who /erectile dysfunction/
;_;
>Big date coming up
>Want to look good
>Jog 5k
>work chest, core, arms, and shoulders
>Go on date hours later
> trying to get my Dick in
>Its like pushing rope
I did a test e cycle and my boners have never been the same
Porn addiction was my problem. Not necessarily related for you, but it's definitely worth cutting back on porn if you watch it a lot.
me kinda. I can't get fully there without a good amount of work, you know? Might take some pills and see what they do.
>>36477708
It's like a cock but smaller
Cocklet
>>36477501
Hey buddy, don't take it so hard on yourself! lol! Just kidding! #FriendlyBanter
>>36477714
probably
i can get an erection from porn but it takes like 20 minutes to cum
>>36477758
>post-ironic normie posting
>tripfag
'no'
>>36477501
there are pills for that you know
>>36477708
How many inches is that?
how can you not get a boner when making out and grinding? the fuk
>on a long dry spell
>whacking off to porn daily
>finally get a hookup on tinder
>not only did I not get a boner but it was like my dick tried shrivelling up back inside me
>never see her again
I'm giving up porn, and I'm only going to fap once a week and with light grip. Hopefully that fixes my dick
There's already a lot of good advice in this thread.
>Stop watching porn
>Stop jerking off
>Don't think yourself out of arousal. You have an attractive (hopefully) girl in front of you begging you to fuck her. Try to focus on her and not about getting hard. I used to have the problem where I would try to "think" myself into getting a boner and then I wouldn't be hard. Then I would be thinking about how I'm not hard yet and keep thinking about getting hard. It's a cycle that's going to make you as limp as a noodle. The above two suggestions helped me with this.
It really is that simple to get rid of the majority of ED problems. There are very few people with physical ED problems that need surgery to correct. Even middle age guys that take Viagra don't really have ED. They are just not getting that aroused after having sex with the same woman for 10+ years.
For whatever reason a lot of guys will try anything except for the above suggestions. It reminds me of the people that have the mindset, "I'll do anything to lose weight, besides diet and exercise."
Worse case scenario you can always stop by a porn shop and by one of their "performance pills". The ones that say, "Increased drive, length, stamina, hardness, etc". They do surprisingly work (alongside the placebo effect). Just make sure to drink plenty of water or else you are in for a nasty headache.
>>36478217
I forgot to mention. Don't try to impress your date by getting a pump before your date. Things will only be more difficult when your blood is tied up in your muscles.
>>36477501
>round 3 with girlfriend
>pounding away
>heart racing
>dick feels nothing
>lose boner
>couldn't get it back
>whyyyy
Round 2 was fucking amazing though, fucked for a good 20min before putting her face down ass up, gave her clit a reach around until I felt her vag tighten up before she came, once she was done I finished by pounding her senseless.
Her legs were shaky for hours after, but I still wanted to finish strong in round 3. I could have done better. The condom certainly didn't help, she was extra wet so there was little for friction, my heart pounding in my chest was distracting too.
I don't know why I can't sustain erections in poundtown mode.
>>36477900
wat. just measured flaccid then and its 9cm.
you mean 9cm soft right?
>>36477501
Go vegan.
![feels [9].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/tXfe2Gt.jpg "feels [9].jpg")
>>36479674
>felt her vag tighten up before she came
HOLY SHIT is that what that means?? I always thought it was just something girls did to make your dick feel even better during sex....no matter they fall in love with me so damn fast.
>mfw
>>36479750
meant to say no wonder, not no matter
>>36477692
how?
>>36479750
yeah dude, every chick I've been with, right before they cum they go reallllly tight and then I can feel them cumming on my dick. Somtimes I'll stop thrusting completely, push and hold myself all the way in, balls deep. This usually has them gasping and shaking.
Feels fucking good man.
Still, want to be able to fuck harder, longer. Burpees maybe? Idk gotta google the shit.
It me
My dick goes soft right when I'm thrusting inside. I can only stay hard with blowjobs.
I haven't been able to succesfully hook up with a girl in ages now. My performance anxiety is killing me.
>>36479836
Go with less attractive girls and work your way up again
I'm not joking, if the performance anxiety is your problem random hookups with not so good-looking strangers is the best, you won't give a shit about them, which will calm you down and revive your boner
>>36479862
This is the best advice you'll get.
It's not ED, unless you're low test or watched too much porn.
It's more perfomance anexiety. If you think the girl is too good for you or she's just generally pretty, you will start pussying out and so will your dick.
Banging average, uggos and fatties is the way to go before you gain experience in fucking. There is nothing wrong with fucking ugly chicks, pussy is pussy.
Right babe?
>>36477758
Are you middle initials F.A.?
>>36479874
>>36479862
Fuk I can't do uggos. I'll try
Tips for actually finishing?
I can go 2+ hours and not cum and let with insane blue balls. It fucking sucks.
>>36477779
>>36477714
yeah i was in the same boat a few weeks ago i was with two different women in the space of three weeks and could not get it up.. anyway i just stopped watching porn for a few days before i go out and it has worked like a charm i met some random sloot a week ago and blew her brains out.
>>36480173
>Fuk I can't do uggos
Yes you can. Once they start blowing you or bend their ass nicely, you'll go for it.
Trust me, Pussy is a pussy.
im 30 years old and ive finally cracked the code of getting women to sleep with me, but my fifteen year porn habit has left me unresponsive to actual naked female bodies. its a fucking nightmare and its turning me into an anti-porn evangelist
>>36478217
I agree with the first to an extent, but I disagree with the second (unless you have an actual masturbation problem).
The third is most important. I used to worry about not being able to get hard, all it did was kill my erections as I was too stressed to get aroused.
Work on your mind and the dick will follow.
Otherwise just get some Cialis.
>>36480182
I had the same problem, do noporn and fap with an onahole instead of your hand, theoretically you could do nofap but that tends to over-correct the problem and makes me cum too early
http://pastebin.com/hwhGL66a
Link is painfully weeb but there's some very good info there
>>36480240
in addition to this, ive gotten sildenafil from my doctor and it does nothing whatsoever. the problem's not with my dick, it's in my head
>>36477501
I'm 22 and never had this issue because I cared for the person I was fucking and I knew they cared about me. Last few chicks I've been with couldn't give a fuck less about me and I think that broke me. It's really tough to keep it hard during sex. I also can't cum from blow jobs.
>>36480240
share your secrets
>>36477501
>approached qt on the streets
>proceed to dryhumping later that night
>wanted to seal the deal but she didn't wanna do it on the first night
>I'm a virgin and she's in her mid twenties and already showed me her sex toy stash
>tfw she thinks I'm good with girls
How do I not fuck up the first time? I'm guessing I should just tell her I didn't have sex in a long time?
>>36480182
Same problem here m8, try flexing your muscles, especially PC ones. If that aint working, try some harder stimulation, tell yo bitch to do something that will definetly make you cum. You can also always think about some girl or situation that excites you even more than that one you are in. Good luck bruh
>>36480269
Yeah, joke about it.
>>36480240
So exactly what is this secret code to get women to sleep with you? Roofies?
>>36480269
Dont fap and watch porn like 3 days beforehand. If you think you might be premature ejaculator, do the exact opposite and fap 2-3 hours before. Try to have fun, lick her pussy, finger her and you should be ready to go. Dont go too long with the foreplay, but oral is great if youre good at it.
>>36477501
Try eating less animal products. Don't go full vegan or anything but if you eat a fuck ton of meat, there's a shit ton of evidence to suggest it can cause cardiovascular problems, which causes ED in the long run. Leading cause of ED tbqh.
Try sticking to protein rich meats in larger portions. None of that red meat shit either, familam.
>>36480298
vegan NO GAINS detected
>>36480274
>>36480294
thanks brahs. Thing is: I kinda wanna get a big rougher cause I'm pretty sure she's that type but is it too early on the first time? Kinda wanna make her coming back nomsayin?
Help a /fit/izen out
>>36480315
Pound her like you mean it.
>>36480259
>>36480289
I guess I have better friends and a hobby that lets me display positive, masculine confidence in public settings. I'm skinnyfat bulking, have a crap job and dress like shit so i cant say its the lifting or lifestyle, lol
>>36480320
>>36480305
Nigger, I eat fish and/or chicken every day. It's just a shit idea to eat a fuck ton of meat. Might as well eat a shit ton of everything while you're at it. You're fucking your body either way.
>>36480333
My favorite position. Idk why. I think it's because when a woman is lying all the way down like that, it's super submissive. I also like the way an ass jiggles from that position.
>>36480343
I like asses in that position, literally best.
Also, I like how the feet look like in this position, all crunchy. HNNNNGGG
>>36480315
its not rocket science, just hold eye contact every time you push her boundaries and back off if shes not into it.
beyond that, shes an adult and is perfectly capable of telling you to stop doing something
Who /curvedsword/ here?
Great for hitting the spot, but means some positions just aren't comfy.
>>36480333
Ex-gf hated this position, said her pussy lips sometimes got pushed into her when I penetrated her like this and it hurt like a motherfucker, which is weird since she had an innie vagina with little lips, not a roastie, she had no problem having anal sex in that position tho which was good
>>36480365
>anal sex in that position
I'm jelly now
>>36479318
>>36480373
We both usually preferred anal sex in the missionary position tho, she was the kind of grill who liked eye contact and chest to chest physical contact during sex, she had a great ass tho, wish I'd smashed her from behind a few more times before we broke up
>>36480315
Grab her by the neck gently, but steadily, throw her around in the bed, push her head gently into the pillows, bite her neck, bite her ass, put her arms behind her back.
My favorite: let her get on top, grab her by the neck and pull her to your body, get her arms behind her back, hug her tighly and powerfuck her in this position.
>>36480394
>anal sex in the missionary position
Now I'm really jelly.
Good for you anon.
>>36477501
are you on antidepressants ? when i was it was impossible to come, now i take much less and i'm usually fine.
>>36480404
Thx, she could also orgasm during anal sex without any vaginal or clitoral stimulation, something that some virgins on the internet claim isn't possible, they weren't just little orgasms either, it was full body spasms so intense they could be mistaken for a grand mal seizure, shit was cray
>>36480443
How big is your dick bro? I imagine you have to have big dick for that kind of thing.
I'm only 6.6 x 5 and it feels shit.
>>36480356
makes sense. she's got big blue eyes so that's hot.
>>36480396
>Grab her by the neck gently
While we made out I always wanted to nibble her neck but she was saying how sensitive she is in that area. That's a good thing right?
>My favorite: let her get on top, grab her by the neck and pull her to your body, get her arms behind her back, hug her tighly and powerfuck her in this position.
Whut?
>>36480445
Maybe 7.5x6.5 without e-stats, I've been told I have a big cock but I'm not Ron Jeremy, a woman's orgasm is more psychological than physiological tho. If you're insecure about your dick size buy a bathmate, according to /fraud/ they work pretty well
>>36480447
i dont like going for the neck myself, it seems like its trying too hard somehow? idk
if youve got larger hands and decent grip strength then you can put her hands behind her back, bind her wrists with one hand and do whatever you want with the other hand, which gets the point across even better because it looks effortless
>>36480479
>7.5x6.5
>99th percentile
>more psychological than physiological tho
>>36480578
>99th percentile
Go to a crowded class at university, something with lots of guys like engineering, statistically there would be at least one guy there with a dick as big or bigger than mine. Go to a football game, statistically there would be 100 or more guys there with a dick as big or bigger than mine. 99th percentile is above average, not superhuman
>>36480333
>Doing this and holding both her hands behind her back
>Garuanteed mac n cheese
>>36480617
I don't even know what that means
>>36480642
He probably has cheesy semen
>>36477975
That's nerves bro lol
>>36480642
Lmao come on mane. You ever hear mac and cheese being swirled around ?
>>36480617
Can confirm 100%. Put hands behind back and use as leverage, and use other to push head into pillow or pull hair.
>>36480642
>>36480644
Virgins.
>>36480447
Just bite it in varying degrees of strength until you find the sweet spot, she should moan and tighten her hands on you.
If you're choking her start gently and be sure to grip the sides of her neck with your hand. DO NOT APPLY PRESSURE TO THE WINDPIPE, its uncomfortable and can kill the mood and make her cough.
I don't have erectile dysfunction, but I basically lose all interest in masturbation/sex for like a week after having sex. Doesn't happen when I just masturbate to porn, I can do that every day.
It sucks. Whenever I go for a second/third bang in the same night, it's all about pleasing the girl, I basically don't feel anything in my dick and am completely unaroused.
>>36480713
Low Test
You need:
ZMA
Spinach
Celery
Meat
Good Fats - Omega 3s, Butter, Salmon
You're welcome
>>36480723
>raising test by natural means
placebo as fuck m8
Anyone else with the problem, that you can maintain your boner, but can't cum? I was circumsized as a child due to phimosis and now i have no pleasure in sex.
my gf is sad because i can pleasure her but i am unable to orgasm, self-masturbation aside.
feelsbadman.jpg
>>36480782
are you using condoms?
with condoms I last literally forever. without I last like 30 fucking seconds
>>36479674
try more cardio
>tfw can't come during sex because it's so boring
Literally can't focus on anything
>>36480782
Uncircumcised, occasionally have the same problem, have never used a condom tho
I can't last at all.
When it isn't ED from excessive porn, I'm practically blowing my load before we even really get into it.
>>36477708
I know that feel but at least you have your foreskin.
>>36480794
both. even during blowjobs or hand jobs.... it's infuriating. I sometimes believe that it is psychological since she is my first real gf after years of beta mode.
>>36480850
Same here
gf loves it thou
>>36480642
>>36480644
Thank you kind sirs for the hearty lol
Watch this video on the youtubes
watch?v=9zxbtAcKPIE
>>36477708
Get good at going down on women and they won't care bro. You're fine
>>36480248
Bought some onaholes from Japan. Broke all of them in the first five times.
The worst is that they don't even work that well.
Ex gf and me used to watch porn a lot together and get off and now that we broke up, my dick is broken and I can't properly have sex with girls. What makes me hard now is girls telling me about porn and wanting to watch it with me. I can't find another proper slut. I'm fucked
>>36477708
Sorry but you're obviously really fat. Lose the 40lbs you could stand to lose and your cock will suddenly be at least 1" longer.
>>36481038
Same here, not the other guy you posted to.
I don't have a lot of feeling, cum 70% of the time, but I can stay hard for ages, still enjoy myself and for what I can feel it feels good.
>>36481626
Truth. I gained 40 lbs of fat since last summer. And lost about an inch. Can't see my dick when I look down. Always the sign you're too fat.
>>36480243
The reason I say the second is important is because some guys use a really tight grip when jerking off that desensitizes their dicks. When you try to have sex you'll feel little and even if you started hard you'd eventually go soft. I think some people also call it the death grip.
>>36481396
you should write a short story about it. That's really some post-modern meta shit
When my girlfriend and I first got together we would have sex 3-5 times per day, every day. I would last super long like 20-30 minutes. Now we have sex once every 2-3 days and I am cumming pretty quickly, like within 10 minutes. It crushes my confidence because she used to have several orgasms and now she usually only has one. It is not a problem to her at all, but I feel a bit insecure. Any tips here brahs? I've already stopped porn and I don't really masturbate ever.
>>36482113
Fuck I really should. I'm like the only guy with this specific set of problem
Is it better to get in bed with a girl and fail because of erectile dysfunction or never even be able to get in bed with a girl at all?
>>36483157
sounds a bit like the movie Her actually.
>>36483383
definitely the latter. made out viciously with a girl the first time yesterday. Still can't really believe it happened cause it felt so nice. I'll be seeing her tonight again. Go talk to girls bro
>>36483505
The latter is not even making it to the point where you would get fucked over by erectile dysfunction, AKA being a virgin
>>36483505
>the former
I mean lol
>>36481134
what'd you get? do you have an average dick?
i've looked into em and they seem like they're made for smaller dicks, and with 7.5x5.5 i can see myself breaking them or being overstimulated
i'm just looking to train for endurance so maybe overstimulation is fine but i'm at a point where i'm so close to being completely indifferent about sex that i figure i could probably put the money to better use for self-improvement hobbies
>>36480599
99th percentile intelligence is genius level. 99th percentile anything, while not "superhuman", is still extremely rare
>>36482648
Fuck more, obviously. The first orgasm after even a full day will come quicker than the subsequent ones.
>>36480362
Curved but micro, so idk how I feel. I'm a perma virgin though so I don't feel too bad
>boners when I lay down
>boners when I wake up
>boners when I'm sleepy
>boners in class when I sit a certain way
>boners when I'm grinding and making out
>softie when it's time for the deed
This is just performance anxiety right? Like I got a boner just reading some of the stuff in this thread. And the only chicks I've actually been with have been...kind of fat and smelly. I was also drunk as a loon the first time I had a real sexual experience, and the girl had a shit body and smelled.
>>36485663
>This is just performance anxiety right?
Anxiety and confidence problems mate. I've had same problem. Your are too much in your head, relax.
And yeah, get fit and fuck at least 8/10 girls and you will be rock hard.
>>36485741
Ok, good, see that's what I figured the problem was. I'm /fit/ and relatively good looking so I'll aim higher then. Thanks anon!
God damn I've only had sex once and it was 3 years ago and now I reallllllllly want to bang a hot chick after reading this thread
Already doing no porn and fapping only 2-3 times a week in preparation. Already been lifting for 3 years and have good facial aesthetics
can't wait brehs, any tips for making it seem like I know what the fuck im actually doing and also how to enjoy myself?
>>36480189
There's no reason to kill her anon, this isn't GTA
>>36478217
This
My nigga giving solid advice
>>36480249
Then the doctor gave you a placebo and not actual sidenafil. Trust me, there's a noticeable difference. You're not hard 24/7 like they show in movies, but everything is just easier.
It's common for doctors to give placebos to see if it's a mental problem or not.
>get erectile dysfunction towards the end of my last relationship due to stress over family problems
>hook up with random girl, get it again (due to alcohol and MDMA)
>hook up with another girl, getting nervous cause cock might not work then i'll feel like an absolute low test faggot
>end up cumming 3 times in a row without losing any hardness at all
>its like im on viagra
feelsgoodman
I can't use condoms, they just kill my boner instantly. Even fucking raw I get bored and go soft after a bit. The only thing that gets me going is blowjobs but my ex hated giving them. I'm pretty sure it's from death grip masturbation but idk how to recover from that
>>36486200
Not the same anon but I also tried Cialis and Viagra a month each and it didn't work. Then said to try an injection talked Trimex or something in my dick I said nope.
I asked it was mental he said he doesn't know. I suggested to talk to a neurologist and he was almost surprised I brought it up like it wasn't something he knew he could recommend.
I did a month of no porn and I felt sensitivity come back a little and get almost normal boners to girl IRL. I'm going to stick to no porn and go see a neurologist or psychologist soon.
>>36478217
>Don't think yourself out of arousal.
please explain me with details how "not to think something you are thinking"
>>36487023
Forgot to mention I saw a Urologist in the beginning
>>36477501
Serious Question for everyone. Are you actually doin squats and deads to train legs?
After a good squat session my libido goes through the fuckin roof. I do squats and deads on diff. days
I cant even get a hard on from watching porn , and I only fap once a week , I will be forever alone because everytime I think about talking to a qt , I always remember that I wont be able to satisfy her so whats the point ;(
>>36486625
Stop masturbating man. its going to take months and years for that to recovery
does anyone else have this? I can get an erection fine but a chick was giving me a hand job awhile ago and I couldn't get off.
>can't even imagine myself fucking a girl
shieeet
>>36477501
i'm /come under 30 seconds/ here. can I hang out with you guys?
>>36480182
This is my problem
I think it might be death grip
Fuck date on Friday, not jacking until then
Pray for me brehs
A couple times I was too wasted to get hard. Just finger bang them then fuck in the morning.
I know it's now a meme, but I used to masturbate everyday. Took me at least an hour to cum when I started dating my girlfriend. It was awkward and embarrassing.
Cut it down to once or twice a week, minimal porn, now it's between fifteen and thirty minutes
>>36477708
reported for faggot
>>36477501
me, i fucking hate it
I don't get morning wood anymore, anyone else know tfw waking up with a soft dick?
Shit sucks and i'm suicidal and sildenafil barely does anything for me
I couldn't have sex with my current girlfriend for the first month because I was too nervous and thought myself out of a boner all the time.
I told her that was the case and she was cool about it.
Now we fuck at least twice a day bareback since she got an IUD put in.
>tfw making her cum three times in a row while she's riding cowgirl
>>36480182
Same problem brother. Most the time I end up going to bed with blue balls and a girl who thinks she's not sexy enough to get me off.
>>36480249
Is sildenafil good for ED?
Ive only ever been prescribed mycoxafloppin for ED
>>36480617
>Garuanteed mac n cheese
>>36489387
>tfw had sex for the first time a few weeks ago
>tfw couldn't keep it up because anxiety
>tfw completely killed my self-esteem, gf said she was okay with it though
>Decide I'll just completely start over my routine, just do everything I always do
>Getting around to hanging out with her, no pressure towards sex, trying to keep myself calm
>tfw she wanted sex and wanted to ride me
>tfw kept boner whole time and she came twice
>tfw best orgasm of my life
>>36489387
>mycoxafloppin
JEJ
>>36489439
Nice.
>last night
>call girl to come over
>attractive enough, though not without chub
>can only get hard for like 2 minutes at a time, and even then im flying half mast
I wasn't stressed out, I wasn't tired, I wasn't nervous. I have no clue what the fuck I'm doing wrong other than I masturbated several hours before she arrived, but I was still so horny thay I didn't think it would've mattered.
I just want to finally have a good sexual experience in my life
>>36477501
Completely cured mine when I started wearing adipowers
>>36489294
That's called faking breh
>run cycle
>run pct by the books
>finish pct
>time to go back to normal
>body says jk
>fatigue every day, ED, muscle loss
>girlfriend leaves me cause of ED
>go to doctor and I have low 300s test (old men have test in this range; I'm 21)
Feels bad man. Been on clomid for about 8 months now. Things are finally starting to get back to normal. Run your PCT correctly kids.
>>36480333
>>36480333
>>36480333
>>36480333
Uhm how the hell does this position stimulate the clit? I love this position because I love seeing her big ass giggle but how exactly am I stimulating her clit BREHS
>>36490775
Because the clit is more then just a nub. pic related.
My guess would be that the angle of penetration pressures the front of the vagina and therefore the internal clitoris
>>36486200
It says sildenafil on the box and I paid money for it so unless you're saying a doctor and a pharmacist would conspire to commit an easily-detectable fraud against a multinational corporation then I'm going to assume it's the right stuff
;_;
my boyfriend broke up with me because he could never stay hard with me.
We tried our best, when his penis was semi-erect he'd somehow shove it inside my vagina. But when his penis was inside me, he thrust 10 times, and slowly his penis would go more and more flaccid. He never had an orgasm with me. I've never seen his ejaculate. We tried having sex 10 - 15 times before he gave up entirely.
He broke up with me. Lately he's been stalking me at the gym, asking if we could still be friends. Go to hell, I hate you.
And that's why I had to completely change my gym schedule.
>>36491144
Maybe he couldn't take the shame?
>>36491144
what state are you from? i could pump you up
>>36479674
>tfw gf never wants to go second round because she's afraid of getting pregant
>>36477714
Abstaining from porn makes you harder and it feels longer, but man jizz so fast and strong
>>36489439
>came twice just from vaginal stimulation
Wtf, how do you even find girls like this. Statistics show that most women can't cum from just that, yet most stories here tell about women who cum numerous times during penetration.
>>36490225
Maybe you actually need to have a connection with a girl, i.e. you have to love her to enjoy sex? Maybe hookups aren't for you.
Guys, my dick is kinda bent - downwards curve - and it hurts my gf in most positions (especially those where she isn't facing me).
Is it my fault or hers? We were both virgins when we met so can't really compare..
>>36491313
>citation needed
>>36491355
Mine too. Anyone have advice for crooked brahs?
>>36480661
I haven't. I don't eat disgusting shit.
>>36491371
Wait, it hurts your girl(s) as well?
>>36491313
Those statistics are bullshit IMO, I've had sex hundreds of times with almost a dozen women and the amount of times I haven't made them climax solely through vaginal penetration is maybe 10(multiple orgasms are a bit more rare tho, only maybe half of the girls I've been with could consistently cum multiple times in a row from vaginal penetration)
>>36491355
>>36491371
Idk senpai, my dick has a pretty pronounced leftward curve and it's never hurt my gf despite her being a virgin, how bent is your dick, is it like peyrones disease level bent?
>>36491409
No, it's a gradual curve unlike peyrones, but.. well, like the curvature of a banana or something. At least 30 degrees deviation from how it starts out
>>36491434
It's probably just your grill then, if she doesn't like it doggystyle it could be because your curved dick is stimulating her g-spot, my gf hated having her g-spot stimulated for ages until I explained that g-spot orgasms are the same thing as peeing during sex
>>36491313
one girl i was with could only cum after ages of going over her clit and getting her horny enough, another (who i am fucking right now) cums every 2 minutes with hard fucking and more so with fingering.
some girls are lucky i guess.
>>36491455
Grill's orgasms are partially psychological tho, for example they have more orgasms with rich men
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1121122/Why-rich-men-better-bed--Women-orgasms-wealthy-partners-study-finds.html
>>36491443
care to elaborate?
>>36491467
Apparently having your g spot stimulated feels really good but also makes you feel vaguely like you're going to piss yourself(even if your bladder is empty) when you have a g spot orgasm it feels vaguely like urinating while cumming, the experience is so intense it tends to make grills feel very vulnerable and emotional
>>36491455
Mine has to get at least 20 minutes of stimulation until she cums.
She does so every time we're together, but still, I can't help but feel that this could be improved upon.
>>36491443
I honestly think this g-spot shit is anecdotal bullshit. Doggy with my gf hurts her like hell, if I thrust, she literally breaks down crying. Weird thing is, I can go almost balls deep in missionary (the last inch always hurts her), but she can't take more than one inch in doggy because of the pain. I also basically instacum in doggy for some reason so we usually do that at the end if we want to finish.
>>36491496
Gf always has to pee after an orgasm (clitoral) tho. Maybe it has to do something with that?
>>36477501
HOW TO CURE ED
>go to doctor
>tell them you cant get it up
>get script for cialis or viagra
>quit porn
>dick will be like diamonds on cialis
>Have regular sex
>continue abstaining from porn
When script runs out, you will have retrained your brain to get hard to real women, and any porn induced erectile disfunction will have dissipated.
Also don't fall for the daily cialis meme, unless you are having sex everyday there is no need for that 5mg daily shit. If you get a 5mg script just have 2 of them an hour before sex.
>>36491567
Does noporn really work?
I'm 3 days without porn and wanking and I already had a wet dream of rubbing some girls feet and I came form her massaging my dick.
Is my brain rewiring already?
>>36491594
It takes months to rewire your brain.
>>36491278
Probably! But he should have gotten over the shame. I was totally understanding. Whatever. I'm not ever talking to him again
>>36491675
Ah, thanks. But I already feel a little better after 3 days.
We'll see how it goes.
>>36491677
Why do you hate him tho?
>>36491708
Because he broke up with me while never really fighting for our relationship
> durrr my penor doesn't work, too much shame, bye
We never even tried different foreplay or tried to have some sex in a different way. All he could think about was him, himself, and his limpy penis
>>36491721
Should have given him a head, maybe he would get hard.
You must understand that for a man his dick not working is the worst nightmare.
>>36491724
I did finally get a dick sucking technique that got him hard. Too little too late though. I did it one time successfully, but never again because he broke up with me a few days later.
You know what? He didn't care enough to fix this "worst nightmare." He could have stopped daily masturbation, he could have tried different foreplay, he could have concentrated on different kissing, etc. I told him I didn't find his constantly flaccid dick a big deal but it didn't matter. It consumed his mind.
>>36491721
As a guy your dick working is intrisically tied to your masculinity. He still sounds like a pussy tho. Fuck that guy
No erectile dysfunction, only small penis here. Such a crushing blow to my self-esteem.
>this thread
lol
>>36491752
I understand. Didn't know the whole situation.
Fuck him.
I'm just telling you that when a man's dick doesn't work with a woman, it's the worst possible thing you can do to a man.
>>36491771
Yes, yes, I understand. He was extremely humiliated after the 10th time his dick stayed flaccid. I guess a man can't be completely rational under that level of embarrassment.
>>36477501
You know, I just realized that OP's picture was basically every sex session we ever had.
>>36491813
>tfw below average penis but able to stay hard as rock
My dick might be small, but that thing turns into fucking titanium when it goes up. Unbreakable and unmovable.
>>36491813
Do you have a nice ass, babe?
>>36491836
what size?
>>36491813
Couldn't he just try jerking it abit? Or fapping to some kinky shit before he got going?
Hell he could have just seen a doctor and got some Cialis
>>36477501
hear, hear. shit is absurd, I used to be a ugly duckling but now women are more or less throwing themselves at me, problem is that I cant get hard enough for actual sex, only for sloppy blowjobs
>>36479874
Yup
>>36491374
>I only eat the finest foods from the far reaches of the east or as you gaijjin should say, glorious nippon
>>36491844
Been a while since I measured, but i think it was in the 13cm(5.1 inches) range. Never measured circumference, but I feel it has a decent girth. Being a grower doesn't help either. Looks so fucking small when flaccid.
>>36491400
I hate to break it to you... You have had some fakers. While it is possible without direct clitoral stimulation, it's pretty rare/difficult.
so on a scale of 1-10, you're stuck with a floppy johnson and your girl suggests
>well I could finger you?
with pic related expression, how horrified would you be?
pls no bully
>>36491855
During sex, he could furiously and desperately masturbate in an attempt to get hard. Did not work. I told him he should stop daily masturbations and stop using the death grip. He gripped like he gripped the pull up bar. I'm pretty sure he didn't listen to me.
He was a healthy male in his 20s, and the doctor said his penor was a-okay and that his problem was psychological. I think Viagra is generally for older men who have physical issues
>>36491721
>>36491752
Yea he sounds like a pussy. Tbh you probably got better off, if he pussies out from simple things like this, he never was long-term material in any case.
>>36491914
:) well thank you
I already made a decision to never allow contact with him again
>>36491914
aiming straight for the beta orbiter award of the year, are we bro?
>>36491934
>having a conversation with a girl makes you a beta-orbiter
You need to take a break from 4chan mate
>>36477501
>tfw femdom is your fetish and you wish you had ED
>>36477501
N O F A P
O
F
A
P
What are the steps to beat performance anxiety? Should I play music to set the mood and relax?
>Go on fourth date
>Goes really well
>invites me back to hers but insists I can't try anything
>this meme is actually real
>get into bed, she starts cuddling and resting on my chest
>start making out
>raging boner
>starts getting hot
>says she's on period, we probably shouldn't have sex
>dick is diamond for the next hour as we spoon
>She's asleep, I finally manage to calm down and sleep a bit
>She wakes in at 4am for work, make out some more and once again dick is about to pop
>she comes home from work, make out after she makes me breakfast, dick about to explode
>spoon for another 2 hours before leaving
>in actual agony because my balls are so swollen, manage to fap
>now haven't had an erection for 2 days, nothing is working
Its like I used up my allotted boner for the week. Literally had a diamond dick for 6 hours or so now it doesn't work
>>36492030
Tons of foreplay and have a small drink
>>36492096
She didn't even blow you? Not even a handy? She invites you back to sleep at her place and she just leaves you there for a day with a full on boner?
lmao
>been having on/off with flatmate
>finally decide one night that we're gonna fuck
>3 hours (no joke, 3 god damned hours) of foreplay, cuddling etc.
>diamonds the entire time
>then it happens
>she wants to blow me
>result.jpg
>then it happens
>dear sweet jesus why
>worst head of my life
>go soft in about 10 seconds
>tfw
Couldn't fuck her properly afterwards anyway because phimosis ;_;
>tfw no gf perma status
>nearly wizard
>grill starts messaging me
>some dates
>Invites me to her new place
>food, wine, netflix and makeout
> go to bedroom
> "wow, you're much bigger than I expected"
> strokes dick, sucks on it a bit
> goes to stick it in, says it isn't hard enough
>more foreplay, never quite enough
>go home, look it up
>> big cocks aren't as hard
What to do? Cockring? Pump? Pills? No alcohol and/or no porn?
Getting anxiety about it
>>36492096
>fourth date
>doesn't even touch your genitals
Dude, grow some. She probably wanted you to push her for a bj. wtf were you thinking?
>actually letting her get away with blue balls
>>36479811
literally the best feeel
wtf are burpees gonna do?
>>36480617
>not having one hand around her neck and the other pulling her hair
>>36492170
L-Citrulline is what you want senpai.
Porn doesn't make me cum alot but when my gf blows me
Holy fuck it's alot more
>>36490318
Mine was in the low 300 hundreds and I asked my doc if I should try test instead of the ED pills he gave me but didn't work. Did test improve your mood as well?
>>36477501
I have problems holding an erection for longer than like a minute. I immediately go soft once I stop stroking. This is terrifiying desu
>>36492170
Jesus, how big are you? Unless you're 8+ that shouldn't happen, and even then you should be able to be hard enough to stick it in.
>>36492795
Let's just say I'm a big guy
>>36492842
Or you have a serious medical condition called ED which you won't face.
>>36492842
4u
>>36492913
This is what my heart desired
>>36492912
You sound pretty mad dicklet, too bad you have ED and a small cock
>>36492332
>Implying I need more than one hand to pin both of hers to the small of her back
I'll spank or choke with the other.
>>36480661
oh lmao
>>36492134
>>36492266
yes I fucked up
it didn't even cross my mind, I have no idea why. She had been up for about 19-20 hours at the point we got to hers, then got 2 hours sleep before working for another 7 hours then she slept with me again for 2 or so hours. Meh.
but how do I fix my dick? I just tried to fap and it was only a semi
>>36493736
I was like you. I felt awkward expressing my sexuality probably cause i was raised by women where talk about that stuff was taboo.
Girls dig it when you push their boundaries. They might playfully try to stop you and giggle but you just gotta compliment them and tell them how hard you are. They like that shit
>>36492170
> > big cocks aren't as hard
Girl here, this isn't true, is it?
>>36477501
>/fit/ takes steroids
>Gets erectile dysfunction
Feels good to be /pol/ master race
