i'm experiencing repeating performance anxiety with my girlfriend and im desperate for advice.
im 18 and lift regularly, currently cutting and not doin' bad. this is the first girl ive had feelings for in the last 4 years, i've had sex with plenty of girls before her and I have experienced this before but not to the point i absolutely could not have sex. the worry has consumed my thoughts and i need to have a successful night with her before it has serious detrimental effects on our relationship and my mental health
she knows whats going on but thinks its porn and masturbation related rather than performance anxiety. which at first was true but the multiple failed attempts since starting nofap has turned it into anxiety. we havent had sex yet. ive gone down on her but she has only done the same for about a minute or two before getting discouraged that i wasnt up. I dont know what to do senpai please help me.
an hero
also it's obviously porn.
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how long have you been a /fit/izen
you might be gay
>>35419304
6'4
260
havent measured but i think im hittin average around the better part of 5 inches. somewhat insecure but hey if you aint hung you probably a lil insecure
im not gay but I used to consume so much porn in my past that i once in a blue moon got off to gay porn because it felt new and dirty. felt deep seeded absolute disgust in myself after orgasm. im confident im not gay, ive had sex with plenty of girls and do not find men attractive. the few times i got off to gay porn it was while i was going through stints of 2-3 times of jerking a day and i could probably count the times ive done it on one hand.
>>35419364
u jerked to gay porn. u r gay nigga.
Not OP Been seeing a new girl myself, first girl in a long time I've actually cared about. Got the same problem, have attempted sex twice but couldn't get it up. Am terrified it'll happen again and she'll get bored and move on.
Two things
>it's all in your head.
Accept your manly life style. You lift there for your are instant alpha status remind yourself how manly you are before sex and think about how good you look. Self conscious is huge in bed.
>practice kegel exercises
Don't know what they are look them up.
are you on creatine?
>>35419534
Nah bro, natty life for me
>>35419544
How about you suck this natural cock
>>35419298
stop jerking off completely for at least 2-3 weeks.
>>35419593
scooby pls...
>>35419364
Fuck nigga u gay
