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>hook up for the first time this year
>can't get hard
>end up giving the girl oral
>wasn't hard enough last time (a year ago)
What the fuck has happened to me? I watch porn around once a day. I just can't seem to get hard when it matters.
>>34988424
Most likely just nerves
Relax
maybe chug a beer or too
people will tell you to stop porn but the correlation between watching porn and impotency is purely anecdoctal
>>34988445
We were outside a pub. I had been drinking most of the afternoon.
>>34988459
Then you probably had whiskey dick m8
this is a documented problem
Hey guys, i want some advice on my tinder profile. You nig nogs cool with helpin a brother out? Matches for days but 6/10s errywhere..
>>34988468
Can confirm. First time i ever tried having sex i had whiskey dick and couldn't get hard. I tried getting it in but mr noodle didn't want to get up. Finally called it quits about a half hour later. Most embarrassing moment of my life.
>>34988498
>first pic
selfie, looking away from the camera. Not smiling, but not trying to look hard either. Hand on back of head, looking meaningfully away from the camera
>second pic
You with your buddies having a good time
>third pic
you with a chick. A perfectly average one. You don't have to be like, doing anything with her, just show the women that you have the capacity to socialize with the opposite sex
>fourth pic
a picture of a funny event with you in it
>bio
Something short and sweet, enough to make you not fade in with the static. Be creative, do /not/ copy a funny one you found on the internet, they will know and will think you're a dweeb
if you're tall, have your height in your bio. If you're not, don't.
>>34988424
She's beautiful why is she wasting her life on porn
>>34988530
shitpost confirmed
>>34988424
Same thing happened to me last month.
Literally the most embarrassing thing to ever happen to me.
Worst part is when I met this girl I knew she liked me so I quit porn and jerking off because I heard it might cause ED. When the time came couldnt get it hard. She told me it was not a big deal but I couldnt deal with it and never talked to her again.
I dropped lifting also and have been hitting the bottle and getting high all day. I feel like it has finally broken me.
It also doesnt help that I work 50/hrs a week night shift so I cant really meet new people.
Im getting fed up with life I dont see the point in it anymore im just working to live and living to work.
>>34988459
M8, the first girl I hooked up with I coudn't put the dick in at all, numerous times. Was always shitfaced, and nervous to boot. Next gf, no problem at all, boned that bitch like there was no tomorrow.
Don't drink before fucking, try to be chill.
>>34988523
Jesus fuck, can social media can get any more superficial and pathetic?
>>34988424
>tfw got whiskey dick on two different occasions with two of the hottest bitches I could've slammed
This feel haunts me
>>34988424
I've heard things against porn and I totally agree with them. I watched porn once a day and lost interest in sex with real people and when I did have it, I didn't last very long at all. Ever since I quit, it's been night and day. Long lasting, way more enjoyable, etc.
There may be no correlation between sex and impotency, or bad sex, or really anything but I will tell you that porn may not "ruin your sex life" but it will definitely make you less than you could be.
>>34988424
It's anxiety brah... With my first gf I had a hard time getting it up for awhile but once I was comfortable around her it was no problem.
>>34988424
CHINESE BONER PILLS WORK GREAT
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>>34988861
yes its axiety. you can physically get boners you said so yourself
Use viagra bro
Guys, how to cure premature ejaculation when you aren't having sex on the regular? Say, like once in two weeks-ish.
I know of people getting rid of it by banging every day, but I don't have that liberty. I could jack off every day, but won't that give me other problems instead? (ED or someshit)
It's porn... stop watching porn. /thread
>>34988973
No, no it's not.
>>34988523
Have you thought about a career in HR?
>>34989050
yes, yes it is.
>>34988424
You have spent too much times looking at male muscular bodies. Now you're gay.
>>34988498
>>34988523
is body pic cool or too much? i dont have much else
Whenever i don't get instantly hard when i want to, i just ask my gf to flip on her elbows and knees as i lick her ass
gets me diamonds instantly no matter what.
>>34989050
It REALLY is though
>>34988778
I take it you didn't hit all the req's?
>>34989050
it is. it's very well documented too. porn literally affects your brain in the same way as heroin. 90% of sex life threads here are anons posting "how come i can't get a boner when i'm with my gf while my dick works fine when i'm jerking off to some porn"
>>34988523
I would swipe left on this shit so fast.
>first pic
tryhard, might swipe right if cute, but definitely smiling pictures are better. No sunglasses
>second pic
Might be alright, unless there's tons of alcohol on the table. Also the person the profile belongs to has to be easy to identify, as in not only group photos and at least one clear face.
>third pic
left swipe so fast. smells douche a long way to include some chick on tinder profile. and if sister, creepy.
>fourth pic
depending on the event, maybe. rather have some sort of active picture, not half naked in gym, but at a hike or something, showing your hobbies.
My fav tinder profiles are clear face shots, not shirtless, not too many group pictures, one full body pic doing something cool, pets are always a plus.
Quitting porn MIGHT help, but it might also just be nerves.
Maybe you're simply not cut out for one night stands and you need all that gay shit like trust and intimacy and love.
>>34989204
Yes, we get it, you're a special snowflake. Now go and fuck yourself.
>>34988953
Fap daily to keep libido up, but no porn brah. And no death grip.
>>34989126
Good face pic, full body pic with clothes on.
>>34989217
So you fuck tons of chicks through your tinder profile with non-smiling face shot and rest group pictures? Must be insanely good looking and good at conversation then, which I doubt the people asking for help are. So they should go for the less douchy profile approach.
>>34988739
The inner wall between the vag and the asshole is pretty thin too, so you could be poking all kinds of tuna tunnel shit around when you're having anal sex.
>>34989203
>porn literally affects your brain in the same way as heroin.
This is such a shitty pseudoscientific thing to say. Smoking, drinking coffee, alcohol, having sex, or anything else pleasurable does the same fucking thing.
You might as well say "OMG GETTING VIGOROUS EXERCISE EFFECTS THE BRAIN LIKE HEROIN!!!".
Im not even pro porn but stop saying stupid shit and using scare tactics.
>>34989203
is it okay to fap to pics of hightest girls or should I only use my imagination
>>34989298
>tuna tunnel
>>34989301
>"OMG GETTING VIGOROUS EXERCISE EFFECTS THE BRAIN LIKE HEROIN!!!"
But it does, Anon. It does.
>>34989383
Lol that's the point, but screaming "LIKE HEROIN" is supposed to make people associate porn with the negative image heroin has.
It's sad that our culture has become so reliant on science and technology but also set up so most people know fuck all about it.
>>34988789
> Whiskey dingus
I semi-know that feel. I start out hard yet never can get off, just slowly go flaccid over time. Last time I got laid lasted about an hour, and I had to fake orgasm after she asked if I already came or not. Though I did get her off twice, I would have liked to have busted a nut. Never hitting hard liquor before sex again.
>>34989530
Best night of sex I ever had was fucking my gf on new years 10 times because I was too drunk to cum
>>34989301
> anything else pleasurable does the same fucking thing.
sure, but it doesn't affect your quality of life as dramatically as not being able to keep a boner in front of an irl girl. hence the heroin comparison.
>>34988424
>>34988530
I'm with you, man.
porn is toxic
Can't believe how many ppl still try to fight noporn like its their fucking mother or something.
If you get ED and you watch alot of porn, try cutting porn. This will PROBABLY fix the problem within a month. You should also make sure you're being confident and not stressed about sex. If you're nervous or otherwise uncomfortable, this might cause ED aswell. There is no quick fix to this problem, but having an understanding partner is important. You can try to relax by knowing that she'll get an orgasm orally, so it's no biggie.
But srs. try the noporn first.
You'll make it breh
>>34988523
>first pic
mirror selfie
>second pic
full body selfie
>third pic
mirror selfie
>fourth pic
what fourth pic?
I am successful on tinder fuck you guy!
>>34989854
esto
How do you guys clean your dicks. just been jacking off with it for years using coconut oil and cocoa butter lotion hope i'm not ruining my dick
been getting matches and talking to girls on tinder and I don't want my first time to be ruined if the girl thinks my penis looks nasty :(
>>34991133
Cocoa butter makes your dick smell nice and keeps it hydrated, nice triple double btw.
>>34988424
You're probably gay. Further proof is that you went down on her like a bitch.
>>34991133
>How do you guys clean your dicks
Soap in the shower.
I doubt that lotion and coconut oil is bad for your dick.
>>34988424
>can't get hard
>end up giving the girl oral
you can't get hard because you are a pussy.
>>34988424
maybe fuck dudes next time you fucking faggot
>>34988424
>Same thing happened to me, except she called me a faggot and a homo a couple of times :(
>>34988836
>I've heard things against porn and I totally agree with them. I watched porn once a day and lost interest in sex with real people and when I did have it, I didn't last very long at all. Ever since I quit, it's been night and day. Long lasting, way more enjoyable, etc.
>There may be no correlation between sex and impotency, or bad sex, or really anything but I will tell you that porn may not "ruin your sex life" but it will definitely make you less than you could be.
this
>>34988424
Try smoking a joint - never fails to give me raging hard on that lasts for hours. Thank me later.
>>34991215
>>34991911
>Thinking that going down on a girl is a bad thing
If they have a nice pussy and it doesn't smell/taste of anything, I find it a turn on.
I doubt that. Try it yourself. Shoot some Tren Ace, you can and will fap 10-15 times a day for porn without problems.
Ofcourse if you wank several times a day and you are a natty your sex drive is going to go down but you should be fine agan just with 1-2 days off from fapping.
>>34991992
See, you are a the biggest pussy. No wonder you cant get up.
>>34991969
holy shit this, weed is fucking great for boners
>>34989854
Or you know understand that op had been drinking all day and in addition was likely nervous. You no porn faggots have a problem. You think all evils are cause by porn just because you beat off too much
Been there bro, could of lost my virginity but I couldn't get hard. So I just ate that stinky hairy pussy and she wouldn't even give me head to help me get it up... then thst fucking bitch dumped me
>>34992120
EEEEEEW. lol bro.. wow. good thing i wasn't eating or those gains would be coming back up
>>34988445
Yeah this because I watch porn all the time and I am hard as diamonds every time me and a girl makout or we are about to Fuck.
People who can't get hard for girls have internal issues from being wee boos there whole life
i have a different problem, i can hardly ever cum from sex
>jack off at least once a day
>still get hard as diamonds just from making out with chicks
who /AbnormallyHighSexDrive/ here?
>>34992120
hoy shit,
you shut the fuck up now!
>>34992182
that's a normal sex drive in your 20s
>>34992182
Same here. I can stay hard as long as a girl keeps me hard
>>34992200
fugg
I thought it was abnormal because of the constant complaints about ED here and how it correlates with porn.
>>34992182
>once a day
Honestly for the past few years I've been feeling pretty asexual because I've only been jacking it once a day.
I miss the teenage multiple times a day fapping.
It's a struggle to fuck above 3 times a night even with attractive girls now too. I did 7 last Christmas and it was like being a teen again (it helped she was literally a teen model).
Being late 20's sucks bruhs. The first time in your life your body starts decaying rather than building. It was a gradual thing, only really noticeable (can't drink or smoke or eat as much, tired more, less sexual, etc) at around 28 though.
I used to hook up with fat chicks for sustenance, but now I think it's become a full blown fetish.
Help.
>>34992230
you're comparing yourself to internet addicts
>>34989224
I'll try that, thanks
I stopped jacking it for a while because I was doing it more out of boredom and to kill the time then for the pleasure of it.My orgasms weren't that great, so I also started to lift and exercise some more and the one thing I can say is because of that I feel MUCH more sexual. I feel like I really want to fuck, that porn isn't really anything else but a substitution for a sex life and I want a warm body to really fuck hard, it's brought out of me a much more primal sense and I've been loving it.
I've been edging my for the last two weeks and later tonight I'm supposed to meet an old hook up of mine and holy shit am I horny. Like primal-drag-you-into-the-cave-so-i-can-mount-you caveman style fucking mode here. But it's kind of problematic too because I feel a lot more aggressive since I haven't orgasmed in a while, my cock feels like it has an AP round loaded in it.
So it's be interesting to say the least.
>Tfw no gf
>>34989224
This is wrong advice. Having a death grip has the opposite effect. It makes you not able to cum with a real girl.
>I watch porn around once a day
Here's your problem
>>34988530
She's an author, not a pornstar, you illiterate fag.
>>34992317
you're gonna cum hella fast
after you cum under a minute, just eat her out for 5 minutes until your dick is hard again and then continue to fuck her
you probably didnt need me to tell you that though
First time for me was a disaster as well, couldn't get a stiffy. Had six beers and booze and two joints which was probably the cause.
>>34992411
This is my fear of going no fap. I'm fucking this girl, but I'm pretty sure the only reason she tolerates my presence is for my body and sex. I like doing no-fap, but if I do I will only last a few minutes. So I need to jerk off every day.
How will this effect my gains?
>be me
>haven't had sex since January 4th 2014
>haven't done anything with a woman since that date
>jerk off frequently but hate it.
>always quick to cum, find it hard to last longer than 10 minutes.
>usually only make it to 5.
>recently started online dating
>found qt who lives pretty close to me
>every now and then she'll say something sexual to me which throws me off
>she asked me out for coffee
is there any hope for me /fit/
Short story about my first (and only) sexual experience. I'm 19 now.
>be me
>17 years old
>making out with my cousin's friend inside their room
>she takes off my shirt and pushes me on the bed
>I take off her shirt (but idk how to take off her bra)
>we keep making out
>take off everything except boxers
>keep making out and feeling each other up
>she tells me to take off my boxers
>i panic
>'no'
>she tells me she wants my dick
>i tell her i have no condom so we can't do it
>make out a bit more
>she tells me she has to go and leaves the room
The sad part is that I totally wanted to fuck her but I was scared for some reason. Looking back on it I wish I had done it. Two years later now and I'm still a virgin, and I haven't come that close since.
>>34988445
>dopamine sensitivity doesnt exsist XDD
No faggot , your
>i watch porn n can fug easy XDD
is the anecdote, fuck off
>>34992683
of course there's hope. godspeed anon
>>34992691
damn anon that's pretty sad.
you'll have another chance some day*
>>34992498
You can train yourself to last longer with edging, and still cut down on your ejaculations
>>34991911
>>34991215
>licking pussy is gay meme
>>34992411
Yeah but I enjoy edging myself and so far I've been able to hold off pretty long too, plus it'll give me a chance to fuck a little ,eat her out a little fuck a little some more, get head and then splash a nut in side her. I really really REALLY love eating pussy so it's all a win win for me.
>>34991911
>>34991215
see pic
>>34992691
>>she tells me she wants my dick
>>i tell her i have no condom so we can't do it
No man, you did the right thing. Condoms are WAY cheaper then babies plus you never know what someone else might have (STI) so you want to protect yourself, the fact that you are mature enough to recognize that puts you leagues above many people here.
Now that being said keep in mind there are other ways to get off, handjobs, blowjobs (albiet riskier) you can finger her, titty fuck (if she's well endowed enough), foot job (if you are into that) and a lot more. You just need to be creative, don't worry though the way you are going you'll not only have great sex but you'll also be safe about it to which will make it even more fun.
>>34988424
give up porn
even if it isn't the cause, at least you remove that variable
most porn is degenerate anyways
It's been so long since I was with a woman I'm now unsure as to what I'll do when I get the chance to be with one again.
>>34992866
>the fact that you are mature enough to recognize that puts you leagues above many people here
This is a compliment I don't deserve. I said that out of panic, not out of reasonable thinking.
>Now that being said keep in mind there are other ways to get off, handjobs, blowjobs (albiet riskier) you can finger her, titty fuck (if she's well endowed enough), foot job (if you are into that) and a lot more. You just need to be creative, don't worry though the way you are going you'll not only have great sex but you'll also be safe about it to which will make it even more fun
I appreciate that shit anon. I'll keep that in mind when I go off to college in January.
>>34992691
no glove no love
It's better to lose a chance to fuck than having a chance to become a STD-ridden father at 17
>>34988424
I usually just have her go down on me and tell her to help get me hard.
>>34992918
Well then at least take solace that you got a good gut to listen to.
when ever I fap I start by rubbing my cock though what ever I'm wearing and by the time I pull it out I'm ready to blow
this is probbaly not a good thing since if I'm ever with a chick the second she gets my pants off and touched my cock I'll explode over her hand.
>>34988778
>can social media get any more superficial and pathetic
Anon, this is fucking /tinder/. It's the app that you use to bang chicks based off of a single photo.
It is LITERALLY the most superficial thing ever. It isn't even social media.
>>34989126
Body pics are good, but make sure that it isn't your first pic
>>34989204
>I would swipe left on this shit so fast.
Yeah but most people don't
>smells douche a long way to include some chick on tinder profile. and if sister, creepy.
Only if you're like... dating her obviously in the photo. I meant like "part of the group" not "one on one"
>>34989908
There is more than one path to success
I was merely offering one
>>34992913
Is fapping to Facebook pics degenerate?
>Join the military
>11 weeks of communal living
>Training 18 hours a day
>Go to sleep instantly
>No time or privacy to fap
>Stop thinking about women
>2 weeks leave
>Have a few drinks
>Chat up a girl
>She wants to fuck
>Go back to hers
>My dick has been rock hard for the last 2 hours since we met in the bar
>Balls are 3x the size
>She unzips my pants
>Starts sucking
>Within 20 seconds I explode the biggest load over her face and tits
>She lols
>Clears up
>5 mins later I am rock hard again
>Fuck her 3 times that night
>Cum with the force of a thousand suns every time
>Moral of the story is
>No fap, no porn is the way to go.
>Best sex I have ever had.
>When I was cumming inside her I could feel my mind explode and connect with God up in heaven
What are some tips not to be so anxious. I know damn well that's what's getting me. Sad thing is I have nothing really to be worried about, but now I'm in this anxiety loop that makes it hard to get fully erect.
>>34993212
That you ask here indicates the high possibility that it is very very degenerate.
Next step is beating it in public whenever anyone passes by.
>>34993267
You didn't wear a condom?
wtf
>>34992005
I'm not OP. Nice try though.
>>34993711
I asked for a recent full STI test. She showed me her report. She was negative on everything. Positive on clamydia though but only virgins don't have that.
When I fuck, I tend to go for hours and hours. By the end of it, my foreskin is fucking swollen and hurts like fuck. I'll take a shower after and it's really painful to clean.
Any recommendations on how to avoid this?
>>34988424
Stop wathing porn bro. Rots your dick, rots your mind.
>>34992407
>when an actor does it it's degeneracy
>when an author does it it's artistic and meaningfull
Get your stupid head out of your stupid ass.
>>34988424
Alcoholic and porn. thats my problem. last 2 chicks i fuckd (not at the same time but both in the same weekend together) I could get hard at night from drinking so i just ate em and rubbed clit. they came. in the morning when the alcohol wore off i fucked the shit out of them(different days same results)
i think im going to get some extenze cuz i was lucky they were understanding and it wasnt that embarissing for me. but i miss having a rocky railing some bitch
>>34988424
>can't get hard
>>34988522
bump
you're all fucking faggots
i hate you all
eat shit and die you fucking beta's
Performance anxiety.
>>34992236
I'm still in the 3 times a day thing. A girl just being nice to me is enough to make me hard.
>>34988424
holy shit . this picture is hella good.
>>34994312
Kek
>>34988424
I have no issue with hardness, but when it comes time to cum, I HAVE to jerk off. It sucks it makes my gf have low self esteem. I don't death grip jerk off either.
My cock tip is super sensitive and I'm uncut. Sensitive as in rarely do I put my hand directly on it. My gf has good hj skills I taught her but low endarance.
>do you live in a cat shelter because THAT PUSSY IS RAAAWWW
>>34994731
haha I gettit like the guy in the picture he always says because it's raw!
hahahaahahaha
the cook man yes? he cook the food and ylel at the peoples?
ahahahhahaha
yes very good my friend, very good.
i like this very much my friend
many upvotes for u my friend.
ciao
~ Ricardo
>>34988530
>>34992407
>tfw she settled for taking a multitude of dicks in the ass over settling down with a nice, hard working man
>tfw she is childless, divroced, and takes pictures of people for money
Happened to me with this girl a few times
>out of my league girl coming over to fuck
>kinda nervous
>jack off twice beforehand so I could last for her
>she comes over, get it up at first but it won't stay
>next time I'm just thinking "don't stay soft don't stay soft"
>stays soft
>this happens like every other time now
>can tell she's getting frustrated
>decide to cut all porn, all fapping
>take an erection pill next time
>fuck the shit out of her no problems
>confidence restored
>never had a problem again, after some 50+ fucks
It's all in your head man
>>34994431
this
>tfw haven't had sex in 9 weeks
>gf coming home in 5 days
>tfw I can't break the addiction of fappping
Do I just go cold turkey and try my best?
Also
>tfw can't finish with just sex (maybe its condom)
>have to jack off for a few minutes and get to the point of almost cumming and stick it back in and pullout
Jacking off and sticking it back in and getting to the point of busting nuts feels so much better than just quitting and jacking off to end.
But how much better is sex without a condom?
With a healthy heart and diet, regular exercise and low body fat, exactly how hard should a penis feel when erect?
Comparisons to other objects which it should be as hard as are welcome.
>>34995361
It should feel like it's about to bust out of the skin.
>>34994922
>out of my league girl coming over to fuck
weak bodies, weak minds, volatile emotions, and faces that need daily painting to look presentable
Never put a woman above you my man
>>34994711
Bumping this
>>34995371
And if it doesn't would this be indicative of erectile dysfunction, cardiovascular problems or high blood pressure?
>>34988424
I just can't get over how erotic what he's doing with her s
>>34995415
It means you're gay, Hahaha.
But seriously, I got no idea. Work on your health and eat right, don't bust for a few days before you have sex and you'll be fine.
>>34995457
>>34995457
>don't bust for a few days before you have sex and you'll be fine.
Thinking this might be the issue. My health is fine, I work out regularly but the I masturbate far too often and my dick rarely seemed to get as hard as it is fully capable of, I'd wake up some mornings with wood that made me wonder who gave me this new hard, fat dick and what they did with my dick. I've started no porn which has become no fap because I have no libido. Dick is dead. It's been two weeks and I'm hoping this will pass soon.
>>34992146
Their***
You stupid fucking cunt.
Anyone know advice for replenishing your stamina after cumming a few times a day? I've been hooking up with this girl 2-3 times a day for the past month or so and I can't get fully hard the last time usually. Same for my loads, how do refill the tank faster brehs
>>34988424
Just don't jerk for 4 days before. You will be diamonds.
>inb4 premature come
If you come fast you will get hard again fast. You can just keep fucking and not even pull out or anything until you orgasm 2-3 times. Also shooting a big load fast is better psychologically because it makes you look young and fertile and the girl feel good about herself.
>>34995484
My dick doesn't function as well if I have sex when I fapped the day before versus doing it 2-3 days before sex. Girls that I've been with more than one time say I feel bigger after not fapping for a few days before fucking them.
>>34995361
It should literally be painful.
>>34994856
This isn't funny. Just sad. It reminds me of that guy who put the long nigger comment ont hat girls prof pic of the baby and everyone got lethal doses of butthurt
>>34995585
>It should literally be painful.
Nah, see a doctor.
>>34995585
This only happens with boner after cumming that same day already for me, and after a while the endorphins blunt the pain.
>>34994378
Use lube.
>>34992691
>And in an alternare future anon wishes he hadn't stuck his dick in the sick and struggles to buy pampers.
U Did gud.
>>34988424
http://chloedeslyssestribute.tumblr.com/
>>34995592
>He's memeing and you cant tell.
underage.
>>34993660
I also have this problem but for me it's not about maintaining a stiffy but cumming too quickly. Reason is the same though. Anyone got tips ?
>>34988424
Drop the PMO and go on nofap
>>34988522
Same happened to me bro. Makes me want to cry knowing i could have fornicated with a beautiful women. My brain said yes but my dick said no.
What's with all these fags who can't get hard when faced with real pussy? Is it just nerves or is it physiological problem?
>>34995499
Atleast I'm slamming ass
You faggot
>>34988424
You are entirely desensitized. Stop porn, stop masturbating for 30 days. Quality of life will improve.
>>34992344
>reading thread
>"wow, all this turmoil over situations I've never experienced"
>"maybe some day..."
>"hopefully some day..."
>>34988424
don't go down on a chick unless she's a nice person and you want to have a relationship.
if it's just a hookup, never go down.
Can anyone explain the pic to me? I don't get it, I've seen it a million times on 4Chan and I don't see anything special about it. She is clearly getting fucked and we don't see it because of her skirt. But is that it? Or is there some backstory?
>finish fapping
>feel pathetic and want a gf even more
Why does it have to be this way /fit/?
>>34997031
Why is this?
>>34997111
She don't deserve it, Also, diseases.
>>34992368
>Having a death grip has the opposite effect. It makes you not able to cum with a real girl.
This. Results in really no fun at all. You can fuck for decades but without pleasure.
>>34997044
google the name
>>34994922
>take an erection pill next time
>It's all in your head man
Well I have bad news for you...
>>34997334
Will using a fleshlight and NO hand during masturbation be a good way to rehab? Not sure I can just not fap
>>34997366
You may try. In my experiences this whole fapping mostly just occours because we have too much free time. When I work, I leave early, come home late and don't think about anything except sleeping.
On the weekends the situation is changed...
>>34994711
I had a few beers the first time I had sex with current gf, and she was all happy it lasted so long at first then got all sad she couldn't make me cum after like an hour.
Next morning she rode me so hard I came in 2 minutes.
fyi, the orgasm is never as good as jerking off, its just kind of endearing I guess...
>>34989050
It might not be the solution entirely, but it does help.
I used to binge porn when i was bored. My gf (at the time) was an attractive bisexual nympho who was up for anything. Did i feel like fucking her? No.
I didn't feel like fucking anything, i didn't feel like working, like lifting, like going out with friends, nothing. I wasnt depressed, just had no affect, no drive.
I tried doing the whole no porn thing and gave myself a forced break from it. it definately made a difference.
>>34995499
i'd be mad too if I had erectile dysfunction m8
>>34997236
He's right you know
>>34997236
Thirding this.
/fit/ how long would you be willing to wait to have sex with your gf is she were a virgin?
>>34992368
Yeah, I said no death grip.
>>34995344
Much better. Why are you using a condom if you have a girlfriend? Get her on the pill.
>>34995484
Might be low test man
>>34988424
OP I cannot believe nobody has posted this before but
yourbrainonporn.com
Seriously, give it a read before it's too late.
>3 year dry spell
>tried to put myself out there again
>girls cancelling dates last minute
>girls not responding to my texts despite we had fun before
>meet a cute girl with french accent in the club, talk for a bit, suddently her friend comes along, they talk for a bit, laugh, suddently her accent is gone, it was fake all along, she leaves me without saying anything
>biggest slut in town, who literraly fucked a guy for a burger last week, just gave me a pity handjob, and just because she was drunk. She always says she just will meet up with me when she is drunk because otherwise she cant stand me
>started to drink alot
>getting black out drunk, dont even talk to girls
>think i may start getting addicted
>my sexual life is just basically me fapping before going to sleep
How do i break the circle /fit/?
>>34997236
I notice girls always give better head and sexing after being eaten out
>>34997390
>
fyi, the orgasm is never as good as jerking off, its just kind of endearing
Damn.
I got close when she rode me also, is it just the physical exertion of fucking hard that distracts me from cumming? Its weird.
>>34998229
Depends if I KNEW she was a virgin, I'd wait longer than if I got the feeling she's fucked before and is just mentally damaged good and doesn't want to fuck for a while and just is saying she is a virgin..
If I knew and believed her, and we mesh on a way thats relationship level I could wait a while, a very long time we agree to do oral only. Years.
If its not marriage track, no oral, not more than a month.
>>34998579
find the problem that stops you from succeeding
>>35000198
Yeah, that would be me.
>>34995344
it's in another league
