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I was able to cum today using my fingers to message my prostate while Chasity caged. it dribbled then kind of spurt like water a bit, but not sure if the spurts were urine or cum, that part wasn't white but the dribble was. Will it get more intense with practice or will i only get a dribble every time?
>>1339727
this is pro-state massage, not prostate massage
>not sure if the spurts were urine or cum
I have a feeling anatomy works differently if you're caged, like how you can't urinate if you have an erection
>>1339767
>you can't urinate if you have an erection
i can urinate when i have an erection
>>1339721
I envy you. I've been tryin for years but was never able to cum via anal/prostate stimulation
>>1339727
loll'd so hard at this
>>1339767
I have, numerous times
OP here, I was doing it for about a week with the Aneros helix and all i was getting was pre-cum. I wasn't really feeling the "dime". I was getting frustrated so i decided to use my fingers when i did that I think I found the dime. the rubbing felt intense but it didn't feel like a orgasm release just like I was draining it.
I have used a toy on my prostate a handful of times. I'm basically the same. I can get rock solid and my dicks throbbing. All I produce handfree is precum. I have to jerk off to tip me over the edge, but so intense to jerk off and stop right before you think you'll cum and try to just use the toy.
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I think I will purchase some Zinc tablets tomorrow, I've read that it helps in turning your cum more white and thick. I also read a lot about contractions, all i did was push and tighten off and on, not sure when I needed to do which when so i just rotated between pushing and tightening.
I use a 5 inches bended dildo. I don't touch my penis at all when I use it. I could have multiple orgasms and leak precum like a faucet. I could fill a bottle with precum if I wanted. The good thing about it is it feels amazing. Like I could cum 20 times a day and still keep going. The bad thing is I don't cum, like no white stuff comes out. It's always just clear liquid. After playing with myself, I feel fulfilled and sated even though I haven't cum for real.
Should I still masturbate to let the cum out? Could I get prostate cancer if I don't?
>>1340059
You need to actually ejaculate, either from fucking yourself or just jerking off.
>>1340059
>Could I get prostate cancer if I don't?
Hmm. I wonder how many thousands of men have died from prostate cancer because their dried-out harpy wives cut them off cold.
I had a Helix with a condom on for 3 days straight. Now I'm shitting blood and I think I nearly developed a hemmorhoid.
>>1340176
That was dumb.
You probably caused a tear. If it's still bleeding tomorrow, go see a Doctor.
also, I have a Tantus O2 "uncut" dildo. (Diameter: 1.6"
Insertable Length: 6.4") Does anyone have one? It's my first dildo and it seems way too big for anal despite being the smaller model.
>>1340178
hopefully i'm fine
>>1340182
A tear will heal by itself, just stop playing with your ass and let it do its thing. Will probably be painful for a few days.
Persistent bleeding is a bad sign and should be checked out.
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>>1340176
I would get some hemorrhoid cream. if it persists after that hit the doctor up.. I never bleed more than 2 days in stool. I get a little bit of blood (mixed with lube) when playing but it goes away after about 3 minutes.
BTW, this lube http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-Relax-Desensitizing-Anal-Lube/dp/B0091PJDX0/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1459730998&sr=8-1&keywords=anal+lube works really well.
>>1340059
I think you should probably ease up on the prostate massages and stick to masturbating. And if that doesn't help, see your doctor. Just because it feels good, doesn't mean you should over-do it. Same with massaging your prostate; just because it feels good to rub it all the time, doesn't mean you should.. You can easily irritate it and cause an infection that may need to be treated by the doctor, him or herself. Be careful..
>>1340229
>desensitizing lube
to make things worse?
>>1340280
Of course not; it's so you tear yourself and don't notice until you need to be hospitalized.
>>1339721
>get close to an orgasm
>somehow lose control of my bladder and piss everywhere while ruining my chance of an anal orgasm after 2 hours of massage
>>1340506
Yeah that can happen. The prostate is right next to the bladder. I've had it happen during sex, which is fucking embarrassing.
Just piss before you get down to play.
>>1340059
I do this all the time too. Multiple orgasms, no ejaculation, just precum. I'd do it for hours some times and put a condom on my dick because I just leak so damn much.
From the comments here, now I know it's bad. Shit, I hope I didn't break my prostate or gave myself cancer.
Or is that even possible from excessive prostate massages?
>>1339721
I've had plenty of prostate orgasms where my whole body starts shivering and I generally can't even speak for a few minutes. Only a small percentage of those I have also actually came. For example
>super horny
>lube up, stretch out, stick big wallbanger dildo to headboard
>get on my knees and start working down the toy
>get into it and start riding along the full length
>complete bliss, moaning
>start to 'dry' orgasm, body goes into spasms
>fall forward face down on the bed, cant even sit up
>somehow reach back and grab my dildo
>slam it back inside me while laying on my stomach
>imstantly start one of the most intense orgasms of my life
>moaning, laughing, crying
>feel my ass squeeze the dildo
>finally start to come down
>sit up, realize I've been laying in a pool of cum twice the size of my normal load
Working on repeating the results, can't get it 100% of the time but getting there
>>1340520
There's very little risk to the prostate from solo play. Keep everything well lubed to stop any tears in your ass and ensure you rest that area every few days.
There's no link between anal play and prostate cancer.
>>1340525
Thanks, anon! 20+ orgasms, here I cum!
>>1339721
This. Anal orgasm every time. http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/61hhHvQaY0L._SY355_.jpg
>>1340525
There is an ASSociation of hpv and anal cancer though.
>>1340012
Uhhm, i'm gonna need some marinara for that gif
>>1340522
can u make a vid with ur face obscured?
>>1340563
True, but you should use condoms with people who haven't been tested and, if possible, get vaccinated.
>>1339727
Wait, this is wrong, 4 and 3 should be switched.
whats the best dildo/vibrator for this? I want to experience this so bad. I came while guys fucked me before but that was my dick rubbing on the sheets from the rough fucking.
It seems ever since i moved to the US guys are terrible. I miss my in the closet nation, where fucks were rough and good.
>>1339767
>like how you can't urinate if you have an erection
actually i can, and when you're pissing when you're hard, it's almost as good as cumming
and there's this fetish called piss-fucking, look it up
and how many times have you had morning wood and still managed to go?
super jealous of you guys that can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.
I've pretty much followed all the parameters, and I rarely feel anything. There was one time where I felt a tingling sensation in my upper chest, but then I got excited and it died down and i never experienced it again.
-I've got the Helix
-i've been super horny and loose
-i've put on the hottest porn scenes that get me going
-I wasn't touching my dick
-I was doing all the tantric rhythmic yoga breathing and shit
and after 3 hours I just started getting bored. It was just annoying lying there constantly feeling like its about to come but nothing happens, its like having to sneeze but the body stops you. I eventually get so bored that I just fap regularly. I get a decent sized load from it but I don't care about that I want the orgasm.
>>1340791
a lot of it is psychological. having a partner and doing some bdsm helps a lot.
>>1340791
Ya I was getting frustrated, but all the guides said to just keep doing it about 2-3 times a week,
>>1340791
you have to not jackoff constantly everyday.
go several days without orgasming or jacking off.
then when you try it you will see how easy it is.
>not exactly gay
>yet
Okay so how do I start with just fingers? there's just shit up in my arse like 2.5 inches in I think.
>>1340864
...so clean out your ass before starting to play.
>>1340360
so thoughtful
>>1340864
First off enma your ass out, I use a showerhead and if your on /hm/ and your a male don't lie to your self you are definitely gay, bi or curious, all is okay.
>>1340522
Wow that's hot.
>>1340864
this is what I use: http://www.amazon.com/Douche-Enema-System-Healthy-Vibes/dp/B00UG8PZKG/
keep using it until the water coming out is clear and not muddy (about 4 times for me) in the shower or over the toilet, keep the water medium (not hot!) wait about 2 minutes before sticking ur fingers up there.
The prostate will feel different from the other tissue, (like the tissue in your cheek; its the size of dime) if give a slight push like u would if shit (don't push real hard u'll hurt urself) the prostate will show itself. just keep contracting your anal cavity with ur fingers inside. Make sure to relax!! and it will start to feel real good ( you could stay in the shower with the water running to help u relax) you also want to be horny, maybe watch some porn before all this so its fresh in your mind.
this is how im doing it anyway, im a amateur at this still so...
When I fuck myself with whatever dildo like thing I find while standing upright in the shower I usually hit the prostate right away. It's the best orgasm I ever had, I don't want to play with my dick any more. When I'm fucking myself real hard I get shivers like I can barely stand on my feet, hot flashes going through my body and I start to moan involuntary, I just love feeling like a bitch being used :3
>>1340791
Maybe you just need a different toy. I use a curved dildo to achieve a prostate orgasm. I need the friction against my sphincter and prostate. And maybe you haven't found your prostate yet.
>>1340864
if you're just going to play with yourself then take some laxatives. then have shower. you should be clean enough for finger play then.
>>1341366
Me too. I don't want to touch my dick anymore because fucking myself is sooo good. and the orgasms are heaven. My body does things I never thought a guy could do. When I got my first sex toy, I finished a litre of lube in under a month.
Now I'm afraid of having sex because I don't think women would cut it anymore and I don't want to be too eager of a bottom bitch for guys.
i only use my spit as lube, is that enough? i can usually find my prostate and cum buckets, but would it be easier if i had some lube and a dildo ?
>>1341479
A proper lubricant is always going to make anal play easier. If you're going to use toys, get a water based one. Oil based lubes can slowly destroy certain toys.
>>1340522
Holy fuck, dude.
>>1340791
How often do you jack off? Maybe nofap for a week to make yourself really horny
>>1340360
>removing your ability to tell when youre hurt
>of course not making things worse
uhh...
>>1342158
>most men
source?
i think it is just you.
>>1342158
negro please
>he fell for the prostate orgasm meme
>>1339721
what's the best way to do it with just fingers? don't have access to a toy atm
>>1342465
standing up straight, start with middle finger feel around start doing a come here motion also slide left to right around with the finger.twith your bowels give a light push like you would if you were to take a shit, and then contract like you were holding in a shit, keep repeating this while fingering urself. when it got good i would lean my back against a wall and 2 fingers up and rub a little faster. U can rub, just don't poke.
>>1340522
How do you even dry orgasm
well, tried this yesterday and today... fail.
I fingered myself for about 5 minutes, my hand started to hurt from the strain (apparently I have short arms that don't reach my hole properly), decided I was too horny for this bullshirt, replaced finger with a dildo and fapped till cumming.
sigh. guess I'm never getting there.
>>1340587
Ay dios mios
ur autistic
>>1343576
you can use a dildo to milk yourself. You just have to aim it properly and use the correct length. And you need to learn to direct the pleasure to your prostate. Try getting hard with just anal stimulation.
>>1342516
I wanna say that dry orgasm is different than milking yourself.
ejaculating from being fucked with a real dick or a toy is different (manual/voluntary stimulation) than eliciting an orgasm with a toy like the Aneros.
Having a prostate orgasm from being fucked is pretty incredibly (seeing stars/limbs go limb etc etc) but with the aneros....if you can activate it to give you a dry orgasm, you have what is called a Super-O which is a consecutive stream (like a woman) of seemingly out of body experience level orgasms that resonate throughout all the erogeous zones on the body (back of ears/neck/armpit/nipples/back of the thigh/soles of feet) and can come continuously in waves for as long as 5 minutes. The problem is, you have to be incredibly horny (refraining from fapping for about a week) AND your body has to be use to shoving toys up your ass. Once you manage that part you have to completely relax the body and perform abdominal breathing exercises that involve flexing the abs and contracting the anus in a rhythm specific to your body. Also, everyone is different so you can't jut go online and follow someones tutorial, you have to figure out what works for you. You can't touch your dick nor do you touch the aneros once its inserted.
Once you manage to achieve the dry orgasm the great thing is, you can just take the aneros out and than masturbate by conventional means and get one final orgasm.....
This of course has never happened to me. But it is my New Years resolution. I have a friend that has experienced this. I was calling bullshit, but then I did some research and found the Aneros forums as well as other sex talk forums and there were a bunch of people saying the same shit, so i'm going to give it a shot, lol.
I guess the best part of this is, once you achieve the Super-O once it becomes easier and easier to achieve. The very first time, it may take several 1-2 hour failed sessions after that it can be achieved in as little as 10 minutes.
>>1340176
You didn't poop for 3 days straight???
>>1343803
I finally got it to click after alost a year of trying. It is totally worth it. You're right that you have to start out aroused and resist the urge to just jerk off like normal. It only took me about 30 minutes to get it started, and one of the things that really helped was reading the aneros forums and watching some of the videos linked there. Reading about other guys' experiences of the Super-O is incredibly hot and they have really good tips on how to just ride through it. After about an hour of experiencing intermittent prostate orgasms I finally figured our how to "bear down" on the aneros in just the right way and I was able to basically trigger it at will. By the end of the session I was exhausted and finished off with a normal jack off with the device still inside me. The resulting orgasm was maybe the most intense one that I've had since I was a kid.
>>1340522
I've experienced the same thing, but I normally can't resist jerking off normally.
I usually go to town on the dildo and then when it gets too much it just takes 1-3 seconds of jerking before I totally explode, and then I just lie on the ground for what feels like 30 seconds but is probably close to 15 minutes, just shaking and shivering, unable to speak or get up or anything. It's incredible.
>>1340695
well where did you come from?
This is actually me after more than two weeks in chastity. My first bf was Dom and he was the one who introduced me to chastity. He stuck a dildo on the wall at doggy height in the TV room and loved watching me desperately assturbate with it for some relief. I still remember looking into his eyes while desperately fucking myself back onto the dildo like a whore, my little dick locked away for weeks, while he got hard and stroked his cock in front of me to make my desperation and humiliation stronger. He wanted to make it clear how Men masturbate compared to how pussyboys are forced to assturbate desperately. I remember saying “Daddy, please” while fucking myself onto the dildo and being more turned on by looking at his hairy muscular body and big thick cock. How happy it would make me for him to let me suck him off and cum in my mouth or if he decided to flip me over and fuck me like a little bitch and cum inside me and make me feel like he was getting me pregnant
>>1340506
I piss but it's not urine. It's more like clear fluid
Hot!
Did he make you cum handsfree?
Got some more stories?
>>1344798
>things that happened
>>1345296
>>1345297
>>1340587
This
There's actually a routine to prostate milking but it takes time. Massaging, warm lube, testicle stimulation. You can't just stick your finger up your butt, rub back n forth and expect results. Everyone is different, of course. But there is a surefire way to do it .
>>1345776
I want to find this hot, but WHAT is that red rash looking thing? I can't stop staring at it
>>1340180
doesn't sound like you're giving yourself enough time to relax and open up.
it will fit when you've relaxed.
>>1344798
FUUUUUCK! I just fapped to that shit!
Love the hairy masculine daddy DOM making him your pussyboi and just laughing about it.
>>1339721
that's a real class act anon.
>>1344396
Moved from Turkey. Muslim countries = great closeted gay sex. Girls in the US are as terrible as the girls back home. Guys back home are usually good though. "Total tops" that are size queens in real life, but also know how to give proper fucking. /t=In the Us its either the fucker doesnt know how to use a condom, goes straight in without foreplay or praises bottoming capabilities and then wuss out from my sheer girth. Tops are so weak in the US. Seriously, these guys can't fuck if their life depended on it.
Ordered an aneros though, will explore anal pleasures soon.
>>1347511
Are you on the East or West coast?
>>1347550
east coast. Im in homo central.
>>1340587
Eastern Orthodox does the cross the other way around
>>1347604
New York?
>>1342262
>not falling for the prostate orgasm meme
>>1339721
Anyone recommend any good toys from Amazon that works well for you?
>>1346381
i hadn't wanted to use my razor, 'cause i have super-sensitive skin and it just wreaks havoc on my whole anogenital region, so i opted for the electric trimmer. as it turns out, i had to shave after anyway, because the trimmer just kept fucking taking bites out of my goddamn taint. lesson learned, i guess.
>>1346415
np
>>1349409
you can get some bad dragon toys on amazon, now; i think they're generally medium size, medium firmness, but i highly recommend them
>>1340006
I am like this, anal for 30 mins straight and just get pre cum, but I if jerk off I'll be close to cumming then I can finish it with the toy. I get an orgasm but I can keep going right after
>>1340566
Hunter Marx and Dirk Caber, they're using a cock cage. I don't know if it's available free online though, I can't find any
>>1349409
http://www.amazon.com/Aneros-VF474-Helix-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B001AQNSFW
>>1349618
Got any recommendations for a vibrating messager? Something with multiple settings and a long battery life ideally?
>>1349920
I've got the Nexus stealth. Lasts about 6 hours-ish, is USB charged.
>>1349922
Wew lad that beast is steep.
My only anal play is actually candles and using a Xbox controller to send vibrations down the shaft. Just figured /hm/ was the best place to ask. I'm looking for a more entry level vibrator.
>>1349925
Yeah, most of the massagers are expensive because of the motor.
One of the first vibrating thing I bought was the 'toy joy boy wonder', costs about £20. Stupid name, but can still get me off.
If you want something less dick like, there are Aneros models for around £25-35.
>>1349928
I know with a lot of things you get what you pay for, but a Vice is just out of my price range
I know I sound like such a cheap ass (hue) but what do you think about something like http://www.amazon.com/LYNK-Pleasure-Products-Silicone-Vibrating/dp/B016PB61Z0/ref=sr_1_3_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1461368454&sr=1-3&keywords=aneros+vice
>>1349933
>but a Vice is just out of my price range
And by that I mean, even something ~$50 would be fine
>>1339721
Ok ok serious question. I was pressing hard on my prostate it felt amazing. Now I've been having a weird feeling in my ass for months almost pain like. My peeing has been meh meh with it being hard to push out. Have I bruised my prostate? Is it ruined forever? Oh god someone answer me. It'd be so scary to tell the doctor.
>>1349933
As a beginner toy, it's fine. I wouldn't expect miracles, but you should get some fun.
>>1349953
Your ass has been hurting for months and you've not seen anyone? The fuck is wrong with you?
Go speak to a Doctor. They've heard it all before, you won't be embarrassing them. Depending on the type of pain, you've probably got an infection of the prostate, it's relatively common. But the longer you go, the more serious it'll become.
just got aneros progasm, and it has been raved to be thicker and it is so small? Gonna go wild on it tonight.
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