How do I meet other young people my age (22,23) after college? Should I move to a city? It feels like all rural/suburban areas are just a dead end for singles.
Even in an urban setting, you can't make "meeting people" your top priority. It can work in a city but you're going to end up around desperately lonely people who are probably alone for good reasons.
The best way to meet people as a young adult is to first establish your lifestyle as a young adult. You have the opportunity (albeit not always the resources of time, money, etc.) to explore ideas and find out what sorts of stuff you really enjoy. You could spend the next decade just trying new things without ever having to settle down into a routine with any of them. There's that much out there. Now I'm talking in general terms; in rural areas there might indeed not be all that much available to you. It's up to you to milk the most you can from your setting and then make a move when you're ready for more. But you need to get to living--really living--before you add the company of other people. Not only will that provide the substance for the time you spend with these people, it'll let you cross paths with them in the first place. You want to meet people with a similarly active mindset. Those people are much better than those who socialize for the sake of socializing.
Yes. Move to a city. Then sign up on dating sites and tinder. Also go to events on meetup.com.
I want to kick this photoshopped simpering bitch in the face.
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Not OP, this is a hijacking
What if meeting people is the only priority that makes sense to me? I don't really care about what I do for money, I don't really care what experiences I could have alone; the people in my life are more important and I'm willing to alter my life path to stay with people I like.
