bf hasn't texted me back since 940
it's 1240am?
he went to the casino with his mom I guess he said. he hasn't texted me back since he got there at 940. it's like 1240am which I think it's weird he hasn't texted me and I texted him like three times "hi?" "babe?" ":/"
should I call and see if he answers or see if his phone is off? he usually just plays poker when he goes there and texts me. I'm feeling really anxious.
should I do nothing and go to bed? but if I don't get a text till the morning or worse later.. I'm just gonna feel so awful.:/ should I call? what if he doesn't answer and his phone is off? ;( I just think bad things thinfs
Aww
>>17358839
whateve I'm calling I hope he answers even tho I'm gonna seem needy/obsessed bc im usuall alsepe by now so I obviously stayed awake because of him
waiting for a text :x
I'm legit scared to call becaus I feel like it makes me seem controlling .. but what if he doesn't answer or his phone is off :x I'll proba freak out really bad
>>17358844
>I feel like it makes me seem controlling
That's because it fucking does.
Go to bed.
I just called and he didn't answer. wow. he better have a really
good fucking excuse tomorrow...
>>17358839
>should I do nothing and go to bed? but if I don't get a text till the morning or worse later.. I'm just gonna feel so awful.:/ should I call? what if he doesn't answer and his phone is off? ;( I just think bad things thinfs
erm...
not to sound condescending... but...
how old are you guys and how old is this relationship...
because to be quite frank... this is not really a normal amount of needy in an adult relationship.
If you're young and inexperienced... ok maybe that's kind of understandable... but otherwise you may need to reasses some things in your life to see why you seem to be so dependent
>>17358847
okay but it's creepy, go to a casino in another state and disappear for the while
night? he's staying there in a hotel . sorry but that's not
cool . at all. if he doesn't answer me by like 130 I'm going to assume the worse. if I don't get a text till tomorrow I'm going to assume the worst worst worst :/
>>17358850
okay but he's in another
state sleeping at a hotel at a casino (and he's awake playing poker right now.. is the story)
normally i wouldn't be this needy but since its past midnight and he's sleeping at a hotel in another state and he usually answers his phone, I'm kinda concerned.
>>17358852
Dawww you're being so cuteee look at your little faces!
honestly if I don't get a text till tomorrow I'm gonna think he's cheatig on me .. or feel like shit and not wanna talk to him
helpp:; what if he doesn't answer till tomorrow wtf should I think...
Um, OK, you're coming off a bit too... obsessive? Not sure what word I'm looking for. Either way, you seriously gotta chill for a sec. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt, at least. Just relax, go to sleep, and he'll probably get back to you tomorrow and let you know what was up.
Can't say I know the guy, so I don't know that your line of thought isn't justified, but from my point of view, you're jumping to a lot of conclusions.
>>17358874
I know but he never just disappears like this usually If is Unreachable its bc he sleeping and I'm 110% sure he's not sleeping he's never disappeared for the whole night like this j thought he would get back to me eventually but it's 1am now I don't think I'll be able to
sleep I feel like crying
and I don't really think he hasn't looked at his phone for almost 4 hours ..
God damn 3 hours without a text and you're already freaking out? Maybe he's busy playing poker or something
>>17358886
it's been almost 4 hours, and I wouldn't care except that it's late at night , and when he plays poker he uses his phone. so if he was I feel like he would text me (that's wahr he usually does. he never disappears when he plays poker)
I'm also kinda scared thT somethng bad happened
>>17358889
Nothing you can do but wait
>>17358892
:( I'm worried that something bad happened or he met someone and cheated on me
>>17358894
What exactly are you hoping to hear?
>>17358901
I have no idea. this just isn't fair :'(
I really can't do this. If he doesn't text me back tilll
tomorrow I'm just going to feel so bad and think the worst things ..
oh well. :/ I guess there's nothing I can do but just see what happens I guess. :/
I'm actually crying right now this sucks..
>>17358880
I really don't know what to say. Honestly, there's nothing you can do about it so there's no sense worrying so much about it right now. There are an infinite number of reasons why he hasn't gotten back to you. Just go to bed and wait for him to eventually get back to you. There's nothing else to do.
>>17358921
I know. I'm just worried and I feel uneasy...
and it just sucks becaus even if he contacts me if he doesn't until tomorrow, like idk if I should even believe what he tells me...that's why I'm worried too.
>>17358919
>OH MY GOD ITS BEEN FOUR HOURS SINCE I'VE TALKED TO MY BOYFRIEND I'M GONNA DIE
you are pathetic
>>17358905
>>17358912
>>17358919
Does your bf know you're this clingy?
>>17358931
no. idc about that. he's staying at a hotel at a casino. there's drunk girls there. he disappeared at 930 and its 130am. when he goes to play poker, he responds to me right away bc he has time in between hands. and he uses his phone. I don't really believe he hasn't checked it for four hours. if he doesnt get back to me by the a couple hours I probably won't believe his excuse :/
>>17358941
man if I had a girlfriend so fucking suspicious and needy that she automatically assumed I was cheating on her when I went out with my mom I'd fucking cheat on you too.
>>17358941
>. if he doesnt get back to me by the a couple hours I probably won't believe his excuse :/
Break up with him. Your relationship sounds extremely bad
>>17358959
why does it sound bad ?
>>17358964
Because you're clingy as fuck and already admitted that even if he has a valid reason for not texting you, you aren't going to believe him. If I had a gf like that I'd feel more like a prisoner than anything. And it's clear you don't trust him because theres drunk girls there and you believe he has an inability to say no
I just wanna go to sleep but I can't fall asleep . fuxk. and if there's no text when I wake up I will panick
>>17358968
not really but I know how guys are and most of them cheat when given an opportunity
and yah idk.
>>17358974
youre afwul OP. please show your bf this thread when he comes back so he can see your real jealous self and break up while he can.
>>17358974
You are not ready for a relationship, and it sounds like you are projecting.
>>17358974
How old are you? Just curious
>>17359016
Also, how long have you been together?
>>17358974
Wtf? Some huge generalization there buddy.
You choose your mates poorly so you get cheated on easy. Don't blame it on being a male, you sound just like a mentally retarded feminist. Women cheat too, don't forget that.
hey, i've got some anxiety issues and when my bf doesn't respond i also end up worrying myself sick. it's ok!
take some deep breaths and try to go to sleep, i'm sure he's fine and safe. maybe his phone died, or whatever.
that said, it's not fair to him to be suspicious. if you don't fully trust him even when you're feeling anxious, there is most likely a problem there that you should address..
>>17359054
> if you don't fully trust him even when you're feeling anxious, there is most likely a problem there that you should address..
This. I get really jealous when my girlfriend hangs out with other dudes, and it makes me really anxious, but I trust her more than anyone and know she won't do anything stupid. I don't trust the other guys, but I trust her enough to be able to say no
>>17358839
Maybe he wants a little break from having to text you 24/7? Why cant he go one night without messaging you to keep you updated on his every move, sometimes people just like to leave there phone in their pocket and actually enjoy what theyre doing.
You WILL ruin your relationship if you continue acting like this, just know this, for a fact, no one in this world can handle someone as clingy/suspicious and demanding as you, eventually they will resent you and YOU will be the reason they cheat/break up with you.
Get some friends, get some hobbies and get your own life that isnt invested 100% in your boyfriends, if you want to keep him around you have to do this.
He probably just doesn't like you or something. My gf would always respond in a timely manner because she loves me.
>>17358974
You just said he's with his mom...?
Kind of wierd to be cheating when she's present?
Calm the fuck down. If you keep up with this "txt me everyday" bs, your relationship will go down the shitter. There will be days where people close to you won't txt you back, get used to it.
i was in a relationship like this where you would have been my girlfriend
I hated it, you should break up
>>17359117
Haha you fucker adding fire to the already burned house
Op, your boyfriend saw all you texts and just thought "holy shit can't I be quiet for one fucking minute omg I'm with my mom why does my gf has to be like this I can't stand it anymore".
I can understand why he is cheating on you right now. If I was him I would kill myself if I was going out with you . I just speak the truth....
