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2016-07-17 17:50:56
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Okay, so I have a group of friends and within this group is this girl I kinda fancy. She isn't too part of the group, she doesn't attend too many events, hangouts, etc.
Here is the basic timeline, met her about 4 months ago, my friends added her to our groupme app. I started to make it a meme saying that I loved her, and she breaks my heart. Then I find out she has a bf, I still continue my meme, and create a separate groupme that included only her and I as a joke. She breaks up with her bf, then on this group she begins to message me,s tarted off as drunk texts and from there we text 24/7 without skipping a beat. Started off as jokes about how I loved her. She eventually tells me she broke it with her bf, then I begin to get to know her then we are at party she gets sloppy drunk and hooks up with me a bit. Repeat that a few times, still no sex though. Then we actually go see a movie together a couple times and hangout for few hours. See her maybe once or twice a week. This leads to last night.
A little bit about her, she's super hippy/bar type girl. So she goes out a lot.
So, last night I go with my friend to a bar really late. I text her that I'm there. She's drunk, I see guys talking her up, this throws me off really badly, felt somewhat hurt. She eventually sees me, then changes her attention all to me but she's drunk and I didn't enjoy that. Then I pay my tab and wait for her but she's busy with her friends and I see her hanging with her ex. I just leave, she drunk texts me that night to make sure I was safe didn't respond. Next day she brings it up about the awkwardness, I say I didn't notice but wanted to know more about what she was talking about. She refuses to talk about it, I ignore her, she says she misses me and now realizes she likes more than she thought. This started a conflict in me, was originally going to end it with slowly bailing. Now I want to stick around but I don't trust my judgment.
Need advice on what to do.