exclusive top desu senpai.
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>>5173589
I'm a sub and I want this... Although I also like to switch it up because options :)
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>>5189583
Don't think so, princess....
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>>5173589
Jesus same here. I don't know how to let it out, honestly. It's to the point that I have issues at work sometimes even. X_X
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>>5189204
do it faggot etc. etc.
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>>5189593
>tfw I just want to be in relationship with another guy, no random hookups
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>>5189643
Unless you've invented a way to stick my dick through a laptops, I'd hardly call teasing some random guy "hooking up". Stop reaching.
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>>5189682
>Implying I implied that
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>>5185566
I like your outlook, relationships should be balanced in terms of masculinity/domination and femininity/submission.
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>>5189689
Ugh, well, I'd said something similar previously ITT. So, you can see why I's put 2 and 2 together...
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>>5173580
sub, b/c I'm a transgirl
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>1000% sub
>every single guy i've been with except one is either sub or "vers" at best
>tfw

why aren't there more doms around here
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>>5189865
Seeing posts like yours always gives me hope that I will find some guy who is okay with being a total sub. thanks :3
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I always pretty much have been 100% sub but it comes with a fat asterisks where I like to wrestle and fight for dominance anyways. I like when I can fight back and get close to overpowering them then get tossed down and owned hard.
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>>5189885

you can't? fuck knows where you must live, this place is FULL of them.
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>>5189896
I'm in Germany and to be fair, I'm not actually looking atm.
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>>5189865
>>5189885
>>5189892
>>5189896


After reading this tread, I'm pretty confident that some natural powers have segregated the top/bottom community....

Lets break some borders.
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>>5189926
I'm down, I haven't ever really met a good dom before I'm in Northern California.
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>>5189926

it might be because subs might not be as extroverted in the places where they go to meet people. idk

I know I personally don't go to many places where the more confident, dominant people hang out, but that's for several reasons.
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>>5189944
>tfw no introvert boyfriend
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Legit question here for all the doms in this thread.

I'm a sub who is great at talking but I'm heavily into science and mathmatics which seems to, as I continue on my path, make me more and more socially awkward. How am I supposed to approach/catch the interest of a dom? Also how am I supposed to signal that I'm willing to be a sub? Whenever a really dominant personality comes near me I just kinda get really quiet and a little embarrassed so it's hard to talk about much until I'm sure they aren't interested in me in any way beyond conversation.
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>>5189953

i've had introvert bfs before, and i find it doesn't work so well when there's two of you. extrovert bf? do want.
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Is anyone else here really nice on the streets but dom in the sheets? I'm kind of introverted but I turn very controlling during sex.
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>>5189970
well yeah, I guess I know what you mean. I usually am the one who keeps the conversation going with other introverted people.

It rustles my jimmies.
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>>5189970
it depends. I'm introvert my boyfriend was extrovert but we aren't together now. He liked taking drugs and going to parties but I would rather chill indoors and play table games. So we were just too different to be together. Whereas an introvert would rather chill out inside like I would. It would work better I think
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>>5190003
>I'm introvert
>chill indoors and play table games
hnnngg please be my bf
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>>5190012
>>5190003
I would love nothing more than just chilling with my bf on the coach, cuddling and watching a movie or a series together.
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>>5190012
Cute. I'm a single Denver anon but we can be homies if you want to. I don't really do long distance. It's sweet that you say that even though you have no idea what I look like lol
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>>5190003

maybe, i'm not sure. my last bf we literally did nothing but sit in the house every night we hung out watching movies and occasionally having the odd drink; I feel like maybe he got bored with me because he wanted someone more outgoing, though I might be making excuses to feel better about getting dumped there, so i'm not sure.

>>5189995

it's better than having two people sitting around awkwardly forever, I guess though.
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>>5190062
Saaame here.
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>>5190086
The atlantic ocean seperates us. :\

>>5190100
<3
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>>5189932
>California

Well, there's your problem right there. Nothing in Cali but weak spineless Liberal chumps.

>>5189944
That raises the question, where should I find a cute sub?

>>5189963
The first thing I pick up on is your mannerisms, and sorry to say if you get quiet, I'm going to take it as a sign you aren't interested. Do "cute" things but dont overdo it. Like....stand just a slight bit closer if we are sharing a computer screen or book, compliment my jacket or stuff like "Oh wow, your tall!". Just stuff like that.

Just be natural, sweets.
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>>5190151
>Nothing in Cali but weak spineless Liberal chumps.

Ahem.
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>>5189963
>>5190151
this

drop at least a hint that you are interested
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>>5190159
Sorry, but it's true. You'll find the more "average, top" - or a guy who doesn't fit the gay stereotype, tends to be a bit more conservative about things. Make him happy, buy him an NRA shirt or boxing tickets. Or, maybe a romantic hunting trip to make you BOTH happy.

>>5190162
You know the struggle.
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>>5190151
Thanks for the advice, what type of things do you do to signal your own interest? I'll try the complimenting and stuff like that. I live in northern california so there is alot of rednecks but they're all part of the kkk. The rest are as stated spineless wimps.
>>5190162
What's a hint?
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>>5190184
Hm, well... Just first off be natural. Nothing more attractive than a femboi who is TRYING to hard. Do things like... pull his coat to get his attention, act interested in his personal life, and always smile when he looks at you. Those are all strong little hints.

Also, make sure he is gay. You risk physical repercussion if he is a Klansman.
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>>5190199
>Nothing more un-attractive than a femboi who is TRYING to hard

Edit. I hate it when typos make typographical sense...
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>>5190151

gee, I really dunno. All the ones I know tend to just hang around on the Internet and when they go out they all kinda travel in introvert packs.
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>>5190183
>Or, maybe a romantic hunting trip to make you BOTH happy.
Don't make me feel, senpai. It's not possible to do that in Germany.

Sometimes I wish I was born in America.
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>>5190210
>tfw not part of an introvert pack
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>>5190199
Yeah see that's a major problem here, and I'm not exactly a femboi. I mean I like to bake and make candies, I got long ass hair, short too. But I got a fat red beard and I generally try to keep my personality when meeting new people neutral.

What hints do you give when interested in a sub?
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>>5190242
I smack their little butt, or I'll tell them they smell nice, or hold doors for them etc....

But yeah...bead? No. Shave it off. Beards will kill any cute face instantly. I like cute subs, not viking war-lords...

>>5190211
Ha, you can still go fishing or camping, hun. Blowing out deer hearts isn't mandatory for nature activities.

>>5190210
Well go hang with the extroverts then? I' fairly extroverted...
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>>5190398
>Ha, you can still go fishing or camping, hun. Blowing out deer hearts isn't mandatory for nature activities.
Yeah, but we don't have big untouched forests in Germany. Or at least not anywhere near me.
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>>5190423
Hmm... well I'll tell you what, do you have Skype?
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>>5190423
>Yeah, but we don't have big untouched forests in Germany
Look, Germanon, I know you're being all "cute subby boi" right here, but you know that you could have checked that fact out, right?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_national_parks_of_Germany

You have 15 national forests. Go to one, with that dominant man you fancy, and get it done. You owe it to yourself.
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>>5190535
I'm not sure if he was being "cute subby", but it just seems he lacked forrests withing a reasonable distance from himself...
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>>5190535
>I know you're being all "cute subby boi" right here
Well fuck, I didn't want to come over this way. Well luckily this is all still anonymous.

>>5190533
Ehh, I am not the "cute subby boi" you think of.

>Go to one, with that dominant man you fancy, and get it done. You owe it to yourself.
I'm going to look into the Kellerwald-Edersee and the Eifel. I doubt they are very big, but maybe I'll be surprised.
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>>5189831

you don't have to be a sub just because you're a transgirl...
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>>5173580
Exclusively sub. Unfortunately everyone who is ever interested in me is also a sub. There cant be two cooks in the kitchen and I cant clean up the house if its already clean. It just cant work.
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For fucks sake, ARE there any cute sub bois here?

And emphasis on cute. If you are a 300lbs video game freak with bad hygiene, that doesn't make you "cute and nerdy". Come on femboys, out with ya.
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>>5190604
>>There cant be two cooks in the kitchen and I cant clean up the house if its already clean. It just cant work.

Ahahah!!!
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>>5190605
>femboys
I like femboys too, but as far as I'm concerned regular cute guys are just as good from my perspective.
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>>5190618
As long as a guy is more cute or subby than e than its good....I just have a soft spot for blond femboys with cute mannerisms...
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>>5190643
I am willing to go as far as regular-acting guys, as long as they are okay with me being a total top.
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>>5190562
>Well fuck, I didn't want to come over this way. Well luckily this is all still anonymous.
Good job, then. I didn't necessarily say stop, though.
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>tfw shy and polite irl but give a mean dick
>tfw no interest in bottoming
>tfw I worship the ground my bf walks on
>mention that I wouldn't mind fucking his brains out (only not as bluntly)
>tfw I think he was expecting to be on top
>tfw I think I scared him off
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Seriously though where the hell is this magical place where doms exist, I need one and I can't find any anywhere
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>>5190605

I'm fem but I like to power bottom as much as I like to sub bottom. Dunno if that counts.
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>>5190825
The dom / sub disparity is like 1 to 10. If you are not 100% grade A meat get used to never getting a dom.

I've grown to accept that I will always be alone. You should too.
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>>5190398
Gorram it! Damn my beardy genetics. It grows in super fast and it's really hard to fight off, I try to keep it short though.
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>>5173580
Sub 4 lyf. Please force me to dress up and suck your cock, daddy
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>>5190960
>Sub 4 lyf. Please force me to dress up and suck your cock
Damn right I wil-
>daddy
And you fucking ruined it. Can't you subs do fucking *anything* right? Fuck, this right here is why I don't have a pet right now.
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>>5190968
I can call you whatever you want. It's just that I usually prefer older men and that's what they usually want lol
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>>5190968
I'll call you anything you want. So long as you aren't one of those lame asses that only dom in bed.
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>>5190984
Like dom as well as loving sex and cuddling?
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>>5173580
Honestly I don't know. That choice was robbed from me when my brain decided it couldn't make choices without making my life a living hell. Since I cant make choices I'm kinda pigeon holed into being a sub.
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>>5190895
If you can keep it short... You COULD pull it off, with a matching attitude. Maybe no so "twink" and more "shy kinda cute".

>>5190976
I'm with top-bro. Don't call me daddy man...thats just...no...
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>>5190990
Cuddles are great. What I'm talking about are the guys that are in complete control in bed but then all that control bleeds away the second they hop out of bed.

It irks me to no end that they will sit there and claim to be a dom then say they have no interest in being in control.
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>>5191025
Ohh yeah. Please be a man for me <3
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>>5191001
it's up to the fucker, not the fuckee to call them. So... WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE CALLED? Sensei??? lol
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>>5190976
If you call me daddy one more time, there will be punishment. And not the fun kind. The "Master is extremely angry" kind.

>>5190984
Master, if you have earned the right. Sir at all other times.

And no, I lifestyle with my slaves.

Note: I'm >>5190968
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>>5191083
>And no, I lifestyle with my slaves.

If its true you will be the first I've met. I have yet to find a real dom near me. It''s so frustrating.
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>>5191098
I think it's pretty easy to find one, actually. But finding one that isn't a hulking mass of fat and balding? Maybe not.
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>>5191044
You wont have much time for calling me anything when your mouth is full, princess.
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I did 24/7 as an owner to a pet for over a year
I miss it
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>>5191105
Of the few doms I've found they are only interested in domming occasionally and having an equal relationship other wise or want a more one night stand thing that happens once or twice a month. I may just be unlucky but its disheartening since all I want is to take care of a guy and please him.
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>>5191121
how does this work with having a job? I imagine you both go off to work right?
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>>5191127
I went to work and she stayed home.
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>>5191143
>she

Its always she.
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>>5191156
Well she was mtf if that means anything
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>>5191156
where the gay doms at
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>>5191169
Right here...
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>>5191167
What I mean is everyone I've talked to even gay guys get weird at the thought of a guy staying home and not working.
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>>5191187
Hello :)
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>>5191189
Aahhh. I already had a job when I met her and I didnt mind her not working. Just like I wouldnt mind any pet of mine staying home and being cute
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I'm a sub. I'm pretty tall and built like an ugly cow and I have a small penis and I'm afraid no one will dom for me
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>>5191196
Hey, whats up?
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>>5191206
Well...you ARE pretty and clean looking...
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>>5191219
I think I'm in love.
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>>5191254
Yeah well that's because if I don't shower every day I smell iodine, ammonia, nitric acid or some god awful organic solvent on my sheets the next day. The rest of the time I'm too flustered from life to give a damn.
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>>5191267
Its a nice arrangement as long as I can afford it. And as long as my pet takes good care of me
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>>5191245
nothing much, just chilling with my aneros inside while eating some sandwiches haha
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>>5191285
Well once I do find someone I connect with I devote myself to them utterly. That connecting parts the killer though. Its hard finding a dom thats perfect for you but then realizing they just are not right for you in any other way.
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>>5191275
I see, I like you hair color.

>>5191297
>Aneros

I really shouldn't have googled that...
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>>5191328
lol it's just a toy
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Man, it really sucks being in Missouri. Really wish there were a lot more gay people to pick from :(
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>>5191340
The problems with bottoms and their toys is they usually want to use them on ME. It's hard from some to grasp that tops MIGHT not like getting fucked up the ass...
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>>5191377
I have no interest in fucking men. One guy wanted me to, and I tried, but I lost hardness trying to get it in lol. I stick to bottoming. Feels waaaay better anyway
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>>5191384
Haha maybe to you...what do you look like?
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>>5191377
Toys are embarrassing. I have two but I'd be mortified if anyone ever saw them and I rarely use them cause I just... Oh my I feel so unbearably salacious even talking about it.
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>>5191390
5'10", 132lbs, super skinny. some facial hair which people online seem to hate :<
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>>5191425
Show me...
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>>5191121
I didn't do that long, but I managed a few months. She was a student though, so she had responsibilities. As long as I was first, I didn't care. In return for her devotion, I made sure my interests and needs generally aligned with her schoolwork. I was her reward, she always did her work, and I allowed her to be near me. It worked for us.

Gods above, but she could suck a cock. Lots of practice, sure, but she was also a natural talent. I really want her back, but she did something I couldn't abide and banished her from my life for it permanently. She might be able to worm her way back in, if she really fucking tried, but I'd make her prove her devotion this time.

Lesson to all you subs: if you say you are devoted to your Master and he is kind enough to trust you, DON'T FUCKING BETRAY THAT TRUST. If you do, you get what you deserve.

>>5191098
For real? Shame. I rarely take them these days, takes too much money and my finances aren't great right now, so I can't actually afford my own place, which makes things extremely difficult (living with family sucks, even more when you have to take care of them).
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>>5191323
Yeah it all need to mesh pretty well to work. It cant be all about the sex

>>5191483
Mine ended when she realized that she loved me but didnt like guys as much as she thought. She couldnt give me the commitment I wanted
And I miss the sex too
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>>5191459
this is as good as it's gonna get on 4chan haha. also since it's a blue board
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>>5191112
oh hey adam, how'd it go btw?
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