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My SO wants to take a break from sexual activity because she doesn't feel the connection when we have sex. She says that I don't do anything wrong, but can't fully articulate it other than saying that she is just not feeling it lately. I told her that this is an issue we can work through but she isn't sure about that and we're both pretty upset about the situation. On a different occasion she said "pay more attention to me" during sex, and I try but it doesn't seem like it's enough. Outside of the bedroom we are very close and have no other issues, but this issue is taking a heavy toll

Advice for a more intimate/affectionate/romantic experience?
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>>17131554
What is the length and circumference of your penis?

Also, it's really not rocket science my friend. You have youtube. You have google. You really can't do an internet search about videos and manuals to please women?

Really?

>"pay more attention to me"
How can this not be clearer? She wants you to want her. She wants you to touch her. She wants you to possibly talk to her and tell her she's a hot slut.
>pay more attention to me
.... .... I'm trying really hard to see how this can't be clear to you.
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Let me tell you something anon

As a femanon who's been working in the sexual health industry for years: girls need to put as much effort into cumming as guys put into making them cum.

Seriously, if she's feeling dissatisfied in bed its something you both need to work on.

How is your openness in the bedroom?
Do you talk about fantasies? Likes and dislikes of sexual activities? What's your floor play routine?
A good sexual relationship needs communication, only she knows what she's feeling and only she can communicate that to anyone.

One thing that always helps me get ready for receiving the most pleasure from sex that I can, is cumming clitorally before penetrative sex.
Maybe try to get her off and then jump into the normal routine

Sometimes some girls need more mental or emotional stimulation before sex, like roleplay or a loving gesture, to be certain of what your partner likes it needs to be communicated though.

Talk to her, look at the Kama sutra, watch porn together, buy sex toys together or just chat openly without judgment or fear, you'll find a common ground and once you do its easy to please a girl from there.
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>>17131569
Penis size matters not man
Unless you have a micro penis
But even at that, if you can eat pussy first and work the clit like a pro while you penetrate, you're golden man
Seriously
Most girls get very little from penetrative sex, you need to train your g-spot to have internal, good feelings from sex
Kegels exercise will help streghten the g-spot, same as masturbation focused on the g-spot for long periods of time (not in one fap session but in general)

It took me years but I'm to the point that my g-spot is more sensitive than my clit but it was a fucking effort and a half to get here.
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>>17131602
>Penis size matters not man
Please don't lie to yourself. Honestly. I have a big dick, don't lie to yourself. Penis size absolutely matters. The thing is that vaginas are not "one size fits all." In reality vaginas are all different sizes too. So the real trick is to find someone you fit well with.

Also, all of your advice about your vagina "most women don't cum" blah blah blah - that's all you, and I can from your advice that you haven't really had a skilled lover with an above average penis.
>Most girls get very little from penetrative sex,
Because most men don't know how to find the right spots in a woman's vagina with their penises.

So most men are like 5 inches and don't know wtf they're doing with it. Is it any surprise to you that men who don't know what they're doing and don't have above average dicks can't really make most women cum? Duh.

My current girlfriend doesn't cum to penetration alone either unless the guy has a big dick. She's confirmed this - she HAS TO HAVE a dick long enough to reach this one spot in the back of her vagina near her cervix or she doesn't cum to penetration.

So every boy before me got the
>oh it's not you:
>Most girls get very little from penetrative sex
but in reality their dicks just weren't big enough to hit the right spot.
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>>17131629
Man you are sadly mistaken
Seriously
First off, girls cervix's are sensitive as fuck, most girls get sever pain when you touch their cervix. The cervix is the pain center of cramps actually. What causes girls the bulk of cramps during their cycle is pushing thick mucus through the cervix, cervix play is a fetish though and your girl may be into it.
Also, a woman's g-spot is located about 2 inches in the vagina on the upper wall, give or take its the inside equivalent to where the clit is on the outside.
There's nor much feeling pass this area.

Having a big penis does not make you good at sex at all
I've had sex with men with big and small penises, I've also had different sizes and girths of dildos, if a girl isn't turned on and into the sex she won't cum, size really doesn't matter.
She can fake cum though. There's a difference.

Some girls love big dicks, its a fetish
Not every girl does, in fact most girls don't.
Past where the g-spot is located in the vagina has little feeling and no pleasure
Same as anal for girls, contrary to porn, girls get no pleasure from anal as there's nothing in girls butts that make them feel good.

As a girl and someone who's worked with girls in the sex industry for over 5 years, I can tell any man with confidence; if he learns what gets HIS (not every, as every girl is different) girl off and focuses on it, then she'll consider him a good sexual partner no matter what his dick size is.

Personally the best sex I've had hasn't even been penetrative.
I love foreplay, the actual penetrative part of sex for me is the end where we both finish and pass out from exhaustion
But that's my preference,
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>>17131629
Most girls love the clitoral stimulation, as; like I said in my first post, girls need to train their g-spots to get enjoyment from sex. Kegels and stimulation are good for this.

If you have a big dick and that's what your girlfriend needs, fucking awesome you're a great match! But every girl likes something different and communication plays such a big role in what that something is, and how he can fulfill it.
Telling a guy he can't please a girl based on dick size is bullshit though
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>>17131691
>>17131693
I didn't say he couldn't please her, I said size matters. You can read right? What does this say:
>Penis size absolutely matters. The thing is that vaginas are not "one size fits all." In reality vaginas are all different sizes too. So the real trick is to find someone you fit well with.
If you're in school, switch schools. They aren't teaching you how to read.
>Having a big penis does not make you good at sex at all
But having a big penis AND being good at sex does.

Either way, enjoy lying to yourself that size doesn't matter. It does. You know it. I know it. My penis knows it. But hey, you can lie to yourself if you want to.
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imo penis size doesn't matter unless you are far out of the normal range. In my experience this isn't really a meaningful factor in most women's sexual experiences. The emotion, passion, connection, and romantic aspects of sex are what the majority of women are focused on.
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