>asked her out
>she thought I was joking
>bulking currently
>family ate without me
How's your thanksgiving going?
Move on breh. It's a numbers game, gotta let that shit flow off you. You'll get your girl soon!
Happy Thanksgiving man.
>>35049863
>>35049898
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAYBET6rmFo
>go to the folks house
>eat
>leave
Pretty good.
Have any of you ever had a girl pretend to like you and then laugh at you (sometimes with her friends) when you thought she was serious or when you asked her out?
High school wasn't a fun time.
>>35049898
>>Move on
i'm not op, but how?
>tfw have oneitis
>too afraid to ask her out, know she'll reject an awkward loser like me
>spend all my day thinking of her
>she doesn't even care about me
i can't move on breh ;_;
>>35049977
Then kill yourself you fucking waste of carbon
>>35049977
Just keep lifting best advice I can give ppl in ur sitch
>>35049977
>have oneitis
Don't.
>>35049977
You're a fag, and I don't mean that in the 4chan way.
>>35049945
I think I had a couple girls who liked me.
But they were all friends of mine and I value my friends more than a relationship.
And I'm gay.
>>35049945
No, girls were/are too disgusted by me to talk to me enough to feign interest.
>>35049999
ayy quads
>>35049945
i had a girl lead me on for 2 years and then dated by bestfriend.
yeah highschool did suck and i was a bitch.
>>35049999
Quads can ultimately confirm
>>35049977
Having a oneitis is the worst, most pathetic thing. You're friendzoned, and know that you have no chance of intimacy, and yet you value this persons attention more than anyone elses. Why do you like her so much? What is so special about this girl?
>>35049977
Guy you responded to.
Only one way to know for certain if she'll reject you, just gotta man up and ask her out. If she says no, then you've got to face reality and realize it ain't gonna happen. It'll take time, but you'll get over it and her. You're a fucking man! Do manly shit!
And happy thanksgiving.
>>35049977
Get your heart broken anon, I was you 2 years ago, probably worse desu, hurt a lot and a part of me still wants her, but after it happened I learned not to put the pussy on a pedestal now I literally have girls I never would have thought I had a chance with chasing me to the point I ignore/avoid them because they're annoying.
>Ate at 8pm last night
>Didnt eat since then until 3pm today
>3xturkey, 3xpotatoes, 2xgreen bean casserole, 5 red lobster biscuits, 1 pumpkin pie, 6 deviled eggs
>not eating again until tomorrow night around 5pm
I'm on a cut so this should be okay r-right
>>35050041
>What is so special about this girl?
i think you can say that about anyone. like, there isn't anything special about most people
but she's good looking, has good values (foreign, religious girl), and is nice to me
>this time last year I was having hours long conversation with the girl of my dreams
>now she's my gf, but lately doesn't seem to want to talk to me and gets angry/annoyed with me for nothing
I just wish she would let me know if she wants to end it or not
>>35050270
>religious
Lol kill yourself, enjoy watching her weight skyrocket. You dodged a bullet faggot go back to the gym.
>>35050295
Then break up with her. If she's not the girl of your dreams, then ditch her and find someone else. If however, you're being overly sensitive and nitpicky, then that's different.
so how do you meet girls when your day consists of shopping or going to the gym?
im done school so that's a no go.
>>35049898
>it's a numbers game
Honestly this. The people who get laid the most play the field the most.
>>35049863
>Currently laying down in my bed
>stomach hurts like hell
>probably gonna go make myself vomit
>>35050324
Get guy friends, go to bars. Could you not come up with that yourself?
>>35050313
It's not me that's not talking brah, it's her, she's completely shut off and I don't know why. I love her, but I fear she no longer loves me
>>35050325
no, they are the best looking or wealthiest
Didn't get job 2 days ago. Got shorted on my paycheck so broke. Sitting here solo on thxgiving while everyone snaps and FB posts about their awesome dinners. At least I hit PRs on bench, squat, and pendlay the last 2 days bc of so much frustration r-r-right?
>>35049945
>Female friend brushes me off
>Figure she's not interested
>She gets a boyfriend
>Suddenly super flirty with me and trying to lead me on
>>35050332
went to a bar once, was mostly people in social circles and old people drinking on their own.
I dont get why people suggest bars desu. doesnt seem ideal really.
>>35050331
right behind ya bud
>>35050346
girls love attention
>>35050349
>I dont get why people suggest bars
because it fucking works man, stop being an autist and just pull the trigger. go talk to the social circle or chat up the old people for some interesting conversation.
>>35049863
I ate around 5-6kcal of food for the whole day.
I feel like shit now.
>>35050359
you really expect people with their friends to welcome some random guy by himself at a bar?
why? makes no sense.
>>35050359
Im about to go right now anon hopefully I'll fell better after I get all this food and beer out of my stomach wish me luck
Fuck this isn't thanksgiving themed but I'll share it anyways
>having a party at my house
>having a fire in the backyard, see my room light go on
>walk up to my room
>find two hot girls i know literally laying in my bed
>they laugh and tell me to come in
>I talk to them for a while
>we do preworkout shots
>at one point I take my shirt off
>talking about wrestling
>one girl gets on my lap and starts to fake slapping me
>I really have to use the bathroom
>go to the bathroom and leave them in my room
>pass out on the toilet cause I'm drunk
>wake up two hours later and they're gone
Why do I do this to myself /fit/ what the fuck
>>35050339
No it's not you blithering idiot. The best looking and wealthiest get the hottest chicks. If you want to get laid by a cute 7/10 it's a numbers game.
Talk to girls, and they'll probably sleep with you if you aren't retarded. It's hard to understand I know.
>>35050373
You must be socially awkward or unconfident then because I've been welcomed into plenty of groups and made many friends that way.
>>35050380
Good luck anon, Thanksgiving might be an odd time to try but more power to you
>>35050305
>>35050338
Be generous for a week, buy her flowers, do spontaneous things. If she's still distant, talk to her about it. Don't be unhappy just cause you're scared.
>>35050344
Hey man, I know you're feeling down, but congrats on those PRs. You deserve them. Don't stop working hard and hit a new set next week.
>>35049999
I don't know much but I do know quads don't lie
>autistic cousin drew a picture of a severed zombie head for me
Was touched desu.
>>35050398
I'm back and feel so much better time to go sleep
>>35050380
Get some guy friends to go with you if you can. It's so much easier to play the crowd if you have a wingman.
>>35050208
> I learned not to put the pussy on a pedestal now I literally have girls I never would have thought I had a chance with chasing me to the point I ignore/avoid them because they're annoying.
How does that happen anon-senpai
>>35050305
>religious
>enjoy watching her weight skyrocket
these don't necessarily go together
>>35050396
this literally never happens if you are ugly.
>>35050402
The thing is it's been like this for a few months. I've been very generous, didn't work. So I talked to her about it. She says she's trying to figure out what she wants right now. She's 5 years older and it bugs her a lot, also I'm in my first year of law school and she seems to not want to wait. I don't know man, my head keeps telling me to drop her, she's been treating me like shit for a few months and I really don't like it, especially since law school is stressful enough, but then I remember how it was a year ago, staying up until 4 talking about time and space and love and her laying next to me telling me she loves me more than she ever thought possible
I just don't know
>>35050422
Good on ya my friend, sleep well
>>35050423
This is also true, just make sure you guys aren't obnoxious
>>35050423
Lol I'm not the anon who had trouble going to the bar... I'm the one who was laying in bed in pain cuz I ate so much
>>35049863
>tfw thanksgiving doesn't exist where I live
>tfw actually cutting
>tfw wanted to bulk till next year but hit 20% bf and couldn't live with myself any longer
>tfw thinking of all the Christmas food I won't be able to eat
im abroad in Asia so no family and no food ;(
but azn girls and not living in the basement are okay too i guess
/fit/ help me out here
>know this girl for about a year (from college)
>never really knew her well until a couple months ago
>became really good friends, we go to the same parties a lot
>we're freakishly similar and compatible
>last week she came over my house for a tailgate
>flirting with me all day
>she left to go to a bar and then came back with her friend to see me when no other girls were there
>catch her looking at me a bunch of times
>we talk for a really long time and we get really drunk
>end up passing out and she went home with one of my friends
Is she into me? Or was she just looking for a lay? I know I'm retarded and should have slept with her, but did she sleep with one of my friends to get attention? I'm not trying to be narcissistic here, just trying to figure out if I should still try and sleep with her.
>>35050466
Only sleep with her to pump and dump, she fucked one of your friends, she is a whore and you could do better
>>35050427
Its a strange phenomenon, cause I've seen it happen to myself as well. For some reason, it's like girls can tell when a guy is nervous around them, or really into them, and that turns them off. It's like a aura (for lack of a better word) that tells all girls to not be interested in you sexually. But when you are able to just be nihilistic about women, and be confident in yourself and your body, that aura goes away, and girls that you never thought would be interested in you start to fight over you.
Getting rid of that aura (again for lack of a better word) is difficult to explain, but having lots of sex helps.
>>35049945
girls used to dare each other to pretend to hit on me and then they would say stuff like ''slap his ass too!''(wtf?) and laugh at me. one of many passive aggressive shit girls used to pull. I was just very ugly i guess
>>35050429
They do in the south. Every single super religious girl I know, whether they are hot or not, has a fat mother. It goes hand in hand.
Also, girls who are super religious are also usually pretty stupid, which is offputting if you ask me.
>>35050437
That's why I started working out f am. Being a butterface is the best thing that ever happened to me.
>>35050444
I'm not going to tell you what to do, but if you're unhappy, make the choice that will make you happy. But I'll tell you what, if you wait for her all this time, and she decides to end it, it'll be really hard for you.
>>35050483
I guess I might try and turn it into a fwb deal. But I'm afraid I'll catch feelings. She's the poster girl for 'my type'. Tall, prefect skin, really skinny, brunette.
>>35050527
Nigger, women are fat in the south because the guzzle beer and eat deep fried pigskin. Religion doesn't enter into it.
>>35050527
That's a good point bro, I think I'll wait til the end of the semester (don't want to make things worse with finals) and if it doesn't get better end it
>>35049863
>haha yeah i was joking sorry
pussy
>>35050541
And fucked your friend, if you think you'll develop feelings I would just cut ties, you don't want to date a whore
>>35049977
cool guys don't get oneitis, only fucking losers do, and girls don't fuck fucking losers so. Kill yourself.
>>35050573
>>35050483
Yeah but I also fucked her friend in a cemetery a while back, and banged another girl the night before this incident.
It seems kind of unfair to shame her for doing something that I do. I don't know, she did talk about banging other dudes when she was a freshman, but I don't really blame her for that. Is it that bad to have feelings for a girl with a sexual history? It's naive to think that I'm gunna find a perfect, virgin goddess.
>>35049945
Nope. I just ended up becoming friends with them and when I finally admitted to them I liked them or tried to take it to the next step they would look at me with absolute pity as they told me they didn't feel the same way.
>>35050602
It's stupid to expect fidelity from some loose strumpet
>be canadian thanks giving was last month
>normal day, thingken bout life
>may have gotten a job fresh out of uni
>pretty sure getting a job is a trap
>pretty sure life is over
Life gets better, r-right guys?
>>35050485
I've been like this towards girls my whole life and had them chase. And now there's one girl away from home that I'm just fucking into for no reason and I can't get her and it drives me fucking nuts. It's all all my confidence that I've had my whole life is zapped when I'm around her.
>>35049863
Well breh your post inspired me, I just told her I liked her.
Lets see how this shit goes.
>>35050464
This was me last year. My girlfriend who was also an expat and I busted out ass for two weeks running all around the city buying western ingredients for our own thanksgoving feast. She made our whole tanksgiving diner on a shitty burner and a toaster oven, because she is amazing. We invited all our expat friends, American, and otherwise to experience an American thanksgiving. It was hard as fuck to find some things, but damn it was worth it.
>>35050635
>Life gets better, r-right guys?
Nah.
>>35050651
Fuck my phone, desu
>>35050640
Is she into you?
>>35050616
I don't know man, I can't tell if I want a girlfriend, or if I just want to have sex all the time.
>>35050674
>>35050674
I thought she was at first. We started working out a bit together, talking more and more. And then she just stopped talking to me out of no where. Like literally no reason behind it. And I don't want to ask what the problem is because I don't want her thinking I care too much. Haven't spoken to her in 3 weeks.
>>35050682
Imagine having a friend you're super close with and love more than anything
Now imagine said friend betraying your trust, getting mad at you for no reason and being passive aggressive about it and not just telling you upfront, and expecting you to spend money on them all the time
You don't want a girlfriend, you just want to fuck
>>35050700
>spend money on her all the time
She's actually fucking loaded and buys me shit I don't ask for all the time
I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time, and if all that shit happens, why ever have a girlfriend?
>>35050685
Honestly bro, if you can't actually see her, then just drop her. No use keeping up relationships with people you'll never see. If she's playing a game, then it's a stupid game and you don't want to be a part of it.
>>35050715
I think you misunderstood. When I said "away from home" I meant that I'm at college. And as for the stupid game, that's why I haven't tried speaking with her. I've been waiting for her to reach out and speak to me, but I realize that's not something girls do often.
>>35050736
Wait til you get home. I've been in a similar situation. I think that you'll even be better off not talking to her, cause she'll see you after months of lifting and you'll be noticeably bigger. Then bang her.
>>35050756
I've met her while I'm at college brah.
I've just been doing my own thing recently. We go to the same gym so I see her almost every day. I don't know man she acts really weird around me too though. I don't want to derail this thread with my stupid shit, but it's just a whole fuck load of things that don't make sense to me.
>>35050776
Oh, then hit her up. Invite her to a party or some shit in person. If she comes, then mission accomplished she's back, if she says no or doesn't come, then you're in the same position you're in now, except you can move on.
>>35049945
This reminded me of a time in middle school when I was standing around in PE class and a girl came up to me and asked me out. I said yes and then she gave me a weird stare and said "just joking." She then proceeded to go back to her group of friends and had a good laugh.
>>35050790
Neither of us do that kind of stuff man. I think that's one of the main reasons I'm attracted to her.
>>35050796
Yeah it's a game called "Zap", did you have any friends?
>>35050824
Then I don't know what to tell you man I'm out of ideas. If I like a girl, I invite her to a party, we get drunk, and I either bang her or I don't. That's what I do.
>wife went shopping all day instead of celebrating
>spent time with estranged father and family
>realize my life is nothing but a recursion of people who see me as an ATM
>contemplate suddenly leaving country and starting life over.
At least I have the weights and you guys.
>>35049863
>she's getting fucked by some other guy literally as I type this more than likely
>>35050866
Tfw you zap yourself so if the girl you actually like and ask out says "ew no" you can pretend it was a game...
Hard times in middle school man...
>>35050410
Thanks random bro. Gotta reevaluate some things to be get my $ in order and things will be ok I hope
fucking drank too much vodka and puked my guts out
alcohol is a shitty drug
>>35050972
don't think about it, fuck that shit.
actually, NEVER THINK ABOUT THAT, EVER
go fuck some other hog
>>35049863
>like her
>she likes me
can't seem to seal the deal yet though
>>35051323
As long as you're progressing in the relationship.
>>35051308
Know your limits.
>>35049977
I had oneitis for a grill once. Wasted a lot of time worrying about something that would never be. I would have never had my brown eye licked by a blonde French Moroccan had my love life ended with her. She ended up becoming a coke fiend and marrying some dyel guy. You never known what the future holds bruh.
>>35049863
This year thanksgiving and my birthday fell on the same date.
spent it alone watching Netflix. Go me.....
>>35050647
Not sure if you're reading this but feels good knowing I inspired you. Tell us how it turns out breh
>>35049863
Ausfag so no thanksgiving
>seriously sick
>thrown up all my gains food
>cant do shit without bad headaches
>cant even hit gym for shoulders today
>working 18 hours over the next 2 days
>>35051323
I literally can't stop thinking about bro. It doesn't matter if he only stops by once or twice every couple of months. Shits home too hard.
Help me bro. How can I get it off my mind?
>>35050381
YOU FOOL
>meet up with qt I had a crush on from college
>we smoke, chill, hook up a little
>won't let me fuck her
>"I'm not that kind of girl"
>cuddle
>tells me about all the drugs and shit she does
>think about all the dudes she's probably randomly fucked while high/in need of drugs
>realize I'm getting keked in real time
>after she leaves I get incredibly angry about the "I'm not like that" line
>sad thing is this has happened before
shit senpai how do I stop being sucked so hard
>>35051495
things to do:
-play some video games with mates, or go seem them
-fire up tinder and talk to some other girls
-even better, go out and talk to some girls -- go to pub or some shit
-study/work
-think about them lifts
-think about that dish or cuisine you've been craving
just do something that you can do repeatedly to take your mind of it man, just stop thinking about it
close the thread, go talk to family. forget it.
>>35049977
/r/theredpill
>>35049945
>yesterday at the office
>I'm an intern
>have a couple months there
>literally just me and my boss who is not there most of the time
>new intern comes to start another project
>Really nice girl and cute solid 7.5/10
>had a major in periodism or something like that
>is nice to have company also we talk smoothly during break lunch
>she told me she have "someone" but doesn't like the label "boyfriend"
>aight don't shit were you eat (internships here are paid)
>Yesterday during lunch, she talks about an offer for a job a relative get for her
>double or even more than the money here
> less hours
>medical secure and lots of benefits
>I told her she should take it
>she said "nah I already like it here also I wouldn't want you get friends with anyone else ( or something like that)
Also she always insist that I don't call the guy she dates her boyfriend, did she wants my dick or is just one of those "free souls" meme girls?
>>35051517
stop being a fucking degenerate drug user
Can't believe what I'm reading it, How can everyone in this board be so fucking autistic and weird about/around women. They are human too, abeit most of them are crazy as fuck and have either high/low self esteem, but nonetheless they are looking for the same thing men are, to not be alone. Finding a woman is not some great quest with courtship and wooing her and making her like you, just be yourself and not a fucking creep until you meet someone that you vibe with/they vibe with you too. From there just keep talking to them and don't act like a sperglord with cheesy pick up lines, just act natural. You will be able to tell really quick whether or not she is trying to catch the Dode.
>tfw no gf
I played Civ 5. Only went out to eat and show face.
>>35050466
Jesús man just man up and kiss her or bang her just give the first step
>>35051578
ITT*
>>35050945
Everybody should move on of their life's if they are unhappy anon, do something to change and get your happiness, also I hope this serves as a waring for any other fool who thinks into marry being almost 2016
>>35049863
>tfw I like girls better than men as friends
>tfw they are really nice to me and seem really engaging
>tfw I hate talking to other men, zero interest in what they have to say, can't stand to listen, not even a second
>tfw girls just vanish when they notice I have no romantic interest in them
The only bridge between me and other people seems to be my sexuality, that sucks.
>>35050421
Thats pretty cool.
>>35051631
protip
>treating girls like friends (aka a normal human bean) = they want the D
>opposite = lol bai
in case 1 they will leave after a few months tho
just fyi in case you were wondering
>gf got manhandled by some other dude she thought was her friend
>currently drinking myself to sleep
this is going to ruin my gains but i don't care
>>35049863
>tfw my bday fell on thanksgiving this year
>24 had to move back home w/ parents after college
>moved out for 6 months for temp job then moved back
>have gf bt shes in japan for a bit
>see family, eat a lot
mixed bag?
>>35050602
You fucked in a cemetery? Have you got no respect?
>>35051661
Story? I'm going through something similar.
>>35051673
she was at home for thanksgiving break and was hanging out with one of her friends
she called me a little bit ago crying saying that he kept grabbing at her and wouldn't leave when she kept asking him to and when he finally did leave, he grabbed her and kissed her on the mouth
I had a gut feeling that soemthign like this would happen too but I didn't want to seem like a crazy jealous BF so I didn't say anything and wrote it off as anxiety
I'm not sure what to feel right now except tired and drunk
If I ever see that guy I'm going to beat 7 shades of shit out of him
>>35050466
just try and hang out with her a bit more, the best relationships are ones that aren't forced imo. don't rush things. good luck.
>>35050635
the quicker you can get yourself into work, the better. you'll appreciate the actual income a few months in the future.
>>35050945
Personally I'd speak to her about it, if she clearly doesn't care then bail. But lets be real, if you are contemplating leaving without telling her a part of you is doing it to know what her kneejerk reaction is, right? Just speak to her first dude. She's your wife so you know best though. Good luck
>>35051661
When u say manhandled, do you mean fucked or beaten up? If it's the latter why are you not beating the brakes off him and if it's the former dump her and move on.
>shoo shoo
>break up with girlfriend of 3 years the other day
>she did something that I wasn't totally sound with and made it worse, still love her but don't plan on spending my entire life with someone that does that shit to their partner
>she doesn't really care
>felt pretty down
>get back into contact with a girl that I had a massive crush on a few years back but lost contact with
>she ends up inviting me to her uni
>currently planning how i'm going to make a 5 hour drive and whether it's worth it
And I'm watching Mega64's black friday shit. Should be fun
>>35051703
neither, groped
I would but he's up in Maryland and I'm down in Texas
also
>falling for the r9k "it's always the womans fault" meme
>>35051689
>tfw gf is falling for some other guy while you're away for a year
I'm not sure what to do. Nothing has happened yet ( as she told me ) but I got it bad feeling about this.
>>35051711
I'm in Maryland right now, give me an address boi
>>35051689
There are two out comes here.
1. She was assaulted by a person. While this is horrible, it's not your fault.
2. She wanted it. Still not your problem, she's just a slut.
Either way, you are not at fault. Why feel bad?
>>35051540
Definitely sounds like she wants you mate, go for it.
>>35051723
somewhere in Bethesda, I dunno his home address but I know his name
>>35051719
cut and run, man. Cut and run. I'm sorry.
>>35049898
this.
adversary is a part of life, you can let it destroy you or use it to improve yourself.
>>35051711
If he really just grabbed her and kissed her than of course don't blame her, but 9/10 when women say a guy was creeping on them/flirting it's because they were flirting back, women are attention hungry creatures that don't think in the moment usually.
>Inb4 "misogynst!"
>>35051732
We've been dating for two years and I love her man. It's hard. All of my roommates are telling me the same thing.
>>35049945
that shit fucking hurts.
>>35051741
I'd speak to her about it, as someone that has just gotten over something similar for a 3 year relationship until you confront her and tell her your feelings about the scenario it will get a whole lot worse. I asked her about it, didn't get the response I needed, but getting that question out into the open really does help.
When I was down my stepdad gave me some great advice. Long story, but-
His wife at the time turned into a stoner loser that literally did nothing all day. They spent some time apart but she came crying back asking for his help, he let her in, within a month she was pregnant. So he dealt with that shit, he had to. One day he came home from work early and she was fucking another dude in his own house with their kid in the same fucking room. Obviously it ruined him for a while.
He said "Try and hang out with friends, family and people that actually give a shit about you. I tried kidding myself that this woman that fucked me over wanted to be with me still, but it isn't like that. I wasted a lot of time trying to make her care about me, when I should've been with the people that cared unconditionally anyway. If they can do that to you then they don't deserve your effort."
His ex wife is now in a wheelchair due to drug abuse again and constantly asks him for money. He and my Mum got married last year. Really nice dude.
Seriously though, just fucking ditch her and move on if she doesn't care about you man. Unless you have done something to upset her, if she likes someone else, let her. You shouldn't HAVE to change that. But just remember that in the future no one would have loved her as much as you did. She'll remember that shit later on once she gets fucked over, because if she's willing to see dudes that have no remorse about fucking girls in relationships, one of them is going to bite her on the ass and she'll remember why you mattered.
eating food with my family :3
>>35051812
>as someone that has just gotten over something similar for a 3 year relationship
Story? I could use someone to relate to
>>35051540
Nah, i'd play it safe a little longer. sounds like she's just being polite and she actually likes her job there. now when you guys cross the touch barrier, THEN that's when you start getting a little more assertive.
My cousin wouldn't stop flirting with me.
I'm posting from the basement because she snuck into my pallet upstairs and started spooning me.
>>35051864
Sure. Let me preface this with I was working on the road for a few months last year, I worked 6am-11pm monday to friday, drive home friday evening for 10 hours to spend saturday with her, then drive back sunday to do that shitty work week again. Wasn't very long, but I spent most of my time trying to make the relationship work. What a waste.
>relationship is pretty great
>stay round hers, all good.
>get a text the next day saying she wants to go on a 4 week no contact break so she can focus on uni work
>say thats a bit extreme, i dont mind just spending a bit of time apart but an actual break?
>"i still love you but i need to focus on uni work. i want to get back immediately after"
>disagree, what about just a text message a few times a day?
>"dont want to lose focus"
whatever
>next 3 days, she goes out every day
>call her out on it
>makes horrific excuses
>ask what about a phonecall on your way home from work?
>"thats effort"
>that hurt. time on the road was effort man.
>straight up asks if she wants to break up
>"no i still love you but I need this time to focus on Uni work"
>give me an indication as to why you give a shit
>"anon i know what im doing is selfish and evil, but what do you want me to say?"
>... like sorry maybe
>no response
>go to her house and grab all of my shit
>say if she actually cared you would atleast try and maintain a relationship instead of going out every day, what a lame excuse.
>next few days she is bitching about me on instagram and twitter, calling me a manbaby/fuckboy (god i hate that word)
>phone her
>"look, I don't know what all of that shit is about, but have I actually done anything to upset you?"
>no not at all
>"why on earth are you bitching about me across social media?"
>hangs up
Bit more to it than that, like her saying she didn't respond to alot of our initial fallout because 'there was a lot to respond to', saying that my time on the road isn't compareable to he time at uni in terms of effort.
>>35051929
Sorry to hear that anon, what a cunt.
I hope you guys' Thanksgivings are going well. Keep on pushing /fit/, we're all gonna make it.
>>35049863
it's cos your ugly not cos you're skinny
when will facelets learn?
>>35049945
ayy lmao
>junior year
>grill jokingly comes up to me and says she thinks im cute etc
>knew it was a joke because i'm fucking smart
>"Soz babe you're not really my type, your friend is cute though"
>*walk away*
>*grill insecurity intensifies*
And then they truly crave your dick afterwards.
>>35049977
be a fucking man and ask her out or move on jesus christ
>>35049863
>hit bench and squat pre dinner
>put on ~10lbs since last year
>cooked all day to contribute a side (creamed corn)
>all the relatives mirin
>gonna graduate with a mechanical engineering degree in a month
>brother shows up with new gf
>get sat at the kids table so that little shit and his dormslut can sit at the family table
>didn't bring anyone so I get to watch the rug rats
Fucking kill me
>>35051921
is she cute at least?
would you do it if the taboo wasn't there?
is she of age tho?
>>35051323
Same here dog
She got raped when she was young so she has lots of trust issues
So I'm kind of trying to make sure she trusts me and that we start out with a healthy relationship
She still fucks tho, and she's into some spooky shit, real sexy tbqhwy FaM
>>35051525
>leddit
I mean come on man
Anybody here been in a relationship 5+ years and broke it off? How long did it take you to get back on track?
>>35051921
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>Man up and speak to qt at my gym last weekend
>Spaghetti spilling kept to a reasonable level
>She smiles at me as I leave and says bye
>As I'm leaving today she walks in past me, turns smiles and says hi
Is it happening brehs, will I get a date with this qt
>>35052058
yo, kids are fun
>>35051669
We were gunna try and bang in a football stadium, but then that tasked proved to be much too difficult for our drunkenness level, so we just went to the cemetery next door.
>>35050381
Hang your head in shame senpai, You don't deserve your manhood this day.
>>35051734
>adversary is a part of life
you mean "adversity"
>>35052104
>Is it happening brehs, will I get a date with this qt
no, you probably won't ask her out, and if you do she'll probably reject you and everything becomes awkward after that.
I got off work early enough to go to thanksgiving with my family. It was pretty dope.
>>35050602
>Fucked in a cemetery
That's hot, that's a hot way to live.
>Naive to think I'm gunna find a perfect, virgin goddess.
Maybe, happened to me though! And now we're together two years. Unfortunately, now she's gone and gotten fat on me....
>>35054470
Eh, it was cold and I kinda feel bad for the guy who's grave I banged on. I left flowers on it last year on his birthday.
>she got fat
That's my darkest fear
>>35052080
I dated this girl from my second year of high school when I was 15 to last year when I turned 20, I moved to Toronto and got a decent job while attending college and she was still only a server two years after highschool ended and still had no ambition. I cheated on her twice and she was upset and all and I apologised even though I wasn't really sorry only cause I was so use to her being in my life. About 4 days after we broke up in February I went to a rave with some buddies and I hooked up with some chick then the weekend after started dating this girl from my college until about august when I broke up with her. Just been crusing ever since slept with another girl since and been focusing on my job and school so I never worry about the past gotta focus on bettering your future. To answer your question it took me zero time to get over her even though she was loving and sweet I just had more important goals.
>>35049863
>>35052080
Dated a girl from my second year in high school to about 3 months ago. Turning 20 in a couple months. I broke up with her because I moved away to go to school, thought to myself had no feelings for her anymore, breakup wasn't bad. Now I came back and realized I want her back. Been back for 2 weeks and boned her twice, going camping on Sunday. She says she doesn't want to get back with me on many occasions. Feels bad man.
>>35051564
This desu
>>35050967
>>35050967
i have nothing in common with anyone though
>friends all on tinder with a lot of sucsex
>I'm at 0 confidence with a 5" dick
>scared to get tinder, stress and anxiety killing me
>feel like my body is going to shit, too
>>35049999
This t.b.h.
>chick i was kinda into a few weeks ago gets a bf
>texts me out of the blue
>"hey anon, whatcha doin" all that shit
>stops with smalltalk and starts talking about how she liked me blahabla
>only reason she texted me
>think im picking up on something and promise ill shoot the shit once she leaves the manlet chink shes with now
>"no anon i really like him ;)"
>well fuck you too
>>35058780
>tinder
>real
Tinder is just a means of self indulgence and reassurance. No one actually uses it, and the girls that do are crazy.
>>35049863
had the girl of my dreams, we were engaged, and I blew it. still think about her 4 years later
ate thanksgiving protein shake alone
could be worse bro
>>35058904
Bitch her out for it, she just wants attention.
>>35058933
How'd you blow it? Did she find out you're gay?
>>35049945
I did this to an ugly grill in middle school another grill said liked me, I was a terrible kid.
>>35058948
No don't bitch her out for it. Women are emotional creatures and that's what they want and understand.
Just freeze her out. Just say "oh do whatever. I'm not going to be your emotional tampon" then cut the bitch off. Any sort of out burst only feeds the insatiable female need for attention.
I dated a diva style chick that would get into fights with me solely to get a reaction out of me. She even broke up with me 6 separate times. I wouldn't give her the emotional validation so she crawled back the next day every time.
>>35050270
>religious
You dogged it on this one as someone said mate. A bro of mine stuck it in some religious bitch and now he gives a chunk of his pay for child support.
>>35052003
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>>35052058
if my brother tried that we'd have trouble. Over the years i have cultivated a relationship of fun and respect and used to have a little fear but that's unnecessary as he grows older. I'm 20 and he's 16, also doing mech eng.
I like your family gathering for the holiday, thanksgiving seems like a cozy time. My family is pretty much dispersing, i haven't had a full family meal for over 4 years, feels bad
PS is the slut hot? dumb?
>>35059050
religious girls are wife material though
>Ran my first 5k
>Girlfriend broke up with me
>Family is dead so I made myself a steak and watched movies while playing my Gameboy
Yay~
>had dinner
>bang my friends kid sister
>feelsgoodman.gif
>going out with her again tonight
>mfw
>>35059682
Does he know? That's pretty disrespectful man desu.
>>35059460
Kek.
Dont celebrate the holiday but
>i think i have mild lordosis
>tfw had to stop deadlifting
>tfw had to stop bent over rows (fav exercise )
>tfw had to replace virtually all lower back taxing barbell based exercises minus squat and bench
At least hammer strength machines arent as bad as i thought. Can push good weight and really feeling the target muscles..
Also
>tfw last of my KV friends got laid
>tfw now its only me left
Hope an anon can help
>like this girl
>text her a lot
>day before thanksgiving, texting her and she sends pic of some hot actress
>tell her "I think you're as pretty as you think she is"
>no text back
Feels bad man, hope that's not it, she's not like that.
>>35050945
You always have us brah. never forget that
>>35059682
>Fucking over your friend for pussy
You're the definition of a beta. You are everything wrong with men of this generation.
>>35060772
It was a test anon, and you failed. Usually in that situation, I would tell the girl that the actress isn't really my type, and then if the girl asks what my type is, I list out her features. Just play stupid anon, girls want to think they're tricking guys.
>>35049863
Girl I have been talking with for a while told me she was going to be out of the states for the next 3 months training for the olympics. Get a text yesterday that she is leaving Tuesday, but wants to hang out with me Monday. Mixed feels.
>>35050214
Yes
>>35061591
>Olympic-tier /fit/ babe wants to hang out with you before she leaves
This better not be b8
>>35050305
top kek
>>35049863
I might kill myself tomorrow. I'm not really sure exactly why I feel down but fuck, bud.
>>35062223
>bud
there it is bro. quit smoking pot that shit will kill you.
>>35051730
>>35051869
Thanks buds now that you mention it i haven't touched her even a little except when we greet in the mornings, I'll follow your advice and hold it a little longer also I'm kinda dating this girl that sometimes call me while I'm on the office, and I might be imagine things but I thinon she get kinda upset after hearing me at the phone but again maybe she wanted to get focus in her work
>>35050339
Make it a challenge for yourself to make out with a different 6 or 7 every month. When you ask out 20-30 different girls, there is a good chance you will get lucky. It's like sending CVs for jobs.
>text many people happy thanksgiving, including this one chick
>she's the only one who doesn't reply
>wait 24 hours, send something like "Wow I don't even get a thanks?" cause I was about to delete her # anyway
>literally 8 hours later
>"I didn't even think about it, lots of people sent me happy thanksgiving don't take it personally"
>sends me this at 2:30 in the morning
>yeah bitch I'm sure you are that busy and not just being a flake
>get denied or flaked on by four grills In one week
>go on awful date with another
>make out with crush but won't fuck me. She'll do Coke and go to Greek parties tho. Resize I'm a kek
>have some undiagnosed neurological problem
>contemplating suicide / dying
>>35062372
>>35062395
Don't allow idiots to get to you.
>>35062372
Yeah I had one flake on me today too realized I'm a terrible with women or just ugly
>fwb ends it with me
>hit up old hookup, she's dating someone now
>hit up older hookup, she doesn't reply
>hit up older hookup, she doesn't want to hook up
>hit up female acquaintance #1, 2, 3, and 4, they don't reply or don't want to chill
>hit up girl who flirts with me all the time, says she doesn't want to catch feels and thinks I just want to fuck
>this all happened sequentially within a week
I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO FUCK AGAIN REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>35062395
Jim?
>>35062418
Oh yeah forgot
>hit up girl I used to talk to all the time, she reads my message and doesn't reply
>hit up girl who said she wants to fuck, now she wants to know me better and go to lunch first
>drunkenly hit up the fwb who ended it to begin with telling her I miss her
>she's obviously not interested
Literally every female I know has lost interest in the span of me fucking this one girl, or never had any
>>35062418
>Talking to girls
You don't get to REEEE
>>35049977
If you have oneitis for someone you can't even ask to do shit with you you're a fucking child.
>>35062418
>fucking
Cardio kills gains you faggot
>>35062439
>>35062439
Holy shit are you me? Every few months my love life takes a massive dump and I bottom out for a while. I've been on a dry streak for almost six months now. Holy shit it's awful. Of course I get to pay for girls food and drinks and go on lame dates. That's fucking great. Been on like 15 dates so far and still nothing. Fuck this I hate being a 22 year old dude
>>35054268
NO
>>35062518
How can you live such a lifestyle and not be afraid of losing possible gains?
>>35062528
What god damn gains? I have none I'm a skinny fat Lanklet. I work a shit load and eat like shit. I have no fucking friends on this side of the country and no motivation to do anything. Also I probably have MS or some terrible disease that hasn't been diagnosed yet. Gains don't matter when you can't feel your fucking foot and twitch like crazy but everyone tells you you're fine.
>>35062523
Just ducking do it. You're going to die eventually nothing matters at all. Fucking ask her she either says yes or no. This way you know and can move onto someone else
>>35062570
I will man, I will
>>35062562
Exactly man, what god damn gains and now get the fuck out you weak pussy.
>>35062583
>he must be a faggot for not lifting
Kill yourself you fucking faggot. Lifting weights doesn't make you any better. You're still on autism chan with the rest of us
>>35062594
Get the fuck out.
>>35049863
https://soundcloud.com/radiolab/radiolab-valentine-simon-and
at least youre not either of these people f.am
>>35049945
Yeah, but I'm naturally suspicious. So I knew something was up. Don't let that turn you off to someone who might.
I'm gonna ask a girl to lunch who has shown no interest in me and some might say negative interest in me. What's the best way to do this?
The plan is to get a lunch and then snowball that into more by actually showing my personality, but I don't know how to do it.
"Hey, you want to get lunch?" seems too casual like I'm just going to eat and asking her. But "Would you want to get lunch sometime?" sounds beta to me
>>35062657
Try a coffee instead of lunch
>>35062657
Lunch is a horrible way to get to know someone, you'll essentially be chewing right into her face how can you show her your personality at all like that.
>>35062670
>>35062672
I don't know how you guys eat but I can talk during a lunch. But coffee might be better you right
>>35062681
Coffee is less pressure on you and her, she is more likely to say yes to an easy coffee than agree to a lunch
>>35052003
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>she thought I was joking
people always think i'm joing when i'm actually serious. like when i comment on a profile picture that it's beautiful or when i tell them they have nice jeans, they feel insulted. must be the tone of my voice or my facial expression or some shit. how do i make people take me serious?
>Fall for one girl from one of my classes
>Think she likes me too in some way altough she's really social with most People
>Go to BK with a good friend who also Lifts (Bulking so kiss my ass)
>Noticed that I might be Into her and I casually ask if I have a chance as He knows her longer
>Replys "not so much" and says they made out on Halloween
Now this is where I realise how they were "overly social" to each other during classes as well
>Joke about how my heart turned Into ice
>Laugh about it and drive back to Uni
I'm not even angry or sad, it was just kinda expected to happen. Meh, deleted her number and wont keep any contact during classes with her anymore. Sure, replying if she asks something but I will ignore her for the most part.
Feels strange, man
>>35062562
woahhhh
>>35062801
Find another m8
>>35049945
Did you ever had oneitis 5'10 when u're 5'9?
>>35049863
>asked her out through email after 6 months of getting signals
>she rejected me
>still fantasize about cuddling with her to fall sleep 4 years later
>>35050295
Anon go read redpill relationship on reddit
>>35050041
Perhaps something in her face on genetic level? Like your sub-concious recognize some valuable shit?
>>35050208
I still have dreams about my oneitis. It's 2 years i've been rejected. Had sex with some random 7/10 after that, btw.
>>35051578
tl;dr
Did he say about just be yourself?
>>35049945
Maybe not at my face but I've certainly had situations where it felt like a girl and all her friends were laughing at me behind my back.
>at a party a month ago
>always been something between this girl and I
>people even jokingly call her my wife
>actually went out a few years back but she ended it
>it broke me
>make out at the party
>constant texting back and forth for a few weeks afterwards
>really flirty
>everyone keep telling me to go ahead and ask her out. Even her friends
>hesitant because of our past. Don't want to get hurt again
>finally stop being a pussy and do it
>"I like you and everything but I don't think we should go out"
Most people in our group of friends (my group and hers are sort of connected) have taken my side and are somewhat pissed at her but I can't help but feel she and all her friends think I'm pathetic and laugh at me behind my back.
>>35062372
>sending a mass text
ur a little bitch desu
address her by name or send her something personalized
>start grad school
>also start lifting around this time, 3 or 4 months ago
>resolve to be more confident and take initiative with women
>ask a qt in two of my classes to coffee
>she says yes
>okay
>exchange numbers
>text her
>she doesn't respond
>try again a week later
>hey sorry, I'm kinda busy, but I'll let you know
>talks to me all the time in class now
>still won't fucking get coffee with me
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
IT DOESN'T EVEN HAVE TO BE A DATE I JUST LIKE NOT BEING ALONE
>>35063169
Drop her. Stop texting and shit.
>>35063189
I know, anon. Part of me just wants to be angry at her forever, and part of me is sad because she's really similar to me.
>>35063169
How's grad school anon? I'm final year on my undergrad and have an informal offer for a funded PhD from a couple relevant departments at my university, but I have no clue.
I don't know whether to go get a sweet £30k job or hold out for another three years and end up getting some research job, I'm so lost
>>35063270
She seems similar to you, but she doesn't like you like you do if she did and was similar to you she'd be texting you like you are texting her.
I miss my ex so badly
>>35062801
Tell your mate to fuck himself, and go for her anyways. He's probably just lying because he likes her too.
>>35050466
>know this girl for about a year (from college)
Stopped right there.
Move on you faggot
>>35063583
Do the PhD faggot or you'll regret it. You can get a 30k job anytime but a good offer for free education is not always gonna be there.
I wish I had no family
>>35063583
Get the PhD senpai. You can make 30k working at a gas station.
>>35052080
Grill here, those kinds of things are annoying because even if you do think she is as pretty as the celebrity, girls will not believe it. Then it becomes like an insult in a way
>>35065488
Guy here and what the fuck are you talking about
>>35065522
If you tell a girl she's prettier than Megan fox or someone like that, and you're being serious about it, she's not going to believe it and she'll also think you're really beta for trying so overly hard to compliment her. Other anon's post about saying actress is not your type, then listing off characteristics she has as your type is correct response.
>family goes to eat out
>I'm black Friday shopping for all of them so I stay home
>ask if I want anything
>I say yeah
>when they get there, they text me that it would be an hour wait so they can't get food
>I tell them that sucks but it's no big deal
>they stay anyway
>they don't bring me back anything
>"you said it was okay, anon. So we didn't get you anything"
In what fucking world does this make sense
FUCK
>>35065568
Guys here again and I think you, the girls there, fucked up with the post you linked.
I'm a guy here and this was my guy post.
>>35065616
Shit sorry. Think I'm gonna leave now lol
>>35065634
Yeah this is the guy here again and I think you are on an anonymous image board so nobody not even me, the guy here, would notice if you ,the girl there, was even here still or not because you, the girl there, could be some guy we don't know where posting as the girl there.
Do you understand my point here, girl there?
>asked her out
>she thought I was joking
>currently bulking
>"what are you laughing about"
>sulking, I feel like I need to shout
>I open my mouth but the words wont come out
>loseyourself.jpg
>>35066825
fuck mayne...
I've been talking to grills who want pics of me but I started bulking again and now I don't wanna show them my bulk.
>get along decently with women, make them laugh, etc.
>scared of making a move because then it would be weird working/interacting with them if it doesn't work out
Coworkers, fellow TAs, cashiers at places I frequent, girl at the gym front desk, etc. It's like I'm already thinking it's not an appropriate time and place to ask a girl out, an on top of that the risk that they say now and now I have to see and talk to them after that just makes me think asking any woman out like this wouldn't be a smart idea.
Am I just overthinking this?
>started lifting 6 months ago
>good grades at college
>spending most of my time on myself, feel great about it
>suddenly finals arrive
>at the same time, my grandma suddenly gets sick
>it´s cancer, but my parents tell me that it´s not that bad and that she is ok
>tell myself that they´re right, even If I know that they just don´t want to worry me
>keep studying, feeling like shit, knowing that if I go to visit her I won´t have time to study enough to pass
>spend 10 hours a day studying everyday, my legs hurt
>suddenly workouts don´t go as well as they did
How do you guys keep going when your heart and your brain go in different directions?
I am a little shit for not going to visit her?
I just want to keep making her proud, fuck
>>35049977
Yep I'm about 6 years into this shit, no matter how many other girls I get with or see it doesn't go away, perhaps we just have a mental anomaly, like gays
>>35064832
>>35065121
Fuck everyone is telling me to take it but the money is so tempting. I don't even know what topic I want to do
