I do no fap, I workout, I eat clean, I'm social. How the hell do you find girls to date without using tinder and online crap?
>>36664713
Get out of the house
You find the good ones without trying desu.
The kind of pretty girl you see at a store/mall/event/class if you're still in college who isn't flaunting her shit around and you're just sorta magnetized to her.
Fuck I miss being able to trust women.
Women are all over the place. What you need to do is not to try and hunt down every woman you meet just to get a gf, but rather get to know plenty and wait until you find someone you actually hit it off with.
Don't be ugly.
>>36664768
This
Do some 5k events lots of women there.
>>36664762
this
The responses to this one are always either "don't be a beta faggot and just do it," or people talking about how hopeless getting girls is and talking about how they got screwed over.
I would like some actionable advice.
no fap doesn't do shit you fucking losers, its a good way to kill you libido and increase health risks for your sperm and balls
>>36664769
You have to be 18 or older to post here
>>36664798
I don't even run those events but I show up with my cousin and I can vouche for this.
>>36664713
1,3,2
>>36665835
>see girl you like
>introduce self
>is she into you?
>if no return to step one
>if yes ask to go out
>did she say yes?
>take her on a fucking date
>did she say no?
>fucking return to step one
Actionable enough for you?
>>36665835
>"don't be a beta faggot and just do it
that's literally it you dumbass.
there's no magic secret to getting a GF. You can read a bunch of PUA bullshit and she will leave you once she realizes you are a beta faggot. The only way to get better is literally doing it. It's like thinking you can learn to ride a bike by just reading about how others do it
>>36664713
Honestly OP, Tinder is great for it. Easy to set up simple coffee dates with tons of women. You get a pretty good idea of their personality and if they're the type of girl you're after then go for it. You'll probably get laid along the way as well.
Just give up, OP.
>tfw went down on an escort today cause her pussy looked so perfect
>>36666245
you can't do this if you're 5'7 though, feelsbadman
>>36666443
you can't really do much if you're 5'7" anyway, like reach the top of a fridge or the higher up cupboards
>>36666326
>went down on an escort
Personally in my experience, the best girls are girls you meet at work or at school.
Current gf i met at my workplace and she's gorgeous and funny.
just talk to them breh
1st gf) met in school ended up cucking me
2nd gf) was a regular that came into my work, asked for her # and was the best gf i ever had and virgin. ended up leaving me cause i was too distant after 1 1/2 years together
3rd gf) met on okcupid. lasted 2 years. most crazy girl i have ever met and we always fought over everything but had the best sex of my life. claimed to love me unconditionally but caught her texting another dude and threw her ass to the curb
>>36666326
>>36664713
I'm single af too but come on, even Charles Manson had a gf.
Fuck, kill, marry
>>36666567
would you like to be my gf
Guys, I have a real date with a korean qt on friday.
What the fuck do I do? I have talked to her twice before.
Plz help me /fit/
>>36666567
>even
Charles Manson is one of the suavest guys alive
Impossible.
All girls are liars, whores, sluts, skanks, cunts, who will use you for money while they go out and get gangbanged by chad and tyrone nightly.
Then she'll give birth to Tyrone's half breed and force you to pay for it.
>>36666636
Bring her to your place.
Cook her a nice curry with dog meat.
Rub it on her naked body, as is tradition in Korea.
Consent is optional.
Fuck her while screaming incoherently.
>lifting for girls
>>36666567
I'll break up with my girl right now for you.
Come to Toronto
>>36666173
But he's right.
>>36666666
WEW LAD
>>36666666
Nice
>>36666663
But I like my dog and do want to kill it
>>36666666
wew
>>36666666
hahahahahaha
witnessed
>>36666638
>the birth of elliot rodger
>>36666666
Perfect.
>>36666666
>>36666666
>>36666666
>>36666666
>>36666666
>>36666666
THE SATAN SEPTUPLET CONFIRMS IT, LIFTING FOR GIRLS IS /OUT/.
>>36666682
It doesn't need to be your dog. Go adopt an old one, they'll be put down anyways.
>>36666694
no thanks jeff
>>36666666
AYYYYYY
>>36666456
Nothing wrong with that
>>36666694
Someone give me real advice
>>36666636
>>36666666
based
>>36664713
>Go to gym
>Do what I had planned that didn't involve the squat rack.
>Can't do squat rack because a shredded cunt is hogging one deadlifting 4pl8 and a lmaogirl is doing fuckall on the other.
>For a solid half hour.
>Spend time on row machine cause it's something
>The girls have actually left the cardio room to watch this guy kill it.
>Bunch of girls watching him.
>Finally he leaves. Girls fuck off.
>Whatdoyouknow the girl fucking around instantly leaves the rack.
>Finish my workout.
>Honestly, I bet he found those bitches as annoying as I did. Just leave humanity behind man.
>>36666666
Hail satan lad
>>36666192
sir your eyes are FUCKING broken
>>36666666
based sep
roastin' in a post-girl bread. new era senpai
>>636664798
>fit
>running in a 5k
C'mon son
>>36666666
>>36666666
Lifting to impress cute boys confirmed
>>36664713
hear me now. you go out to a bar, drink 2-3 beers, then find a chick you like and talk to her. smile a lot and make her laugh. just be confident and if it seems like it goes well, ask for her number. if it goes better than well she will come with you home.
>>36666456
Virgin detected if you ever actually had the money or the nuts to buy a high end one you would know that this isn't the case
>I do no fap, I workout, I eat clean, I'm social
>social
are you sure? what do you do to be social? are there women around?
all the girls I've had any type of sexual relationship with were from work, school, or friend or friends (met at parties, etc.). these things just kind of came natural. you meet a girl just like a guy or anyone. but then over time there's that "spark". maybe you're meeting women but you're really boring? do you have hobbies/interests other than working out?
>>36666856
who is this semen demon
>>36666871
just some random shit I came across here. I imagine it's just a one-off but feel free to reverse image search.
>tfw the only women who are interested in me are SJWs who'll drop me the second they're even slightly offended (still no idea how I upset the last one), or they're fat.
>>36666666
Lifting for girls confirmed stupid
You can literally meet girls anywhere
Let me give you a list of various places I have met girls that I texted/dated/slept with
>Coffee shop
>Art show
>Bars
>Tinder
>Outside a restaurant at 3am in New Orleans
>Music Festival
>Concert
>Through mutual friends
>In my classes at my University
>At the smoker's circle at my University
>Other various dating websites (positivesingles.com to be specific. I have herpes)
>University gym
>I fucked a stripper once
>Finally, I am in Alcoholics Anonymous and I have met girls there and I highly recommend to any bros out there in AA to avoid women in AA unless you have spent a good deal of time getting to know them and know they are healthy
>>36665835
Here's some actionable advice faggot
>find local dance studio
>many offer first time free lesson
>check out as many as you can
>find one with cute instructors
>ask to work with cutest one
>learn to dance
>flirt with dance instructor and develop confidence
>DO FUCKING NOT ASK HER OUT
>Dance instructors are like strippers in the sense that they tell you nice things, shake their asses, and take your money
>HOWEVER, instead of leaving you with blue balls
>they teach you a valuable social skill
>and correct whatever fuckass posture you have from spending all your time on a Homosexual Help Wanted advice board
>you will meet many students at this dance studio
>some of them may even be cute
>flirt with them too it's cool
>DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
>use them as dance partners to get better
>develop your ability to strike up conversation and banter
>develop your ability to be in intimate proximity to women and NOT spill your fucking shit everywhere
>Go out to clubs with these dance partners/friends
>meet women
>these women are cool to pursue
>Live your life with an incredible confidence
>in 6mo to 1yr
>you will radiate that shit
You asked for it now take action on that shit. No one here will be able to hold you accountable. Just know this. If you don't do it you're a total fucking pussy and a waste of fucking oxygen.
Protips:
>For asian women dance swing or waltz(the waltz is super popular in China)
>For latinas dance salsa/bachata/argentine tango
>For white women dance swing or foxtrot or hustle
>Best advice is to pick one with a style of music you prefer and listen to that music exclusively for a time
Go out there and fucking kill it. Or dont. Fag.
You just need to be more active, chances are you already have plenty of girls around you
Met my current gf at a party
We talked first and had a good tone, but I had to INITIATE and start flirting, otherwise she would have just slipped away
Nothing happens unless YOU take action
>>36666666
nice get
>>36666986
As someone who has been doing Salsa classes for the last 5 months, I can confirm this
Go to the same place at the same time often. You'll soon meet someone and chat to them each time. Even the gas station attendant. When you do, don't be creepy. Eventually ask them out, if you're scared it's just less than 30 seconds of embarrassment vs the best girl you'll meet and marry. Which would you pick?
Also, never trust a nurse. They're all cheaters. I always seem to end up with them and they claim they're single, nope. Married with kids... every time. But they're fun.
>>36666986
>>36667000
Ballroomfag here. Salsa a shit
>>36667020
>Ballroom
>>36666666
truth has been witnessed
>>36666666
>>36667000
Keep it up, been at it for a year myself now but taking a short break to work on some career shit. Best decision of my life. Found myself a fucking gorgeous, hard working little latina with a fat booty. She squats, works two jobs, goes to school and loves the dick and is totally good with me going out and dance on my own whenever she's too busy.
Only downside is the fucking hordes of vag I could be swimming in if I had just stayed single. Whenever I go out with my girl there's always females who line up for a chance to dance with me. I always end up telling one of them "not tonight" and the rest take the hint.
Dance was the best thing I could have done for my sex life. Got me a great girl who knows to act right or she's replaceable in a heartbeat.
>>36666723
Just ask questions, it doesn't matter if they're relevant to anything , I asked a Latina about the water in Mexico the other day and she just laughed and then answered anyways.
Poke fun about things that nobody can take seriously. I made fun of her because she calls the bath and body works that she works at a "body shop" and I immediately thought cars so I bring it up every once in awhile.
I guess just be normal and try your best to keep the conversation going so they can't look at their phones or stare into space. if you can't think of anything read her palm and confess you don't know anything about palm readings afterwards. I think I saw it in a movie but it works fine.
Or something stupid like that. Also girls like stupid Shit like the star animal things. Cancer Libra w/3
And remember, she wants to be there too.
>>36667020
The fact that you call yourself a ballroomfag speaks volumes.
Have fun dancing at arms length. I'll go ahead and get dirty on the dance floor if she lets me.
>>36667031
>salsa
Don't mind me, I'll just be over here doing the superior gentleman's style with beautiful Aryan women
>>36666666
screen this, lifting for girls is outdated. LORD KEK HAS SPOKEN
Here's the best way
1) Leave the house
2) Go join a sports club or another activity you enjoy
3) Say hey to the girls there
4) As you go more often, you'll become better friends with the people there and add them on fb and shit
5) Send a qt one the message
6) then it sorta goes on autopilot and either goes great or goes to shit
>>36666567
sorry bruh but this fella is correct>>36666637
if you can convince people to kill for you you can definitely land some puss
>>36667102
>LORD KEK HAS SPOKEN
Holy shit kill yourself
>>36666666
checked
>>36667017
>Even the gas station attendant
>>36664713
Here's what you do. You meet women through a variety of means; work, school friends of friends. If they seem chill you treat them like any other friend and then maybe something develops or maybe it doesn't.
You do this with multiple people who's company you enjoy and then it happens over time. You don't try to get a girlfriend. You try to get girls who are friends.
It's amazing what happens when you treat them like people. Not that any of you /pol/ and /r9k/ women haters would know
>>36664713
>I do no fap, I workout, I eat clean, I'm social.
>>36664713
Well, first you need to The Press 1pl8. Each plate you can press will get you one gf.
>>36667153
cuck as fuck.
As a 23 year old /fit/ guy, where can I find a 30ish year old woman who's clinging to her youth?
I need to know for a friend of mine
>>36667153
>You meet women through a variety of means; work
I would say this is a big no-no if you plan on having a career and work at a somewhat serious company
Ofc it will vary, ive had gf at work but its not recommended
Drama at home means drama at work and vice versa
We all go though our peaks and valleys. I had a big peak 3 years ago. I was firing on all cylinders in life in general. I was nailing it in every way, and I met tons of women, and most importantly my fiance.
But here is the thing I realize when thinking about that time in my life: When I was at my peak, I not only spent zero time on online forums, but the thought of them had no appeal to me at all.
At that time in my life, I was determined to live each day to the fullest. When you think of someone living his life to the fullest, do you think of a guy who stops for even 1 minute to post on a forum? Hell no!
So the very fact that you posted here would indicate to me that you have not dedicated yourself to living life to the fullest, and that is the thing that women are attracted to.
LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST, AND WATCH THE WOMEN FLOCK TO YOU!
Side note: I find myself posting on forums more often now, and I'm also slipping in physical fitness. I'm in a down period now, and if I wasn't coupled, I think I would have a hard time meeting women at this point in my life as well.
If you think about it, all the shitty things people say to each other online is because they are sitting in a chair instead of living life. Sedentarism is the disease, and writing shitty things is the symptom.
>>36667249
Tinder
>>36667259
>it's a "stay away from 4chan" 4chan post
>>36666183
tfw no athletic friends.
>>36667253
majority of relationships in the world are started in the workplace.
seems everyone says
> don't date at work
but statistically everyone does.
>>36666245
I'd need to get some good pictures for that, I should have setup instagram years ago so I could learn to selfie :'(
>>36667305
>majority of relationships in the world are started in the workplace.
Yes, true they are but im saying its a bad idea if you plan on making a career
If you dont give a shit or work at a big enough company then its cool but imagine working at a department with 20 people and one of em is your gf
I dont look for a gf at neither school or work since those dont really work out for me
step 1 be attractive step 2 dont be unattractive
seriously tho heres the definitive guide to being attractive
You know all those girls you're attracted to? Have you ever thought about why? Have you ever thought about how they accomplished that, and genuinely respected the effort it takes to become that person?
In the end, all those women you like have, in their own ways, spent a lot of time, money (not necessarily their own), and stress on CREATING the self that you are attracted to. even girls who get 10/10 hot genetics can get fat or lazy, or have bad posture, or be stupid, or dress poorly, or be uninteresting, or have incompatible beliefs. even they need to do SOMETHING
now look at yourself. honestly. honestly evaluate yourself. the quality of the partner you will deserve is EQUAL or LESS than the quality of person you, yourself, are.
LISTEN
YOU have to become attractive. Why do you think the fucking step 1 be attractive step 2 dont be unattractive shit is so ubiquitous? because it is, fundamentally, undeniably, true. people who say it sarcastically are ignorant pussies.
>b-but anon desu~ w-what d-does being attractive m-mean? how do i become attractive?
listen up you insufferable cunt. attractive people are
1. interesting
2. in good physical shape
3. self-sufficient
4. genuinely caring
5. has purpose in life
THE LESS EACH OF THESE APPLY TO YOU, THE LESS ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE, and visa versa.
cultivating levels of mastery in any of these categories will boost their effectiveness. anyone can read a book, but if you've read 1000's its more likely to get you pussy.
>>36667249
okcupid, eharmony, etc. Tinder and bars work, but you might have actual young women who think they have a future with you getting in the way.
>>36666666
Check theeeeeeeeeeeeem
>>36667345
Caveats include
1 - Being interesting is relative to personal interests. You are interesting BECAUSE you EARNESTLY pursue interests. You also need to have several hobbies. One is not good enough to be "attractive" because it makes you one-dimensional. Also, people will be biased towards their own kind! If you play hella hearthstone, but your oneitis is hoodrat, she'll be okay with hearing about hearthstone stuff occasionally, on a surface level, and your enjoyment of the game will add depth to your character, BUT it will not be good enough ON ITS OWN.
2 - Think about the kind of women you find hot. Not just "average" or "good enough", but actually hot. Now think about how you view women who are "average", "okay" "6/10" or even "kinda ugly". Think about how you view dating those women.
Being in "decent" shape is bullshit, nobody cares about that. You really want a girl to think about your body the same way you think about 6/10 flabby she-nerds? Really?
Additionally, you need to have some genuine motivation outside of vanity. Wanting to be swole for pussy makes you a vain bitch who cares too much about their appearance. If you only have a body so you can mentally jack yourself off to how fucking siccckkkk dez cutz r bro, then you're a piece of shit, and you will NEVER have women view your body as anything more than an object of vanity. You will get sluts, but not girlfriends.
Now, people say "women don't know what they want" because waifus also like their men to be in shape. This is bullshit. They want you to be in shape FOR A REASON. They want you to aspire to be strong, or fast, or powerful, or good at a sport. They want you to be useful, to demonstrate ability.
Any retard can go to the gym and eat chicken. What separates you from a retard? Think about that.
>>36666666
DEEZ SEPTUPS
>>36667345
>>36667353
3 - "wah women want money wah"
I'm sorry, are you a bitch? Who asked you to marry these gold-digging bitches? I don't see anyone taking responsibility for their mistakes in this threads. Talkin about hating women and losing half their shit.
Bitch you so stupid you gonna marry the first vagina you catch feelings for?
A truly self-sufficient person FINDS MEANING WITHIN THEMSELVES AND THE EFFECT THEY HAVE ON THEIR WORLD.
That, above all, will make you attractive. If you need a woman, then you are an incomplete man. You are the equivalent of a bitch with daddy issues. You are weak, and pathetic. Fix yourself first.
4 - Lots of people like to think they're nice.
Let me define nice for you.
You are nice IF and ONLY IF you constantly go out of your way, and make unrequited sacrifices which genuinely detract from your own self-interest, for the benefit of others.
That is what a caring person is. LITERALLY ANYONE can make another person feel good when it doesn't cost them anything. You will not be appreciated. Nobody will, even subconsciously, respect you for being caring unless they respect the effort it took you to be that way.
IF IT TOOK NO EFFORT, YOU GET NO RESPECT
5 - Why don't you kill yourself? If you don't have a good answer for this question, you need to create one.
If you can't explain why your existence is not only a net-good, but what motivates you to continue existing, then how is someone supposed to explain to themselves why your relationship should continue existing.
>>36666666
>>36667347
>but you might have actual young women who think they have a future with you getting in the way
If this was a problem i dont think we´d see any "tfw no gf" posts
>>36664768
Numbers game, anon. It's true.
>>36667371
the reason is why my friend prefers a 30 year old woman is because you kinda know what you get because most women don't look that good at that age and sagging starts.
Young women don't have this and you might and up dating a future uggo
That's just my friend's opinion though
>>36667398
>That's just my friend's opinion though
Technically he is correct, my point was if all you had to do was drag your ass to a bar and young girls would start imagining having a future with you we wouldnt see so much whining about not getting a gf from most anons
Hell, if it was that easy id do it myself for a simple ego boost
>>36667430
I think he's talking about young girls interfering on dating sites to you'd have to weed through more
>>36667456
>I think he's talking about young girls interfering on dating sites to you'd have to weed through more
How...what?
Look, my point still stands. Girls dont just appear out of nowhere, if you dont hunt for them you wont find em
Its like worrying that walls will jump out infront of your car when youre driving down the road, it just wont happen on its own
>>36667371
I'm assuming anon is targeting 30 year olds because he thinks that's the best place for him to be in no-strings sex. If he's completely unattractive and thinks 30 is high enough he's a fucking idiot; a 30 year old woman could still fuck most college men if she wanted it.
>>36667505
not only that but they have the baby rabies far worse than a girl in her early to mid twenties
>>36667259
>live life to fullest meme
I bet you posted that bullshit rant while you were skydiving, right anon?
What's in store for tomorrow? White water rafting and continuous laughing?
>>36667518
depends on the woman. I live in asia, though, so most women above 27 are desperate to get married. women looking for a fling with a younger guy aren't going to have that issue though
>>36667056
Thanks man
>>36667505
yes, i understand and i think its a great idea
Its much, much better to target a niche is a highly competitive market to improve chances
My point was its not like younger girls will throw themselves at you just because you hunt for older ones
What you say is true, most women below 40 could fuck prolly most men they meet but id say the standards are prolly lower for women above 30 compared to 20-25
From my experience with the 30+ girls is they become psycho and jealous very quickly. Don't let them know where you live if you can. They're usually so busy with the single kid and work they can never meet a single guy their age. They seem to think you're the younger version of some guy they thought they were to good for back then but now realized, he's the one that got away. It's creepy, they seem to fall in love with you even though you agreed to just sex. Then start stalking you, then start texting you all this weird shit about how you're meant to be together. Then again maybe it's just the crazy girls at age 30, I can't find a sane one at any age.
>>36667531
>above 27 desperate to get married
>women looking for a fling with a younger guy aren't going to have that issue though
that's exactly the group of girls i'm talking about, the 27-40 age girls that are starting to get desperate about having a family. They're not looking for casual flings 99% of the time that's the early 20 somethings
>>36667523
skydiving is overrated as fuck
>>36667612
I'm the guy who's friend is looking for a 30ish woman
I sorta dated one a while back and when it was over it was spooky. She knew what times I went to the gym and always drove by at those times and started driving slower to watch me.
happened a few times, these women ALWAYS hang around, even if you think they are gone for a couple of months; they always contact you again.
pretty sure she was BP, it's a shame I fall for those type of girls
>>36667699
>sure she was BP
BP?
>>36666723
Talk to women like you've already fucked them.
Talk to men like you've already kicked their ass.
Basically remove all apprehension around people by framing it in your mind as if you've already conquered them in whatever way.
It's delusion, sure, but it really worked for me especially when talking to hot girls. It's like a switch. If I don't remember to turn it on I drop spaghetti and sperg out stuttering and exhibiting terrible body language.
If I just say to myself 'already fucked her' suddenly it's like I'm talking to a friend. It becomes easy, casual, fun and they eat it up.
I like the advice on salsa classes too... Definitely going to try that.
>>36667710
bipolar
>>36667692
>Missing the point this hard.
>>36666666
Bark.
>>36667714
>If I just say to myself 'already fucked her' suddenly it's like I'm talking to a friend.
I do this already and its hard to escale it to sex from here
In fact i havent been able to do this to this day so how do you go around this?
>>36666666
wew
>>36667756
It's hard to give you a play by play you just have to recognise their attraction and escalate physically.
They basically always make the first move. They move in close. They get really touchy feely. At that point you've got them and all you have to do is kiss and get them home.
When I approach them as friends it all happens so naturally that I don't really have to do anything. If they're attracted to me they make it known really soon. You just have to not miss those signs and you're golden. It's really easy when you've got a feel for it.
I guess if you're trying to force it it's not going to work. If you lay out the right bait she'll do all the work for you. All you need to do is not cockblock yourself by being to eager or spergy.
>>36666666
Satan has spoken
>>36666986
Doing lindyhop lessons; can confirm this is solid as steel advice.
>>36664713
The basic idea is to not give a flying fuck. I had a relationship with a girl for almost 3 years, we broke up (mutual) and I felt like shit for almost a year. I was afraid I would never find a girl again, die alone, shit like that.
Then, at some magical moment, I decided that I simply didn't give a fuck anymore. I put my focus back on my studies, working out, friends and family. And just like that, I met a girl. This was 5 years ago and we've been happily married for almost a year now. She's a workout and diet freak like me, so don't believe all the gain-goblin bullshit people tell you on here.
Seriously, just don't give a fuck.
>>36667721
not really, just pointing it out
>>36667834
This does seem reasonable but its really counter to the whole way girls seem to work where you need to work really hard to make em attracted
Just gotta work on getting to know a shitton of women now to talk to and maybe it will click with one
Thanks anon
>>36667259
This sounds like a post from someone who goes to r/motivated to get the courage to go to the grocery store alone.
>OP Implying that he doesnt fap.
What a fucking load of shit. Everyone faps.
>>36666666
Thanks, Satan
>>36664713
dont be under 5'9
have a decent job
dont live with parents
have a car
>>36666666
Confirmed
>>36664762
This
Going for the 10/10 bunny with cocksucking lips from heaven will only fuck you up. And actively looking for a girl will make them notice you reeking of desperation so just learn to let it go. Even if you got one, it will be a shallow and bland relationship
My current gf and I were just friends at first, didn't even consider trying to fuck her or woo her. After we got to know eachother better it just sorta happened on its own
Don't force it mayne. We're all gonna make it. DON'T let yourself become a 4chin woman-hating loser pleb brother
>>36666666
Satan's septs have spoken
also, capped
>>36666666
>>36666986
just remember you're doing this shit for confidence.
in the real world, no one actually does stupid shit like salsa or whatever in the club.
>>36666638
this is how you don't get a gf
>>36666666
LUCIFER WILLS IT
>>36666666
Ayy
>>36667714
Thats good advice anon. I do the same and it works wonders.
Sometimes it makes me look like a douchebag because i start talking and acting like an alpha, but yeah i dont spit spaghetti anymore
>>36667834
Are you attractive?
If girls always do the first move for you and then you must be an attractive guy.
If you are, then fuck you. It doesnt matter what you say or do when you are attractive.
>>36664713
Good question...
I found my soulmate, but I feel like we just got really lucky
No fap is really excessive tho imo
>>36666666
Saved.
>just go up to her and say hi
what do you say after this? plz respond
i can't think of anything other than how are you. but then the other person will usually say "good, how are you?" i say "good". and then crickets.
>>36666666
>lifting
>>36668527
Do not ever fucking use something lame as:
> How are you
> What are you doing
> The weather sucks
> Hey i need ...... can you help me
Just jump right into the motherfucking conversation.
I approached a girl who works at my gym last night.
The second i looked in her eyes i said:
>" Hey, do you want to go home? " (It was late night).
> Hahaha yeah that'd be awsome
>" Well i wont let you. I need some help in the free weights section. ( a Barbell was losing some screws)
> Haha welp thanks a lot for that xD
Smooth right?
Just say anything as long as its not generic bullshit like " Hey how are you, how was your day or bullshit like that".
They are aware that you dont fucking care about their day or how they are feeling. They dont fucking care about the weather.
If you jump right into the conversation you will look confident.
>>36666965
need an AA chick story
>>36664768
This, so much this.
Along the way you'll also come across some basic bitches for easy hook ups.
>>36664713
Go out to bars I guess.
Or pick them up at hobbies?
I used to meet women from my boxing club or from going to bars in towns with friends.
After years of "playing" I finally got myself a girlfriend; she was perfect... Until she turned out to be a bit too fucked in the head and broke my heart.
4 months later and I've got no sex drive still; had a couple chances to potentially get lucky and i didn't bother trying to pursue them. I don't even feel like fapping most of the time.
>>36666965
>AA
You fuckhead. You prey on the most vulnerable almost guaranteeing you get laid. Well, when you've deep dicked enough practicing your 13th step and find warts all over your dick, I hope you pass that on to your wife so she can't bear any of your children.
>>36666666
>>36664713
Buy and read Day Bang by RooshV and then use it to approach hundreds of girls (3-4 x day) with non scummy openers that turn into real conversations. With time this will lead to a handful of real dates with women in whom you are mutually interested.
>>36666666
>36666666
>>36668229
>have had 2 girlfriends
>both approached me
>mfw I was a 7/10 and they were a 7/10 and 5/10
am I attractive?
>>36668694
Probably, anon is likely an uglet though. Women do approach men who aren't god-like uberchads.
I've had one woman approach me, but she lost interest after a few weeks.
>>36664713
I met my gf of 15 years now while at a local used bookstore/coffee shop. She caught me reading the Complete Essays of Mark Twain one day and struck up a conversation with me about it. She was cute, slightly chubby, and intelligent, so we made small talk for a bit. Being shy af I didn't ask her for a date then, but she started hanging out there more often, and would talk to me any time we crossed paths. Eventually she gave me the "Are you ever going to ask me out?" line. Probably about 2 weeks of pussyfooting around making small talk before that. We even played a game of chess one day. Eventually she got into working out with me. She told me later that she started dieting the week we met, and working out shortly after that.
I don't know. There's people looking out there. You just need to spend some time out and about. Run into people. Be interesting. Be willing to give someone a chance. I think she had the chubby going because she was rudderless and depressed.
And after seeing what has happened with my friends in the last 15 years, don't settle for someone uninteresting just because they are hot, and remember that bitches will feign interest in the things you like just to get their hooks in.
just b urself :^)
>>36668755
Just make yourself into something worth paying attention to.
Because, senpai, if you're desperate enough to make a thread about this shit here, you ain't there.
>>36668754
>bitches will feign interest in the things you like just to get their hooks in.
Id be totally fine with this if it got me a gf
Im lonely as fuck and i cant find a single girl who is interested in me or anything related to me
I seriously dont understand how guys get laid or girlfriends, they are so uninterested it hurts
>>36666986
Just bought a groupon for some dance lessons at a well reviewed studio. Thanks for the inspiration bro!
>>36666666
GODLY SEPTS
>>36666666
witnessed
>>36666666
>>36668791
A faster way that worked for me is getting slightly drunk, hitting up a bar and going at it until I got over my fear of rejection.
Also, here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RECaepj8LkU if your 'dancing' consists of reloading animations like me.
>>36666666
SO IT HAS BEEN WRITTEN
>>36668785
Don't be. Of my 5 closest friends, 4 are divorced because they had so little in common with their girls, despite the girls pretending to be into all the shit we were.
The exception is the one guy that met a girl who was interning at the tech place he was working at. Pure nerd cutie gamer. They've been together for 17 years now, have 2 kids, and are pretty much my model for a perfect family life.
The other 4 are weekend dads losing most of their paychecks to alimony and child support.
Don't waste your time on people you have no future with.
>>36668632
>>36668632
i never know what to say though
how do you come up with things? how do you banter?
>>36666666
witnessed
>>36668821
>Don't waste your time on people you have no future with.
Feels like im wasting my time right now anyway being alone
Id rather waste it with someone than waste it alone
I mean when i think about where i am going to be when im 40 im thinking about dead for 10 years due to loneliness and thats not really better
Plus im not american so no aliomony
>>36667361
>>5 - Why don't you kill yourself? If you don't have a good answer for this question, you need to create one.
;_;
how do i create one?
>>36668921
Yeah, but the problem with those failed relationships isn't that they failed, it's that those men are now pushing 40, and by then, all the good women are taken. Those 10 years with the wrong person matter. During that time you are unavailable to meet the right person. Never settle.
>>36666666
u did it anon gj
>>36668946
I can honestly say id settle instantly if i found a girl who was willing to date
I mean shit man, just meeting a person is nearly impossible
Im sorry for being a dickhead but ive been single for a year and i knew the single life would be hell but it was worse than i could ever imagine
Spending 10 years with the wrong person being moderatley happy or spending 10 years alone doesnt seem like a hard choice atm
I thought things would be better as i got older but the dating scene was infinetly better when i was 18
>>36666666
Witnessed
>>36664713
>good
>gf
Pick one. Recently got out of a LTR and forgot how terrible dating is. Women never know what they want and will go from deepthroating your cock in a parkinglot to cutting you off at the drop of a dime.
I think i'm gonna focus on fitness, music, and friends and disregard bitches.
>>36666666
checked
>>36668994
Oh, shit, you poor, poor man. How have you survived a whole YEAR alone. I could never imagine how it could be possible to exist for a whole single. fucking. year.
>THAT SHIT WAS SARCASM
It gets worse. A lifetime alone is not much of a life worth living if you can't find something to focus on.
>>36666666
>>36669019
Strangely, you'll find that when you focus on that shit, the girls will flock to you. Bitches love unavailable men.
>>36669051
What i meant was being alone and unable to change it is hurtful
If i was able to pull dates anytime i wanted, have sex or better yet have a FWB i wouldnt be so miserable
>>36666666
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug
>>36669098
You interpreted the opposite of the intent of my post. Try taking your one year and stretch it to a couple decades.
>>36669134
I really really like this image.
>>36666666
Checked
>stop chasing girls
>go to school and ace it
>get great job
>work on my looks and get in shape
>save money and buy property and investments
>27 and lonely as fuck
Just work on yourself and they'll come is a lie. You still have to do everything.
I fap twice a day, don't go to the gym anymore (fuckin honours dude), eat like shit and don't go to any events.
Just fucking put yourselves out there you spastics.
>>36669162
>Just work on yourself and they'll come is a lie. You still have to do everything.
Spot on, there is no universe where girls just "come" to you
The hunter who sits on the edge of the forest waiting doent catch anything
>>36669207
You've never hunted, have you?
Most hunting is about providing something appealing to your prey, and sitting for hours on end until it comes into your sights.
Also, as related previously, my gf sought me out. It happens. There is enough anecdotal evidence on both sides of the argument.
>>36669286
>You've never hunted, have you?
I have, when i was little
My last two gfs sought me out too, but this requires huge amounts of luck
You are right and my analogy was inapt, it should have been "The hunter who sits on the couch all day every day wont catch anything"
Hunting and getting laid/a gf is quite similar actually now that i think about it...damn
>>36669352
>>36669286
Go where the prey is and stay there until something worth bagging wanders into view. Then shoot her. Right?
>>36669377
Well, usually it's more, date her for a bit, decide shooting her or yourself isn't a terrible option anymore, relent, break up, mope around for a few months, rinse, repeat.
>>36666666
>>36666484
Don't shit where you eat
>>36669377
Find out things about your prey
Use a lure tailored to the specific prey
Find a place where the prey would be
Wait until your prey shows up
Attempt to make a take down
If youre skilled enough and lucky you will have made a successful takedown
In dating terms you would now have a date/gotten her number so now the game changes dramatically
>>36666666
FUCKING AMAZING
CHECKED
>>36669451
>take your date into the woods
>shoot her
>skin her and hang her head over your mantelpiece
easy as shit I don't know why you beta fucks are having so much trouble
>>36666666
Witnessed
>>36666666
>>36669451
>>36666666
Checkery dickery doo
>>36669480
Same reason hunters dont catch a deer, it doesnt want to get shot so it tends to avoid it
with girls its similar, except we need em to allow us to "shoot" them using only words
the analogy is getting muddy
>>36666666
WITNESSED
>>36666666
Witnessed. I hope we can all move on from lifting for grills question.
>>36669088
Good point breh. Thats the way it needs to be then.
>>36666666
the king has returned
>>36667345
>visa versa
for everything else there's mastercard.
>>36666245
>tinder is great
Depends on where you live and how white you are
>>36666666
amen
>>36669757
What if you're looking for a japanese qt to replace the one you couldn't get?
>>36666638
yea your mom is a whore who only uses you for money, fucking retard go back to /r9k/
>>36666666
SHIT
>>36668632
>"H-Heyy haha, do you uh, are you ready to go home? Haha."
>"What? Get away creep."
>"W-well I won't let you! You're trapped here hahah!"
You're not smooth at all you fucking faggot. That was the cringiest shit i've ever read.
>>36666666
>>36664713
Girlfriend, easy as fuck. Good girlfriend 100% luck.
>Constantly flirt with girl at work
>she flirts back
>not sure if she's just playing along for fun
But then again, I'm not sure if I'm just doing it for fun as well.
>>36666666
witnessed
>>36666822
>Virgin detected
Nah I just don't fuck prostitutes. LMAO @ U tho
>>36666965
When did you know that AA was the way?
>mfw 21 and been going to AA and NA meetings on and off since 17
>mfw still drink heavily and use all kinds of drugs
>mfw not ready for 12 steps
>mfw I have no face
>>36670039
If nothing else, it's good practice at being social.
Girls from the gym and tinder bitches are not gf material, best places are libraries, cultural events and your campus.
I'm dating a nice girl, she is in the
top tenth of ther faculty and we share the same political views and black humor, I know she's a 7/10 for /fit/ but damn, she's a 10/10 for me.
>>36667873
same here, toronto has some thirsty asians
>>36670222
>your campus.
Campus? whats that?
>>36670249
>A campus is traditionally the land on which a college or university and related institutional buildings are situated. A modern campus is a collection of buildings that belong to a given institution, either academic or non-academic. Usually a campus includes libraries, lecture halls, residence halls, student centers or dining halls, and park-like settings.
>>36664762
Found my girlfriend at a college events afterparty. She was ordering a drink and I just went over to talk to her. We sat around and talked and I walked her home and she gave me her number. Das it mayne.
>>36670282
Oh, school
Id never ever date any girl from my university, no matter how thirsty i get
Smart chicks are not gf material
>>36670295
Why?
Dude, I dated some sluts, yeah they were hot as fuck, but believe me, they're definitelyNOT gf material
>>36670352
A few reasons, some studies ive read showed that smarter girls had less of a sex drive and didnt have as many orgasms as dumber girls.
The reason for this was believed to be that smarter girls think too much so they cant relax
Sex is paraount in a relationship to me, i cant imagine not having it
The main reason however is that i think a girl who is dumber is more likely to be loyal since she will think youre a better catch if youre smarter than her
A smart girl will most likely just dump your ass and replace you if things get rough and since i prefer long term relationships that really doesnt seem like something i need
The girls in my class are hot, sure but im not looking for hot im looking for a gf
>>36668908
Plz respond
>>36670295
>implying women in uni are smart
nigga you dumb
>>36666666
>>36670423
Notice something about the person or what they do. Make a quip about it that is mildly flattering to them. Initiate conversation if they banter back. If they laugh it off, or look uncomfortable, you dun goofed. Correct it with self depreciating humor about what a dork you are, or back away slowly.
>>36670393
Dumb people are myopic. The smarter she is, the more she is going to think ahead and plan her actions. Dumb bitch gets cranky and fucks of for a drunk dicking with Chad every time she doesn't get her way.
>>36666666
>>36670393
>tfw I am too prodigiously intelligent to enjoy sex
if only I could be like the rest of you meatheads
>>36666666
>can you even satisfy a board with no septs?
>>36670393
>basing your entire relationship on sex
Nigga, you aren' looking for a gf, you just want to fuck. Nothing wrong with that tho.
>>36668657
>I spend my free time on /fit/ and I feel superior to girls because they like art or music
>>36668679
>I have to approach hundreds of women just to get a few dates
guessing that rooshv is doing something wrong
>>36664713
You don't. Welcome to the future op.
First it's dating apps because no one cares to meet people in person.
Next it's robot sex slaves + virtual reality because no one cares to leave the house.
>>36664713
>I do no fap
>>36666666
>>36670470
What are some examples.. Would this work
> y-you have nice shoes
>tfw socially retarded
>>36666986
>>36667000
>>36667020
>>36667873
Haha these faggots. Especially this one >>36668791
He just got trolled into becoming a faggot. We did it /fit/.
>>36666666
WHAT HAVE WE DONE
>>36666731
>guy getting mired on 4 pl8
>>36666666
CHECKED
>>36670393
get some self respect, jesus
you're admitting that you want a dumb and ignorant person to be your significant other because you're not confident in your own ability
you should never be worried about a girl cheating or getting in a fight with her, because you can drop her just like that and get a new one. You don't need her, she needs you
