long story short, back in March I discovered my girlfriend of a year (probably the only girl I ever truly loved and the only one I see myself marrying) cheating on me. It was the worst night of my life, broke up with and haven't talked to her since. Been with other girls/dates but I just have such severe trust issue and emotional de-attachment. Depressed some days, I am 25. Please help.
>>17358801
Hey, at least you found out before you got married and had kids. You sound needy; so needy that you drive people away. Go to a therapist.
>>17358828
How is facing trust issues after being recently cheated on 'needy'? Also he doesn't need a therapist for gods sake, he simply needs time and someone worth taking the risk for
Just give it time. Don't rush things. Not everyone recovers from a cheating whore in the same way (or same time frame). Could take years. Realize that (/r9k/ epix memes aside) not every girl will cheat on you.
>>17358801
>Going after women
>trusting them
All women are whores anon, they just want as much dick as possible.
>>17358801
More time OP. Cheating is betrayal from someone close and no one can just brush that aside. Not your fault nor nothing you could have done to prevent it but not every one will betray you. Proof to me you can get over this is your choice to go no contact and the most efficient way to get through the process. Normal to have good days and not so good days, take it slow, date when you want but keep those lite and do not put any pressure on yourself to enter another relationship yet. Promise it will come.
