My girlfriend is getting fat. It's making it hard to be sexually attracted to her and she's noticing since we I always make excuses when she wants to fuck.
How do I convince her to lose some weight? I'm sure as hell not telling her she's getting fat or how it affects me. That will only damage her and our relationship (cuz you know how girls rationalize shit like that). What can I do?
>inb4 leave her
>inb4 just b honest
>>34844047
Fuck Off Randy
How close is your relationship? Are you /fit/? Do you live together?
Fuck Off Randy
>>34844047
Fuck off randy!
>>34844047
>I'm sure as hell not telling her she's getting fat or how it affects me.
Yeah men who don't say what they want and would rather dance around the subject like little girls are great, you fag.
You know what girls like less than being told the truth? Going out with a spineless manchild who doesn't stand up for himself and his beliefs.
>>34844047
Frigg off randy
>>34844047
>she will only get fatter
>will begin to drag you down
>10 years later you have ed and are fat.
>could have been prevented by telling your girl you want to eat healthier together and going for walks.
Fuck oof Randy
Sit her down
Look her in the eye
Take her hands in yours
And say.
"I love you but im physically attracted to healthy girls. You are becoming unhealthy"
Dont mention fat or weight.
>>34844047
Fuck off Randy
>>34844047
Man, I'm glad I managed to find the only normal woman on the planet.
If you can't tell her she's getting fat, how close can you possibly be?
>>34844047
Fuck Off Randy
>>34844047
fuck off randy
put a donut on your dick, that should motivate the fat cunt.
>>34844063
Very close. We've been together for over two years. I am /fit/ by normie standards. I started SS and dieting in August. I wasnt fat before I started lifting or before we started dating (6' 1", 170 lbs).
>>34844094
>The person I love and trust completly shattered my self image and made me feel ugly and not good enough, but at least he's not a pussy
Sorry, I guss I should have mentioned in the OP I was requesting answers only from people who date the opposite sex.
>>34844126
So you think eating healthier and going for walks will help her lose weight? I was under the assumption it was more work than that to lose pounds, then again I've never needed to lose weight myself thanks to good genetics. I've been trying to think of ways to change her diet without her noticing so maybe I'll try to follow though with that and she'll probably think the walks are romantic or whatever.
>>34844047
Fuck Off Randy
>>34844194
You think like a woman. Do you have any male friends?
>>34844047
Just get caught mirin fit wee lassies. She'll eventually get the message.
Also don't buy junk foods. If you find junk foods, secretly throw it out - which helps you, due to no temptation.
Exercise portion control at every opportunity. Get her to drink lots of water in order to feel full. Prioritise salads.
But if you don't live with her. Then good fucking luck.
Always best to be straight up. My last gf, I was honest. I told her that if she got fat, I'd dump her. Eventually she dumped me for being so very very neet. But she didn't get fat on my watch! Mfw more recent pics show she has made some gains in the fatness department.
>winning?
>>34844194
>gee why is he getting all this healthy food and making me go for walks
just tell her she is getting fat.
stop being retarded.
>>34844047
fuck off randy
Fuck off Gut Cassidy!
How about u start taking her for "walks" go hiking or someshit, and afterwards do something she likes.
Incorporate exercising like nicotine in ur gf, make her want to exercise.
>>34844047
Fook ooff randy
Honestly as terrible as it sounds you have to treat fat people like dogs
without your help dogs will sit around all day and stuff their faces until they puke
Your girlfriend is similar to a dog in this way
You gotta take her out on walks and maintain her diet for her
>>34844047
fuck off cheeseburger eating mafucker
>>34844256
>afternoon walks followed by cuddling or someshit.
>Go to the local pool and bone her in the water.
>Tell her that her sweaty snatch is turning u on!
>cuz you know how girls rationalize shit like that
Actually fucking talk to your gf, understand how /she/ would rationalise something like that and think of the best way to approach it. If she's like most people, she doesn't want to be fat. The internet can't help you, only talking to her can.
>>34844047
fuck off randy go drill some dirty burgers into that walrus gut of yours
>>34844047
You wanna get drunk today randyman?
>>34844157
and then make her eat a bowl of eggs
>>34844094
Well meme'd, my friend!
Fuck Off Randy
>>34844194
Dude, weight loss and fitness only get harder as time goes on.
This is factual, as the body gets older organs don't function as well.
If she is fat now, she will only get fatter.
The only ways to prevent this from happening sooner (note: you can't prevent if from happening) is to start now.
Yes eating healthy and walking will have just as much an impact as her actually working out.
She may even be more attractive as she will stay thicker, but slim down at the waste.
I personally like girls like this.
>ex girlfriend was in the 140 range.
If you don't make a decision and either try to get her to make healthier choices or tell her she is getting fat and seeing what she does.
She will only get fatter.
I promise you.
>>34844047
Fuck Off Randy
You can't just say "you need to lose weighr" and expect her to just change her lifestyle. You need to help her since she obviously doesn't know what to do or she wouldnt be overweight.
When my wife started to put on some weight I sat her down and talked about how I wanted us to be happy and healthy and active for a long time and that if we had kids we would be able to pass on those habits to them. I told her I was worried that if we got pregnant now it would be much harder to become fitter than if she already made changes beforehand.
I created a meal plan which I do the shopping and preparing for and she just eats what I give her for the day. This is a good starting point and it is important that the food is gealthy and tasty. Dont just give her chicken, broccoli and rice all day every day or she'll fall off the wagon.
Then you can start talking to her about which meals she likes and which meals she isn't really a fan of. Ask her what sort of things she would like to replace them with and work out what a serve would be that fits your calorie goals.
Eventually she will start doing this herself. You still want to double check that she's got the calories right, but the fact that she is then taking an active role in the planning will be a big step.
Also get her to do a bit of cardio or weighr training but the important thing to drill into her head is that fixing her diet will be what drops the weight.
She's settling down and letting herself go. She isn't a keeper, just move on.
Accidentally leave your laptop on pornsites with skinny chicks and let her 'catch' you.
She'll get the hint eventually, especially if you keep turning down her sexual advances while keeping up a furious mastubatory sex life.
Or don't listen to strangers on the internet, dude..
Lead by example. It's usually the most difficult for chicks to get started and stick to it
Go to the gym together. Let her on the machine between sets and show her how to use it properly. Start making meals that you can both enjoy that aren't shit. Salads are easy. Just make sure she's not using a ton of dressing.
If you get her past the body soreness for the first couple of weeks you're in the clear.
Slide your cock into one of her rolls of fat and pump away, she might be shocked but just say it was an honest mistake, she will soon lose weight
>>34844173
Are you close with your mum? Could you tell her if she was fat?
>>34844047
Leave a fat hate thread open for her to find.
