You guys are getting physical gains, but are you getting GF gains?
>fat
>bang girls with below average faces and average bodies
>fit
>bang girls with attractive faces and below average bodies
Fuck this gay earth
>>36463752
>gf
Only if I get to cum in her pussy every single time. Otherwise it's not worth the trouble.
>>36463752
I don't date, so, no.
I work, lift, and come home. That's my life.
>>36463769
step up your game dude, dont settle for the trash
>>36463788
I feel you senpai. Work, lift, sleep x 5.
Vidya and hanging out with friends on Saturday.
No. I find most girls to be annoying and personalityless.
>>36463752
>wanting a gf
>>36463795
I know. I'm just kind of a sucker for a good personality
I should probably hold out for someone who's cool AND hot, but I just get lonely
Angle was my original waifu. Until she opened her mouth that is..
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=L5fNgC7TaUo
>currently getting shit on by oneitis for literally no reason after things started to go good
no.
absolutely fucking not.
>>36463818
This. They're just uninteresting. Even if they've travelled they don't have anything to say about it. Just things like 'it was nice'. Taking a shit is nice. Where did you go? What did you see? Did it change you as a person? Did it make you rethink the way you live at home? Either that or they did nothing but party. They could have not travelled and done that. Boring as hell
>>36463752
No cause even tho I have some gainz they expect me to be psychic about how their feeling. So a few dates but then it goes nowhere
>>36463850
Not only that but social media makes them a bunch of narcissists that *think* they have personalities etc. because a bunch of beta orbiters treat them like princesses. I've seen it time and time again in the form of dumb sorority girls I know.
>>36463825
I remember when this happened. Then a couple years later she started posting pictures again.
>>36463885
Ho is love
Ho is life
>>36463850
That's because you're talking to 18-21 year olds
>>36463885
A couple of years? Try a couple weeks after
No I'm still a recovering fatass in cocoon mode. When I make it I'm going to be banging sl00ts.
>>36463752
Yes. Had a fuck buddy from January to March but she got weird so single again. Have another girl I can make my fuck buddy but I'm hesitant cause we have history.
No.
Wish I could just be a Chad and not give a fuck, but I get emotionally attached way too easily. Dating girls puts me mentally in a place that I don't like to be. They make me paranoid, they kill my self esteem, they make me forget about what's really important in live - goals and gains.
>>36463883
Girls on social media man. Posting those stupid pseudospiritual bullshit pictures of sunsets with idiotic quotes and doing nothing but whine. I gave up on my oneitis because i realised she was really nothing special, just like every other girl who posts the same dumb shit. Plus her taste in memes is atrocious
>>36463905
No shit? I'm 20 years old. Who the fuck else am I gonna talk to.
Younger is a no fly zone. Older are getting married to their college BFs and will have no time for the fun 20s.
Fuck everything. I hate this.
>>36463752
Yeah. My girl is going to an elite (top 5) medical school and works out every day. She's way too good for me but I'm never gonna let her find out.
>>36463883
Stop looking at dumb sorority sluts if you want an interesting woman, you tard
>>36463905
Mate i'm 26, i haven't talked to anyone younger than 21 for a couple years. Girls my age are just as uninteresting
>>36463952
>never gonna let her find out
She already knows
>>36463927
This too much
>>36463934
Same here man, I realized my oneitis was literally just another one only with a pretty face. Over the last 2 years I can see her fattening up. Dodged a bullet there.
Maybe sports girls are better. They seem to be more "normal" anyway.
>>36463939
It gets better, man. Just worry about getting your shit together, bang sluts when you need to get your nut, make close friends for dat emotional support, and worry about serious dating after you graduate from college. Trust me, they're not all gonna be taken by then
>>36463752
whats the point of a gf
a fwb is the ideal situation to aim for imo
>>36463956
It's not just dumb sorority girls who post that kind of thing senpai. It's very wide spread amongst the general female population at any age
There's no such thing as gf gains. A relationship is another thing you always need to work on for nothing but the sake of being better at it.
>>36463906
Yeah. Didn't she go on then like immediately started posting up pics again like instantly?
No and I plan on keeping it that way. I will think about the current crush sometimes when I'm lifting, and it will give me a temporary boost, but I know that the pursuit will either leave me unsatisfied with her, or put me at risk of losing my focus. I can't father children anyway, so it's not like I'm missing out on potential wives
>>36463996
Then wait til you get older. The smart ones grow outta that shit
>>36463752
No, I'm trying to dump two of my gfs so I can focus on the third that I really want to keep.
>>36463985
I certainly hope so. I just don't see the point of dating in college and getting married right after. That should be the time of your life when you have the most freedom doing what you want. Who actually wants to be tied down by a wife and a kid while they're still scraping to get good money at the age of 25?
>>36464020
I'm 26. Do i need to be in my mid30s to no longer see this shit?
anyone else care LESS about girls as they get more and more fit?
now I have so much confidence that I dont give a shit about girls and their games, I know I look way better so im not intimidated anymore.
is it just me?
>>36464052
The smart ones usually grow outta that shit by then. You're hanging out with dumb chicks
>>36464058
It's the same when you get older. You realize that on top of that and work, shit's more of a bother.
>>36463981
In my experience they're just as if not more crazy and boring with few genuine interests outside gym. I dated a fit girl for a few months and she did nothing but obsess over every calorie she ate while i ate nutella and lost 17kg
>>36464072
So one of my friends who is a biomedical engineer and posts shit like that is dumb? Then again, i always got better grades than her
>>36464075
its almost like disgust now
I mean, I still like girls but im just fed up with chasing them or trying to impress them: why should I give a shit? why bend over backwards just to fuck some random girl?
I am more obsessed with improving myself, im not letting girls ruin that or get in the way of my goals.
>>36464058
It's the /fit/ cycle.
>start making gainz
>confidence rises
>girls mire
>get disappointed by girls
>make more gainz to offset disappointment
>more confidence
>more mores
>repeat ad infinitum
Eventually we'll get to the point where we develop pure narcissism and the only way we can get off is by recording ourselves masturbating or by printing up a body pillow with our likeness and fucking one of those sex doll asses.
We're all gonna make it, brah
Not yet, but maybe some day once my I get my body where I want it to be.
>tfw no petite blonde weeb gf that I can carry around if I feel like it
>>36464094
>I mean, I still like girls but im just fed up with chasing them or trying to impress them: why should I give a shit? why bend over backwards just to fuck some random girl?
Because you shouldn't. There's a reason the whole Alpha Bux/Beta Bux thing exists. Most of the betas who spend all of their free time using online dating are doing themselves a huge disservice by acting like tryhards, neglecting their hobbies.
Start doing your own thing and they'll flock to you. They don't? Not a problem, legal prostitution exists in certain areas of the world. Want to get your dick wet that bad, to the point where you're psychologically hurting? Go that route.
Otherwise don't bother, focus on your own shit and your own interest. Meet some girls along the way? Cool, roll with it, but never sacrifice your dignity or wellbeing for her benefit.
>>36464094
I'm exactly the same famatron. I stopped worrying about girls after i broke up with my last gf. She was going nowhere and i was on my way to a phd yet i still cared about what she thought. Now i've never been happier and achieving every goal i set
haha no
>>36464102
I have to say, anger is an excellent motivator
I just want to be at my best, or better than other people in my gym: fuck being average, average isn't good enough.
>>36464115
Alpha Fucks*
I've been lifting for 6 years. At this point I'm 6'3, 212, pretty cut, good proportions, so I officially stand out.
I lost my virginity to a pretty cute club bitch my freshman year of college almost purely due to my body, with almost no talking whatsoever, she basically pulled me into my room.
Fast forward to now, my senior spring break, I just went on a cruise and had every bitch on that ship eyefucking me. Some 10/10 cheerleader went out of her way to try to hook me as her "cruise boyfriend" and we hung out all week/hooked up, again, almost no effort on my part, and in fact I was sometimes indifferent (read: slight autism), which led to her being more aggressive.
I'm actually still in disbelief as this was the cleatchasing type and she dated a pro baseball player in the past, but I guess it's a sign of "making it" in retarded /fit/ terms. In high school I was a skinny awkward fuck who played CoD and Runescape.
literally asked my first girl out ever in my entire life
got rejected
couldnt have had a better position to be in and still got a no
fuck, damn, i feel really bad, damn
lift until someone loves you right
>>36464169
>>36464115
>never sacrifice your dignity or wellbeing for her benefit
Words of wisdom, Lloyd my man. Words of wisdom.
>>36464169
G-good thing my mom will always love me
>>36464192
WHITE MAN'S BURDEN, LLOYD
>>36464169
>got rejected
Don't let it discourage you mango, just be prepared for a lot of it. In the last couple years i've asked out around 200 girls. Only about 50 of then said yes. None of them lasted more than three dates. Point is don't let rejection get you down, just keep going
>>36464014
Her in a pink bikini
JFC
Broke up today. We work together and I'm seeking a promotion, can't date if I'm her boss. Sucks, /fit/. Can't always have it all.
>>36463752
>wanting 3d
I get gains for my waifu
>>36463907
not if you keep being a fucking autist, kek
>>36464256
You're waifu a shit
>gf gone back to her shit hole country
>urge to cheat rising everyday
>>36464087
Posting dumbass narcissistic shit is demonstrating low social intelligence. Or simply a need for attention
I'm just trying to say that there are a lot of quality women out there, and there are more of them as you get older. As long as you're not some autist looking for a pure virgin to deflower, don't sweat it so much. You just gotta get out there and do what this guy said>>36464115
You'll find the right woman. Don't go desperately searching, or you'll settle for less like I've admittedly done. Don't close yourself off to all women, or you'll be a bitter, emotionally-stunted autist and miss out on life. Just go on your journey through life allowing yourself to experience as much of it and as many people as you can. So long as you keep your eyes open, you'll find her
>>36463927
fucks sake, it's like you're me...
>>36464271
What country?
>>36464271
>not cheating
Lel beta cuck
>>36464256
stay autistic, now fuck off
why would I want a gf?
I dont need someone to ruin me emotionally, and all that stress for what: sex?
nah.
>>36463752
>tfw get qt amazing girlfriend who's perfect for me in every way
>tfw still depressed
I thought this would help, bros...
>>36464271
Yeah breh. This happened to me too. Eventually cheated and had passionate sex with a beautiful Italian chick. It felt so wrong...but so right
>>36464273
Nah i'm no longer searching for a woman and i no longer care. The want has died, the need has died
the only thing I need is gains
fitness is all I care about. getting in better shape makes me happy, so i'll keep doing that.
>>36464311
>i thought this would help
It doesn't. Other people aren't going to help you sort out your own issues, that's something that only you can do
>>36464169
Looking back anon, speaking from experience, you are going to be so much happier knowing you had the confidence to ask for a date, and now you know her answer. Nothing is worse then sitting around waiting/contemplating to ask her out, as you pass up valuable time and other potential options. Nothing is worse then sitting there debating if she likes you or not, the only true way to find out is by doing what you did. Nothing is worse then looking back and wondering if you missed a chance at something special. Now that you know the answer, it's almost relieving in a sense that you have the whole world of other options ahead of you. You did the hardest part, asking the first one. Coming from someone who gets rejected all the time, to the point it's almost laughable, it's not something to worry about, since all it takes is one to like what you have to offer to them. And it gets easier, once rejected you don't care what they think, since the only reason you were asking them was you saw something in them you liked, and if they don't want that in return then they aren't worth your time anyways.
As a joke, my friends always say the worst that can happen is she will say yes, cause then you will have to see her again.
>>36464169
>lift until someone loves you right
Yes. Eventually, you'll find out that that someone is you.
>>36464357
this so much
I stopped worrying about girls and started caring solely about the guy in the mirror
and you know what? im happy, cause I get better and better and it's all because I can focus. not on trying to pick up girls, or bars and clubs and other shit.
fuck all of that. im training for me.
>>36464169
>lift until someone loves you
We love you anon. Dealing with rejection gets easier
>>36464315
In that case, stop giving a shit about them and have fun. I wish I had your emotional autonomy
>start dating girl in one of my college classes
>I'm her first bf
>I'm the only guy who has ever shown interest in her (she was homeschooled, I pretty much snapped her up the second she left her parent's house)
>we date for a few months before she dumps me (I'm not religious, swear, and watch porn. These are all completely unacceptable)
>she acts like nothing has changed, the only difference is no handholding
>she still follows me around campus like a lost puppy
>she's been real chatty on Facebook recently
This shit is really fucking with my head
>>36464465
Sounds like you're the only male contact she's had outside of her dad. Abandon ship, cut off all contact
>>36464465
she clearly doesn't know like >>36464492
tell her straight up that it's fuckign with you and/or get out
>>36464492
This. Or just be really good friends with her and turn her into a normal person with a chance to live a normal life.
>>36464492
I want to, but she's my lab partner for a few classes, so I can't until the term is over.
>>36463752
i really like the idea of the ugliest kids in school grow up to be the hottest, and that really was me, however obviously my social inexperience carries over and still affects my personal life.
mfw good looking but too socially awkward to get a girlfriend
>>36464509
So try your best to limit your contact to only your lab related work. Maybe let her know that the situation is making you uncomfortable and go from there?
>>36464506
That's not gunna happen. Her parents did too much damage. First they cloistered her away from society for her whole life, and then they forced her into an obscenely strict version of Christianity. And big surprise! She's been fighting depression her whole life, and I think it's because of those two things.
She's either going to have two outcomes.
1) Depression wins, and she kills herself (she's already admitted she's been crazy depressed since she broke up with me)
2) She tosses everything away and becomes a complete nymphomaniac (I've seen this happen a couple of times). And if this happens, being the only male in her life outside of her father, I'll be prime benefactor, and I'd like to be around for it.
>>36464558
Maybe try to help her see how damaged her parents have made her? Show her that certain things that are forbidden by her strict upbringing are nowhere near as bad as they're made out to be
>>36464189
Ive had enough patience in my life anon... so i already gave up looking/waiting for someone
For me, thats all folks
>>36464575
Yeah, I tried that. Just got me smacked (metaphorically) across the face with the Bible, and then she broke up with me.
>tfw really tired of women lately
And I don't mean in a gay, "I want men"-kind of way, just... Goddamn. I just wanna fucking be alone.
I've been matching with some legit 9/10s on Tinder and I've stopped swiping because I don't want to get any more matches because I don't want to have to talk to anybody. I almost committed to a chick but then I just felt to stupidly insincere and just jumped ship, she even sent me a 9-minute voice message yesterday night just basically saying she missed me a thousand times and I didn't even feel bad or felt anything at all. It's always the same talk and always the same "where-are-you-froms" and uncomfortable facts and just fucking everything all the time.
I'm so tired of meeting people.
>>36464590
Well i'm afraid there's no hope for you and her. Tell her that her world view is too limited and biased, do your best to limit contact for the time being then completely sever contact. That kind of upbringing and belief system is completely incompatible for anyone who doesn't share the exact same beliefs
>>36463825
>watching good morning america
>>36464601
it isnt worth the effort
but training for yourself is always worth it, every single time.
>>36464601
I feel that anon-kun. It seems that people are reluctant to talk about anything even remotely outside of the norm. Some of the best conversations i've had have been about life, death, atoms, space, history, fears, regrets. But more and more women don't really seem to know enough or be willing to open up about those things. All they seem to care about is drinking wine and watching mindless tv shows
>>36464613
Yeah, I know. And I keep telling myself that I'm going to limit contact, and that I'm done with her.
And then she messages me and we spend the next 6 hours just chatting about nothing.
>>36464601
>Interactions with women eventually become a recursive loop where I can only grow increasingly paranoid that its a meaningless pursuit, undertake just for the sex, which is itself meaningless and becoming something of an itch that needs scratching rather than something to be enjoyed
>>36464601
>It's always the same talk and always the same "where-are-you-froms" and uncomfortable facts and just fucking everything all the time.
>>36463752
Got one but trying to get her to lift. Fucking shit she's being a cunt about the weights
>b-b-but anon I don't want to get big and bulky
>>36464653
Well normally if she's still messaging you it would mean she still like you in some capacity outside of regular friendship. But in this case, if you're the only male she socialises with, i would advise to stop responding to the messages gradually. If you keep up this behaviour you're only going to hurt yourself when you do cut off contact. You need to wean her off you senpai
>>36464673
Tell her about testosterone and how women who lift lack the proper concentrations to become big and bulky unless they're on drugs
>>36464704
After saying this start her on SS+GOMAD
>>36464782
Ew
>>36464169
You're a better person for having tried, anon. It's better to be a loser than a spectator
>>36464704
Did, but it's annoying. I got her to lift today with some squats, dead and bench. She's complaining about being sore, so I'm explaining to her that's a good thing but she's still flipping shit. But as long as she's starting somewhere...
>>36464020
Join an organization/club/society/group of interest to you (besides lifting, that is). Join a film society, work as a carpenter or scenery maker assistant for the local theatre group, help at the humane society, help at a charity, etc.
Then you start meeting women who think about things other than just what clothes to buy or makeup to wear.
Travel internationally, and not as a tour group. You'll meet women who travel independently and have brains.
Take a class in the French language. Really popular with hot women and they're thinking beyond their wardrobe.
As for you guys who lift, sleep and work all week long and hang out with your vidya buddies. Do you think you have much to offer a woman with brains ?
>>36464194
what?
>>36464891
>do you think you have much to offer a woman with brains
Yes. I'm working on a phd, take woodworking class (i make animals), speak fluent italian, am an excellent cook, volunteer at a soup kitchen. And the women i meet there are the same as i meet everywhere else. 90% of them are the same. They have nothing to offer me except pussy
>>36464658
>>36464601
thanks guys this is why i'm on 4chan
>>36463850
where are you searching? Clubs and bars guarantee no personality plebs
>>36463752
attempting too
kind of hard coming out of the army and going to cc
>im 24
>everyone else is below drinking age
>>36464782
post more?
>>36464519
go for it before it's too late and they move on
>>36464803
>>36464382
>>36464357
>>36464200
>>36464194
>>36464189
>>36464337
thanks guys feelings became really strong in the last month so i think i might have a case of light oneitis, but i know im free now, im finally free, i dont have to be nervous around her anymore i can be happy with someone else
>>36465031
All I have of her thats why im asking for the rest idiot
>>36463752
Her?
>>36464029
Don't know if you're kidding, but I've actually been there and done that, culling off two of my three regular fwb girls to date the third.
I fucked up and picked the worst one to date, in hindsight.
>>36464976
Haven't been to a club or bar for like three years. Most contact i have with people is uni, work, or small gatherings/larger parties at friends houses
>>36464200
How do you even find that many?
>>36465460
Parties, uni, friends of mates gfs etc
>>36463752
Gains b4 dames
>>36465464
I've joined a couple of clubs at my uni and tried meeting a few people there but it never got anywhere. Maybe I'm being too autistic.
Being a kissless virgin at 20 is really starting to fuck with me. I'll take any average looking girl desu. Still have troubles talking to people though aka hard to make new friends.
>>36463783
Every gf of mine has done this after the first few weeks. Once we go exclusive and get tested they've all had iud. It's amazing fampai.
>>36465503
>>36465486
Just get brolic and ripped. You don't need a gf when you can jerk off to yourself in the mirror.
>>36465179
you're going to make it anon
>>36464558
it's for this reason that I believe homeschooling can be deemed child abuse in some cases.
>>36465597
cute
>>36465597
She's one of those chicks who has the lips of a 70 year old woman.
>>36465597
look like that bitch off dexter
>>36465597
She's cute!
>>36463927
You gotta find the right girl senpai. Mine supports my goals and my gains. She cooks my dinner, mixes my shakes and even packs my gym bag. She even switched from doing TRX and calisthenics to barbell training because I said she'd look fucking hot with more muscle. Fucking Slavic women are the ultimate in man pleasing perfection.
>>36463752
>2016
>dating for girls
>>36463850
and every stupid cunt says here interests include "traveling"
more like "anon you better be able to take me places"
>>36464294
lol
>>36465794
Well Arby's is a place
>>36464311
you need to realize your standards and expectations get higher as you achieve them.
if you were an armless hairy nigerian aids baby, nothing in the entire fucking world could match to the feeling of having ur gf.
but now that u are u and u have ur gf, u dont let it make u happy because u see it as normal.
u need to learn to be grateful. next time u see her, just look at her & appreciate. think about her from an outside perspective of how u normally do. it feels like falling in love the second time, except like the first time meant nothing compared to now.
>>36463829
she realized you are onto her
>>36463829
here is how women work.
you do not chase her. you do not make her feel like you want her. you need to appear to her as if you don't even thinking about being with her, and only then will she see you as someone she wants.
all your good qualities will begin to show to her as unattainable, and that will make her desire you. if you throw yourself at her, she will have no interest.
>>36465794
I'm not taking a girl anywhere. She pays for herself if she wants to go anywhere with me
>>36464357
wew
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>>36463752
OK, semi-on topic:
There is this infograph going around, "starting social skills by mark pimpetoe" or something along those lines.
1
/r/ing that someone post it, please.
2
I could use some details/cues for setup on the "talk to girls" exercise, I have no idea how to do it. I've had 2 fwbs and 1 gf so far, but I think I was lucky in all 3 cases.
>>36464169
>has courage to ask a girl out
NORMIES LEAVE REEEEEEEEEEEE
>>36465942
This desu
Started lifting 2,5 years ago, met my GF 6 months after that. She's that shy cute horse girl next door type, 9/10 cute face, 7/10 body. Everything is amazing, we decide to move in with each other after 18 months, we work out 4-5 times a week with each other. We get into the same collage, her in medschool, me in electro engineering. We have different schedules, i still make time to work out 5 times a week, getting up at 5 every morning to go before school starts. GF loses intrests since she don't wanna get up that early and can't find motivation when im not working out with her. She puts on a little weight (i don't mind, shes still crazy hot and most of it goes to her butt and boobs) but she starts acting distant.
I get suspicious and snoop, realize that she's not cheating or anything. I can hear her cry in the shower, finally ask her whats up and she wont tell me. I keep badgering her until she tells me she's afraid to lose me (im 190 lbs at 10% bodyfat at this point) and that all her new friends kinda make fun of her asking if im single, if they can have my number etc etc. She now wants me to stop working out so much we could go back to waking up next to each other every morning.
She wants to pull me down in the bucket instead of putting in the effort herself. I still love this girl more than anything, but for the first time in my life i feel good about myself and my looks.
>>36466241
>horse girl
Red flag
>>36464150
Tfw only 5'9
>cleatchasing
Have to remember this one
girlfriend in this age? maybe. getting married? absolutely not.
you might find the occasional exception, but you'll always do something that will rub her wrong and she'll load up tinder and get 5000 matches in 10 days and cheat/leave you. dating is fucked for our generation.
>relatively fit
>have had some attention from girls in the past
>blew my chances with all of them even after knowing one wanted to be fwb and one wanted to hook up after we were at the bar
>never had a gf, still virgin
>havent even kissed a girl in like 15 months
FeelsBadMan
Pretty succesful in almost every other aspect of my life, but I'm the biggest beta bitch I know. Couldn't even make small talk with girls until my first year of college.
So needless to say, my gym gains are going much better than my gf gains.
>>36467969
Mind you I don't go out of my way to actively seek girls by any means. I'm pretty content with my grades/gym progress/body progress/hobbies atm so I've never really felt all that sad about my situation. Maybe i'm low test or something, dunno.
>>36463752
I'm trying to fuck two girls from work. They each have three kids and both are currently in relationships. But I don't care.
>>36465370
Yeah I'm trying to do that but they don't think we're friends with benefits, only one of them thinks she's my actual girlfriend but they're all in girlfriend territory right now.
What do you fags want out of these chicks?
9/10 of you sound like you want some girl to come along and save your life.
Pathetic, bros...
>>36464294
>she thinks anyone sees her as anything other than a cocksleeve with nice tits and a cute face
surely girls like this can't be this delusional?
>>36463788
now that hits me where I live Anon
>>36464782
picture of her wearing that necklace or gtfo
>>36466250
This. A thousand times this.
>>36466241
She doesn't want to lose you, but she doesn't want to put in the effort to be with you. You can do several things anon, inspire her to ascend together, keep her as a pet girlfriend while you continue the path of gainz, or give her the ultimatum. Be fit together, or split apart since you can obviously do better. She's looking towards you for guidance. Give it to her.
>>36466134
Pls respond
I've given up altogether. I'm lonely in that respect and I haven't had sex in about 5 years (age 22), but I've packed it in. A general tip; if someone tells you to learn about body language, be careful. You might not like what you see
>>36471078
You're only 22. Why bother with a girlfriend now?
GF gains come with age, girls peak early, men are on an upward curves all through their 20s and 30s
I have a waifu, does that count?
>>36471114
>why bother with a girlfriend now
Because I'm hardwired to want one. Or at least female sexual companionship. Plus by the time I'm 30 I'll be so behind the curve.
sure
>>36463752
Gf is currently talking with some faggot from down south
I think I'm pretty much checked out at this point
just waiting to finish it
fuck it
>>36471258
>pic related
14 year old rich boy...30 year old gf
>>36471114
This is true but only if you practice now. Chase girls for the exp even if you still usually get btfo by the fit, suave 30yo with a house and nice car.
>>36463821
they all either leave or cheat on you in the end so whats the point?
doesn't matter how good of a provider, how big your dick is or how funny you are
she gets comfortable and bored then boom your all alone and shes with some skinny faggot whos 1/10 the person you are
>>36471307
Because if you don't get the exp, a spergy 30yo is less desirable than a spergy 22yo and you'll still never get any.
>tfw lose 80 lbs and gain some newb gains
>decently attractive 7/10
>women think you're a player
>actually an autist virgin
>don't know even how to date or get laid
>be tall skelly years ago
>still attract women
>start getting fit, get pretty strong and hueg
>attract 8/10s
>have a few relationships and tons of sex
>lose interest completely in women, don't feel like putting up with them
>lift, go to work, play video games all day
>am comfy and enjoying life and don't need to bother with women anymore
Also I'm going for 255 bench on Weds so that's cool too
So I got a decent job , about 19 an hour , losing weight , lifting here n there. I can get girls , that's not a problem , but I have an std. Any hope ?
Still no gf gains. How do I confuse my virginity?
>>36471360
It's just like lifting. Install tinder, message girls until you figure out how to get them to meet with you, meet with girls until you figure out how to get them to come home with you. Do this constantly until you git gud and don't let getting shot down all the time bother you. It's a difficult thing to teach to other people you just have to do it yourself and eventually you figure it out and overcome your inhibitions.
>>36471425
>decent job
>19 an hour
lol
>>36471488
I'll be making 34 an hour in a year if that helps.
>>36464169
Go for many or go for none this helps remove the oneitis way of thinking, good job bro, we both got rejected. You're not alone. By all means hold on to your pride and dignity. She said no? Cool. Drop it all and walk away.
>>36471425
there is such a big difference between the clap and AIDS, it really depends on which one you have friend
>>36464102
>mfw can fap to completion looking only at my own dock from different perspectives
>>36466250
From my experience I can tell that girls who ride horses are amazing in bed as its basically the same motion as fucking. Mark my words, you will be destroyed in bed.
On the negative side are the emotional issues. They are often manipulative as they enjoy the feeling power over such a big and strong animal. Transferred to your relation, this means they will have outbursts of anger, make a scene in public, and try to blackmail you with their pussies.
>Date girl for 2 years, first kiss, first everything
>Out of nowhere, bam, over.
Brehs, how do you get over the feeling that you will never have sex again
>>36472241
Just don't have sex in the first place is all the advice I can give you.
>>36472241
improve yourself physically and mentally. achieve independence and financial stability, and begin to socialize in clubs, events, and activities that women attend
>>36466241
This is what the TotalGym Workout was built for famly; you know something created by Chuck Norris will be designed to give results.
>tfw going for muscle wizard
>>36464271
england?
everyday I lift I surprise myself more and more...even after 4 years I still can't get enough.
But years of no real routine/or big 3 work and I'm just hella built fat.
>Almost 22
>virgin
>never had a gf
>never kissed a girl
>never been on a date
Past 6 months i've been trying to focus on myself but ultimately women, love, intimacy, companionship are things that torment me. I have hobbies and friends who enrich my life but to disregard sex/love's importance in every man's life is foolish. That desire is in all of us whether we admit it or not. I don't care how it ends. I just want to feel, even temporarily, what its like for woman to care about me as much as I care about them.
>>36472892
no, France. Why?
>>36465942
>got to appear uninterested to get your girl
this is why I hate modern humanity.
I don't want to sound like an edgy cunt, but I'm sorta in the same position as >>36463829
We both like each other, hell we both love each other, yet we're still not 'together' after a year, just dating. She's never had a boyfriend before, and everytime things start to get going/speed up/get good she withdraws and starts pulling out of dates, saying she's stressed out with uni etc. Then I start to pull away, ignore her, then she posts sad shit on facebook saying I need to try harder/that I'm giving up, then we decide to start again, she gets all happy and cute and the cycle repeats. I'm so fucking frustrated. I know I should move on, but I've never felt this way about a girl before.
>>36463752
I got one from my uni group lined up.
Face 6/10, body 9/10 wat do?
Got uber fucked up with my baby at a party and we banged in the end like always. She ended up bleeding, happens sometimes as she's tight and I'm big.
Can remember bits and bobs, but she can't remember anything and she told me that makes her feel uncomfortable. She said it's fine and didn't want me to feel bad. I wasn't at fault as she seemed fine at the time and I was pretty wasted myself though I could have used some better judgement at the time.
I feel so fucking bad though. I hate hurting her and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable around me. I know she doesn't but I still feel terrible.
>>36473090
Fuck her raw. Cum deep inside. Post vid. Make sure to loudly yell memes during sex, too. It'll better her pleasure.
>>36473212
Not like I'm gonna get anything better anytime soon. Going on a date with that girl is suicide, she just will not shut the fuck up, gonna try to invite her over to watch a movie kek
>>36466250
STAY AWAY FROM HORSE GIRLS
YOU'VE BEEN WARNED ANON
>>36473059
>tells you to try harder
>tells you you are giving up
>doesnt even put in any fucking effort herself to please you/make the relationship work
relationships are 50/50. you being the man just means you have to put in the first 50. not do all the work yourself. you have a bad case of oneitis. meet more girls and find one whose willing to work with you
>get qt3.14 Latina's number on a Thursday from gym (I work there as well)
>grinding on my jock at the club that Saturday
>schedule another date/club hang out for the next Saturday
>rarely text her because I only text for logistics and if I really have to say something
>she is a shitty texter anyway
>hour before Im supposed to pick her up she cancels on me
>"I'm sorry. Something came up and I can't make it"
>I reply "k"
>"My bad blah blah blah"
>don't reply
Dodged one there. Seriously, if a bitch ever gives you an ambiguous excuse as to why she can't go out and doesn't reschedule with you then next her. Seriously. This is the 21st century "door test" from A Bronx Tale.
Obviously, there is more to the story and I've semi-known this chick for a while since I do work at the gym and my friends group is all from the gym. I'll be nice to her and shit, but it's on her if she wants to start this up again.
>>36473108
so take control faggot and monitor your intake faggot bitch
nothing gets me like faggot whiners who have every choice to drink or not
>tfw think I'm a complete autist in HS
>go to uni
>girls show interest in me
>tfw touched by girl for first time
>try to restrict autism
>tfw don't know how to act so just act like an asshole like Chad
>tfw more and more sloots come my way
>stats
6'2
Nigger
Watch Chinese cartoons
Listen to grimes
Otter mode
Don't have trouble talking and flirting but can't make romantic moves. What do?
>>36473895
listen to drake and youll unlock Romantic Mode
specifically the Take Care album
>have relationship for 3 years
>get cheated on 6 months ago by a fucking friend no less
>leave relationship and consequently lose a good chunk of friend circle in process
>ex still tries to text me every fucking month even though they're in a relationship with the person
why why why
>>36474027
Since I am trying to get a woman with kids to cheat on her baby daddy with me I must ask, just how badly did it hurt when you found out you got cheated on? How did you find out? If you hadn't found out, do you think you'd still be with her today? Also, do you think you'd've done anything to the guy who fucked her if he wasn't a "friend"?
>>36474027
Dude that fucking sucks. Just got dumped after 2 years out of the blue and she starting fucking someone else immediately, but I can't imagine what you're going through.
Stay strong bro no contact, not a single shred. Fuck that cunt and your asshole "friend"
>start lifting for about three months now
>find a chick who has depth and genuinely found her calling in life (being a teacher)
>she's GGG for almost whatever
>only downside is that she's recently divorced with kids
What do, bros?
>>36464030
Lawschoolbro here; you're pretty damn right; the people who have gotten married are all having a shit time. Of the 6 married people I regularly talk to, all but one is contemplating divorce, because they married the person they dated in college, who just so happened to COMPLETELY change after graduating. Add onto that they're diving into more debt, but that's neither here nor there. Dating while just working was such a better time in comparison to in college btw (took 3 years between for savings building), so don't worry about settling with anyone before graduating. Most of the bullshit aspects go away the day people get their diploma.
>>36463752
Had my first successful date last week, have my second one tomorrow. She's digging me. I'm pacing it to not fuck it up, and working out every day except Sunday.
I'm starting to notice a visible difference on my legs after 3 weeks of workout. It's not much, but by july/august, I can go to the beach and I won't feel like my legs are made out of sticks. I originally started lifting to become healthy, women were a secondary goal. But with successful date so far and the girl digging me, I'm now lifting to be healthy and get more confidence so that I can turn this into a relationship, my [spoiler]very first.[/spoiler]
>>36471320
>"they all either leave or cheat on you in the end so whats the point?"
you keep trying just like how you keep going to the gym and resuming the grind. don't let the past hold you down man. you're only missing out on the great things if you dwell on that shit.
>>36474178
>with kids
LEL
no deal
>>36463752
There is a new blonde in my gym
I watched her ass while she was squatting and she said goodbye to me when leaving
We're pretty much married already
>>36471279
I would wreck that rachet with a crowbar and lock that little faggot in his room until he's 40 if I was that kid's mom.
>>36464294
Could you imagine if a guy made a similar post?
>if you see me as just a prince then you don't know me or what I've been through
This happened to me last year as a senior in highschool
>meet a girl at the theatre
>nice body, but a not so pretty face
>I don't care, Its dark in here
>make out
>turns out I was the first guy she'd done anything sexual with
>we exchange numbers and agree to go out the next week
>go out, but feel like shit the entire time for being her first guy for some reason
>slowly cut contact, and try to avoid her in public
I don't know why I felt ashamed. I'm sure most virgins reading this would love to have girl that isn't a "sl00t" but I just felt like shit. Anyone have a similiar story?
>>36463752
>Flew across the country to break up with GF because things weren't working out
>Things went OK decided to stay friends
>6 months later now I'm going skiing with her out on the West Coast
>Absolutely don't want to date her and moved on
>Kinda looking forward to it
>Bringing condoms just incase we fuck
Kinda weird but whatever.
>>36475042
That's crazy you're still connected. I've never had that strong of a bond with a girl.
All my gf does is drain my bank account
>>36475048
It was pretty much an ideal breakup. We only dated 9 months before she moved abroad for 18 months and I broke up with her as soon as she got back. That's a lot of time to be away from each other and in all of 2015 we spent a week together. In a way we've been single for 2 years or so, I just made it official.
Ontop of that no one cheated on anyone or anything shity. I honestly just didn't think we had a lot in common and I wasn't myself when I was with her. Plus we'd have to be long distance for another 5 years or some crazy shit and I wasn't about to take that gamble. So really there's no reason to hate one another, it just didn't work out.
I wouldn't say we're super close, but I like talking to her about politics and shit. We chat every so often still and we both like skiing; since the Canadian dollar took a shit she suggested we take advantage of it and go skiing.
The only worry I have is she secretly wants to get back together but I'll shut that down pretty quick. I think I'd be down for a casual bang but other than that I absolutely do not want to date this girl again. I went through a lot of fucking effort to break up with her and I intend to keep things that way.
Also, most of my friends are women, and I was raised by my mom mostly so I think that's how I can keep a bond with them. That being said my female friends are gonna fucking harp on me and nag me about doing this trip with my ex. They can go fuck themselves I just wanna eat good Chinese food and shred some snow.
>>36463752
I'm taking Scooby's advice. Be nice and focus on the positive qualities of working out (humility, patience, perseverance, character). I'm not going to worry about big pecs or being someone I'm not.
>be somewhat inexperienced socially awkward non-virgin
>meet girl on tinder
>shes super cool and we know some of the same people get along great
>she doesnt want to sleep with me too fast
>month or so into dating and get really close
>she is a recovering alcoholic, no longer slutty, ex bad girl who was raped at one point and wants to settle down
>well this is eventually doomed
>continue dating, fucking all the time
>she suggests I put it in her butt
>never done that before
>she wants to explore a sub/dom relationship and wants me to control her
>I can do this but sort of bad at it and always start laughing while I do it
>in 6 months she will leave me lol.
>>36463752
>met girl from friends band party
>lead band guy of friends band has a qt mexican (american) wife
>qt mexican wife has an even cuter little sister only a year younger than me
>fit girl, so's her sister even after 2 kids, they talk about cooking and healthy food and running together and yoga and junk
>get her number
>friend tells me better not fuck his shit up
>band guy and his wife are protective of her
>date a bit
>she's old fashioned, won't put out right away
>funny and flirty and smart like no girl I've ever met
>laughing over stupid dirty offensive jokes
>I wanna be friends with her but also fuck so bad
>she's skinny but them latina hips mang
>and god her smell
>invited to dinner party with some of her friends
>she made the best damn steak I ever did have
>with some kind of sweet potato rissoto?
>obviously she's trying to impress me but it's working
>sitting on my lap during after dinner drinks
>take her to her home later after only a little feeling up in my car
>goddammit this girl is great but if I can't hit it within the month
She's such a fucking tease but she seems worth the wait if I can get her girlfriend material.
>>36475130
She cooked for you already, so she wants something long-term. Girls only do that if they want something long-term.
>>36464208
Why are all the pics so lo res?
I had a gf for eight years, we broke up last march. Lost 110lbs last year, didnt have sex at all but i did fool around with a few girls. now I just started hanging out with this girl that is unbelievably hilarious, which is surprising to say the least. i'm too scared to make any moves but she clearly is interested
i dont know where I'm going with that but it feels good to feel good again bros. got over my old gf after not too long and now i remember how relationships feel and its awesome. not going to get my hopes up too high but... even for a pessimist, its hard not to want to grasp onto the fleeting hope
>>36475123
I should add that she showed me her collar with nipple clamps, ballgag and butt plug this weekend, I am trying to talk her into letting me tie her up for a few hours and having my way with her.
>>36471696
Well I either got the herp or hpv , either way I'm fucked.
I've actually told some females and they were down with fucking just using a condom , but wtf , I usually feel like they fuck with me.
Any advice ?
>>36475204
>planned parenthood
>free std testing
>thanks obama
>>36471258
context ?
>>36475149
That's what I'm thinking but she also does seem to just enjoy cooking.
It's stupid because I've never been into that whole picking up women shit advice but I'm looking up ways to woo a girl now. Just basic romantic dates and gift ideas. She seems to be putting in effort for me here and I never see girls do this for me. It's making me wanna put in twice as much effort back.
>>36475215
I've gone , they only have for like the main ones , the killers I guess. The rest you need to pay 200 for the full screen , it's been like 4 years , I honestly thought whatever I had would kill me by now ....
>>36464052
Just get off those social media sites, just shit post on 4chan
dear /fit/, femanon here (ok you stopped reading. keep reading.)
5'2, 113 lbs, tan, athletic, HOT, etcetc (you probably don't believe i'm a 9)...i squat 135 for 12 deep, play volleyball and swim
advice for you /fit/ guys....being muscular won't get you any more women then being skinny (dun dun dunnn)
i've fucked 19 guys (i'm 20) and 2 were ripped athletes, the others were skinny boy types and mostly average
honestly, when deciding to fuck them... muscles weren't a consideration. at all.
keep that in mind. they were just suave.
>>36475313
Fuck OFF WHORE.
>>36475313
>"Look ma, I posted it again!"
>>36463752
Have three at the moment so kind of yeah. Pls don't tell them, they'll all be so mad
>>36465794
>>36466042
lol I know right? like we need someone to go along and not being an anchor
>>36467996
go for it mang, Im nailing a grill from my job who already has a commitment ring and her bf is a beta bitch
>>36471416
yeah you're a faggot
O fuck no
I think lifting might have given me the confidence to finally ask a girl out, but she turned me down so I mostly just feel like shit
Hold me
>>36475313
>thinking we lift solely to get girls
>>36476165
Man I fear this. What was your relationship with her? Did she already know you somewhat and you wanted to develop it further or did you just ask her out of the blue?
>>36473059
tell her to get her shit together or just drop it
>>36476193
She knew me somewhat. It was a complete, stereotypical friendzone type deal. I thought the friendzone thing was just a meme, I was sadly mistaken.
>>36476275
it's probably because you asked like a sperg or she's taken. ask with confidence and in a reasonable context
>>36476275
Damn brah. Shit sucks.
>>36476298
Or it was entirely possible that she just wasn't into to him.
>>36476165
the first cut is the deepest
>>36463821
A good personality actually is more important
>>36475130
Look at you faggot, feeling her up and still complaining. jack off and stop whining like a little girl
the ice cream cone just keeps dripping doesn't it? you keep licking but it keeps dripping......
>>36475313
>i've fucked 19 guys (i'm 20)
KEK
>>36464169
It's a numbers game nigger.
I've dated like 20 women. I've probably had 100 women tell me to fuck off.
Propositioning women and doing sales are literally the exact same thing.
>>36464294
That girl is such a cunt, but has such a nice body.
>>36476298
>>36476332
I think there's a bit of both. Keep in mind that I'm a college freshman and this is the first girl I've ever asked out.
I went the intentionally corny route and gave her a Valentines Day card with a shitty pun. Maybe it was a garbage idea, but if she was into me she would have said yes anyways.
>>36476438
>the ice cream cone just keeps dripping doesn't it? you keep licking but it keeps dripping......
this is the most fatass yet cryptic line
>>36476275
this >>36476298
Should've gotten drunk with her a few times and forced some sexual tension before backing off (hugs, thigh touch, eye contact), tease her for a while, make her think she can't have you, then down the line make your move.
Are nerdy shy girls more desperate and horny than average women who fuck 19 dudes daily? Like they'd be more willing to date a retard autist like me.
I feel like that's the case for men but I don't know if it is for women.
>>36464198
LLOYD POOR ME A DRINK.
