I've been looking at Hentai for like 2 or 3 years and it gets my blood pumping faster and my dick harder than any normal porn. Especially the strange and excessively fantastical and perverted shit. Even if i look up porn, it needs to be really fuckinf wild or it doesnt do much for me. Socially I act like I despise it and I constantly say to myself "why the fuck am I looking at this and why the fuck does it turn me on so much?" Will I every be able to have normal sex with a normal girl? I wonder if I will go through life not liking sex and relying on jerkin to Hentai all my life on the side. Hentai sets unreal and wild expectations of sex that will probably bit happen irl unless I got with a psycho chick that wants me to fucking punch her or some weird shit. Any of you feel this way?
Posting some pics until people reply
I do, lol
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>>4105031
OK well I just randomly posted shit. Whatever.
It's true in general that porn depicts an unrealistic expectation of sex. From the over acting of live action to the most bizarre. That doesn't mean you can't get a good idea from it occasionally, positions to try, places to stimulate, toys to use. I suppose the key is to truely comprehend it isn't reality, much like a video game isn't real.
Though I will warn against constant porn consumption. This will effect your sex drive. You slide into weirder stuff because your mind needs more and newer stimulation. You get off to red heads often and regularly, your body and mind don't react the same, much like anything that stimulates a chemical response be it happened, sadness, drugs of every flavor. If you are truely concerned you should lay off the net porn for a while. Use your imagination instead. Even not masturbating will have an effect causing a build up of hormones that will make you bolder and seek out girls/guys/sheep (cause I don't know how strange you wanna get)
>>4105039
Yea I would say I am in a "hole" of porn habits and not trying to get a girl. Mostly a self esteem thing and the I have the idea that I am not attractive enough myself to get a girl that I would be attracted too and if I got a girl on my level, most likely I would not be able to be attracted to her so i turn to porn instead and its pretty bad. though i will say the past 1 or 2 weeks have been not too bad because I've been hanging out with friends more and at home on the internet less.
>>4105020
If it helps.
I was into some pretty /d/-worthy material even before I lost my virginity. Porn and hentai definitely have unrealistic standards and some of my things would be less than advisable in real life or straight-up impossible.
However, and I think this is true specifically because of my understanding that porn and hentai are unrealistic the same way most shows and anime don't depict real life people behaving in a realistic manner, it hasn't made sex disappointing or anything. That's like being disappointed in having friends because they don't call you anon-kun and don't act like the 2D imperfect and largely predictable templates we use in television.
It doesn't hurt that my only couple of girlfriends have been kinky as hell, but from my experiences with being friends with women and entering their mostly-female social circles, women are on average far kinkier than a lot of guys seem to think.
>>4105020
Is it just paranoia? I get off to morally reprehensible shit but I still would like the vanilla stuff just fine. I think youre just worrying yourself uneccesarily.
>>4105053
Yea like I want to find a kinky girl... except I draw the line at feces and piss...
Yea but I play a lot of video games and get super into them but still understand that they are an alternate reality and can't really be compared to real life even though they are made to be realistic and believable sometimes. I think I could apply that to this situation but this is different on a instinctual and hormonal level. I will probably at some point just try to stay away from the wilder categories or just watch normal amateur realistic porn once I'm ready to try getting a girlfriend. I honestly don't want one right now because they are time consuming and money consuming, both of which I don't have.
Plus I think I have exhausted most normal kinks and fetishes and that's why I'm getting to the really fringe stuff. Maybe I will run out of porn to watch and turn to no porn or just simple stuff occasionally. Like I feel like I will get porned out at some point.... if that makes sense
>>4105056
Idk it's probably a little bit of overthinking and a little bit of cause for concern. Like my desire to watch porn is fucking hardcore. I look at pornographic content 5-15 different times throughout the day on days that I'm not busy. Even if i only jack off on one occasion... I get a rush like no other only when I'm looking at taboo shit. And I don't always get turned on by normal stuff unless I haven't done anything for like 3 or 4 days.
What happens to me is that I go through a sort of cycle of moods to watching porn. The porn that I want to watch usually has some sort of pattern
One week I'll be into porn that has cute girls in it... the important part of what gets me erect is the cuteness of the girl
The next I'll be into my usual fetish of tomboy / short hair porn. Doesn't matter if she looks a little werd, you got colored hair and piercings I'm into you.
The tomboy thing then brings out the more romantic side of me, and I start to read doujinshi and hmanga, usually with tomboyish characters.
The tomboyish thing can only go so far and it's a fetish that can only be demanded so much, so what happens is when I run out of tomboy hmanga to read for lack of any to read, I get the same feeling with tomboys as characters of whatever personality with short hair girls. With the occassional hentai with the such.
Now, one or two of these hmanga with short haired girls is probably going to be of a hardcore nature. I will want to see more hardcore porn, whether it's hentai or porn. I want to see ring-gags and bdsm. The girl playing either role, although i respond more to femdom.
Most bdsm porn usually have some average sorta okay looking girl performing. And I will long for a cuter face. Sort of wanting to go back and see a real cute face. And then we segue back into the cute face general porn.
>>4105065
oh also... and every now and then, my lolicon urges pop up randomly.
>>4105062
Yes, there's nothing wrong with jacking off or looking at porn for very long. So long as it doesnt affect your life (Not going to work, school, etc). While you're certainly out of the ordinary, many people share your thirst for taboo shit.
>>4105069
Bro... i'm into tomboys in real life. I can be attracted to a normal girl sure. But if I see a girl walk by with a comfortable shirt and baggy jeans... probably with a cap on... I'll leave that normal girl in a heartbeat.
And the reason why I look at porn of tomboys in the first place is probably because I've always liked tomboys, and the first girl who liked me was a tomboy.
I mean imagine the cuteness. Here's a girl who's very comfortable around guys, usually has a cool, strong, and dominant demeanor.
But around you she gets all flustered and shy.
Futanari is fine too. I don't just subscribe to any futanari tho. Just because something has a chick with a dick in it, doesn't mean i'll read or watch it.
I don't know if it's just because we're struck in awe and wonder of a chick with a dick, or if we're just a little gay inside ( I'm probably a little gay inside ). But I don't think that's out of the ordinary.
I've never been grossed out by porn I watch. I always think that these acts of love and carnal desires are always beautiful. So beautiful that they have been displayed and decorated to perfection for people to watch.
Probably been grossed out by gore porn. But at least that's understandable.
Also... pissing is fine... shitting is the line.
>>4105076
It's like the sexual best of both genders in one package, but mostly the female sexuality that's the best
>>4105085
i like to think about it this way...
If you're in love with a girl, and you find out that she has a dick instead of a pussy... will you still love her? And will you make love to her?
I totally would.
>>4105091
Only if she looked 100% female, no male features whatsoever.... except..the dick.... idk how I would feel. If she was like my soul mate then maybe
>>4105093
what if she looked like Ronda Rousey?
>>4105094
She actually cleans up nice. She can be good looking out of the ring.
Interesting topic. Recently had the chance to have sex with a girl two times, the first one I didn't because of this same problem. I've been inmersed in hentai for too long, that doing that transition from the 2D realm back to 3D was so weird, it didn't pull me in; plus not having a condom/not wanting to preg a girl, but that's other stuff. The second time I did accept, but it was still strange and abstract to me, and only brought me fear and suspense over if the girls is pregnant or not. But the point here is, after that, I think I do prefer 2D after all, because the ideal notion of sex is superior to the actual thing, even if the ideality can never be reached.
I don't know, it's something I'm still thinking about, but it's an interesting discussion. Have some Ada.
bump for interest
I'm approaching Wizard status, probably mostly through my own fault, but eh, it's hard to find waifu-tier girls irl since one: Noone looks like her, and two: personality's actually a factor, and with my socially reflective self I'll never actually get to know anyone that I'm intending to stick my dick in at some point.
>>4105760
That's intriguing. I think I'll probably end up as a wizard myself, or something along those lines, since I'm not really a virgin anymore. Because RL sex is unappealing, and would rather stick to H stuff really.
>>4105760
34 wizard I've given up not to mention penile problems that will prevent me from being with anybody anyways. I see no reason to bother wasting my time. I was not meant to be happy an c;early not meant to be with a single person.
I'll never forget that day 2 years ago when i took that option away from myself...fap carefully anon...should just off myself.
huh?
>>4106088
What did you do? Try sounding and break your dick?
>>4105020
I usually just switch it up every now and then. Usually rotating from "wild shit" hentai to vanilla hentai to some regular porn, maybe throw a cock/fap hero in inbetween to keep some endurance and then start again.
Has been working fine for me.
>>4106088
>I was not meant to be happy
I think you might be going a bit far. Maybe you weren't intended to have sex, but that's just a fraction of life. Plus as great as it might be, it doesn't last long. Also ask old people, it won't be in any person's life forever either.
But we are talking about some deep shit on a porn site. So I'm gonna end it there.
>>4105039
Prove it or fuck off to the nofap threads.
Fapping, porn and real life chicks can coexist. You guys just need to get out of your own heads, out of your rooms and talk to people.
No matter how much weird shit you've watched, there's nothing like seeing a pair of titties live, grabbing an ass like there's no tomorrow and rubbing your dick on an exposed pussy ;)
>>4107477
I agree with this faggot. I thought that because my fap sessions used to last 2 hours I wouldn't be able to get it up, but when I got a girlfriend I'd immediately cum in 5 or 10 minutes when she'd give me a handjob. Still feels weird for me to get a blowjob though. At least she doesn't mind how I eat the pussy.
And no, she doesn't feel ready for me to shove it in her yet. Maybe next month or so. My dad will be at work, so she can come to my house early and we'll have enough time to do it... I just hope she'll wear her maid outfit for this
>>4105020
You'll be fine, I'm into weird shit and my girlfriend is so fucking vanilla it hurts. Sex is still great, even after over half a decade. (I still wish she was kinkier, but like I said, sex is still great)
>>4106088
There's so much more to life, goddamn.
Do something worthwhile in the world. Build something, fix something, make the world a better place. With all that free time from not having a girlfriend/wife you could be an expert at several things. Go do that and do something to make the world remember your name.
[spoiler]That also has the side effect of attracting women, but you said you give up, so do it for you and the world, not for women.[/spoiler]
>>4107477
Yea my only real struggle now will be getting with a girl I will actually feel good about doing these things with. I don't want to grab from the bottom of the barrel, but that just makes it so much harder
>>4105020
Domestic violence is through the roof. More women enjoy getting punched than ever before.
Your inexperience is warping your perception of porn and hentai.
>>4108247
is this true?
>>4107938
But all those things won't give me unbelievably powerful orgasms and/or gargle madly on my man-meat - so what's the point?
>>4107477
ikwym senpai :^) itt desu
Speaking from my own personal experience, I was into h stuff long before I got a girlfriend, and I have little trouble getting off to regular sex.
The little trouble I do have is often just me wanting to do something a little bit depraved, like have her blow me immediately after sex, or just ram it into her ass. This is probably an effect of porn consumption.
Other than that little bit of weirdness, our sex life is quite healthy. I still masturbate fairly often as my sex drive outdoes hers by a mile, but we still have pretty great sex together.
bump for interest
>>4112703
And those people just like you will get banned.
>>4105039
Nope. Learn this study, thank me later.
http://www.researchgate.net/publication/269763975_Viewing_Sexual_Stimuli_Associated_with_Greater_Sexual_Responsiveness_Not_Erectile_Dysfunction
With hentai, I've come to find I enjoy the female body and it's better sexual faculties more so than men's. I would enjoy to be a woman and have the attributes of women, but the thought of having a phallus penetrate me is off-putting, given my male worldview. It could also be seen as having caution thanks to my view from the other side of things, but if I were a woman with this knowledge, the thought of giving in to that kind of things is also arousing.
I don't know man, shit's weird. But girls are hot.
