Is it worth losing your virginity to an escort?
What are some recommended precautions I should take?
>inb4don'tgoforanescort
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I usually Google their phone numbers and try to find additional ads and reviews of their services.
It's not worth it Tbh
i lost my virginity to a street worker prostitute, wasnt worth it at all.
I did tried an escort once, it was honestly better, if you find the right one it will be the same as a one night stand with a hot girl that make everything for you to feel good.
your call, mate.
Having been really bored and while I was single, I slept with a 2 hookers. They are fun, it's easy to get your fantasies played out on them. BUT. Do note, they're pictures are 90% catfished.
I went to a escorts hotel, expecting a decent looking Latina chick, only to be greeted by a fat , short white bitch. I walked in as she just simply said "door is open". And when I saw her, she instantly went for the door to close and told me to put the "donation". I told her no and she tried to get money for "waiting her time". Literally pulled my knife on her to get the fuck outta the way, as she wouldn't let me leave.
Long story short, be prepared they will most likely not be what the pictures look like. If you're going to go thru with it, know that it's okay for you to dip out, if you look at her and she's ugly as fuck, just leave. If you do it, spend your money on someone hit not a typical whore dumpster girl.
ALWAYS WRAP.
>>17367230
>Is it worth losing your virginity to an escort?
>inb4don'tgoforanescort
????
Also OP can't inb4
>>17367241
This
It really just depends. I lost my virginity to an escort and it wasn't all I was expecting.
>little less than average face
>saggy tits
>her snatch smelled really fishy
>when fucking, the sensitivity wasn't all that great (partially because of the condom)
>didn't cum
I feel a person should lose it to someone special so it puts more meaning and sensitivity into sex and makes it a lot more enjoyable. I couldn't fulfill my fantasies with the escort because she was full of skank.
>>17367267
This also, Pic was skinny girl with decent body and I got some ugly chick with more sag than burlap sack
>>17367230
losing your virginity to an escort is no different than if it's a "normal" girl.
you realize sex is really boring if it's not with someone you actually like.
Sex is sex at the end of the day, if you're looking to just experience for the first time, YOLO. Up to you. The only time it will be "special" is when it's with that special girl. All the other times are just to let loose and enjoy yourself.
As said earlier, don't be afraid to leave as soon as u meet her and realize how ugly she is. Always wrap.
Just know you'll feel regret.
If you really can't wait to find a fuck buddy, then go for the hooker/escort.
>>17367230
do it if you want, but it far from guarantees that you'll be a new and improved person afterwards (and down a few Benjamins)
>>17367230
If you really want to make it with an escort and make it unique. Go to the store and buy massage oil. Use it for your session. Itd give you the chance to get to know the escort. And also to see any visual signs of warts. Genital herpes. Track marks from injecting/sharing potentially HIV infected needles. When all feels right simply wrap up with a condom and pound away as if you own her ass and i guarantee you will come out a new man.
A sick fuck would tell you to get the mini lip balm vaseline brand and rub that all over your cock head prior to even driving out to see your escort.
Im no sick fuck.
Be careful of dangers.
Personally if i were you. (Assuming you dont have coldsores/herpes) id just continue to pick up girls at church. So long as your not spreading herpes. ALL of your fucks will be happy.
You've got to vet them. Independent operators are a better chance than brothels, for instance. Find reviews online from their other customers, see what kind of reputation they have.
It's different here in Australia. Prostitution is legal and hookers here have social media profiles, websites etc. advertising themselves.
>>17367230
>Is it worth losing your virginity to an escort?
This seems to be a gamble. Judging from the people who mention it here, you are more likely to regret it than not. But some people do seem ti find it worthwhile.
>>17367300
>Sex is sex at the end of the day, if you're looking to just experience for the first time, YOLO. Up to you. The only time it will be "special" is when it's with that special girl. All the other times are just to let loose and enjoy yourself.
Can't speak for the OP, but isn't the usual reasoning for this to get some experience under your belt? For when you're a virgin at an embarrassingly old age (depending on whom you ask could be as early as 18).
>>17367891
OP here.
I'm 27
>this thread again
Asking if it's worth losing your virginity to an escort is like asking if it's worth losing your virginity to a Fleshlight.
>>17368048
Fuck off stupid femcunt.
>>17368051
You bet, bud. But before I go, would you care to educate me on how many people you know who would be impressed with you saying, "Sure, I USED to be a loser that no woman would willingly touch, but THEN I paid for hooker sex and now I'm a real man!"
Ive known escorts. Theyre okay, and will get you off for sure...It depends whether or not you value your first time or first sexual relationship
>>17368012
>OP here.
>I'm 27
Then you have bigger problems than simply still being a virgin. I mean hell, by now you should have had at least one relationship with a woman who actually wanted to fuck you just to satisfy her own base urges. And that should have taken care of it.
>>17368069
I don't.
I just want to get that lumbering fact that I'm still a virgin off my chest.
>>17367230
Good ain't cheap. Cheap ain't good. Save up and get yourself somethin nice.
I did it at age of 20. Biggest positive thing was that sex lost all of the false hype that has been built up in my head. Essentially I stopped caring.
>>17367230
I feel like you don't really lose it when you use a hooker because you basically have to use a condom when using a hooker and condoms don't count as actual sex because there is a literal physical barrier inbetween your dick and her pussy
I've always figured if I decide to just say fuck it and get a hooker I'll get a high dollar one and bring same day STD test proof that I'm totally clean to back up me saying I'm a virgin so that I can do it bareback
I really truly feel like condoms must just totally ruin all sensation
>>17368173
They don't. Or shouldn't, unless you're masturbating wrong or something.
Also, if you're going to insist that only bareback vaginal sex "counts", you're basically saying that a lesbian who fucks anything with tits and regularly has orgies with multiple anonymous partners is also a virgin. Shit's illogical. Virginity is a state of mind, not of body.
If you can afford a high end escort then do it.
If you can only afford a street whore then don't.
I wouldn't do it, at least that way you have no idea if you're missing out on something you would enjoy.
If you pay for and enjoy it you'll be like
>Wow sex is the best I want more of that.
>Oh wait it'll cost me $150 a time.
>Damn maybe next payday if I save up?
>>17368067
What you don't understand is that men pay for sex all the time. They pay their way in with dates and gifts and all kinds of other "romantic" garbage. Really no different; arguably worse. Being a human with a vagina you're not really sure of what it's like to struggle with celibacy so not only is your comment beyond ignorant, it's expected.
Depends on your country, is prostitution legal for you?
>>17367230
Wrap it up paying for it up front is no different than spending time and money wooing a girl to fuck.
Yes it is.
The confidence boost that you ll get from knowing what to do if a possible sec happening occurs will help you not choke your chances.
Simple precautions like , dont take the condom off ever.
Also IDK if you kinky or not boyy but i wouldn't put my mouth anywhere close to her vag/ass/mouth because of how many customers she could ha ve previous days she might be carrying something. Might be just a common cold but, why bother.
Another precaution would be to not go to the cheapest one available. Besides its your first time you dont want it to be 100% ruined.
>>17367230
>giving whores your hard earn money
>>17368701
escorts are a hell of a lot more expensive
unless you're getting the cheapest deal possible,
it's almost definitely cheaper to get a real chick
each date would cost approx $40-60
assuming you fuck on the second / third date, thats between $80 and $120,
also better value cus you're not on the clock
(if u don't cum in next ereven seconds, u mus pay nother 100 dora)
>>17369073
between $80 and $180 *
assuming expensive restaurant,
and you managed to pick one of the few girls who makes you wait till the third date
>>17367230
>worth
Newsflash: Ascribing value to having fucked someone makes you pathetic. Probably has something to do with you never having had a girlfriend as well.
if you message enough girls on tinder, you'll eventually find at least one that is willing to come to your apartment for a "date"
all you need is a couple bottles of wine, a condom, and lack of humility in order to message tons of girls without caring
>>17368680
>Really no different
Actually it's completely different.
If you can afford it and it's legal in your country, go for it.
No matter what you do, even if you stick your 3 incher into an escort, you'll still be the loser you are today. You won't improve in life cause you think everything can be bought. You won't want to improve your social skills, or know how to talk to women cause in the back of your mind you'll just think, "Oh I can just hire Cindy from backpage for 2 hours instead of whacking off tonight"...People in here telling you that it will get easier to now talk to girls cause you're not technically a virgin are flat out lying to you.
>>17369135
part of the nervousness when approaching a girl
would be the thought in the back of your head
"I will embarrass myself even if I do get this girl into bed"
if he hires an escort to teach him how to be a good / dominant / confident lover
he will feel more experienced and have more skill as a result
my dad offered to hire me one but I declined because it didnt feel necessary
but it may be for him
>>17369157
>part of the nervousness when approaching a girl
>would be the thought in the back of your head
No. A big part of the nervousness is us men value our egoes a lot and fear rejection. Women think more based on their intuition other than logic which is what us men rely on most of them. Logically we will think there's no reason for this woman to reject us.
Hiring an escort to make you good in bed is just about the dumbest argument you can make. If you can get a girl to want to take off her clothes for you then you needn't not worry that she'll ditch you if you're not James Dean or whoever. If she does, then that tells you what kind of woman she is, and you're much better off without her. Not all women are wired to like the same things in bed, sleeping with an escort who has experience with all kinds of men won't prepare you for all the women in the world out there who have differing preferences for what they like.
>>17369175
yeah but if deep down we know we'll be shit in bed, we won't have a strong ego
learning basic sex techniques will make you feel a lot closer to a sex god than you were before
also once you're past the stage of nervousness in bed, you can adapt your techniques to suit the woman
>Not all women are wired to like the same things in bed
true, but someone who has no experience with sex and is awkward the first few times will still improve
and he can be taught several techniques of foreplay / cunnilingus, most of which generally apply
