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2016-07-13 12:59:25 Post No. 17352867
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2016-07-13 12:59:25
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I'm way too clingy.
I don't know how to stop myself. I chatter nearly constantly when bf is home, he says he doesn't mind, and comments on missing my chatter when I've been away, but still...it's sort of embarrassing. I expect a lot of attention from him, and I tend to talk very personally and seriously. He says the only thing that bothers him is when I am ranting in an upset way, because he feels like there's nothing he can do. He's usually pretty brutally honest, so even if this is all sugarcoated a bit and it's more like "I hate when you upset rant because it's a waste of my time and is stressful because you expect comfort rather than just an ear" that's fine.
Mostly I'm just embarrassed for myself. I have a lot of hobbies (I leave the apartment alone to do these more than he does), and we have some shared hobbies. I just feel like I'm way too needy but...I don't even know what to do about that, especially when he is happy to give me attention/conversation 90% of the time.