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2016-03-23 19:27:27 Post No. 16949625
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2016-03-23 19:27:27
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basically I went out with this girl on st paddy's day and had a great time, slept with her the same night and called in sick the next morning. Friday night, went out for a late dinner and slept over again, no sex. woke up, spent all of Saturday with her, vegging out, watching shows, cuddling on the couch, getting to know each other, pretty much with a beer in hand the entire day. went home that night cause one of her girl friends needed to talk to her.
so I left thinking "wow she's actually a cool chick, this might go somewhere" but I didn't wanna seem to eager so I waited until Sunday night to shoot her a text, plus I knew she was working that night (pharm tech). I asked how's work, and got some pretty dry responses like "it's good". ever since then I've always had to initiate the texting conversation, and while she did respond, it never seemed like she wanted to keep a conversation going. I'm not really used to limited text interaction so I'm not sure if she's just lost interest, or just a really bad texter. she's not too electronically savvy (doesn't even own a computer) so I'm thinking she's not too big on texting.
eventually I asked her out again for taco tuesday, but said that her friend needed her and that she'll just hit me up when she's free later this week. should I just not contact her until (if ever) she texts me? I've made it pretty clear that I'm interested, but so far since I last saw her, there hasn't been indication that those feelings are reciprocated. I don't want her to think that I've lost interest if I don't contact her over a period of time, but at the same time I don't really wanna put in the effort if it turns out that she's not interested already. kinda just wanna see this from a different angle.