getting back to the dating game, but only problem is i dont know how i should go about when to tell whoever im on a date with that i have a 3 year old son. should i be direct about it or a few dates in? anyone know how to go about it?
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I will guess you're at least in your mid-20s and will be dating women about your age.
They know they're not going to be meeting many virgins out there and that the men they date will have some history - divorce or something.
So your son won't be as big a shock as he might be to a 17 year old girl. Meanwhile, being a single father suggests maturity, responsibility and caring that many women will find attractive.
So, while I wouldn't suggest introducing yourself as "Hi. I'm Anon. I have a son" there is no reason why it shouldn't come up in the first meeting.
Depends on if you are male or female.
If you are a black male and dating some sheboon its not a problem, the country is littered with niglets with no parents and i imagine she has a brace herself.
If you are a white respectable male and the kid is looked after then its no real problem, if you are a loser then its a future problem.
If you are a white female with a kid, depends on how it happened etc, and what sort of background you have.
If you are a white female with a half black kid, then forgetaboutit. No respectable white alpha will touch you with a barge pole.
It all depends you see, you need to give us more information.
