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2016-07-13 18:11:22 Post No. 17353548
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2016-07-13 18:11:22
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>apply for a good job in a new city, with the plan to move in with my partner
>end up getting said job, complete surprise
>need to leave my current job which I enjoy but this is a good thing because I need a challenge
>due to move over in just over a week
>suddenly hit with the highest level of anxiety I have ever experienced in my life
I can move to a new area, I can start a new job but I absolutely cannot shake off relationship concerns.
Backstory, we've known each other several years and are extremely close. We're not your conventional couple but we work extremely well together, we're best friends, extremely open and the sex is great. I think they're simply wonderful, warts and all, and I've never been as happy with another persons company in my entire life. I miss them terribly whenever we're apart.
I just have these nagging concerns about things that never bothered me before. What if we move in together and things go stale? What if it's all just in our heads and everything breaks down? What if all the trust I have for them is based purely on how much I want to be with them and secretly, they're a massive cunt and end up fucking me over?
I know I can't rule any of the above out and its good to be cautious but it's ruining what should be an amazing experience for us both. I want to go into it absolutely buzzing with excitement and take advantage of this amazing opportunity.
I can't keep speaking to them about it because it's unnecessary pressure and there is only so much they can reassure me before the words seem empty.
How can I manage such a huge life change and approach it in the most positive way? I don't want to ruin what could be the best move of my life.