>Me messaging a chick:
Hi there!
How's it going?
Doing anything this weekend?
>Her:
Hi!
I am great
How are you?
Yes, I work for the Colombian Embassy, and we are going to do a huge party, the next Sunday
Is she saying no or what? Why do I say?
Inb4 aspergers, I have social anxiety and shit
Stop being a twat and just carry on talkig with her you aspegers ridden pumpkin
She's told you she's doing something this weekend, so she's answered your question. You made the critical error of asking if she had plans without following it up with a suggestion for her. Depending on how well you know her you could follow it up with something along the lines of 'if you have any spare time you should grab a coffee with me.'
It's imperative that you phrase it in such a way, not softly offering like 'would you like to do something?' where she has the option. Make it seem like you're doing her a favour, basically.
Ps. Kudos if she's Colombian, their females are the hottest of the hot imho family.
