Havent watched porn in two months senpai. Doing fine, but masturbating w/o porn is kinda dull desu. Will it get better?
this, I use masterbation as more of a meditative practice now
the benefit of this is that you can focus on lasting longer and real pussy becomes much more attractive when you get it
masturbating to food porn doesn't count
I dont need porn, a pic like this or that is enough for me
>tfw on week 2 of nofap/noporn
I feel the benefits but holy hell, I want to fap. I don't even want porn, just a release
/noporn/ is just a bullshit version of no fap. simply not watching porn won't give you any benefits to cutting out fapping completely. you're still fapping, doesn't matter what you are fapping to. if you actually want results then stop touching yourself all-together. real life sex with another human being is allowed, though.
watching porn is fine if you only do it occasionally. If you're a retard and watch it all the time, then yeah, it's better to stop or watch it much less.
So if you watch it 1-2 times a month, then no, stopping that won't improve anything. If you watch it every day, then yes, stopping it will likely improve your life.
sites? Read books. Erotic literature includes female fantasies, which you can understand and get off to by reading about them. Reading erotic literature helped me have more sex- I recognize eroticism as it exists in my everyday life. I also enjoy and appreciate the sex I have more, and am better at it (from my perspective) because I kind of savor it and see it as a beautiful thing rather than some glowing computer screen easy fantasy fulfillment shameful fap fest.
Marquis de sade is a good place to start, i'm really into bdsm so I liked justine.
everything on literotica was written by fat old men with too much time and impotence on their hands.
I don't have the /lit/ infographic but there's a comprehensive list of good ones floating around the chans.
day 43 of nofap here, please stop
I can't, I'm still chubby. I have a good face though, what will that get me?
I can't really speak for benefits, but I was a giant creep and now I'm normal. I'll post story if you want, but basically I had 600+ emails worth of candid/voyeur shit of grills/coworkers I knew.
>Went cold turkey noporn about a month ago after watching it everyday
>Cut fapping down to once a week, if that
All I feel is extreme sexual frustration and extremely strong desire to fap+watch porn. The frustration is debilitating and depressing and I haven't noticed a single positive yet.
Anyone else the opposite? If I don't watch porn I just lose my sex drive but if I nut or edge every other day I'm horny as fuck 24/7. I've gotten to the point that I can nut 4 times in one session with my fb
Noporn is a meme. Porn is a huge problem, but the masturbation is also part of it. We both know you're just gonna think of the porn you've watched before or the ass on the girl that was in front of you at the grocery store. That's still porn, noporn means you only focus on the pleasure.
Use noporn as a transition to nofap if you must, but remember that it's not a solution.
Day 111 of nofap and I haven't considered masturbating in a long time. Although this run has been insanely easy and I'm not sure why. I think I outgrew fapping. So it gets better. Instead of wanting to masturbate I just want to go meet women, because fapping is no longer a choice.
>this is what nofap cucks believe
as long as you aren't fapping excessively noporn is just as good if not better than nofap
Has anyone here gotten a gf WITHOUT nofap/noporn? If so then I'll bust a nut tonight
When I was a teen I got gfs. Fucked for a very long time because of the death grip sexual stamina gains.
I enjoy my orgasms much more now because of noporn and kegels, but I don't last as long.
Porn WAS the problem for me. I was watching hentai and porn 4+ hours a day and couldn't get hard with a woman and death grip killed my sensitivity. I cut back to fapping ~1x a week with loose grip or a fleshlight and noporn and it fixed it. Using my imagination actually made me have more regular fantasies with ME fucking a girl rather than watching a guy do it.
Nofapping isn't necessary for most people, nor is it a permanent solution unless you are a monk or are immune to dry spells. You just need to adjust to fapping significantly less permanently.
I'm absolutely confident with talking to women and meeting with women and I fap twice a week.
I have no problems with lack of motivation or lethargy and haven't been through depression since I was a teenager who jacked it too much.
What "benefits" am I missing out on exactly?
Yeah, but when we fucked I couldn't cum and it ruined the relationship. I usually do nofap in preparation when I start talking to a girl. If you've got nothing on the books just go ahead and fap but don't deathgrip and if you must watch porn watch POV/vanilla shit.
Forget jerking off exists. Like, you're either inside a chick, or you don't orgasm. Masturbation is for adolescents. Nerd adolescents at that.
Hire a professional or find a girl that you'd never want a relationship with - and orgasm. That sex=dating shit is poisoning men's minds.
Also train harder or your gut will be your excuse for throwing your life away knowing pornstars' names.
>trying to court
Read what I said again. I specifically told him to find a girl he'd never consider dating so he'd just tell her, let's fuck, and shoot his load and get on with his life.
I've been told that I'm good looking by multiple women (even though I'm chubby), but my problem is low self-esteem so I never act on it. I'm doing nofap to give me more confidence. Should I keep going?
brehs, how do you fuck a girl?
I have way too much social autism to talk to them
And I'm bulking so I can't take a good ab pic for tinder right now.
pls help I just wanna lose my virginity and berry into a pussy
>I've been told that I'm good looking by multiple women
Good looking means we'd be sucking your cock already if you weren't a goof lard.
Are you confident that you could fuck a woman into a seizure. If not you're gonna need to practice on women like the ones I already recommended.
If anything, porn is an instruction manual on how to deliver dick.
Not him but, you're a fucking idiot if you think women want to be treated like porn stars. Most want to be passionately kissed and shit, then be dominated. Not upside-down deepthroat 360 degree thrusts and walk away.
>Commit to NoFap yesterday
>Scrolling tinder at work lunchbreak today
>Match with 7.5/10 from back in high school
>She messages me first, conversation flowing
>Eating up everything I say, using winky faces
Is the meme magic real bros?
really? That's fucked up OP.
But there is one very popular book about it. Guarantee you there's five threads on /lit/ about it right now, haven't been on that board in months too.
It's by Vlad "old enough for object-permanence, old enough to breed" nabakov
>A friend stayed over the weekend.
>I haven't fucked her in over 3 years.
>The first night i woke up so horny (shared bed) i had to go fap to pr0n before my balls exploded
>next night we got wasted and we fugged
>wake up and fap again to pron the next morning
I produce a lot when she's around lol. Fapping to porn never produces the same loads. Actual interaction makes my balls explode. I used to fap a lot. Its fine as a as needed basis (3-5 days). Im 25 and still get morning wood every morning.
>I'm intellectually superior because I limp dicked myself!
My thoughts are clear, I'm confident with women and I'm always full of energy.
What benefits will not masturbating give me?
Oh right, fucking nothing.
less anxiety, more testosterone, bigger dick, more confidence/assertiveness, weight loss, better gains, better social interaction
that's what it's done for me anyway. it's not intellectual superiority the idea is to keep your man juices in to make yourself better at man things, i kept it super simple for you since you apparently assume that you are intellectually inferior.
I can testify to increased cum volume during sex
>7ish months ago
>make plans to netflix and chill with some girl at the end of the week
>fap all week to desensitize (she was high test)
>had easily 20+ spurts of cum
the condor had so much in it that it was sagging a solid 2 inches below my dick and looked kinda like pic related
i have a theory that my cum shot would've spawned the first of the Saiyan race
don't get anxious to begin with, but fair enough if you had problems with it before
Got a blood test for that?
I like my size
don't have problems with this
don't have problems here either
how long have you been doing it? I'd argue it wouldn't be noticeable but fair enough
>better social interaction
once again don't have problems here so it wouldn't benefit me
i'm on day 20
the happiness energy and accelerated facial hair growth are what tell me my test must be going up. I've always had anxiety particularly social anxiety and it always felt like it came physically rather than mentally (shortness of breath, accelerated heart beat around people, jitters, etc) but all of those symptoms went away pretty much within the first few days. I feel like it generally strengthened parts of me that needed it, and i'm still not that far in.
This nofap garbage is gettin out of hand. Do you tards seriously believe that not touching your pee pee will do anything for you ? Fix your life faggots, don't do pointless shit like nofap
I can't do it. Do you guys not have stressful jobs or college?
Getting my masters in computer science while I work 30 hours a week. I don't have time to stick my dick in a wet hole and fapping is quick/easy, plus a huge stress reliever.
1 more fucking year of this shit.
Your insecurity is showing. What do you have to lose, I bet you haven't even given it a good shot you just want to dismiss it immediately because jacking off is the only thing that gets you through the day. been there bro, just try it.
I've done it and didn't feel any different.
Funny how 'nofap' started as a joke and is now some retarded deluded cult of autists.
It's pretty sad because some guys are so proud of it and feel like it's some kind of achievement. Dude you just stopped touching your dick for a while, get over it, you didn't transform into Goku or whatever
I'm 18 and have a crazy libido. I've been doing nofap since I was 16 but now I'm wondering if it was just meant for ugly guys in their 30s who can't get it up. What should I do?