Gentle Femdom and Role Reversal: Princess Carry Edition
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>doujinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
New doujin list
http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
GFD masterpost
http://pastebin.com/PNpCd606
GFD Story list:
Taiyakisoba:
>Absorption:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5343203/chapters/12337505
>The Vixen:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5202542/chapters/11990246
>Under the Falcon's Wing:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/4653132/chapters/10613943
>The Leprechaun's Charms:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3645492
>The Sentimental Succubus:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3241379/chapters/7061726
>A Taste for Christmas Cake:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3145253/chapters/6822353
>Takeover:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2779652/chapters/6235439
>Wings of Desire:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2760794
>In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318/chapters/5806514
>Bringing the Heat:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2454164/chapters/5439332
>Love-Love Umbrella:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2219088
SifSub:
>Until you are:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
>My manager is my mistress:
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
>I don't bite:
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit:
>Minotaur's Labyrinth:
http://pastebin.com/b7dURJkY
>The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Others:
>Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
>Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
http://silentotakugirl.deviantart.com/art/Love-You-to-Bits-529875044
>Escape from the Bermuda triangle:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5737978
>>6692957
So I've never seen Kill la Kill. Why is there so much femdom porn made of it? Is it just because it has aggressive, dominant female characters?
>>6692964
Basically, there's also a giant barasub masochist character
Anyone have any general not-quite-lewd cutepics? My long distance GF and I are rr and I like to send her pics like these.
Dumping what I got for now though.
>>6692968
That would do it. I'm certainly not complaining.
>>6692964
Pretty much. Also IIRC the big guy is legitimately masochist.
>>6693006
Aaaaand I'm all out.
holy shit lads 3 threads on the first 10 pages calm down
>>6693048
Our general only has two up, one of which is in the process of dying. Also, there are only ten pages.
>>6692887
>Oh trust me, it's a hot look. I'm pretty easygoing on body hair personally but it's hot to know that a guy's shaved his lewd areas just for ease of access.
I want to believe, yet from whom its coming from leaves me disheartened.
So I know a lot of people do not like the current Skype group
Would anyone want another group?
rip
>>6693073
If it's actively moderated and shitposters are banned then yes.
It also needs to be less of a secrit group and posted in the OP often.
>>6693057
What's wrong with that anon?
>>6693057
>>6693086
>he doesn't want an austistic shitposting gfd
poor taste 2bh
>>6693051
>Also, there are only ten pages.
Crossing the last 5 pages can easily take a day though.
>>6693088
Ah I see
>>6693088
>austistic
Australian Autistic?
Guess it fits the spider theme.
>tfw emotionally scarred femboy and too scared to go out anywhere or even put something on the map
T_T
>>6693091
there's unfortunately few results for "australian drider" in the boorus
very cheeky though, my friend. i ought to reinstall that spellcheck app
>>6693103
apparently that thread is supposed to be abandoned for internet drama reasons or someshit
>>6693103
No. Fuck off.
>>6693092
Then you aren't ready yet and that's okay
Let yourself heal some before putting yourself back out there sweetheart
>>6693110
>>6693112
Is it so hard to just not respond?
>>6693081
I'll have to make someone else mod, but shitposting and flame war stuff will be banned.
I will allow free chat though
>>6693110
You got that the wrong way round bud. This is the quarantined thread.
>>6693128
>all of these things are banned
>but its free chat tho
if it gets us off of /d/ i'll take it regardless, no matter how bad it sounds
>>6693119
but it's sooo hard
>Older sis just got home back from work
>find me in the kitchen(because that's my favorite spot)
>and then hug me from behind, pic relate but she's shorter than me
>tell me that she miss me because we didn't see each other for awhile
>I don't really talk much I just nod and said yeah
>she kinda disappointed and asked me if I didn't miss her at all
>"yeah I miss you, kinda."
>and then she smile at me
Damn I'm so bad when it come to expressing myself.
>>6693145
Everything worth doing is.
>>6693134
alrighty, if anyone wants to join, contact mxleoi
but i'll probably have someone else take the requests to join once the chat starts rolling
![41fzapfrq8l[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/tndpmIx.jpg "41fzapfrq8l[1].jpg")
Animated film:
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Angel-A
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Amagami*
>Oji-san to Marshmallow
>Claymore
>Mizutama Honey Boy
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Otoyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Tsugumomo
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Ane no Onaka o Fukuramaseru wa Boku
>Utsuro no Hako to Zero no Maria
>Waltraute-san no Konkatsu Jijou
>Jomungand
>Arms peddler
>Girls of the Wilds
>Green Boy
>Visual Novels
Junipers Knot*
I finally spelled Jormungand right, for once. I'm a derp.
As usual, recommendations are more than welcome.
>>6693073
>>6693081
>>6693128
>>6693134
>>6693198
Make it something that isn't skype and I'd much rather use it. Telegram would be nice.
I'm catching all kinds of feels watching snooker alone. I want a qt gfd gf to snuggle with while watching snooker.
>>6693073
>>6693247
Use Discord or something. It won't die after 30 people like Skype does. Also easier to moderate and less hassle to arrange voice chat if the occasion arises.
>>6693197
but like I'm so broken right now, I feel like I can't even talk to my online friends anymore, and when I do I just make things worse
>>6693273
There's nothing wrong with that, you're going through a rough time and you need to let yourself heal. As for your friends take it from me, real friends love helping those they care about. It's hard to get but at the end of the day you do have people who are looking out for you. Don't be afraid to confide in them and ask for their help.
>>6693273
I'm getting people responding to my kik on the Zeemaps, but that's only it. They initiate a conversation and leave.
Their pictures are always attractive girls' asses or pussies. So apparently spambots are messaging kik users now?
I thought that was something that only happened on skype. Fucking shame.
>>6693273
Do what I do when I want cuddles.
Get two pillows, or a body pillow and a regular, or a couch endpiece and a pillow. Squeeze them together with one hand, and lie face-first into them.
Pretend you're in a girl's breasts.
Pet your head and scratch behind your ears with the other, pretend it's her. Talk to her, and think her imaginary response back to you.
You'll feel better for a bit, and it seriously helped.
>>6693286
...unless you're a lost cause
>>6693323
That episode was cute.
>>6693347
If you're referring to my pic, I don't know what it's from.
>>6693347
What show?
>>6693359
>>6693360
Oshiete Galko-chan. It's not /gfd/ at all and that shota shows up for only one episode (the most recent episode) but it's pretty cute. A fun show overall too, and only 10 minutes per episode.
>>6692970
I got you senpai
>>6693308
It has never happened to me on skype. I've been on both maps for almost a year now.
>>6693407
Same here.
Hi guys.
Is this an active community?
I love gender role reversal.
I'm a male, but i have no problem if it's all males in here.. I don't care if it's all females either.
>>6693429
It's a dying community. Look elsewhere if you know what's good for you.
>>6693278
>>6693286
>>6693323
I don't really know what I should tell them. That I need time to heal and that I'll be away for a bit?
They know I care about their situation but I don't know if they care about mine? Like I literally haven't told them a thing about mine and it'd be a giant wall of text T_T would it just be emotional baggage?
>>6693429
Yeah, were still active. Mostly guys, but we have a few stray girls here and there. Be warned though, we've always been plagued with shitposting. Just don't try and take obvious bait, and be sure to post pics when you can.
>>6693450
Let them know. They can't help you unless they know whats going on. You just have to have a little faith. If they know you care for them then they'll feel the same for you.
Who /cake/ here?
>>6693469
cake? Does that mean men who cook?
>>6693451
that's my whole life.
we are breaking society's rules.
anyways, how are you today?
i might join this community a bit.
>>6693469
What kinda cake we talkin bout? Ive been wanting to bake something sweet.
>>6693532
I'm good. Street Fighter V came out, and its super fun.
>>6693528
Christmas Cakes.
It's a mostly defunct(I think) term in Japan for a woman that's single and is believed to be beyond her prime age for being courted. They're often portrayed as being quite endearing individuals.
>>6693522
I wouldn't want to be the owner of a group myself, but Discord is pretty self explanatory. There's also Slack or just IRC.
>>6693528
>>6693528
Christmas Cake: It's a derogatory term still very much in use in Japan and some other east Asian countries who have adopted it for any woman over the age of 25 who's single. The idea being that christmas cake is something that goes stale and no one wants it after the "25th".
People who use the term are people most self respecting women avoid if at all possible, for obvious reasons.
For those who /cake/
Something that was on /r9k/ a day or two ago
had to look in the archives to find it
>>6693595
>will never have this
;_;
>>6693469
Yes please!
Given the average age of marriage over here is ~32, weird japanese marriage standards don't really apply...
>>6693606
Oh hush. It's best to take the teasing in pride and get over it. Nothing's solved by being a sourpuss
>>6693286
i've never cried because of a post on 4chan before, but this made me legit tear up.
pc unrelated.
>>6693606
Well, hopefully you can find some comfort knowing that there are boys out there who love those kinds of women.
>>6693606
Christmas cake is obscenely sweet. Pretend it's a compliment, even if it's not.
>reminds self to try icing on breasts someday
>>6693606
Didn't mean any harm by it pic was just relevant and new to /gfd/ i think
>>6692807
I've always been kind of emotional, but I have to hide it. I've had a lot of time to myself lately, and I only browse /gfd/ when I'm alone, so I guess my answer is an indirect yes.
>>6693286
The second half of that pic is supposed to be passive-aggressive, right?
>>6693286
>Was disowned over a fight with useless shit brother and his girlfriend mistreating one of my sisters
No mate, this is bullshit.
>>6693576
>People who use the term are people most self respecting women avoid if at all possible, for obvious reasons.
Around the chans it's usually a term of endearment though. And experienced cakes go well with /gfd/.
>>6693643
did you have a seizure while typing this?
I guess I could be the male equivalent of a /cake/, then.
I'm still unsure what to do with my life. I'm good looking and smart, but that only gets you so far. You need to choose what kind of life you wish to pursue and, well, I get choice paralysis too easily.
And that is a HUGE turnoff in most circles. Most profiles tend to think of their ideal man as "driven" and goal-oriented. And I'm not sure I could be this without some pushing in the right direction.
And, as time goes on, my prospects seem even bleaker, as it's more acceptable for teens and younger adults to be confused about life.
My ultimate goal is to become a cyborg-shota.
>>6693670
>not loli cat girl
pleb
>>6693654
suqare up nerd
>>6693452
I just typed it, it's 600 words T_T
Today I will remind them.
>3:59am
Gonna be one of those nights.
>>6693606
They always seem very voluptuous and curvy. If I didn't know better, I would say /cake/ is essentially code for fat.
>>6693771
NOT LIKE THIS ANON
I CAN'T TAKE THE FEEL TRIP; I DIDN'T GET MY PERMISSION SLIP SIGNED PLZ
Subs,
which gfd (or FD) activities would you like to try?
>>6693771
Don't say that anon! Some girls really want to princess carry guys, so you will always have a chance.
>>6693786
pegging, cuddling, cross-dressing, bondage, cooking food for her.
>>6693786
Honestly pretty much any bdsm stuff is right up my all but gfd stuff: being the little spoon, laying in her lap, falling asleep on her shoulder, etc. I am a lonely person
>>6693794
Up my alley*
Bdsm stuff I guess choking, bondage, crossdressing, being slapped/spanked, gags
Also pegging. Pegging sounds fun
>>6693786
Cross-dressing, mainly. I also want to try petplay.
>>6693432
You're a dying community. The threads are doing just fine.
>>6693797
the feels
>>6693797
This.
I think it's funny that this is one of the most popular threads on /d/, yet every thread we have a bunch of faggots declaring it "the end of /gfd/".
We survived /r9k/. We survived /soc/. We survived the Nazi mod. We are doing fine.
>>6693786
not a sub but idc I'm gonna answer this.
I've always wanted to blindfold my sub. Haven't had the chance yet, though. maybe tie his hands up, too.
>>6693786
anything since i am so thirsty for love and attention haha
>>6693786
probably bondage + sensory deprivation, as far as the sexual stuff goes. that sort of thing has always terrified me, but i feel like i would enjoy it in the right context
just the general social aspects of role reversal are way more appealing to me though
>>6693786
I want to be tied up and fed. IDK why, I don't have a food fetish or an oral fixation or something, I just like the idea of being controlled like that.
>>6693786
I'll try most things. The only stipulations are that it can't be poly or leave permanent marks. I won't do scat too.
>>6693555
>>6693522
I wouldn't mind setting one up, as long as I didn't have to manage it all by myself
>>6693286
Heh, Earthbound was my favorite game for a long time.
Has anyone gotten a chance to play Fire Emblem Fates yet? Because. Rikah.
>>6693977
i wouldn't mind helping to manage it and i'm sure you'll find other people willing to as well as long as people don't get ridiculous and make it hard to manage
>>6693988
NO PET NO BUY
>>6693988
I got nohr because yandere Christmas cake
>>6693988
>>6693991
>>6694004
I'm waiting for the Undub+Fixed Translation, so that I don't have to deal with Treehouse memes or (lol
>>6693411
>>6693407
I've been spammed from /soc/ on skype. Why I stopped using it
Does anyone know of any stats that could get close to telling us what the proportion of women/men that are dom/sub/switch?
I know that's hard to do as people lie, but if anyone knows, I'd like to see those.
>>6694016
Unsourced table from thread on /pol/ of people tested, not surveyed.
Totting up the figures, while there's a ~50% capture rate for Almost always Maledoms/Femsubs, there's ALSO a ~25% capture rate for the reverse, Femdommes/Malesubs
Also yes, I know that the sample size is minimal.
>>6694021
Thanks Hiroshimoot
Anyone heard anything about that Valentine story?
>>6693129
Damn, my girlfriend did exactly that.
>>6693654
Sage his post for rule violation.
Against rules to post 'unintelligible' responses.
>>6693790
Yes please...
>>6693786
Amazon position, pegging and every vanilla thing under the sun
>>6694094
Man I want to meet someone like you in real life. I need to get pegged ;_;
>>6693595
Why do people want someone who's basically my mom?
>>6694169
People want to fuck your mom, Anon.
A lot of people.
>>6694171
*sigh* I know they do. Creepy guys are trying to hit her up constantly, and I have to tell them off for her.
>>6694174
Glad to hear you're good to her.
[spoiler]Is she good to you in return?[/spoiler]
>>6694180
Ha, didn't even think of things like that. Nah, though I have walked in on her doing lewd things before. We both just pretend like I didn't see anything, and now I make an effort to make louder footsteps when I go to her room.
Pretty sure she's straight too, all things considered.
I should really get my own place now that I think of it
>>6694183
I'm glad to have never walked in on my parents being lewd. Or at least, being really lewd. I apparently interrupted the start of something once.
>>6694188
I've only walked in on her doing lewd things with herself.
My parents got divorced when I was 4 and my dad disowned me when I was in high school, so it's just me and her.
>>6694190
That sucks to hear about your dad. My parents also got divorced, but it was on the gentler end. I was more happy to not have them screaming at each other all the time. They still get along well enough, though my stepmom seems terrified of my mom.
>>6694192
It's aight. I had definitely wanted to be as far away from him as possible, but custody laws where I lived meant that was his choice not mine.
All in all it was for the better, I was diagnosed with depression when I lived with him (he conveniently stopped believing in psychiatry at that point), and I've only gotten better since he kicked me out.
>>6693786
Not a sub, but orgasm control/denial.
Not sure if he'd be into it though.
Maybe it's not the right place to ask, but does anyone know of any good cheap sex toys for someone who likes pegging? Dildoing my own ass just doesn't seem quite right.
>>6694194
Well I'm glad to hear you're doing better then you were. Those sort of situations can suck, but it often ends for the best. I'm sure its only gonna get better for you from here on out.
>>6694205
Everyone I see posts saying someone is looking for a sub, I'm reminded that I'm not cute enough even though I fit the bill everywhere else.
>>6694213
>I'm not cute enough
Why do ya say that?
>>6694220
I'm overweight, clingy, and paranoid.
>>6694226
That can all be fixed.
Personally I wouldn't mind if you were a bit pudgy.
>>6694233
I'd ask for a contact, but you'd probably just get flooded with requests.
>>6694242
Different anon.
Are you on the Zeemaps?
If you aren't, make a post there.
Then she can check her area and if it works out, it will.
You should be posting pics, by the way.
>>6694249
I'm on both. I haven't gotten a single message from it. I honestly forgot until you said something.
>>6694233
Where are you from?
I fit all the above and not really afraid to reach out if you're looking, but i'm skinny with big hips instead
>>6693988
no. I should pick up fire emblem but since they removed GLORIOUS HEAD PATTING I just am.. so much less excited about it
I love you guys
>>6693786
Being princess carried
Being a (part time) househusbando
Cooking for her
[spoiler]Pompoir[/spoiler]
>>6693786
Blindfolding
Some light bondage like hand cuffs or other restraints. I don't like the sound of rope
Pegging
Orgasm denial and orgasm torture
Petplay but not extremely serious
Cuddling obviously
Roleplay
Taking long baths or showers together
Crossdressing could be fun too i think. I've had this fantasy of going out partying with a girl while dressed up as one and pretending to be her girlfriend but i dont know if i could pass.
Did anyone make the Discord/Skype channel?
>>6694299
Are there any subs in FF?
>>6694448
No.
Skype is an absolute no go if we want someone to actually use it.
And I'd really prefer using telegram over discord. Discord doesn't seem to have a native linux client. Has anyone used their mobile apps? Do they have full functionality or are they somehow limited? And I don't really want yet another shit tier gayming app to clutter my things.
Does anyone have any reason not to use telegram? If not I can make the group and set it all up.
>>6694470
I don't know about it but if you'd like to give it a go, feel free.
what is the skype group like? how do i get into it and would it be ok to just lurk mostly?
>>6694198
>good
>cheap
>sex toy
Pick two, mate. You don't want to cheap out of sex toys, you might end up with something that really injures you. Go with trusted brands that make body-safe products- Lovehoney is good on the cheaper end, and Aneros is one of the best names for effective prostate stim.
>ITT people arguing about which escape pod to take as the ship burns around them.
>>6693778
Yeah I thought it was a term for chubby or high test or whatever
>>6693606
I want to think that I'd own that term. I'm close to this Christmas cake age. It sounds sweeter than the term cougar, which I'm cool with being refered by as well.
It just seems like a really silly thing to get hung up on.
>>6694169
I mean who doesn't want somebody to take care of them and dote on them while being lewd as well?
>>6694470
Telegram is pretty awesome. I had a friend tell me about it and I'm a convert
>>6693606
In what context? I'm struggling to see how it could cause genuine offence.
>>6693786
Footjobs, verbal abuse, being forced to say things
>>6694603
http://nhentai.net/search/?q=shinooka+homare
Here's the artist that makes that comic. The usual sauce on her comics doesn't work for everyone.
>>6694547
>implying there's any escape
What happened to that forum anyway? The URL never found its way into the OP. Did it die off like the ate chan board?
>>6694616
It exists but it's dead since nobody bothers posting it in the OP.
>>6694570
It's a term that implies women are worthless after the age of 25. If you can't see how that is offensive, I don't think anyone here is qualified to help you.
>>6694625
I know exactly what it means originally, but I've literally never heard anyone use it in that context. Unless you're actually Japanese yourself, I see no reason to be offended. Non-Japanese men use it to mean 'hot older woman', not 'decrepit crone'. And isn't it kind of a fetish genre thing even in Japan?
>>6692995
source?
>tfw no gf to tell you to kneel
>>6694642
>gf tells you to kneel
>make fun of her for being so short she needs you to kneel
Wish me luck /gfd/!
>>6694654
>Tsundere dom
>"I-It's not like I want to protect you or anything, it's j-just that you're so weak!"
>>6693771
God the manga is boring
>>6694702
I think the last few chapters have been a bit on the boring side because the mangaka has been pretty ill. You also noticed she skipped a few months in publishing the manga.
>>6693786
My ideal partner is very mom-domme ish.
So im really interested in trying roleplaying as probably that top one id like to explore. After that follow up with pegging, spanking, and orgasm control. I enjoy working hard as a house husbando. The problem I have found is that most mommy doms dont want a Bara bara sub.
>>6694286
I'm this anon >>6694249
I'm from Twin Cities area. Sad, sad midwest area with next to nobody on this site around.
Why is the US so big...
>>6694723
>The problem I have found is that most mommy doms dont want a Bara bara sub.
Eh, we exist. I wouldn't say a nurturing woman who likes big guys is any harder to find than a big guy who likes to act cute and is emotionally available and willing to be looked after. Took me a good two years of active searching to find one, and that's despite absolutely maxing out the SMV scale.
>>6693786
Really I'd be down for anything. Pegging, bondage, orgasm control, and mild pain stuff come to mind first.
>>6694691
I laughed a lot harder than I rightfully should.
>>6694731
I know they are out there. I am nowhere close to giving up hope. I work hard. It will get noticed when the time is right.
>>6694741
What specifically are you looking for in terms of both person and relationship? Someone might be able to give you some good advice with a more specific idea of what you want.
Side note: I love this picture in particular. We call this 'boob time' and it's what we do when my qt's upset or stressing about something and I just want him to calm down so he can think about it rationally.
>>6694731
>a nurturing woman who likes big guys
Banette?
Okay so I've dealt with a lot of /gfd/ish ladies. Some kinda less gentle too, but that's not the main point. The main point is, I'm trying to figure out what's happening with my life and if this is an unusual thing.
Is it really common for women who work as ERTs to be, uh, /gfd/ish? Because I've met three women ERTs and all three of them are being very... Overt. One of them literally gave me a collar for Christmas, one of them is constantly referring to me as their pet, shit like that. Is there some sort of ERT femdom thing???
>>6694792
fucking, I meant EMT, ERTs are a different thing
>>6694792
I guess they have to be on top of the situation
>>6694749
That is a difficult question to answer quickly, especially because /gfd/ is a combination of those two, but I will give it a go.
As a person, I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in their own skin and upfront with what they want. Id prefer her to be older than myself and is comfortable with being a disciplinarian.
In a relationship I'm more looking for structure and control. I wouldnt be opposed to a full time thing, especially because my set of skills is largely based around taking care of a home. Also, one of my greatest pleasures comes from someone enjoying my food.
Besides, I think I look kinda cute in an apron.
>>6694792
Maybe it's the florence nightingale effect
>>6694799
Well that sounds like you're describing the average dominant woman on Fetlife to me, so it shouldn't be too hard at all if you get out to events and stuff. And a lot of dominant women in the groups I frequent say that they enjoy putting a much bigger guy in his place. So best of luck to you!
>>6694800
No it's not like that, these are people I know and met outside of the context of riding an ambulance. This is just "I know a lot of /gfd/ish ladies and an unreasonable number of them are also EMTs".
>>6694807
Really Fetlife? I've avoided that place due to the reputation I've heard from it. Honestly I'm not in a rush. I love me and I dont need anyone to make me feel worthwhile. Im sure that it will happen when it happens, especially with me finally getting the guts to go out to the BDSM TNG in a week.
>>6694809
Well you're just a lucky guy I guess
I met someone, guys! We fit each other so well on so many levels, and we're so naturally /rr/ that it doesn't feel forced or artificial at all, it's awesome.
This is more directed to the lonely oldfags from the early /r9k/ days, but: huge thanks to those of you who were so positive and supporting. I don't know if those anons are still around anymore, but you guys really helped me get over some rough patches.
There is DEFINITELY someone out there for you guys, you just have to keep working on yourself and keep hoping.
>>6694850
fcuk u
>>6694850
i'm glad your optimism finally paid off, anon. hopefully some of the rest of us can get there before we run out of it.
>>6694850
>There is DEFINITELY someone out there for you guys, you just have to keep working on yourself and keep hoping.
Thanks anon, i still believe in it even after years of looking. Where did you meet her by the way?
>>6694850
So glad to hear of your success! I wish the best for both of you!
>>6694865
luv u anon
>>6694873
>>6694877
Cheers, friends. The hardest thing was surviving the despair and hopelessness that a lot of you guys feel; if you do, there are definitely good things ahead.
>>6694874
It was a bit of an accident, I was at an art gallery and she ended up making some polite conversation with me about what we were looking at. We ended up talking about tastes in art (we loved the same things, which was odd considering we both have unusual tastes) and just talked from there. And even crazier, we had all this other shit in common, right down to our family backgrounds, it was rather uncanny. And the dynamic that emerged was definitely /rr/, although neither of us quite realized it at the time.
>>6694792
They have to be able to lift a lot and it's a male dominated field.
>>6694809
They could be total subs too.
> live in frozen northern hell hole
> laptop has been busted for two weeks
> incredibly lonely
> write the bar in a week
> trying to make gains but nerves mean I'm barely eating at level
Unrated, best lift to bridal carry a guy? I would think a power clean? My crush back home is 160lb so goals I guess.
>wants to lay in a women's lap, receive pets, and get those tendies
>has some pretty bad dandruff
Let's hope whatever /rr/ gf I get in the future likes snowflakes on her lap ;_;
>>6695120
>Not using anti-dandruff shampoo
If that doesn't work, contact your doctor. You might have some skin/hair condition that requires some extra strong stuff.
>>6695122
Most likely. I've been trying vanilla stuff like H&S and it's only hampered it, not gotten rid of it.
>>6695104
Feet shoulder-width apart, lift with the knees, smoothly, keep your back's natural curve.
160lb is a lot.
Keep in mind that where I work we're not even allowed to touch something 150 or over without help.
So I'd train a lot. Ass, leg, knee and arm muscle will all help.
>>6695125
Rub moisturizer into your head.
Maybe that'll help.
Even though being bridal carried isn't high on my list of things to do with a lady, I think I just realized something.
I'm going to either have to lose quite a few pounds or she's going to have to literally be Jennifer Walters for that to happen.
tfw have started walking to and from school and my weight has basically not changed
>>6695179
You just said that it's not high on your list. So why do you care?
Getting eaten out by a woman isn't high on my list either, even though I'd like that to happen. I'm not going to get a vagina installed through SRS to have it happen.
Hey guys, some advice please for a domme just starting out. While I'm more into pain/bondage followed by sweet, sweet aftercare, my qt boi is more into humiliation. While, obviously, there's a lot of overlap between the two, he recently agreed to carrying try out a rape scene which is probably one of my biggest fetishes and I really want to treat him to something that he'll enjoy... What's a thing/situation that appeals to the humiliation aspect of this, for those of you like to be humiliated and used?
>>6695226
personally, i like to be slapped and called degrading names. if you're pegging him, you could call him a fag or something like that. slut, whore, bitch are all good~
not sure what else, but i'm sure other anons have good ideas!
>>6693555
I never understood the term. Since when do people eat cake at Christmas and secondly, who cares that it's after Christmas, it's cake, you can still eat it.
>>6695232
thanks I'll definitely try it out, see how he reacts... how about spanking? As good humiliation wise?
>>6695255
i think spanking would probably be good humiliation! especially so if you do it as a punishment for something. maybe not during a rape scene since i'm not sure how to work that in without it feeling pigeonholed. good luck with your sub!
we need more dommes in the world ;w;
Where do you guys find your /rr/ images? Femdom stuff is frequently less sensual than I'm looking for. Also how hard is it to find fit women that are into /rr/ and femmy guys?
>>6695226
Obviously not gentle, but I would recommend hair pulling and spitting. Those both have a good degrading feel to them. Rough manhandling in general, just treating him like your bitch. If he doesn't mind pain, some smacking would be good. Name calling is a given. Something like making fun of his lack of masculinity.
Be sure to give him nice aftercare of course, and tell him he's a good boy afterwards. Don't want anything you do to get too deep in him.
>>6694730
Yeah Twin Cities represent! Here's hoping winter's been a bit gentler this year.
>>6695267
>hair pulling and spitting
fuck i can't believe i forgot about that. holy shit that's my favorite. i endorse this post wholeheartedly.
>>6695243
because Christmas cakes aren't sold after the 25th, and 25 is considered the cutoff age in Japan. They expect women to marry young over there.
>>6695263
I usually sift through gelbooru for pics. They have tags for 'femdom' 'assertive' 'role_reversal' etc. 'Femdom' has the most pics by far, and some may have what you're looking for, you just gotta go through em.
>>6694776
>Banette
>>6694850
Jet fuel can't melt hopes and dreams. Nice going Anon!
>>6695138
Yeah, I'm working up to it. Currently doing Strong Lifts and looking to graduate to an intermediate soon. Seeing him again this sunmer, so until then I guess it's squats and lots of tuna.
>>6695273
I get that, it's not like the cake is instantly rendered inedible. I always imagined it as someone waking up on Dec. 26th, seeing a perfectly good cake, picking it up, saying "well it's useless now", and then throwing it in the trash.
>>6695306
Welcome to the kooky world of Japan.
>>6695310
Thanks I'll be sure to enjoy my stay.
>>6694798
Carlos, I just clawed my eyes out.
>>6693786
Cuddles, bondage, watersports, cuddles, pegging, giving oral and rimming, cuddles, and cuddles.
>want to learn how to cook so that if I ever meet her I can cook tasty foods for her
>don't want to take classes
Have any of you been in this position? Is there a good set of books or an online resource I can use? /ck/ didn't have a sticky like I was hoping it would.
>>6695104
You'll need arms the most for bridal carrying someone. Carrying 160 lbs wouldn't be a problem if you could properly place that weight to your hips. However that isn't the case with bridal carry and you'll have to support their weight with your hands.
As to training just keep it balanced.
>>6695179
Losing weight is all about diet. Exercise helps but you won't lose weight no matter how much you exercise if you're still on an excess calorie intake.
>>6695362
Alton Brown
Basic and simple. Great to expand from.
>>6695369
Thanks anon! I'll check out his stuff.
>>6695362
>Figure out what you like to eat.
>Make it. Don't fuck around, just look up what you need and how you put it together and just make it.
>Fuck up doing it, eat it anyway.
>Make it again sometime later, fuck up less.
>Soon you will be good at it.
Cooking isn't hard. There are just a few things you get a sense of when you do it often enough, like when to flip meat or what spices work with something the way you like.
I learned to cook for myself but secretly I also wish a nice girl will like that I'm a good cook sometime.
>found a Dom
>she's gentle and motherly
>it's going well and then she just disappears and won't respond at all
;_;
>>6695179
>>6695368
And when I said diet I didn't mean any of the fancy eat this while not eating that diets. The whole diet industry is based on the diets not working for long term.
What you gotta do is change the way you eat for good, it's the only way you can get results that actually last. The easy part about this is that EVERYTHING is allowed. The hard part is that you gotta pay attention to what you eat and how much you eat it. Just eat less than your daily calorie expenditure is and you're guaranteed to lose weight. There are a few good and easy things that can get you started. Drop all sodas, replace them with water and drink lots of it. Start making your own food, fast food and microwave meals are full of shit and often have shitloads of calories.
To make your food tasty learn to use herbs, spices, veggies and fruits. If you don't have any of them all of your food will just be tasteless shit. Hate veggies over anything? Try to not overcook them into a mush, I'm pretty sure the number one reason so many people hate veggies is because they can't cook them properly.
>>6695481
Chad called he up for a quick fuck, she'll be back for you later. She's a dominant woman anon that means she's allowed to do what she wants without any commitment do maleshitlordpatriarchys, it's just normal. You'll be there for her when she wants a good guy after all her time having fun with bad guys, right?
So my date I was telling y'all about acted about how I expected. She stared quietly at me and then seeing that I was serious got up and left. She sent me a short "Please dont contact me again" text and that was it.
Man I just dont get it why is it that every girl that takes an interest in me always bounce out? I dont change anything about myself. I dont hide who and what I am. In fact most of the girls I date are attracted to me being on the subby and passive side. But the second I mention that I like cleaning and cooking its just over. They are just gone. Whats so sacrilegious about a man cleaning and cooking?
Oh well another one down hopefully the next one will be the charm.
>>6695504
That's exactly what I'm scared of. I can't handle being cheated on again.
>>6695513
I have that fear too, but I was just shitposting because I've been feeling shitty all week.
Everything will turn out fine.
R-Right?
>>6695519
I don't think so ;_;
