Girls are weirrrrd

>>17358593
>You must be 18 years or older to be on this site.

Time to get some serious dildos

>>17358606

Oh no, I'm old. My statement is true and transcends time though

>>17358608
No dildos, please. My tastes are pretty vanilla. I just want to be fucked like a regular person and get this over with so I can go on with my life.

>>17358590
OP I'd let you peg me
Maybe you just want to be in control

>>17358615
nah you're just lame as fuck

You get more off of being in control than the other way around so I guess you need to start branching out with your sexual experimentation.

>>17358680
I considered this might be the reason why. It could be very well be true, but I hope it's not.

I don't want to peg anyone. That's too weird and the idea of a girl pegging a dude always seemed retarded to me. I don't want to stoop to that level of degeneracy anyway.

>>17358691
Sorry I hurt your feelings

>>17358706
Wew lad
You're already degenerate for watching porn and you imagine yourself as he person doing that fucking. Control aside. You don't know how the concept of actual being the one to make the move, push inside and take someone will do to you if you don't try it.
If it's really that bad, sit your on someone's face or finger them for dominance?

>>17358694
I have no idea what I can do though. I obviously don't want to fuck a dude in the ass with a dildo, and the idea of roleplaying is too ridiculous to me.
I'll admit that I haven't explored enough of my body (grew up in a household where sex was NEVER talked about and looked down upon). I don't really know what I actually like (only had sex with one dude my entire life and he was a faggot that had no idea what he was doing 99.9% of the time). But I really, really do not want to resort myself to having sex with a bunch of people just to get a hang of "what I like."
I'm not some sort of pent-up sex freak that wants to act as some dominatrix to some pathetic loser cuck. I just want to be satisfied in sex. That's all.

>>17358763
If you're not even willing to try new things just fuck off.

>>17358734
Is it actually about control? Sitting on someone's face or fingering them isn't hot to me at all.

>>17358773
To be fair, she's right, any guy into that shit is not suitable for s relationship and belong in some sex dungeon with a gimo and a man named Fetnight

>>17358774
It also doesn't help that being penetrated vaginally (physically) doesn't feel that great either. I always imagined it felt great for dudes to stick their meat in something and feel instant gratification for it. For girls it takes time and effort.

>>17358777
gimp*

>>17358763
You have to accept that your tastes are not normal, and you will have a better sex, free yourself first. Dont think during sex just feel

>>17358777
She's an attention whores that isn't even trying to solve her "problem."
>>17358781
Go jack off, you pent up conservatard.

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>>17358774
It's not about the act. It's about the relation. If what you say is true then porn has been wired to you happy parts. Train yourself to get the same satisfaction from something else.
>it's hard when you can't org
Baby steps. I was a immigrant and taught myself English but masturbating to word formations and compositional structures. I eventually started to get erections when I practiced writing.
You can probably slowly make yourself like normal sex if you ween yourself off of the porn. Rehardwire your brain.

>>17358774
When you masturbate do you feel satisfaction? or is a problem to?

>>17358797
Go take your projection elsewhere you cuck, you weren't much help anyway.
I'm not a conservative and I'm not an "attention whore." Fucking a dude in the ass is not going to solve my "problem." Fuck off.

>>17358823
You keep repeating the same things over and say you're not an attention whore? Don't mind my post, just go check on your other thread where you're desperately looking for an attractive, attentive man while being an ugly, unfunny attention whore.

>>17358823
I didn't say it was the answer, I don't care about you solving any of your made up issues. What was I projecting?

>>17358820
I don't really understand this question. If I just rub one out absentmindedly I'm going to feel nothing at all. Is it different for men? If I accidentally brush my cooch up against something I'm not going to feel a rush of pleasure. It's going to feel like nothing. I have to constantly think and feel about things in order to reach orgasm via masturbating. It's a long process.

>>17358831
Are you serious? I have spent years lurking here and I have never made a thread, let alone even post. You need to seriously fuck off.

>>17358845
so...you have to think in porn no matter what to reach the orgasm?.I think you have to start thinking less about the porn and more in you being penetrated. Is like platonic sex. Men have this problem to, when you abuse of porn, it gives you a wrong idea of the Sex.

>>17358864
What do people even think about when masturbating when they're not watching porn though? The feeling of getting penetrated alone isn't enough for me. Do I need to have some sort of emotional connection with the person? Do I have some sort of trouble of understanding what makes sex "sexy"?

>>17358879
You can think in a fantasy, in a person, is not a rule to masturbate when you watch porn, i watch porn and dont masturbate alot of times. I think your problem is the lack of experience,Your previous partner doesn't give you enough confidence in your body, he doesn't know how to touch your property, is not the same way with all the chicks. You can't excite in the proper way because you don't know how, and the only way you find is with porn, is a mental block. Is not a problem of sexy thinks. (sry bad english)

>>17358922
I see. It's true that I don't have a lot of experience at all and my ex did bring me down a lot and compared my body to other girls he's hooked up with in the past right to my face. I was young and stupid and he took advantage of that.
Could you elaborate on how I use porn as a mental block? I think you're definitely getting onto something here and I'd like to understand what's happening to me. And it's completely fine. I can understand you perfectly. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me.

>>17358951

When you watch a lot of porn and dont have alot of real experience you create a false image of what sex should be. You think the chick need to have bigs tits and a perfect body, or the guy a gigantic dick, and all the girls like to suck and the guys need to fuck you all the nigth, etc.
For example:

Many guys think their dick is small because they have a distorted picture of what actually measures one. And when they have sex have erection problems created by the image in your head, it's like your problem but a male point of view.

The lack of knowledge makes you can not create a real picture of what should excite without being fussy. I think that your problem is.

No problem, I hope i can help you.

>>17358951
PD: your ex was a asshole, and you're a little traumatized of that. Maybe porn is a unconscious escape

>>17359006
Thank you for helping me understand what's going on with me. I'll remember this.
>>17359024
I wouldn't say I'm traumatized by it, I just got hurt by it and it's damaged my self esteem a little to say at the most. Could you elaborate more on how you say it's an unconscious escape?

>>17359039
>Could you elaborate more on how you say it's an unconscious escape?
You are hurt, and your body remembers that, but using the porn is the only way he find to excite so it get used to it. Is like alcohol or drugs. You need to fix you in order to fix your feelings. Everybody needs a little bit of sex, if you cant then you masturbate, and the only way you feel less hurt is using porn so your body get used to it.

Fix your mind first, dont think alot in the "correct" way of masturbate. Just try to feel. is gona take time, but dont worry eventualy is gona work.

Everybody deserve to enjoy their body and sex.

>>17359039

You are hurt, and your body remembers that, but using the porn is the only way he find to excite so it get used to it. Is like alcohol or drugs. You need to fix you in order to fix your feelings. Everybody needs a little bit of sex, if you cant then you masturbate, and the only way you feel less hurt is using porn so your body get used to it.
Fix your mind first, dont think alot in the "correct" way of masturbate. Just try to feel. is gona take time, but dont worry eventualy is gona work.
Everybody deserve to enjoy their body and sex even you.

A lot of women don't get a whole lot of pleasure out of purely vaginal stimulation. Don't be too surprised or upset by this.

A grab straight for the clit is also not necessarily the answer. Getting in the mood where you're feeling horny or sexy may be needed so if you're with a new sexual partner, lots of non-erogenous but pleasurable touching and an emotional connection may be helpful.

>>17358590
Could just be curiosity? I mean I am a straight guy, but sometimes wonder what it feels like when a woman gets fucked in the pussy. Not as extreme as your "problem", but kind of similar I guess.

>>17358763
>only had sex with one dude my entire life

This is your problem. If your first glass of milk was sour, would you want more? I'm not suggesting you go out and be a slut, but you should be open to the idea that your only experience was atypical and you could have great sex with the right person.