I'm 20 and one night stands and pulling girls at night-clubs just doesn't do it for me anymore. It feels nice to kiss them, feel them up and everything but it feels empty at the same time, I don't want to speak to them the next day and just feel like a piece of shit.
I think I want a proper girlfriend but I don't know how to get around that since I've never had one. The girl who I actually liked properly but who never reciprocated my advances and just in general felt like she was too good for me also recently got herself a boyfriend which despite everything made me kinda upset and caused me to rethink a lot of things.
Where do I go from here if I want a fulfilling relationship that will make me happy?
just bee yourself
>>17368908
>I'm 20 and one night stands and pulling girls at night-clubs just doesn't do it for me anymore.
Congratulations, kiddo, you're an adult now.
>>17368908
>I think I want a proper girlfriend
Yep, that's your goal.
>The girl who I actually liked properly but who never reciprocated my advances
She was never interested, she never will be. Accept that fact.
>Where do I go from here if I want a fulfilling relationship that will make me happy?
By putting your effort in reaching the goal instead of wasting it on someone who will not help to reach that goal. Join a dating site for proper folk (no Tinder), start working out, buy yourself a sharp shirt and jeans, and learn how to talk to people as if they are normal, breathing, human beings.
Once you get a proper girlfriend, you will forget about the girl who never reciprocated. You will shrug and ask what the fuzz was all about.
Thanks man, I did already accept that she never was into me, and I was never in the running, but it did take a while to completely come to terms with.
I have went back to gym recently too, somehow I was very motivated, probably to help me take my mind of the girl.
Where do I go from here though? Where do I meet girls? Don't really wanna date within my friend circle and not sure where to meet other girls? I usually met them at clubs/raves etc. but I don't think I really want one of them as a gf.
