So this isn't normally someplace I'd go, but this would be offtopic on my home board and I know this person browses there, so this is the only place I can think of to ask for advice.
>Playing ERP game online
>For those of you that don't know, ERP is Erotic Role Playing. In this case, it's lewd games of Dungeons and Dragons, Shadowrun, Exalted, tabletop game like that.
>Join a group, meet with this person. We'll call them S.
>End up meeting up with S by coincidence in a couple other lewd games, including one they're running.
>Become good friends with S, simply because we keep bumping into each other by chance. I guess the gamefinder threads on /tg/ only have so many people looking for lewd games.
>Have S added on skype, never talk through voice though because last thing anyone wants to hear is the husky male voice of the player that's been playing a busty sorceress for the past couple months. Yes I'm aware how lame that sounds, shut up.
>Only communicate via text as a result
>S starts to get a little closer than most ERP players would. Wants to do some on-the-side stuff for fantasies that wouldn't fit into the games we're in together, and tells me to let them know if there's anything lewd I'm interested in.
>After setting up something for petplay there, says, quote, "Can't wait to be your subby slut <3"
>Starts casually mentioning when they're masturbating, something not really normal even in ERP games. Recently made a joke about how something they said was 2lewd, they said "Noooo, 2lewd would be like..." -S brushes their cheek against your thigh, before slowly taking your zipper between their teeth-
>This is not in-game, mind you. This is in casual conversation on skype
>Confused on how to react.
>>16951975
Now, let me say first off that I am straight. Knowing that the person you're roleplaying with might be a dude in real life kind of comes with the territory of ERP, but the idea is that so long as no one says they're a guy/girl IRL, you don't pay it any mind and just fap to the character, not the person playing the character. With S starting to act like this though, I'm a little confused how to react. Not because I'm questioning my sexuality, I know for a fact I'm straight. Why I'm confused, is because I'm starting to think S might actually be a girl. Here's the reasons why:
>S has always played a girl every time I've played with them, with the exception of when they were GMing, but that's because my character was the only guy in the group and S needed to give the others something to get off to as well.
>S has always played submissive characters. Their fetishes, as I've been told by them, include rape, mind break, breeding, maledom, loli as well as shota, petplay, and a whole lot of other things to that effect. Might or might not also be into bestiality, that one I'm not sure on.
>Has actively said they don't enjoy femdom. Says it doesn't do anything for them. Also mentioned they don't really care for yuri (lesbian stuff for non-weebs), though they never said anything about yaoi (gay stuff).
>Has said they like both muscular men and leaner, more effeminate men. No matter the body type though, wants them to be dominant.
>Noticeably didn't use gender-specific pronouns when referring to themselves in that lewd skype message mentioned above.
Now, with that all in mind, part of me thinks S might actually be a girl. The reasons for this is:
>Rape is one of the most common sexual fantasies for girls.
>Doesn't like lesbian stuff.
>Likes both loli and shota, which means they probably just like that body-type in general regardless of gender.
>That slut comment mentioned above. Can't really see a guy calling himself a "subby slut" but maybe I'm wrong.
>>16951981
So, right now I'm not sure if S is just a girl who likes dominant men, or a bisexual man that wants to dominate women while having his pooper plundered. You can imagine why I'm a little uncomfortable here and not sure how to proceed. Thus, why I'm here asking which you guys think it is. Would it actually be rude to ask them if they're a guy or a girl? If I do and S says they're a guy, how do I respond without being rude or awkward? If they are a guy, how do I let them know I'm not interested outside of the game?
Weird as fuck scenario and question, I know. If it was normal I wouldn't be asking anons on the internet for advice. My posts are kind of a clusterfuck too because I had no idea how to go about posting this, so I can elaborate anywhere if needed.
