who /nevercomingout/ here
>>6381540
count me in
>>6381540
I don't feel like it. I've obviously had interests in the whole sexual feeling, I just don't want to put in the effort to work my butt out.
Right now I'm fine putting my plug in the outlet... granted I could put it in a guy, but that can be done with a girl as well. If I wanted to have a homoerotic experience, I'd want it to involve what I wouldn't' naturally experience in straight sex (like being the bottom).
I've tried multiple times to put the ol' finger up there but was always greeted with great discomfort.
Long story short, I still have my penis, can sex with that. (sorry that my rant is nothing but sexual, just in that mood atm)
>>6381540
im a guy and kinda bi, but i usually prefer women. no point in trying to explain that to anyone.
>>6382563
pretty much this. and i do not have intention to do gay sex. I do not want disease.
>>6382623
id be open to it.
>I do not want disease.
use a condom?
>>6381540
Every time I try to, I pussy out. Welcome to the club I guess....
>HRT in secret for two years
>change name
>move to new country
>begin new life as a woman there
Yeah, my family probably thinks I'm dead.
>>6383651
God I wish I could do this. My father doesn't even think transfer people are real.
>>6383685
>transfer people
>>6383685
>transfer people
oh hon
>>6383691
>>6383694
Trans autocorrects to transfer. Who knew. I also suck at proofreading. I just got off work, I'm sorry, I work nights.
>>6383651
literally the same thing im planning to do
Everybody in my area knows I'm bi except my muslim MD. He's already tried to convert me to Islam, and I'm not comfortable telling him, I also suck dicks and hold hands with other men.
>>6381540
i'll come out as bi if i ever get a bf.
i'll come out as trans the day doctors can turn me into a cis girl.
>tfw will never acquire a realistic penis
I'm totally fine. :^)
family deeply devoted christians, dont hate gays but preach about it for days on end
FUCK that
>>6382563
bi guy also
>got a bf who just blew me away totally in love with him I assumed u couldnt love a guy like this
just cozying up to the idea of coming out as bi when he says he needs a break
So im just here... all totally not zen and now single or what the fuck ever
Glad i didnt bother coming out ffs :(
>>6383651
That's my dream
A question, was it hard to hide your body/mind? I fear they would discover im trans before i move out to a new city...
Never coming out, instead leaving during the night and moving and starting to transition, abandoning everything I know. :^)
>>6382563
What if you were only incidentally gay, like you like women, you have set with women, but there is a man you would let wreck your Ralph..... but he's not gay, and it would never work out even if you really love him?
>>6382623
Biscum detected
>>6381540
i'm asexual and never telling my parents
>>6381540
I'd like to, I was about to until a fucking muslim went about a shooting spree.
>>6384942
Hi sinead!!!
>>6384943
If you don't gay as hard as you can. The terrorists win. ...
I already have too much in my life to worry about. U don't need the disappointment of my loved one either. Which a mostly have already.
never coming out
never dating
and it looks like kissless virgin for the foreseeable future. this is the life i've chosen
>>6382640
>use a condom
might as well not even have sex.
>>6383691
>>6383694
>2016 Not being a transfer person
>>6386177
It's not the life that you chose, it's the life that chose you.
>older brother starts calling me gay and fag when im 5
>no clue what is
>finally lean a few years later
>"but I think girls are cute"
> still to this day 15 years later still called some form of faggot everyday
> Brush it off till i started noticing some boys were looking cuter than others
> NOPE
I dont intend on having 20 years of my older brother being an asshole be proven right
>>6386520
Self fulfilling prophecy.
>>6383651
>>6384125
>>6384849
The idea of a cute twink trying to hide his increasing feminity is a cheat for inducing boner.
Just imagine him accidentally exposing that sweet tender soft feminine body of his infront of other people by falling. Light skin on his cute smooth belly, silky long skinny legs, feminine noodle arms, and a scared shy increasingly red cute face, as he fumbles and tries to get up and fix his clothes.
Holy shit my boner.
>>6386584
Fuck you for doing that to me
>>6386584
Oh bby
>>6381540
49 people at pulse
>>6386665
>>6386540
They memed you into being gay.
>>6386584
Oh, god! Do people notice this about us?
>>6386771
Well fuck.. I wouldn't say Im gay though. More bi if anything, but still
>be repressed tranny
>get called a fag since forever
>be at bar with bro friends
>friend of bro friends who you've never met wants to buy you a drink, just you, not anyone of your other friends
>sperg out about how not gay i am and i don't want a guy buying me drinks
>he was almost crying
>feel guilty and stupid
>why am i such an asshole?
life
>romantically alone whole life
>only have one girl show interest in me, never really date though
>always considered myself straight
>never been insecure about sexuality
>loneliness progressing
>coming to /lgbt/ more often now
>read gay comics and find them hot, but can't imagine myself actually dating a man
>fantasize about sucking cock of twin boy
>swap dick pics on kik
What the fuck am I, /lgbt/? Is it possible to just wish yourself into bisexuality due to loneliness?
I've even recently started picking up buttplay while I jerk off and found that I enjoy it.
>>6387489
>twin
*twink
>tfw the closet becomes a repressioncave
>>6381540
If I came out it would give me more of a drive to transition. In order to transition and pass I'd have to get FFS.
Most people with FFS seem to look worse afterwords.
So I won't be coming out.
>>6387412
You just missed out on the love of your life.
Was he qt?
tfw trans and so deep in the closet that i wound up in Narnia and Aslan the lion made me go kill some frozen ice bitch
tfw will probably just kill myself at age 30
>>6388493
How long til then?
>>6388501
10 years. I think i'm just too much of a pathetic coward to transition, even though i'd turn out looking pretty okay.
>>6388506
What's stopping you
>>6388512
Meme magic.
>>6388512
Cowardice. I can't fathom the social transition. I can't imagine losing my family, or the stress it would put on my girlfriend, or deal with the constant worrying I would have over having made the right decision or not
>>6388516
Understandable
>>6388487
Wasn't really my type. Tried too hard to look slick and sound impressive. But, my perspective might be biased as I'm a total fucking ice queen.
>>6381540
Me!
>>6381540
Married, middle aged, morbidly obese MTF - what's to come out for?
Coping with low-dose E. Sort of.
>>6381540
i'm a wanna be transgirl whose only into transgirls and twinks
i think id rather kill myself than come out
Me.
I'm just so scared of everything related to being trans. Especially what people will think about it and how they'll judge me. I'll probably suicide before 30 but at least they won't think I'm a fag.
>>6381540
Get off 4chan fag
>>6386665
Too soon....
>>6386520
It's genetic son, he is also most likely a faggerieeno
>>6381540
pretty much this: >>6382563 plus add to that the thought of letting a dude have the power to break my heart is scary af b/c I can't "just do" casual sex. I always end up having feelings for the people I have sex with and letting a guy have the same power over me that women have had pretty much means I will probably never indulge any sort of gay relations. I'll just silently pine away for cute, small, mildly submissive gay acting guys (my gaydar is so fucked I have no clue who is actually gay).
>>6383674
not funny
>>6389171
>>6389108
can relate
30m and I do not like men.
I only feel like I can relate to women.
The girl I'll be most attracted to in a crowd or at a party will always be a lesbian when I go talk to her
Not opposed to sex with men, have tried it... just can't deal with what's attached to that equipment and I wouldn't like it if that's how it ended up. Had what would have been a good boyfriend (girly) and let him go because of that.
If anything I feel less sexual when I'm more dysphoric
I see my female side as a whimsical NEET, free to explore and pursue interests and love romantically. Maybe like a big sister I never had.
Know that transitioning will not solve my problems and both genders are still pretty awful. Also very lazy
>>6381540
As I tell people when they find out, "The one know don't care, and the one that care don't know."
>>6384849
Wasn't really hard for me. My family didn't really like me, so hiding my mind wasn't hard at all. Hiding my body was just a matter of locking the bathroom door and dressing heavy. Blessings of a cold country.
I stay closeted because I can stealth as a straight person pretty easily, and dealing with being seen differently isn't something I want to have to bother with if I can avoid it. I'll only bite that bite the bullet if I end up getting into a more serious relationship with someone of the same sex. I can put it off until then.
>>6390514
>Hey listen, we've been dating for a while so I want to tell you... I'm gay.
>>6386520
Similar story
>half brother hates me for living with our dad
>calls me a fag and picks on me literally every time he visits
>tbf I'm passive and non-confrontational so I take it
>"but girls are nice r-right?"
>doesn't matter, still get shit
>16 years and one tranny phase later am now a flaming homo
>I haven't talked to him in years and never intend to again
I don't want him to know he was right. At least I get the satisfaction of knowing his dependapotamus wife left him while he was on duty half a world away.
>>6390629
Might have to tell them I'm bi to be honest, it's not like I'd tell them anytime early in the relationship, gays are often weird about bi people.
>>6390514
i'm the same, i'll come out if/when i find someone who's worth it, being seen as straight doesn't really bother me
>>6389171
>i'm a wanna be transgirl whose only into transgirls and twinks
I'm MtFtFemboy. I'm mainly into transgirls and other femboys. Not into ciswomen at all. Somewhat rarely into masculine men. Fem4fem life is suffering.
Nobody has seen a pic of me and a girl in years so I'm sure they all assume im gay anyway.
>TFW Bisexual
>>6382640
I never had sex with condom. that is why would never do gay sex
>>6384924
I've been having this fantasy of having a beautiful wife and children and fucking pic related on cardio days
>>6390640
>big brother use to bully me and call me a fag when we were kids
>thanks to genetics I grew taller and stronger than him
>now I bully him and even got a gf before him
Now who's the fag you fucking loser. I hope he kills himself
>>6390724
Cheating is wrong anon
>tfw tranny
>lied to most of your family about having surgery, did it in relative secret
>still dress andro around some of them
>sometimes having secret wishes that some cute gay top would take you in all three holes
>>6390807
Yeah, it's a fantasy. I dont think I can go through with cheating. Im way too honest.
>>6386584
wwwow my dick did the thing
>>6381540
never coming out, unless I end up marrying a girl someday. even then , I might not.
>>6381540
I think I can do it, my family could accept it with time. But I think I'll keep it for myself, I don't want to be known "as a bisexual". It's my sexuality after all, not their.
>>6381540
50+ years old, 2nd marriage to cis female, love taking anal sex, would totally sub for a guy on ongoing basis if I could find one, but can only be in a relationship with a woman.
>>6381540
Reporting in
I'm from a Muslim country and almost everybody I know is a salafist Muslim
My parents already hate me for denying the Christian faith. Dont need to be shunned anymore. I dont need their validation so I'm waiting to legally change my name so I can be comfortable coming out as someone not part of that family
>>6395424
Strongly Bi. Like dudes n dudette equal amount. Dont mind if trans. Shits all good here man. Just need the name change.
>>6381540
What's the point, not like I'll ever get a bf. It'll pretty much be just exposing my porn preferences
>>6395445
How old are you?
Why have you lost all hope in finding love?
>>6395482
21 and because I have no baseline for friendship much less relationships. I just want companionship but know I have nothing to offer. The only reason why I'm not a robot at this point is because I can't find it in myself to be bitter and angry over being alone given its entirely my fault.
>>6395569
I can be your friend
>>6395569
We can give complementary brojobs my man
I've dated many girls nd even had some sexual relations with them. However, have strong feelings for one of my male friends and even fantasies about him, feels badman.
>>6381540
As a bi fag, most of my friends know, my gf knows but my parents do not and neither does society at large. As much as I like the D, I do prefer women slightly more and absolutely do not want to deal with the bullshit that comes with it. Which I already have when outing myself to random people. Why bother?
>>6395737
People just assume you are full on gay when you say bi too... and the gossip, Jesus, you know the older I get the more I think it's just no one's business. ...
>>6386584
>20, 2.5 years hrt and closeted because of insecurity and ridiculously high passing standards
>tfw this is pretty much my life
>>6395737
Same situation (mostly). Almost all of my family would be cool with me being gay, but even my very liberal mom and sister joke about how they think bisexuals don't really exist. Idk if they meant it but still...
if you live in the west and still can't come out (and there is only can't, no won't) you need to work on being more confident
My fag level doesn't seem high enough to make a big deal out of it yet. Despite my love of the penis, I've only been attracted to like 3 dudes and they were all twinks or borderline trans.
>tightknit latino senpai
>everyone lives in the some area
>super christian, like my uncle is the pastor of church we go to
>mom would be okay but has a big mouth so can't tell her
>cousin came out as les and got the shunned, threatened, everything you'd expect
>gf left husband for her, months later they break up but live together with ex-gf's bf... most likely is poly now among other things
>senpai knows this but is in denial and thinks she's straight again
>nobody talks about her but she does show up to family events but very lowkey
>mfw cousin fucked it up for me to ever come out
>>6382563
Basically this. Also being a tranny but gonna stay the femboy mode, so there's no point there either.
>>6384412
you should tell him, I'm sure he won't kill you.
>16
>gay
>tell mom over fone
>"hey, mom i'm gay"
>"ok"
>"could you pick up wendy's"
>"sure"
Five years and she hasn't mentioned my sexuality unless prompted. Feels good to live in Texas.
Generally I come out to all my friends and the people who know me.
I haven't told most of my family though. They probably wouldn't care but I don't want them to look at me weird or differently just because I like men as well as women.
>>6396849
>the more I think it's just no one's business
...it took you this long?
MtoF trans here. Really early memories of pretending to be a girl and openly speaking about it. Matured and learned to walk on eggshells and avoid the topic cause it made everyone act weird. Now they all assume I'm the straightest stick around. Only attracted to women and somehow am only able to forge true feelings for lesbians and bi people. Gaydar is on point but not helpful. Don't wanna become one of those freak show looking trans women(no offense) and not sure whether to take what I've been given or begin transition. Parents are super open btw.
>>6387489
the same for me, but I don't want to suck dick, I want to cuddle and have someone suck mine.
if only we could meet in real life anon
>>6388516
i don't get this fear of social transition, it was the thing i looked forward to the most
of course i didn't do it until i passed reasonably well
but just that sweet feeling of people knowing the real you, getting your real name and pronouns right
social transition is based
>>6387489
There's a name for people like you.
>me
>>6390717
Enjoy paying child support, you breeder cuck.
I came our today.
Shouldn't have come out today
:(
>>6408198
yeah, I did it once to my friend and immediately felt like shit
coming out is a meme
>>6393739
Salafist?
>>6399190
>cousin fucked it up for me to ever come out
Iktf amigo
>>6408216
This is a really conservative extremist branch of Islam.
>>6393739
Ouch
>>6389494
You mean very funny because the Orlando shooter was closet bi.
>>6381540
I feel like I've had one foot out of the closet for a while
I'm not really into guys but I'm into butt stuff ,
A couple girls know this so I imagine a lot of girls know this.
