>tell gf I wouldn't want her if she got fat
>"you're so shallow"
>mfw
she's fit right now, she better stay fit when we get more serious
OK. Was she surprised you have standards?
>>37893546
>Is it shallow to want somebody who cares about their health?
>Is it shallow to want somebody who isn't a lazy slob?
>Is it shallow to want somebody who has self discipline?
>Is it shallow to want somebody who isn't gluttonous?
>Is it shallow to want somebody who's willing to work to keep their partner interested?
>tell gf I wouldn't want her if she got fat
>okay, let's go to the gym together!
>mfw
What do?
>>37894179
Chain her up to the radiator and fuck her regularly, feeding her only muscle milk and pure whey powder condensed into cubes
The better way to approach this is to say
>I would not find you attractive if you stopped taking care of yourself. Your pride in your health and appearance is one of the things I really love about you.
That way its a compliment and she can't take it out of context like women do.
Although your way is almost as good because the truth of the matter is, if the woman doesn't have power over you, she won't ever disregard your opinions because they are all validation seekers.
She calls yout shallow but she would do the same.
>>37893546
I had this arguement with an ex once, told me the same.
I just told her I can't help it that my dick doesn't get hard for fat girls and I don't plan on taking viagra to fuck her if she got fat
She called me names
I reminded her that she's not fat and that I like her and that she was the one who asked.
She became salty for the rest of the relationship after that so I broke up with her and she became fat
>>37893546
The point is to have standards, not flaunt them. If she's already fit, then why the fuck are you going to her to warn her about what happens if she gets fat? Dump her if and when she gets fat, otherwise just compliment her on being fit today.
"You're so shallow" sounds like a complaint against your standards, but it's actually a complaint against your worry wort personality, hopeless inability to trust another person, and desperate need to impose control over something you have none over.
(Unless she asked you if you'd love her even if she got fat, in which case your absolutely in the right to tell the truth)
>>37893546
I guess you just built a wall around your relationship.
>Gf asks whether I like the color black cause shes buying me some pants
>'You know I like black,babe'
>'Do you though, anon? I know I like black hahaha'
She doesn't browse 4chan and definitely doesn't know about the cuck deal that happens round this place. Is she hinting to me she likes black guys, or am I just looking to deep and too autisticly into what she's saying. Fuck my life I thought getting /fit/ would make sure this shit didn't happen.
>>37894918
sorry anon...
>>37894918
Your girl loves BBC. Right in her mouth.
Managing girlfriends is all about subtle psychological manipulation, not discussions.
Telling her you wouldn't want her if she got fat is unnecessarily throwing down a reprimand based on a hypothetical situation. You should never get into hypotheticals with your girlfriend because they are incapable of accurately predicting how they would feel in a future situation until they are actually in that situation, and they will default to self-righteousness and indignation. This is like telling her she better not cheat on you -- it's worse than pointless, it lays bare your lack of trust in her.
If you feel compelled to address her not turning into a hambeast, the negativity needs to be projected onto a disconnected third party; point out how gross a chubby girl on tv is.
>>37895083
This guy knows
>>37895083
>Managing girlfriends is all about subtle psychological manipulation, not discussions.
t. sociopath
>>37894918
Dial down your autism levels lad
>>37894179
Take her. She is probably a cardio bunny anyways
>>37894179
2 HOURS CARDIO CMON
Just put on her on the treadmill nigga
>pic related
>>37893546
Here's what I did with my gf
>I like independent women with strong willpower
>it's one of the many reasons I love you
>Women with strong willpower like you take care of their bodies
This is what one of my bros did
>Honestly I think girls going to the gym and lifting weights is a big statement
>It battles the societal preconceptions of girls being the weak nurturing house wife
The only way you can make someone do something is to make them want to do it
>>37894918
I bet she is deapthroating Tyrone right now. If you know any Tyrone or Jamal, you better ask them about their "relationship" with your girlfriend.
>>37895477
Nah we don't know any blacks. I think I'm overthinking and letting the cuckposters get to me lol
>>37895542
Does your GF genuinely wear black clothing?
Get her some black underwear and check her reaction.
Because if you wrote it word for word after her, I'd be worried.
>>37895542
You may not know any blacks, but what if she does? What will you do then, Carl? Will you hold her hand while Jayden is ramming her?
You are probably right though desu.
>>37895593
She literally only wears black underwear and most of the time darker coloured clothes
>>37894179
Take her to the gym and have her practice form with you. Don't have her start a full routine yet. Just make sure her movements are correct and go from there. Ignore those telling you to just have her do cardio. Cardio is boring as fuck and I think the girl wants quality muscle time with you. You'll appreciate it after she starts a regular squat regimen.
>>37893546
Told my gf the same thing and she said "you've liked them fat before"
>>37895734
rekt
