>tfw girls think you're a big time player because your fit and handsome
>tfw been lonely most my life
>tfw falling for the lifting meme
wake me up from this nightmare
>>36554942
Did you ever think that it was you, and your personality, that made them think you were just an asshole in general? You sound deluded and I don't blame them
>Be skinny beta most of my life
>Get fit
>Get qt gf
>She asks me how many girls I've slept with
>I tell her the truth because I'm a fucking idiot
>She thinks it's funny that I've only slept with one other girl
Joke's on you bitch, I didn't tell you about the stripper I fucked
>>36554994
No I've been told I'm kind. It's not my personality.
>>36555009
it is your personality faggot. if you look chad start chadding it up. since you are on 4 chin i bet your autism is holding you back
>>36555005
>falling for the oldest trick in the book
You should never, ever, answer that question.
>>36554994
>>36554942
This, before I got into my current relationship, been three years now. Girls would always think this for better or worse, I used to work outside and was tan, well-groomed, blonde and fit and friendly as fuck. Girls would assume I was a player
Now, my gf is letting me sleep with other women and pursue short-term relationships so I can have more experience emotionally with a relationship and I can't attract girls for shit, I don't know what they think of me anymore.
>>36555083
What the fuck.
You cucked your gf.
The absolute mad man
>living in dorm back in the day
>never wear shirt around bc my family never really wears clothes and im always unusually hot
>be in very good shape from years of swimming and soccer
>apparently girls in dorm start rumors about me
>they assume im just a sleazy man whore because im so fit and none of them will talk to me
>someone tells me they heard i have stds because im banging so many girls
>when in reality, i had only made out with 2 girls and thats it
It wasn't supposed to be like this :(
>>36555083
>cucking your own relationship
that is sure to last
>>36555043
What's Chad's personality like?
>>36555169
dang brah
>>36555045
so what are you gonna do? just stay silent?
>>36555189
always smiling and having a good time, being overly friendly, breaks into club-type dancing any given opportunity, really good at a sport/jacked.
it seems simple right but unlike chad we think about our actions which ultimately screws us
>>36555225
>I'm not telling you that.
It's the single biggest reason my girl had a hard time trusting me at first; I'm big, tall, decent looking, how could she be the only woman I was seeing? That's her thought process at least.
>>36555225
Just make up a number that is not too high/low. It's not that difficult
>>36555083
she is probably sleeping with other men too.. in other words it's an open relationship
>>36555225
If you make up a high number girls will be honest with you.
Pros : you learn their real number and they trust you and think you're hot shit.
Cons : you learn their real number and never want to stick your dick in that festering petri dish again, some girls won't hook up with you in front of their friends anymore because you have the rep of being a player
In my experience most girls my age (28) admit to having banged between 30 and 80 guys. I tell them I've banged about 50 girls but can't remember and stopped counting. Also I try to make it sound like I'm embarrassed it's that low because I was in a long term relationship for 7 years.
>>36555225
Here are your choices
>say 100 or a crazy high unbelievable number
>i lost count
>thats a secret ;)
>>36555353
Guilty conscience?
>>36555169
You've been slut shamed, bro.
>Lose weight, apparently become more attractive
>Very introverted and shy, rarely make eye contact and can't stand small talk
>People seem to now expect me to assume the burden of conversation, now see me as rude and inconsiderate because I look extroverted
I never asked for this
>>36554942
i lost my virginity to a girl who thought I was a player, because I'm attractive and I wasn't nervous around her. It didn't stop us from having sex. Just because girls think you're a player doesn't mean they won't have sex. Just spend time with them, have fun, and one thing will lead to another.
>>36555888
iktf bruh
even forcing myself to do it and attend parties doesnt make it any more natural
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>>36555828
The supremist of the gentlemen.
>>36555930
I don't see the connection. Also enjoy this rare Elliott, it's on the house.
>>36555225
>Whatever it is, Im trying to make it +1.
Instant sex bro.
>girls think you are off the market or a player
>actually are shy/quiet and play videogames on weekends
appearances can be deceiving.
>been depressed since gf left me a few years ago
>rarely go out, if I do its just to get super fucked up
>the few times i take a girl home I'm to insecure and nervous to even get an erection
>no real sex for a few years
>start lifting, get jacked, get a better face, better fashion etc
>go out last friday for the first time in a long time
>meet a cute as fucking hell girl, fool around with her that night
>she thinks im too handsome and will leave her for new pussy any day
>she thinks i actually have girls on my dick 24/7
>she thinks im playing her
>is actually falling in love with her already being the beta bitch that I am
Just because I dont look like a loser anymore this girl probably dont want me because she thinks I'll just fuck other bitches behind her back. wtf is this
>>36555976
Rip in pieces senpai
Just fyi guys, if a girl asks you if you're a player DO NOT ANSWER SERIOUSLY or her pussy will dry up right before your eyes. Play it off like shes complimenting you, joke like she just admitted shes smitten with you, or just respond as if you misunderstood her completely.
Girls want guys who are hard to get, not guys who are beta faggots like you really are
>>36555225
Don't worry dude. I'd do the same as you. Communication is what maintains relationships, and without it, most eventually fail. Honesty is important.
pretty fit now, would be cool if I knew where to meet people though. not a fan of "pua" crap.
>>36555976
Where did it all go so wrong?
>>36556472
His sister became hot
>>36555225
>number too high
>girl thinks you're just trying to fuck
>number too low
>girl thinks you're a loser
last time somebody asked me I said 11 (not true), and it turned her off. Didnt want to answer, but she kept pestering about it
>best friends gf thinks im a player
>wants to set me up with an absolute qt who is miles out of my league
Send help.
>>36555858
probably
>>36556779
get drunk/stoned with her, everything will be fine.
real life
>reserved and shy 18 year old last year hs nerd who lifts and just recently started having attention from girls but too autistic to approach
in club or at party
>mad cunt, even tho I never drink can outdrink most of my friends, sick dancing styles, social and funny, always find some chicks eyefucking me, but always reject them because shy and dont want my newly acquired chad mates to judge me since they are all 9/10's no homo
I can't wait to get out of HS and get into some new social environment, it's weird to transform from being brain dead autist( 4 years) to sick cunt in just a few months
>My partner count is 35+ because hookers
What number should I tell grills?
>>36557069
Minus the number of hookers from your total.
>>36555169
I'm sorry
>>36554942
>be me
>Writing with a grill for 3-4weeks now
>Ask her out after 2 weeks, and after 4 weeks
>"No" Both times
>Still responds to my Messages
>Shall I hang in there ? Wort?
>>36557076
>only fucked 1 normal girl
Fuck
>>36555123
What he doesn't know is she's cucking him too
>>36556346
It's ok senpai, that just means she will be loyal right?
>>36557135
if I ever feel bad about myself
atleast I know there's someone more pathetic out there than me
>>36557143
Just be honest. It's the best approach.
Would be worse if you were dyel
>>36557135
break that shit off senpai
>>36554942
That's because being fit and handsome gives off the impression that you're invested in yourself, which implies a certain level of confidence and success. Seriously though, if you want to meet women and make friends, you have to do more than lift weights.
>>36557135
Fuck 3 other girls and if you still think about her, then try again.
>>36556403
>honesty
>23
>score: 0
yeah sure kill me
>>36555976
Thanks bro
Here's another
>>36555828
This entire post is bullshit
>only 1 grill
>Im 24 and have been dating her since I was 19
>have turned down 3 grills in that time
Mixed feelings t b h
>>36555888
Shit, people did this to me even when I was a fat fuck.
For years I couldn't understand how other people had these huge groups of friends if they always waited for the other person to make the fist move.
>>36556472
you stole my trip you nigger
>>36558011
No it's not.
>>36555083
I don't think that's how you into healthy emotional development.
>>36556397
This guy gets women, listen to this you autistic fucks
>>36555888
iktfb
>lose weight
>people start waiting for me to make decisions when the group is wanting to do something
>girls walking down the hallway with me will walk a step behind me
>at easter at grandmas, little sister who I don't live with brings out some kites
>fuck yeah, kites
>no one wants to fly kites
>whatevs I'll fly kites myself
>entire family eventually trickles out to fly kites with me
>they would've just left me out there by myself 100lbs ago
worst part
>father who I dont live with gets super competitive, making fun of me for not being able to get a kite up even though it's windy and no one can
>steal sister's kite, she has a better quality one than everyone else
>get it up in the air no problem
>father gets bitchy and mad
I never asked for this. Why can't people just leave me alone like they used to.
>>36556472
>where did it go so wrong?!!
>>36557895
>oh, right there. yep.
>>36555005
What's worse is when she doesn't believe you and it makes her more and more spiteful each day
Like its too good to be true or something
