Fit help
>i got fit
>i got a girl
but i cant get it up. What the fuck do i do?
ill be rock hard, and ill put on a condom and my boner dies immediately. please help fit, im so close
>>36646867
maybe condom too tight?
>>36646867
dont use condoms
Bigger condoms dude
>>36646867
get girl to drink pills
Get her on the pill and go raw
If not possible, first think about the reason you have this problem, and from there come up with a solution and work on it, with your girlfriend's support
Op here
i know its not ED, i can get erections, just the second the condoms goes on i lose em
>>36646913
she said that even if she were on the pill she would want me to use a condom
I think its mental, performance anxiety bullshit
stop fapping and itll go away in 1.5-2 weeks tops not that fucking hard
>>36646966
then you're just mental.
Eat bananas , gets the blood pumpin like crazy. Maybe keep stroking it with the condom on , or do something that turns you on about her , slapping her ass , eatinng her out , etc.
>>36646985
ive stopped cold turkey
seeing her again this weekend hopefully it helps
>>36647026
gonna go buy a bunch of bananas now
>>36646867
maybe you like dudes?
>>36646966
I had the same problem my man
I knew it was probably 75% mental overthinking and shit but I wasn't able to get past it just by realizing it
What really fixed it was buying L-Argnanine (pic related)
It's the amino acid that increases blood flow or some shit. I take 5-10g an hour before sex and I'm absolutely good to go
Now I'm sure a lot of it is placebo, but it fucking worked. And the first time I was able to fuck like I used to after dealing with ED for a couple months made me get my confidence back, and that's all it took to really not have to worry about it again
250 pills of this stuff are like $10 on amazon. Check out the reviews of it too, everyone says the same thing. It really does help
>>36646867
Viagra
You're gay.
>>36646867
Start nofap, bro. I had that problem when I had sex for the first time. Probably performance axiety, if you're horny enough it'll work nevertheless.
>>36647079
>he said hopefully
I had this problem myself at age 17 when I got my first girlfriend, turned out I was just anxious, after trying for about 3 times I got it up no problem. Just relax, it's not that uncommon
Condoms are ass, if this is gonna be a long term relationship and she has insurance convince her to get the depo shot. People always overstate its miniscule chance of ineffectiveness and its a one and done that lasts for months
>>36646966
I had the same prob breh
You know what the problem is?
That lack of action while you're putting the damn thing on
Believe it or not you aren't a fucking switch that can go from flaccid to erect at a moments notice like Dennis.
It takes some work especially if you want it to stay hard.
I would lose it when I'd put it on with my gf but be totally fine up to that point.
Got rid of the condoms, stayed hard all the way through.
Condoms just suck.
Having her blow you first or just rubbing your cock up and down her vagina as foreplay helps you get some lubrication on the inside of the condom.
Also just relaxing, as soon as you freak out and your sympathetics start taking over you're fucked.
>>36646966
>she said that even if she were on the pill she would want me to use a condom
anxiety is bad
stop worrying about your dick
thats all you have to do
>>36647254
std's man
first time i lost my virginity i only used a condom for about half of the sex and took it off, was pretty great and came in her face and now we're really good friends but she's dating my best friend even though there's a lot of sexual tension between us
don't know where i'm going with this
My penis is too small for normal condoms
I'm a bottom though :3
>>36647201
This. If you're scared your cock shrinks to hide from potential danger. Kinda like when Its too cold out. Be more confident in your sex game and read her energy better. She's a steady heart beating animal. There's a natural flow of energy with feeling and brain wave reception. Get in tune with it, screw her brains up. The last time i came in a girl she was so horny as soon as i stuck my cock in she started doing a hip thrust motion to jerk my cock off in her pussy while having my cock bent towards her. She was essentially just jerking me off while grinding my cock up against her anterior wall. I jerked off to the point of almost cumming before penetration. When i had to cum i just missionaried the shit out of her getting as much pleasure as i possibly could fucking her pussy up until ejaculation, at which point i let out all sighs of relief which had her moaning like crazy with the most powerful moans of satisfaction. I laid there for a good five minutes while my cock slowly shrunk out of her as we drooled on each other and had appendages occasionally twitching . she held me close real tight the entire time and i couldn't get up because she didn't want me to get up. So i laid there and drooled on her with my mouth open and she was all about me being totally spent on top of her.
Idk man. Have sex more like that. If you rush anything at all during foreplay or anything you're doing it wrong.
>>36647093
where can i buy this in store? not online
>>36647875
Just searched 'l arganine in store' and found Walgreens had some near me. Check that out see if it works for you
>>36646867
I feel you OP. They don't sell condoms in my size here and my GF doesn't want to go on the pill because she's afraid of getting fat.
I told her not to worry about it because she was already fat, but she still won't take it.
>>36646867
I hate condoms too OP.
One tip is to imagine that putting on the condom is part of the excitement, like rolling it down in a pleasureable way.
There's lots that goes into boners OP, you should read a book on impotence. I did and it explained a lot to me that I never knew.
>>36647922
>I told her not to worry about it because she was already fat
>>36646867
just pull out.
I've pulled out for years and never had a problem.
Condoms are for random bar hos, not girlfriends.
alright fit op here
in prep for saturday i am
>eating a banana a day
>buying l arginine
>not fapping
>buying bigger condom
>TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT
sweet fit, this ones for you
>>36647317
if you are both free from stds and are in a monogamous relationship then do something else besides condoms.
if you do not know whether you have stds then you should both get tested... ??? why live in ignorance?
I'm the same OP, perhaps you're fortunate to be in the same boat as me. Turns out muh dick is pretty thick so condoms just seem to restrict it and kill boners, meaning I often lost it half way through and had a tough time finishing.
The cure was to either get her on the pill, or when that isn't an option I found larger condoms. UK here so I dunno about your available shopping but I use Skyn Large and they're pretty good. First time I ever enjoyed sex with a condom.
I can't even get it up to masturbate half the time these days, and I've never been able to keep it up with someone else (guy or girl)
>n-no homo
>>36647976
my man you're gonna do it
and if it does happen, just calm down and go back to eating her out with the condom on for a bit
Just take your time and shit homie
also, as the l-arganine anon, i take 1 gram every morning and every night so i have a baseline. Then I take around 8 grams an hour or so before I know I'm going to have sex. Works great for me
>>36648040
you've heard it before but stop jerking off
or at the VERY ABSOLUTE LEAST stop watching porn
if you have to masturbate 3 times a day for a week or so to not watch porn while you do it it's worth it, porn is really harmful over a long period of time in my experience. whenever I stop for a while I feel better and fuck like a king
>>36648062
The time before last, I was on my third week of no fap. Didn't help
>>36646867
Do NoFap for a week
>>36648097
not to be repetitive but L arginine saved my sex life and I can't get viagra easily because I'm an american. Check out one or the other man, no shame in it
It happens to so many guys, i feel like porn has really fucked our generation over in terms of percentage of limp dicks
>>36647254
chicks are paranoid like that
dated one chick who was really paranoid about pregnancy and made me wear condom while she's on the pill.
>>36648150
I was on 1000 mg of l-arginine for 2 weeks prior to the last attempt at sex, and I can't get viagra because my insurance won't cover it, and fuck if I can pay out of pocket for that.
>>36646867
Just put the condom on ridiculously early.
>>36648187
>1000 mg
that's only equal to a gram
you need 2-3 grams for an effect apparently
I take 8 grams if i need it
each of my pills is 500mg so that means I literally take 8-10 pills before sex, it might seem like too much but it's really not
try that out man
All you retards saying you can't get Viagra go to any shady sex shop and buy their Chinese "male enhancement" pills. Not that herbal stuff like extenze, I buy some called black ant king at my local sex shop and it's literally Viagra. The FDA put out warnings about it. Any of the Chinese pills are cialis or viagra
>>36646867
condoms are shit, assuming you didnt hook up with a slut just get her on the pill and rawdog it
>>36648227
You can order them online too. Black ant kings work the best but websites sell a bunch of similar pills and sampler packs and shit for cheap
>>36646867
You could just be an alpha and pull out. Or create offspring with your mate.
Tried a condom a few times with my last girlfriend OP, softened up every time. It's all mental, some guys just can't deal with all of the circumstances starting out. She finally let me go in raw and I stayed hard. Gave me confidence after that.
Also, the type of condom can matter. I can usually work with regular Trojans but the Trojan thins suffocate my penis for some reason.
Brah it's all mental. Just relax bitch. Watermelon, amino acids and no caffeine
OP, if you must use condoms, use these.
i don't like condoms but these are so thin they're actually not that bad.
ED can be an early indicator of heart disease my man
