My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. At the beginning of our relationship, he wanted to have sex 5-7 times a day. I was raw and sore and to be honest, the sex wasn't that good. It was like porn sex. He'd constantly flex in the mirror while we were doing it and yell at the top of his lungs, stuff like that. But I come from a background where women are told to fulfill the needs of her husband and submit and all that christian stuff so I never refused him. I finally had to have a discussion with him about quality over quantity though, and I am happy to say that he fulfills me sexually now.
6 months into our relationship, my boyfriend still has a high sex drive. If we skip a day, he's frantic. If we skip two days, he starts talking in terms of we NEVER and acts like our relationship is over. If he had his way, we would have sex for an hour or more every night, and then have a quickie in the morning before he goes to the gym. If I had my way, we'd have sex once a day to once every other day...and probably never for an hour because about 30 minutes in I just start feeling like a slab of meat.
He's a bodybuilder so I wanted to know if this is normal amoungst athletes or not. I once asked him to stop going to the gym everyday but that almost destroyed our relationship. He is much more fit than I am but a strange thing is that he likes buying me loads of fast food and sweets but eats strictly healthy himself. I love him so much but this is abnormal.
Another issue is that he grabs me and propositions me CONSTANTLY--even during times when we both know that we are not possibly going to have sex. I feel like I am prey sometimes and I have to constantly evade him. He complains that I never pursue him, but I feel like he doesn't give me a chance. If I'm busy with something, he's grabbing me. If we're relaxing on the couch he's fondling me. He even wakes me up in the morning groping me on nights when he knows I've only had a couple hours of sleep! It's getting to the point that I don't enjoy the attention anymore, and just being around him is exhausting.
>>37341367
This is why I hate women
dont be a cunt
>>37341367
Is he on roids? If so, dump him.
If not, dump him and stop bitching on a vietnamese animu imageboard
You sound like a frumpy bitch.
>>37341367
Honestly, find somebody you're more compatible with. Not just for your sake but for his too. I'm sure he'd be more satisfied with a girl who shares his sex drive and need for attention, and you'd be more satisfied with a guy who doesn't have as high a sex drive.
>>37341367
He's on steroids, dump him and hope he doesn't beat you
>>37341367
Dump him and give me your boyfriends number. I'll take your problem off your hands for you.
seems to me like he's insecure
dump him, he's obsessed and narcisstic
>>37341404
This. I've left multiple women for not matching my sex drive. It wound up being better for both of us. Contrary to what people want to believe, sex is a huge part in relationships and should be matched by both partners
He seems a bit obsessive. No, thats not normal. I'd say dump his horny faggot ass, and the useless christian values.
>>37341395
No I don't think he's on steroids but he does go to the gym EVERYDAY.
Does he take creatine? If so tell him to stop IMMEDIATELY. you have been warned
>>37341367
He sounds genuinely mentally ill.
Why are you still with him?
>>37341425
>sex is a huge part in relationships
Only if you want it to be. The mental aspect as well, having a girl who can make and take banter would be something to consider too.
If he's a serious bodybuilder he's probably juiced. They can make you really horny. The other shit is on him though. Roids won't make a dick if you aren't one already
Tell him all this. If he can't accept it try to find someone new. Easier said than done. Good luck.
>>37341528
banter? ha, more like bullying!
>>37341533
And by tell him all this I mean what you said in OP
>>37341535
Pls don't bully the gf
>>37341404
>>37341425
>tfw my gf is perfect in every sense, but a virgin
>>37341367
That sounds like parody of typical /fit/izen boyfriend. How do you guys fall for this is beyond me. Or it isn't. I know most of you are stupid as fuck.
>>37341556
>he's so cucked that he thinks being virgin is bad
What a time to be alive
Now. You're gf actually a massive slut who sucked 105 nigger cock during high school. You happy?
>>37341367
Is your boyfriend Patrick Bateman by any chance? https://youtu.be/YW4ohI2LpGs
>>37341556
>but a virgin
there shouldn't be "but" there. In this day and age I would say you're pretty lucky to have a gf that no one touched before.
>>37341569
>>37341578
She won't even touch my dick lads, how the fuck is this a good thing?
>>37341589
It means you're ugly. If she was actually a virgin she'd be itching at the chance to lose her virginity to you.
>>37341487
So he's on roids then is what you're saying?
Ask him about it. He will not freak out if he's not on them. It will be a good time to talk to him
>>37341593
lmao no, before her I had sluts literally begging for my cock
>>37341602
That's cool and all, but seriously really means that she thinks you're ugly. Girls can have different tastes. And if you also had "sluts literally begging for your cock", she's probably scared of getting an STD from you.
>>37341528
>banter
I've been living in the UK for half a year now, and banter is the most cancerous shit that exists right after female obesity and entitlement complex.
Fuck banter. It's an excuse for failure in a sense of humor.
>>37341602
>I had sluts literally begging for my cock
>>37341511
Kek
>>37341617
What is banter
I feel you OP. Its super annoying when a guy doesn't know how to fuck and refuses to learn. dumped a frw super hot, duper fot guys because they were absolutely trash in bed.
guys, learn to fuck. think of it like a story, with a beginning, middle and an end. your 1RM max is meaningless if you don't know how to use your dick
>>37341367
Allow him to have a mistress. Say you can't handle his high sex drive alone so you need another woman's help. This is the truth.
>>37341559
yeah i have no idea why anyone would fall for this
the "he buys me fast food and sweets" thing alludes so obviously to THICKness
Yeah OP sure is a girl, not just some sweaty manchild looking for attention on a boring day
>>37341589
If those are her values and she holds them, I think it's good. At least if you're serious with this girl. If not, seek someone else, who will give it quicker.
>>37341656
A shitty excuse aussies and brits have for humor. I think they are trying to mix sarcasm and dry humor, but it just ends up being a mix of insults and preschool dick jokes. Chicks think it makes them seem open, intelligent and humorous.
I don't even post here but this post is obviously a fucking joke.
>high test
>flexing in mirror
>fattening you up
Subtle, but I see it.
>>37341711
I think I'm serious with her, she def is wife material. How to cope, though?
>>37341729
Does she beat you off?
Try to get her to do that or maybe a bj if lucky?
>>37341723
this
>>37341729
>>37341769
Yeah, try other sexual stuff
>>37341769
>>37341779
Nope, most I've got is her feeling my dick over my briefs after 2 months.
>>37341367
Is your bf's name Patrick?
>>37341602
Drop her then numbnuts Snoop taught us bitches aint nothin but hos n tricks.
>>37341367
You both sound insecure as fuck
>>37341367
>flexing in mirror
>purposely buying you shitty food
>christian values thrown in randomly
bait.
>>37341803
That's the catch man. A virgin ain't been touched, she don't know how touch, and if you touch her the wrong way, she loses touch. A nymph tho, suck a dick clean bro, she considers other holes bro, she gets dressed up to get fucked up and still pass for a lass bro. A nymph you wish was always yours, while a virgin is never always yours. Enigmas
>>37341803
I'd drop her, sounds like a fucking hassle man, but I only date girls who like sex a lot, and the ones who wanted me to hold out turned out to be really grating and insecure. I don't see how a girl not having had a ton of sex in the past or being prude makes her wife material desu - when I don't have to teach a chick the ropes it feels that much more special to me.
>>37341367
get a boring vanilla beta bf then
>>37341803
Been with a Jehova witness for 3 years now, and we did not have sex for the first two months. Just wait for her to be ready and jack off. If it is like it was for me, she actually jacks off thinking of you as well, and she will make the step when she knows you're the one she wants to lose her virginity too. tip: cuddle with her in the bed and sleep (not naked) together, things will escalate from here.
>>37341960
Did you jehovah in her witness?
>>37342004
Yes
>>37342010
How was it
Are you my gf? Sorry babe Tren does this to me. Also I've done this pose IRL. Feels fucking good man
He is obviously a very insecure man, looking for constant validation. He needs some self-esteem.
Hm, my goal when I have sex is to make sure everyone is sore the next day. Is that the wrong way to go about it?
>>37342034
Try telling him all this crap instead of fucking about on a Tibetan stamp-licking forum
>>37342057
I thought we were a yurt building symposium?
>>37341960
Did you write a thread about this before? I feel like I read a thread before about a guy who had to pretend to be a jehovah's witness to land a date with a girl, fell in love, made her his gf, and then was like "well I guess I got to keep at this for the rest of my life" in order to keep dating her.
>>37342015
good. we both know what the other likes
>>37342079
Not today motherfucker
>>37341718
Non-white Brit here, it's an excuse for them to hide their insecurities by being rude cunts together. It only works if you all join in.
>>37342083
It is the first time I post on /fit/. I never converted or lied about it, and luckily everything went well with her family. But I never told my parents and most of our friends don't know about her religion. It's commonly accepted in French Carribeans but in France people often make fun of them and think they are a dangerous sect
>>37341367
Get a different bf. Possibly a normie (non fitness) Christian bf.
Your dude is weird.
>>37342148
Oh shit. Just re-read this thread.
You a JW?
Every person I come in contact with, friends and family, who are/have been JW, experience sexual abuse.
Goddamn.
Upgrade to Baptist, at least, when you dump the bf.
>>37342126
They ARE a dangerous sect.
Especially around children. You dont want to know the stuff I heard.
>>37342177
I heard some stuff as well, but I mean seeing from their gatherings, they are kinda the same than other christians, with maybe a lot of emphasis on preaching and anti-racism. It's not an excuse for the retarded shit they say (creationism, not eating blood sausage and refusing blood donation), but I haven't seen a guru taking advantage of them or someone ripping them off. I know they are kind of weird, but not straight up brainwashed as well.
what did you hear senpai?
>>37341528
The only difference between a girlfriend and a friendgirl is sex imo
>>37341367
I've been in two similar, 2-5+ Year relationships where I had a higher drive than she did, despite loving her to the ends of the Earth.
He has a high drive. It will never go away. If the quantity decreases, he will be unhappy and start to resent you. If it doesn't, you'll resent him.
This is a deadbedroom waiting to happen.
End it, or accept the mismatch in sex drive and let him start banging other women on the side. Those are the -ONLY- Possible possible outcomes for this relationship.
>>37341657
You should talk to them and tell them what you want, you fucking coon
Fit is dumb enough to believe this is real
>>37341528
>Only if you want it to be
But in a way that kinda drives home the point. If sex is not that important to you, you'd be better off with somebody who also feels that sex is not that important. If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice, ya dig?
Both me and my high test girlfriend fuck eachother like rabbits.
Sometimes upwards to 10 times in a day, if we ain't doing shit.
Weve had public sex a lot because we can't contain our horniness
>>37341718
I agree with the sentiment.
I see it very often in real life.
>>37341404
>I'm sure he'd be more satisfied with a girl who shares his sex drive and need for attention
Good chance that this is not the case. He can just find girls who seem reluctant and/or casual as appealing, since there's a need to dominate in it.
>>37341367
Is he an actual body builder or is he just a bit fit?
Flirt part of the time and I guarantee that he won't be as handsy.
Also, you're not going to get him to desire sex less. That's set in stone.
Either
>Meet his expectations and keep him happy. Be the one to make the first move and smile until it's natural (the flirting)
>Stay, don't make any changes, have to fight his advances as you both become less happy
>Leave and find someone you match with
Do you like him enough to actually try for him?
That's what it comes down to
I feel like there are little kids on here with the "what is banter"
kids you need to go, I dunno, go watch a minecraft lets play, this is not safe for you.
why are you still here, shoo
>>37341367
Ask him to stop juicing so that his sex drive comes down to normal. Not like he would listen lol, I think you're kinda fucked.
>>37341367
>Christian
>premarital sex
0/10 bait
>>37341572
kek
>>37341723
Same, I was confused by all the serious replies.
>>37342111
Fuck off muhammed.
>>37341367
>and then you grew up to be the mother of dragons
>>37341667
on another note, maybe give us his email so we can tell him to find a fuckbuddy since you're obviously a narcissistic cunt that has the if i can't have it nobody can even if i don't want it attitude
>>37341367
>is this bait?
If not: He's a manchild; he's severely insecure, and has to keep reassuring himself he 'owns' you by constantly having sex with you. I suspect you're young also. You both need to grow up/mature. Wouldn't be surprised if this 'relationship' doesn't last another 6 months.
>>37341420
>touches gf a lot
>narcissistic
Female post
B8 RP Pasta Nonsense
Pic not really related
>>37341367
Sorry you feel that way, you should find someone else. That's it.
>wish I had your problem
>>37341602
Lowering yourself to bottom of the barrel used up girls
>now has perfect virgin gf
You dont deserve her. Shes thinking she likes you but cant bring herself to lower her expectations and lose her virginity to you. Cant see a way out or too scared to break up. Way to go anon.
>>37343931
post the johnny sins version
>>37341556
I knew a couple that didn't have sex for four years. They finally did it after they got married.
>>37342334
I used to be like this until I got put on 4am shift at work and sex drive was kill :(
>>37341397
>>37341383
She thought your comment would be downboated xxDD
Kill yourself OP
>>37342276
>having to give instructions
that's not hot. you should just know.
>>37341511
Fucking this...you are lucky he hasn't beat you to death pack your stuff and leave now
>>37341589
Those guys are cucks its 2009+7 life is too short to not be out spraying your genetic material all over the place
>>37341367
>women having 6 six times a day
>complains about having too much sex
>tfw 23 year old kissless virgin
GET OFF MY BOARD
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
BOYS ONLY
TITS OR GTFO
>>37341412
what a man he is if he doesn't beat her
>>37341367
steroids makes you horny and having too much sex.
>>37341367
Yeah, he is over doing the sex thing.
note the fitizens. Let the girl want it.
Can confirm, 35 yrs old, I am not natty, use an anti-aging dose of Testosterone, so sex drive still high, but I have learned. Quality over quantity.
We even have 3somes sometimes. EOD sex is way better than constant sex. Quality >
>>37345144
>veryVERYangry.jpg
kek
>>37341367
Jesus christ, i didnt realize you guys were /r9k/
You'll deal with ugly guys complaining about how they cant get any pussy because theyre shit-tier genetics, but wont listen to a femanon with an actual story
>>37341367
This post has it all. Patrick Bateman subtly thrown in, HTAM shit, mfw thinking about you hurting, wew la.
Offer him your ass. If you have anal 50% of the time, then your vag will be 50% less sore.
It's win win.
>>37341367
I'v heard this sort of thing so many times it's not funny. The guy has issues that he's running from he needs to learn that sometimes losing or not achieving what you want is a good thing it makes you more balanced. Im not joking he could potentially kill you and if you have a kid from another man there is no doubt it would be treated badly or even killed it, this happens to often.
Get a nice cow to fulfill his needs in ways you just cant
>>37341367
That's the shittiest fucking bait I've ever seen
I hate this board
>>37341367
>>>/adv/
Why is this shit on /fit/.
>>37344892
Everyone is different dumbass. My sex friend likes to be choked out, but I wouldn't have known that unless I was told. Doesn't mean I'll try choking every girl I fuck you retard.
>>37341367
>He is much more fit than I am but a strange thing is that he likes buying me loads of fast food and sweets but eats strictly healthy himself. I love him so much but this is abnormal.
le high test meme
>>37341723
Really tho, the summer fags are so fucking gullible
>>37341656
THIS is classic UK banter. Glorious banter:
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2016/may/14/sunderland-fans-auf-wiedersehen-prem-plane-taunt-newcastle
>>37346340
>My sex friend likes to be choked out
Enjoy jail when you accidentally kill her.
>>37341367
Your man has a high sex drive.
Just feel lucky he still desires you. You don't want to know the feeling of being a 40 year old broad no one wants to fuck.
But anyway, his nature on this issue prob aint gonna change, and really he needs a nympho.
So this relationship may not work.
Who makes the money?
Have sex with him or else he will cheat on you.
>>37341667
this. OP if you can't handle his desire, but still wanna be with him, then you must also accept him having side pussy.
>>37341367
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>all these serious replies
>>37341718
>Chicks think it makes them seem open, intelligent and humorous.
If this is how you were exposed to banter it's no wonder you hate it. Woman are not funny. Banter is usually code for an inside joke so of course you won't understand it if you don't know the people.
People (ie alot of men and the majority of women) who don't really know what banter is assume it to be just merely insulting someone and pretending it's a joke.
>>37341367
if he values fucking over who you are as a person, break up with his ass. Dont tolerate a side bitch. That shit is just cheating.
>>37347427
because it's a genuine issue even if OP is funnin' around. There are too many guys out there that just dont know how to fuck. it's not just Tab A into Slot B, you can be completely inadequate in bed even with a hot bod and nice dick.
>>37341367
It's very normal if he takes sterons
>>37341367
not sure if pasta but I'm exactly like this, but with more control over my passions. I'd say he's behaving like a healthy young man, and healthy young man think with their dick instead of their brains all the time. My recommendation: get better at sex. My gf was into tantric stuff, and at some point she decided to just fuck me so hard I would beg her to take a break, worked like a charm.
>>37341718
You've never experienced the bants
>>37341593
>people actually think like this
fuck you, you're the reason women are so reluctant to have casual sex
>>37343807
Or maybe hes just horny and wants to fuck
Not everything has to do with subconcious insecurities
Sometimes dudes just want to fuck
Why is that such a difficult concept for pseudo intellectuals like you
>>37341425
TFW I'm the gf and have a higher sex drive... Bf keeps up pretty well tho, we basically match
>>37341487
>No I don't think he's on steroids but he does go to the gym EVERYDAY.
>EVERYDAY.
just in case the b8 wasn't clear enough lmao
it was funny tho OP, you got me at the "he likes buying me loads of fast food and sweets"
>>37342177
You do realize that predators exist in everywhere, right? No one is truly safe, you have to watch out for yourself and your children even among those you're close to.
>>37341803
Dude, I was with this Christian girl for six months before she started giving me head, and a year and a half before we started having sex. If she is truly wife material, then be prepared to play the long game.
Also be prepared to get dumped three years later and watch her run off and fuck Chad after just a few weeks.
Not bitter at all.
>>37348113
>Also be prepared to get dumped three years later and watch her run off and fuck Chad after just a few weeks.
>Tfw the Beta faggs on the site that are not Alphas would hate me IRL
this whole thread and she doesent post pic?
>>37348113
>expecting women to be an object of purity and chastity for this
worst kind of cucks lmao
>>37341371
This gave me a weird boner
>>37341656
whatever you do, don't take the meme definition you are about to receive as fact.
there is good banter and shit banter. it's just a word that means witty, prodding conversation.
>>37347232
Don't be retarded. You have no idea how to choke someone.
You don't go right for the thought, you grab and push on the sides. It's safe and feels better.
>>37341367
You guys are obviously not compatible
You need to find someone with low sex drive like an eunuch or some shit, and he needs a high test girl borderline nympho to keep up with him
There's no point in trying to prolonge this, a relationship is not just sex, but if you have this much to complain only 6 months in then it's time to let it go
>>37347629
I feel like this needs its own thread. The amount of dudes running around with absolutely zero fuck game is appalling
>>37341367
>>37341371
This kind of reminds me of my relationship with my gf. OP, either stop being a frigid bitch or leave your man.
>>37347935
Do you wish for sex more often or longer or what do tell
>>37341367
FUARK, NOW IM PARANOID IM DOING THIS TO MY GF
>>37341395
what the fuck i thought i was on a Taiwanese tea appreciation board
take him to church
>149 replies to bait
Fucking idiots.
>>37341569
> she's either a virgin or a used up coal burner, literally no option exists
>>37341404
>a girl who shares his sex drive
I have some bad news for you, anon...
Cool blog
>>37341371
>>37341367
Is he black ?
>>37341367
So many kids and shit people on this board. I used to be like this, but changed once I realised it was unreasonable behaviour. 2 times a week seems a reasonable amount for a couple in a relationship. But if he's not willing to go for less sex then he's not going to change and you'll end up resenting eachother.
>>37341899
>bate
