>>34844065
Learn to fuck. Focus on her pleasure (cunnilingus + masturbation), "frictioning" your dick when fucking rather than in/out, and then let yourself go (in/out when she's riding, doggystyle etc). Also, move your hips.
>>34844065
Aerobic fitness.
If you are out of breath, you are more likely to "lose control"
And kegels, reverse kegels. While your sausage isn't exactly a muscle you can control like your bicep, there are muscles involved that you should be able to develop some conscious control over.
Can you stop pissing mid stream? That muscle. Exercise it a bit.
Also. Maybe rub one out before. Earlier in the day, or rush beat it in the bathroom.
Or talk to your doctor.
>>34844150
>Also. Maybe rub one out before. Earlier in the day, or rush beat it in the bathroom.
You could have left it at that.
>>34844065
Same here OP. My sexual performance is a fucking mess.
>Take forever to get hard
>cum after 30 secs
>immediately go soft afterwards
>"uhm is something wrong anon?"
why even try
Sleeping medications help me last longer in bed.
Usually get like 10+ hours.
>>34844065
tell your dad to stop squeezing so much
>not going down on her after pulling out when you might cum soon
shaking my head
>>34844065
bite your tongue to delay an orgasm srs
also focus on pleasing her
pull out before cumming and go down on her
The question is how do you last less?
I last so long she gets sore. Not trying to brag because this shit is annoying, tired of finishing from bj/handjob.
Fucking condoms, can't feel shit.
opioids
tramadol werks gud and can be purchased online
imodium AD is an opioid too but have never taken it
>>34844208
kek
>>34845088
dont jerk off before. cut down on fapping in general. if makes your dick insensitive
jack off first you mongs
>>34845088
>condoms
You've already identified the problem
>>34845088
This
>>34845088
Don't use a condom.
>>34844065
Bruh op I used to try to last forever for my girl and I ended up hating sex because by the time I came I didn't feel shit because i've been edging for 10 minutes.
Now I just fuck her without worrying about it and we both enjoy the sex more because she can feel how aroused I am. The key is just making sure the sex is good and eating her out afterwards.
I bust in less than 2 minutes most of the time (tho recently I've been lasting longer for me rather than her because I enjoy it so much) and every time I make sure to finish her off. We even fuck after that if I'm still horny. She could not be more satisfied. She blows me on occasion as well which keeps me motivated.
Good luck op.
>>34844065
Have more sex. The more have you have it with one person the more you can learn eachother's bodies. You also get better in general.
>>34845162
>>34845170
Not really an option, don't want to knock her up, and sure as hell I don't want her to use the pill jew. Shit can be harmful for health.
if you don't last at least 40min of pen. your girl is getting herself off wit a dildo or another dude
How old are you anon? your sexual stamina will improve with age especially between 18-25.
If u are doing no-fap, you need to stop. If you really wanna last longer you can desensitise yourself with frequent deathgrip masturbation and watching a lot of hardcore porn, however this runs the risk, albeit reversable, of going too far and causing erectile dysfunction. On top of that, stop going so fucking fast. Alternate pace, gradually and slowly build yourself up from going real slow, to about 50% pace, then drop back down and go to 60% and so on, this reduces the stimulation for you, and secondarily gives you something to focus on other than 'holy shit I have a girl in bed omg brehs'. Lastly if you're getting too close and you're not ready to finish, drop back to a real slow pace or change positions, and think of something grim like your gran's arsehole opening and shit coming out.
-from an ex 1 minute wonder, to casually going 20+ minutes last night with a random girl who knew how to contract her vaginal muscles extremely tight holy shit brehs
>>34845198
Get her on a non hormonal IUD then. For some women the birth control shot is better for them. For others it can be bad. Non hormonal IUD works for everyone.
1. Don't edge or get close during foreplay, you're wasting your stamina that way.
2. Take control. Whenever I'm completely dominating my girl (vs more emotional caring shit) I can last however long I want
3. Breathe and focus on what you're doing in there, not just how fast you're pumping. I can generally make my girl cum just by maneuvering inside her
4. Cum before. There's no shame in blowing one in her mouth or in the toilet 10 mins before you fuck
5. Adderall, shit will leave you fucking for days
>>34845206
>40 min
That's too long when you fuck everyday dude. I can do over an hour but its not an everyday type of thing.
>>34845210
Also remember that a lot of women can't orgasm with plain P in V sex. They enjoy it without an orgasm, but if she (as likely) doesn't come while you're fucking her, make sure your lady doesn't go without. (fyi NEVER fingerblast, spiderman that shit)
>>34845174
To add to this I just googled it for the fuck of it and op FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT LISTEN TO GOOGLE FOR THIS SHIT
or any of the other niggers saying pinch your dick or think of your grandmas ass hole
Sex should be pleasurable for the both of you. She will always enjoy it more if you're enjoying it instead of being focused on pleasing her.
Don't pinch yourself or think nasty shit, you're conditioning yourself to hate sex and creating future erectile dysfunction
>>34845239
spiderman? enlighten me breh
So went on meds that killed my libido/boners, long story short I'm wanting to fuck but I have mad anxiety which is now made worse by me worrying about going limp.
So, what happens? I go limp.
I have viagra. Should I take it as a tool to learn to relax and that it'll be ok or will my silly mind learn to associate taking a pill to get hard causing even more problem?
>those meds fucked me up heaps
>worried the little blue pill will do the same
>cutting the pill into smaller amounts would be ok, r-right?
>>34845246
>taking advice about lasting longer in bed off a guy who says he lasts 2 mins on the reg
>>34845286
finger blasting: putting your index finger and middle finger inside a girl and moving them in a fast backwards and forwards motion.
spider man: putting your middle and ring finger inside the girl, and moving them in a backwards/forwards AND up/down motion, stroking walls.
you got to learn the rhythm anon
the rhythmmmmmmmmmm
>go to a public place where "urbans" play drums on plastic containers and ask for money
>sit in the center of the circle
>look intently at what they're doing
>start saying "boop-aty-beep-bap-beepity--beep-doo"
>start druming
>never stop drumming
now you're a drummer, congrats
>>34845292
Literally just have more sex dudes. You'll get better at it.
>>34845290
get rid of the pill, get rid of fapping, get rid of that nasty ass animal/tranny porn u keep watching, leave it a couple months, see the results.
>>34845326
gotcha, thanks family
>>34845346
I've not watched as much porn as I used nor, nor wanked as much as I used to for ages because of no libido from pills.
The problem is now my anxiety about no libido on those pills and thinking "I can't get it up". I now I can but...
>>34845466
Ever think about going to an endo and getting your testosterone checked? Could be low T, and a one way ticket to gainsville on the TRT express CHOO CHOO
>>34845466
At least allow yourself to rule out fapping and pr0n as the problem my completely eliminating them, and if you truly think its anxiety based around "needing" the pills then stop using them too and allow your brain to disassociate. Also,
>>34845479 Makes a good point, might be a test thing
>>34845479
>>34845544
Yeah amphetamines can lower test/play up with hormones.
Got it tested the other day, going to get the results today.
>>34845592
make a thread about it when you have the results
I'm spooked about the whole issue desu senpai
>>34845592
Yeah man, if your shit stops working, focus on these questions
- Are you addicted to porn/masturbation
- Are you abusing any form of drugs? Pills/Alcohol/Roids?
- Are you struggling with low test?
- Do you have some form of disease?
>>34845634
>>34845639
Just rung them, they said my hormone levels are fine but when I asked for the test level she said:
24.2 in the range of 9-30
I've never seen /heard it described that way, though.
Is my test level 24.2? I thought it was meant to be in the hundreds...
I can last really long when I mentally convince myself that I hate the bitch i'm fucking.
>>34844076
>"frictioning" your dick
What did you mean by this?
>>34845765
>24.2 in the range of 9-30
Oh, ok. I guess whichever way they measure it, the 9-30 range is normal and I'm 24.2.
Not too bad for a manlet I guess?
Fuck, so it is anxiety now that's the problem. Fuck sake.
For me, it's a lot easier to last whenever I don't have any emotional attachment to the grill. My stamina is a lot different from plowing some sloot I met that night, compared to railing someone that I'm dating.
But, to answer your question, just try to take your mind off the fact that you're having sex. This can range from thinking of something stupid like spiders, to trying to solve a math equation in your head. Also, fap before, or use a condom, makes you a fucking tank
